Conversations with a Dom
E42: A new sub discusses her experiences 3 months after introducing BDSM into an 11-year relationship
Mar 18, 2024
In this discussion, Liz, a newcomer to BDSM, shares her journey of introducing D/s dynamics into her 11-year relationship. With humor and honesty, she reflects on overcoming initial fears and the profound impact this shift has had on intimacy. Liz emphasizes the importance of communication, particularly through tools like a sex menu for expressing desires. She highlights how submission has been liberating in her otherwise dominant life and showcases how open dialogue has transformed her connection with her partner.
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Quick takeaways
- Liz emphasizes the transformative role of open communication and tools like the 'sex menu' in enhancing intimacy and connection.
- The couple's experience highlights the importance of trust and consent in navigating challenges within their evolving D/s dynamics.
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Initial Exploration of DS Dynamics
Liz shares her journey into the world of Dominance and Submission (DS) with her partner Tom after 11 years of being together. They both decided to explore this new dynamic to rekindle intimacy, especially after facing challenges like diminished libido due to Liz's depression and medication. Liz highlights the importance of trust and consent, recounting that previous experiences with partners who disregarded consent had initially deterred her from pursuing her interests in BDSM. Their exploration began with a conversation where Liz voiced her desires, leading to a deeper understanding and negotiation of their roles within the DS framework.
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