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The Urge to Merge: Anxious Attachment in Dating with Jessica Baum

Mar 4, 2024
43:44
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In this podcast, Jessica Baum discusses Attachment Theory, the 'anxious avoidant dance,' and the impact of insecure attachments in dating apps. Explore how childhood experiences shape attachment styles, navigate the avoidant-anxious relationship dynamic, and learn about fostering genuine connections in the digital dating age.
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Quick takeaways

  • Anxious attachment can stem from early experiences, leading to a yearning for love and validation in relationships.
  • Dating apps can amplify attachment issues, emphasizing the importance of pacing oneself, seeking support, and avoiding idealized fantasies.

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Understanding Attachment Styles and Relationships

Attachment styles play a crucial role in relationships. Anxious attachment, often stemming from early experiences, can lead to a longing for love and validation. Recognizing this pattern can help individuals navigate dating apps with more awareness, pacing themselves and seeking support when feeling anxious. Co-regulating with a friend can offer comfort and perspective, reducing the need for instant remedies.

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