SuperPsyched with Dr. Adam Dorsay

In this episode of SuperPsyched, Dr. Adam Dorsay converses with authors Wendy O'Leary and Louise Shanagher about their book, 'Growing Self-Compassionate Children.' The discussion dives into the importance of self-compassion for children and how it can positively impact their resilience and kindness. They define self-compassion as incorporating mindfulness, common humanity, and self-kindness, distinguishing it from self-esteem. They also address misconceptions about self-compassion and its association with productivity and motivation. Strategies for parents to support their children's self-compassion, including practical tips and activities, are shared. The episode underscores the broader societal benefits of fostering self-compassion from an early age.00:00 Introduction to SuperPsyched00:28 The Importance of Self-Compassion for Children01:39 Meet the Authors: Wendy O'Leary and Louise Shanagher02:32 Understanding Self-Compassion05:24 Self-Compassion vs. Self-Esteem08:06 The Misconceptions About Self-Compassion15:56 Practical Tips for Cultivating Self-Compassion19:50 Empowering Children with Self-Compassion32:40 Final Thoughts and Takeaways38:43 Conclusion and FarewellHelpful Links:Wendy O’Leary, M.Ed.Louise Shanagher MSc"Growing Self-Compassionate Children-A Family Guide for Nurturing Resiliency and Kindness” Book

Julia Hotz, a seasoned journalist and author of 'The Connection Cure,' dives into the transformative power of social prescribing—recommending activities that enhance well-being. She shares fascinating insights on how fishing, farming, and nature immersion can boost mental health. Hotz emphasizes the importance of belonging and micro connections in our daily lives, illustrating how these seemingly simple interactions can profoundly impact our joy and purpose. Tune in for enlightening perspectives on nurturing our emotional needs through community engagement.

In this episode of SuperPsyched, Dr. Adam Dorsay interviews Dr. Vanessa Patrick, author of 'The Power of Saying No.' They discuss why saying no is challenging due to social and neurological factors and how empowered refusal, based on identity and values, can help individuals regain control over their lives. Vanessa shares personal anecdotes, research, and practical frameworks for identifying and declining requests that don't align with one's priorities. The conversation also touches on the psychological and emotional costs of saying yes when one means no, and offers strategies for dealing with pushy askers. The episode aims to help listeners manage their time and energy better while fostering authentic relationships and personal empowerment.00:00 Welcome to SuperPsyched00:28 The Struggle of Saying No00:50 Introducing Dr. Vanessa Patrick02:03 Vanessa's Personal Journey06:28 The Stadium Effect and Social Pressure09:45 The Costs of Saying Yes18:36 The Art of Empowered Refusal34:41 Dealing with Pushy Askers36:33 Final Thoughts and TakeawaysHelpful Links:"The Power of Saying No: The New Science of How to Say No that Puts You in Charge of Your Life” BookVanessa Patrick, Ph.D. Website

In this episode of SuperPsyched, Dr. Adam Dorsay interviews Dr. James Cordova, a distinguished professor of psychology and author of 'The Mindful Path to Intimacy'. They discuss the true meaning and importance of intimacy beyond just eroticism, exploring how intimacy is rooted in vulnerability met with warmth. They delve into how couples can navigate this delicate aspect of relationships through mindful practices, communication, and emotional vulnerability. Dr. Cordova also touches on the 'porcupine's dilemma' and how intimacy can be built and maintained through mutual understanding and compassion. Listen in for insightful tips on fostering deeper connections and keeping the fire alive in long-term relationships.00:00 Welcome to SuperPsyched00:28 Understanding Intimacy00:51 Introducing Dr. James Cordova00:45 Defining Intimacy04:47 Intimacy vs. Eroticism06:59 The Role of Vulnerability16:16 The Porcupine's Dilemma20:29 Relationship Health Checkups23:40 Questions for Couples24:49 John Gottman's Contributions25:09 The Golden Ratio in Relationships25:47 The Golden and Gray Balls Metaphor28:20 The Porcupine's Dilemma31:43 The Importance of Gratitude34:12 Navigating Intimacy and Vulnerability38:51 Improving Your Sex Life44:31 The Practice of Savoring46:42 Final Thoughts and ResourcesHelpful Links:"The Mindful Path to Intimacy: Cultivating a Deeper Connection with Your Partner” BookDr. James Cordova Facebook

In this episode of SuperPsyched, Dr. Adam Dorsay interviews Lt. Col. Andy Riise, a military veteran with extensive experience in mental skills training, who has worked with the NFL's Chicago Bears and major league baseball teams. Andy shares his journey from a West Point football player to a decorated army officer, and how these experiences shaped his approach to resilience and mental toughness. He discusses the importance of getting comfortable with discomfort, shares insights on realistic thinking, and highlights the significance of motivational interviewing in leadership and parenting. Through his story, Andy emphasizes the role of mental fitness in achieving peak performance in all areas of life.00:00 Introduction to SuperPsyched00:28 Meet Lieutenant Colonel Andy Riise02:16 Andy's Military Background and Transition04:36 Mental Skills Training and Resilience07:19 Challenges and Triumphs12:10 The Importance of Asking for Help20:24 Getting Comfortable with Being Uncomfortable23:09 The Importance of Varied Workouts23:40 Misconceptions About Suffering24:53 The Four Phases of Performance26:45 Building Rapport with Athletes30:50 Leadership and Family Values37:23 The Power of Realistic Thinking41:13 The Four Cs of Mental Fitness44:27 Motivational Interviewing: A Key Skill46:33 Final Thoughts and ReflectionsHelpful Links:Andy Riise LinkedInAndy Riise Instagram

Dr. Adam Dorsay, host of the SuperPsyched podcast, welcomes comedian Chip Chantry to discuss the profound role of humor as a coping mechanism and its health benefits. They explore Chip's journey from a fourth grade teacher to an acclaimed comedian, and delve into how laughter improves well-being. The episode also covers the challenges of live comedy, the skill of engaging with audiences, and the invaluable role of humor in therapy and daily life. Both Dr. Dorsay and Chip share anecdotes and insights, making this a compelling episode for anyone interested in psychology, comedy, and personal growth.00:00 Welcome to SuperPsyched00:28 The Power of Laughter01:04 Meet Chip Chantry01:48 From Teacher to Comedian03:56 The First Stand-Up Experience04:58 Balancing Teaching and Comedy07:26 The Role of Humor in Therapy13:53 Handling Hecklers and Audience Engagement21:02 Handling Tough Crowds21:44 Impromptu Presentation at a Maximum Security Prison23:13 The Art of Relating to the Audience24:32 Surviving and Thriving After Bombing on Stage32:14 Crafting and Finding Comedy36:58 The Power of Levity in Life39:14 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsHelpful Links:Chip ChantryChip Chantry YouTube ChannelMayo Clinic Stress Management Article

In this insightful episode of SuperPsyched, psychologist Dr. Adam Dorsay sits down with Dr. Robert Biswas-Diener, co-author of the book 'Radical Listening: The Art of True Connection.' They explore the crucial skill of listening, its impact on personal and professional relationships, and the cultural differences in communication styles. They also discuss the science of happiness, self-care, and practical skills to become better listeners while sharing fascinating stories from Dr. Biswas-Diener's global research, including his time in Greenland. This engaging conversation offers valuable takeaways for leaders, parents, coaches, and anyone keen on improving their listening skills and forming deeper connections.00:00 Welcome to SuperPsyched00:28 The Importance of Listening01:04 Introducing Dr. Robert Biswas-Diener02:53 The Genesis of Radical Listening05:05 Defining Radical Listening06:53 Cultural Perspectives on Listening09:55 The Business Case for Listening13:52 Listening in Relationships18:01 The Greenland Experience27:19 A Village Encounter: Bird Catching Stories27:51 The Art of Radical Listening28:24 Developing Listening Skills33:32 Interruption: The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly36:24 The Power of Acceptance in Listening40:40 Overcoming Obstacles to Effective Listening46:20 The Importance of Loving Confrontation49:32 The Miracle Question: Self-Care and HappinessHelpful Links:Dr. Robert Biswas-DienerRadical Listening: The Art of True Connection Book

In this episode of SuperPsyched, host Dr. Adam Dorsay interviews Yale Lecturer and New York Times writer, Susan Dominus, about her new book, 'The Family Dynamic: A Journey into the Mystery of Sibling Success'. The discussion delves into how family dynamics, specifically sibling interactions, play a significant role in shaping children's futures. Highlights include parental influence, the importance of family mottos, and the balance between intrinsic and extrinsic motivations. Both speakers share personal anecdotes and insights on creating environments that foster high achievement without compromising mental wellness.00:00 Welcome to SuperPsyched00:28 Introducing Susan Dominus and Her Book01:35 Susan's Personal Connection to the Topic04:16 The Influence of Siblings06:45 Parental Influence and Expectations15:29 Outsourcing Discipline and Encouraging Independence20:05 Intrinsic vs. Extrinsic Motivation24:29 Final Thoughts and Parenting Insights30:03 Conclusion and FarewellHelpful Links:Susan Dominus'The Family Dynamic: A Journey into the Mystery of Sibling Success’ Book

In this episode of SuperPsyched, host Dr. Adam Dorsay welcomes journalist and author Anna Goldfarb to discuss her book 'Modern Friendship: How to Nurture Our Most Valued Connections'. They explore the importance of friendship, how modern life impacts our ability to maintain connections, and practical strategies to foster meaningful relationships. Anna shares a poignant story about her father's lost connection with his best friend Marty, highlighting the consequences of not maintaining friendships. They also delve into the concept of 'abouts' in friendships, the impact of moving and life changes on social bonds, and tips for effective communication to ensure strong and lasting friendships.00:00 Welcome to SuperPsyched00:28 The Importance of Friendship01:11 Introducing Anna Goldfarb02:19 Anna's Personal Story02:57 The Science of Friendship03:58 Challenges in Modern Friendships12:48 The Concept of 'About' in Friendships16:54 Types of Friendships21:46 Effective Communication in Friendships25:30 Connecting Through Shared Experiences26:56 The Importance of Friendship Strategies28:34 Understanding Different Types of Friendships29:38 Prioritizing and Maintaining Friendships31:03 Evaluating and Choosing Good Friends31:55 The Role of a Good Friend44:17 The Power of Being a Sidekick47:43 Final Thoughts and Book PromotionHelpful Links:Anna GoldfarbModern Friendship: How to Nurture Our Most Valued Connections book

In this episode of SuperPsyched, host Dr. Adam Dorsay welcomes Dr. Scott Barry Kaufman, a renowned psychologist, professor, and author, to discuss his new book, 'Rise Above: Overcome a Victim Mindset, Empower Yourself, and Realize Your Full Potential.' They delve into the impact of self-limiting beliefs, the importance of personal narratives, and strategies for overcoming adversity. Dr. Kaufman shares his personal experiences from special education to becoming a leading figure in psychology, emphasizing the power of growth, responsibility, and hope. The conversation also touches on the dangers of collective narcissism, the value of mindfulness, and the importance of community in personal growth. 00:00 Introduction to SuperPsyched 00:50 Meet Dr. Scott Barry Kaufman 01:28 Scott's Journey and Achievements 03:42 The Power of Self-Belief 05:20 Overcoming Special Education Challenges 08:02 The Role of Creativity and Magic 17:52 Exploring Internalized Neurodiversity 23:07 The Inspiration Behind 'Rise Above' 28:52 Taking Responsibility and the Hero's Journey 29:48 Victim Mindset vs. Empowerment 30:57 The Importance of Community and Social Support 31:57 The Drive Away Test and Cognitive Afterimage 33:38 Shoutouts to Influential Figures 34:59 Collective Narcissism and Group Dynamics 37:54 The Power of Music and Transcendence 39:47 Maslow's Philosophy and Positive Psychology 42:01 Daily Practices for a Fulfilling Life 48:59 The Role of Dialogue and Trigger Warnings 52:27 Final Thoughts and Empowering Skills Helpful Links: https://scottbarrykaufman.com/