Conversations with a Dom

E45: Relaxed Intimacy: Sexting, Massage, Teasing, and Edging - Oh My!

Sep 18, 2024
Guest
Chief
Guest
Moineau
Chief and Moineau dive deep into the world of relaxed intimacy, sharing their personal experiences with sexting and teasing. They discuss the psychological and physical elements of BDSM, focusing on consent and communication as keys to enhance sexual tension. The duo also explores the art of massage as a tool for deep emotional connection, illustrating how anticipation and playful teasing can build intimacy. Their candid recounting of a night filled with unexpected pleasure highlights the importance of understanding each other’s needs in a dynamic relationship.
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ANECDOTE

Sexting Set The Scene

  • Chief and Moineau read explicit sexting messages that set a rough, CNC-flavoured scene for their evening.
  • The sexting created anticipation that shaped the night's emotional and physical arc.
ADVICE

Agree Boundaries Before CNC Play

  • Discuss boundaries and consent before sexting and roleplay to avoid harm or triggers.
  • If themes might trigger you, stop and don't continue listening or participating.
ANECDOTE

Punishment Turned Into A Massage

  • Moineau arrived expecting punishment but found a full, caring massage setup instead.
  • The unexpected switch from anticipated rough play to nurturing touch produced strong emotional release.
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