SuperPsyched with Dr. Adam Dorsay

In this episode of SuperPsyched, host Dr. Adam Dorsay welcomes Dr. Scott Barry Kaufman, a renowned psychologist, professor, and author, to discuss his new book, 'Rise Above: Overcome a Victim Mindset, Empower Yourself, and Realize Your Full Potential.' They delve into the impact of self-limiting beliefs, the importance of personal narratives, and strategies for overcoming adversity. Dr. Kaufman shares his personal experiences from special education to becoming a leading figure in psychology, emphasizing the power of growth, responsibility, and hope. The conversation also touches on the dangers of collective narcissism, the value of mindfulness, and the importance of community in personal growth. 00:00 Introduction to SuperPsyched 00:50 Meet Dr. Scott Barry Kaufman 01:28 Scott's Journey and Achievements 03:42 The Power of Self-Belief 05:20 Overcoming Special Education Challenges 08:02 The Role of Creativity and Magic 17:52 Exploring Internalized Neurodiversity 23:07 The Inspiration Behind 'Rise Above' 28:52 Taking Responsibility and the Hero's Journey 29:48 Victim Mindset vs. Empowerment 30:57 The Importance of Community and Social Support 31:57 The Drive Away Test and Cognitive Afterimage 33:38 Shoutouts to Influential Figures 34:59 Collective Narcissism and Group Dynamics 37:54 The Power of Music and Transcendence 39:47 Maslow's Philosophy and Positive Psychology 42:01 Daily Practices for a Fulfilling Life 48:59 The Role of Dialogue and Trigger Warnings 52:27 Final Thoughts and Empowering Skills Helpful Links: https://scottbarrykaufman.com/

Dr. Adam Dorsay hosts Elizabeth Weingarten, author of 'How to Fall in Love with Questions: A New Way to Thrive in Times of Uncertainty,' on his podcast Dorsay. They discuss the immense value of well-formulated questions in enhancing our lives, especially amid uncertainty. Elizabeth shares her journey of writing the book, sparked by poor dating experiences, and explains how questions can serve as a crucial tool for personal and relational growth. They explore how patience, clarity, and thoughtful inquiry can transform our approach to life's big questions. Additionally, they touch upon insights from poet Rainer Maria Rilke, the importance of living the questions, and the role of curiosity in cultivating relationships.00:00 Introduction to SuperPsyched Podcast00:28 The Power of Questions02:00 Interview with Elizabeth Weingarten03:02 Elizabeth's Journey with Questions04:36 The Role of Uncertainty08:22 Formulating Good Questions13:18 Living with Uncertainty17:45 Personal Reflections and Insights32:04 Final Thoughts and Takeaways41:57 Conclusion and FarewellHelpful Links:Elizabeth Weingarten WebsiteHow to Fall in Love with Questions: A New Way to Thrive in Times of Uncertainty Book

In this episode of SuperPsyched, hosted by psychologist Dr. Adam Dorsay, experts Robert Bordone and Dr. Joel Salinas discuss their book, 'Conflict Resilience: Negotiating Disagreement Without Giving Up or Giving In.' They delve into the common misconceptions about conflict, arguing that it is a natural and necessary part of human relationships. The conversation touches on the importance of conflict resilience, the ability to comfortably sit with disagreement, and offers practical advice on building this skill. The authors highlight their own experiences and stress the importance of proper conflict management in various aspects of life, including personal relationships and political discourse.00:00 Welcome to SuperPsyched00:29 Introducing Conflict Resilience02:06 Meet the Authors: Robert Bordone and Dr. Joel Salinas03:00 Understanding Conflict and Its Myths07:00 Personal Experiences with Conflict09:18 Defining Conflict Resilience11:15 Building Conflict Resilience14:28 Practical Applications and Real-Life Stories16:50 Creating a Conflict-Resilient Environment31:49 Final Thoughts and AspirationsHelpful Links:Robert BordoneJoel SalinasConflict Resilience: Negotiating Disagreement Without Giving Up or Giving In Book

In this episode of SuperPsyched, host Dr. Adam Dorsay interviews world-class dating coach Evan Marc Katz to discuss the intricacies of modern dating. They delve into managing the anxieties and challenges of dating, especially with the emergence of online platforms. Katz shares his insights on what makes a relationship truly fulfilling, emphasizing the importance of finding a partner who makes you feel safe, heard, and understood. The conversation covers strategies for creating effective dating profiles, the significance of character traits like kindness and consistency, and practical tips for breaking up and screening prospective partners. This episode is loaded with actionable advice aimed at helping listeners navigate the complex world of dating and finding lasting love.Note: For a free gift for women listeners from Evan, go to https://www.evanmarckatz.com/superpsyched 00:00 Welcome to SuperPsyched with Dr. Adam Dorsay00:28 The Vulnerability of Dating01:03 Introducing Evan Marc Katz: The Dating Expert01:33 Evan's Personal Dating Journey02:39 Hope and Strategy in Dating03:17 The Reality of Online Dating04:29 Common Myths and Limiting Beliefs06:31 Best Practices for Online Dating08:47 Creating an Effective Dating Profile14:01 The Importance of Authenticity in Dating17:44 Being the CEO of Your Love Life24:20 Screening and Selecting the Right Partner26:42 Evaluating Potential Partners27:32 The Importance of Compatibility28:04 Making Informed Dating Decisions28:37 Recognizing Red Flags30:23 The Five Cs of a Good Relationship31:27 Personal Anecdotes and Lessons33:28 Understanding Attraction vs. Compatibility36:56 Breaking Up Kindly and Effectively39:08 The Role of Anxiety in Relationships47:01 The Value of Long-Term Compatibility51:07 Final Thoughts and AdviceHelpful Links: Evan Marc Katz Website

In this episode of Super Psyched, host Dr. Adam Dorsay interviews Silicon Valley legend Heidi Roizen, a venture capitalist, corporate director, and Stanford lecturer. Heidi shares her journey from growing up in Silicon Valley to becoming a successful entrepreneur and VC. She discusses the importance of genuine relationships, reality-based self-talk, and prioritizing empathy and kindness in the business world. Heidi also provides practical tips on networking, maintaining health, and continuous learning. Her insights reveal the significance of balancing personal well-being with professional success.00:00 Welcome to SuperPsyched00:28 Introducing Heidi Roizen02:10 Heidi's Early Life and Career03:41 Challenges and Strategies in Tech06:41 The Power of Self-Talk12:22 The Importance of Preparation14:18 Building Meaningful Relationships17:57 Connecting with People21:01 The Facebook Filter and Extroversion Myths21:25 Confidence vs. Faking It22:30 Growing Through Challenges23:28 Recognizing Your Strengths and Weaknesses25:03 Exposure and Response Prevention25:30 Best and Worst Advice26:50 Health Epiphanies and Lifestyle Changes31:47 The Importance of Meditation and Walking Meetings35:02 Advice for the Younger Generation38:01 Empathy and Kindness for a Better World

In this episode of SuperPsyched, Dr. Adam Dorsay interviews Jodi Wellman, an expert on living a fulfilling life, leveraging her knowledge from ancient Rome to modern positive psychology. Jodi, who holds a master’s in Applied Positive Psychology from the University of Pennsylvania and authored 'You Only Die Once,' discusses the importance of recognizing life's preciousness and making the most out of every day. They explore the idea of living a regret-free life and offer practical examples of how to inject vitality and meaning into daily routines. Insightful anecdotes about savoring moments, prioritizing meaningful relationships, and breaking mundane routines are shared. The conversation emphasizes the urgency of living intentionally, savoring experiences, and making conscious choices to ensure a rich, regret-free life.00:00 Welcome to SuperPsyched00:28 The Dreaded Mondays00:42 Introducing Jodi Wellman01:53 Living a Regret-Free Life03:28 The Writing Process04:43 Choosing Happiness05:41 Embracing Zest and Vitality10:33 Savoring Life's Moments24:33 Balancing Tasks and Enjoying Life25:06 Finding Joy in Small Moments26:28 Incorporating Fun into Daily Routines27:29 Pursuing Personal Passions30:06 The Importance of Taking Vacations37:05 Cherishing Time with Loved Ones41:11 Reflecting on Life's Impermanence45:14 Living with Intention46:48 Final Thoughts and FarewellHelpful Links:Jodi Wellman

Money and Love: An Intelligent Roadmap for Life's Biggest DecisionsIn this episode of SuperPsyched, host Dr. Adam Dorsay talks with Abby Davisson, co-author of 'Money and Love: A Comprehensive Guide to Life's Biggest Decisions.' They explore the intersection of financial and romantic considerations in relationships. Discussing themes such as the importance of communication, the role of self-awareness, and the practice of scheduling strategic conversations, Abby details practical ways to handle money talks with one's partner. The episode emphasizes the premise of their book that a well-organized approach to discussing finances and big life decisions can foster stronger, more resilient relationships.00:00 Introduction to SuperPsyched00:26 The Reality of Romantic Relationships00:49 Importance of Communication in Relationships01:28 Introducing Dr. Myra Strober and Abby Davisson02:29 Interview with Abby Davisson Begins02:49 Money and Love: A Complex Relationship04:39 Navigating Relationship Challenges11:09 The Five Cs Decision-Making Tool16:32 Timing and Place in Communication22:11 Keeping the Romance Alive32:01 Talking About Money Comfortably35:40 Final Thoughts and ConclusionHelpful Links:Abby DavissonMoney & Love Book

In this engaging discussion, Henna Pryor, author of 'Good Awkward,' delves into the transformative power of awkwardness in personal and professional growth. She highlights the 'spotlight effect,' revealing how our fear of being judged often exaggerates our self-consciousness. Henna offers practical tips for embracing awkward moments as strengths and emphasizes the importance of building empathy and connection. Listeners are encouraged to practice small social interactions to strengthen their 'social muscles' and cultivate authentic relationships.

In this episode of Super Psyched, hosted by Dr. Adam Dorsay, the conversation dives deep into the intersection of mindfulness and technology. Dr. Dorsay is joined by Jay Vidyarthi, author of 'Reclaim Your Mind: Seven Strategies to Enjoy Tech Mindfully'. They discuss the challenges and benefits of both mindfulness and technology, and explore strategies for creating a balanced relationship with our devices. Jay shares insights on how to recognize and address problematic technology habits, the importance of naming things accurately, and the potential of using technology to support mindfulness practices. The dialogue touches on concepts like attachment theory, false urgency, and the need for a secure relationship with technology, encouraging listeners to reflect on their own tech habits and emotional needs.00:00 Introduction to SuperPsyched00:29 Exploring Mindfulness in the Tech Era00:52 Introducing Jay Vidyarthi02:33 The Problem with Tech and Mindfulness04:06 Finding Balance Between Tech and Mindfulness08:29 The Conceptual Mind and Technology12:34 Mindfulness Practices and Technology21:48 Jay's Personal Journey with Tech and Mindfulness28:47 Harnessing Attention in a Distracted World29:38 Mindfulness in the Age of Rapid Technological Change29:57 Integrating Tech and Compassion in Daily Life30:51 Exploring Emotional Needs Behind Technology Use35:55 Reclaiming Your Mind and Technology36:32 Attachment Styles and Technology42:27 Practical Tips for Mindfulness and Technology46:35 The Power of Naming and Emotional Awareness53:02 Final Thoughts and ReflectionsHelpful Links:Jay Vidyarthi

In this episode of the SuperPsyched podcast, host Dr. Adam Dorsay, a psychologist in Silicon Valley, delves into the crucial role of human connection in achieving a fulfilling life. Dr. Dorsay highlights his new book on human connection, referencing his extensive experience with clients who often struggle with disconnection despite their outward successes. The episode includes the reading of Chapter 1, which covers various personal stories that illustrate the pervasive issue of disconnection in modern life. Dr. Dorsay outlines the four types of connection—connecting to oneself, others, the world, and something greater—and discusses the importance of identifying and nurturing these connections. The episode provides insights into how individuals can overcome disconnection and cultivate a more connected and fulfilling life.00:00 Introduction to Super Psyched00:28 The Importance of Human Connection01:47 Chapter 1: Unleashing the Power of Connection02:22 Dedication and Foreword03:50 Daniel's Story: The Illusion of a Perfect Life05:58 The Vital Role of Connection in Our Lives08:10 The Mental Health Epidemic16:01 Understanding Disconnection and Its Consequences19:52 Defining Connection and Its Types26:43 Connecting to Yourself and Others28:04 Connecting to the World and Beyond29:18 Practical Steps to Enhance Connection30:49 Conclusion: Living a Super Psyched LifeHelpful Links:Super Psyched Book