
You Need Therapy
Kathryn DeFatta, who has earned her Masters of Education from Vanderbilt University in Human Development Counseling, is inviting you into conversations around what it’s like to live fully in a world where we’ve become accustomed to shut parts of ourselves off. Here you will find a space that welcomes in discomfort, tough questions, and hard truths, all while showing how to find joy through it all.
Latest episodes

Mar 25, 2024 • 52min
How To Choose What Story About You Gets Told with Ally Fallon
Ally Fallon discusses the power of storytelling and how writing can shape our lives. They also touch on the discomfort of trying new things, making meaning in life, and the impact of having a therapist as a parent. The conversation delves into finding joy in authenticity, the fear of vulnerability, and rewriting our narratives to empower ourselves.

Mar 20, 2024 • 20min
Couch Talks: Best & Worst Parts of Being a Therapist According to Kat
Kat discusses her favorite and least favorite aspects of being a therapist, including managing the business side and societal misconceptions. She reflects on embracing being new in therapy practice and the importance of personal growth. The episode also features promotional ads for health services and upcoming discussions with other therapists.

Mar 18, 2024 • 1h 9min
The New Skin Care Products That You May or May Not Care About And Other Ways We Avoid Thinking About Dying with Hannah Ellis
Discover the world of skincare, anti-aging products, and societal views on aging in a hilarious and thought-provoking episode. From debunking myths about Frownies to processing existential fears about mortality, this conversation covers it all. Explore the influence of marketing on skincare choices, gender disparities in aging perceptions, and the importance of self-acceptance amidst societal pressures. Empower yourself with a compassionate approach to skincare and well-being while navigating the complexities of beauty standards and self-expression.

Mar 13, 2024 • 22min
Couch Talks: Kat's Honeymoon Resort Fight
Couch Talks is the bonus episode of You Need Therapy where Kat answers questions that listeners send to kathryn@youneedtherapypodcast.com. This week Kat shares a FUN announcement and then tells a personal story (plus a lesson she learned from said story) from her honeymoon. Follow Kat on Instagram: @Kat.Defatta Follow the podcast Instagram: @YouNeedTherapyPodcast Have a question, concern, guest idea, something else? Reach Kat at: Kathryn@youneedtherapyodcast.com Heard about Three Cords Therapy but don’t know what it is? Click here! Produced by: @HoustonTilleySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Mar 11, 2024 • 54min
Emotional Needs of a Child with Julia Langner
The podcast explores the emotional needs of children and their impact on adulthood, highlighting the importance of emotional attunement and responsiveness in caregivers. It delves into childhood experiences, exploring calming techniques, self-discovery, and repairing relationships. The conversation emphasizes validating children's emotions, managing feelings, and the consequences of unaddressed anger on both childhood and adulthood.

Mar 6, 2024 • 16min
Couch Talks: I Don’t Want to be the Gut Health Guru Anymore!
Couch Talks is the bonus episode of You Need Therapy where Kat answered questions that listeners send to kathryn@youneedtherapypodcast.com. This week, Kat talks about ways to respond to friends and family when they want to talk about things you no longer want to talk about in recovery. Follow Kat on Instagram: @Kat.Defatta Follow the podcast Instagram: @YouNeedTherapyPodcast Have a question, concern, guest idea, something else? Reach Kat at: Kathryn@youneedtherapyodcast.com Heard about Three Cords Therapy but don’t know what it is? Click here! Produced by: @HoustonTilleySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Mar 4, 2024 • 44min
The Urge to Merge: Anxious Attachment in Dating with Jessica Baum
In this podcast, Jessica Baum discusses Attachment Theory, the 'anxious avoidant dance,' and the impact of insecure attachments in dating apps. Explore how childhood experiences shape attachment styles, navigate the avoidant-anxious relationship dynamic, and learn about fostering genuine connections in the digital dating age.

Feb 28, 2024 • 15min
Couch Talks: NEDA Week - Orthorexia
This podcast episode discusses Orthorexia, a type of disordered eating centered around an obsession with healthy foods. The lack of recognition of Orthorexia in the DSM is highlighted, along with the potential consequences of this obsession on mental health. Recovery resources like books and social media accounts are shared, emphasizing the importance of seeking support when needed.

Feb 26, 2024 • 47min
Do Self Help Books Really Help? With Kristen Meinzer and Jolenta Greenberg
Experts in self-help book critiques, Jolenta and Kristen, discuss their experiences living by self-help advice, debunking myths and sharing what worked. They explore forgiveness, challenges in the self-help industry, and navigating overwhelming advice. The hosts bond over shared interests, explore solutions beyond the self, and dissect the impact of self-talk on mental well-being.

Feb 21, 2024 • 22min
Couch Talks: How Do I Tell If I Am Being Scammed?
The podcast discusses how to differentiate between legit and unnecessary products on social media. It explores health and wellness trends, personal empowerment, joy in walking, and the importance of credibility in endorsements. Additionally, hosts talk about adding barbecue specials to Sonic's menu and share stories from new podcasts.