

The Lavendaire Lifestyle
Aileen Xu
Life is an art. Make it your masterpiece.
The Lavendaire Lifestyle is a podcast on personal growth and lifestyle design. Hosted by Aileen Xu, this podcast shares insight & inspiration on how to shine as your brightest self and create your dream life.
Bi-weekly episodes on Sundays.
The Lavendaire Lifestyle is a podcast on personal growth and lifestyle design. Hosted by Aileen Xu, this podcast shares insight & inspiration on how to shine as your brightest self and create your dream life.
Bi-weekly episodes on Sundays.
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Nov 19, 2023 • 1h 6min
245: The Art of Living Fully with Joe Huff & Bridget Hilton
Frequently, we find ourselves postponing our dreams, thinking they'll happen "someday.” But today we questioned this tendency, inviting a contemplation of life's richness that extends far beyond the conventional metrics of wealth. In this episode, Bridget Hilton, Joe Huff and Aileen Xu navigate the art, science, and path to constructing a life abundant in meaningful experiences.
Bridget Hilton and Joe Huff are entrepreneurs who have dedicated themselves to the pursuit of experiences. In a world fixated on financial success, they remind us that the regrets of those at life's end barely revolve around money. Instead, the regrets echo the experiences left unexplored. Their journey is a testament to the richness of a life lived intentionally. Their recently released book, "Build a Life Rich in Experiences and Die With No Regrets," serves as a blueprint backed by research on the art, science, and path to building a life rich in experiences.
TIMESTAMPS
1:53 The Experiential Billionaire concept
2:25 What is the key to a fulfilling life?
2:49 The story of Joe Huff
12:53 The story of Bridget Hilton
22:29 Mindset shift on time
23:47 Mindset shift on experiences
27:54 How do Joe Huff and Bridget Hilton plan their personal goals?
30:27 The wealth metaphor of Experiential Billionaire
32:09 Experiences vs making money
36:29 Action is where all the wealth is
38:39 Treasure map exercise
50:52 Fear of success
52:04 It is possible to make time for everything
1:01:17 What are Joe Huff and Bridget Hilton most excited about for the future?
1:03:38 What is one thing that Aileen wants to do that's on her list for someday?
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🎙️Complete show notes for this episode here
📹The video version of this interview is available on YouTube: Episode 245
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Nov 12, 2023 • 1h 9min
244: Mimi Ikonn on Success and Living Authentically
Entrepreneurial figure Mimi Ikonn joins the podcast to discuss success, manifestation, and living authentically. Topics include finding success as an online creator, the journey of creating Intelligent Change and the 5-Minute Journal, meditation and gratitude, the power of having a vision for manifesting, and raising vibrations globally through peace.

Nov 5, 2023 • 47min
243: Deconstructing to Reorganize and Build Your Best Life with Anh Lin
Anh Lin, an interior stylist and founder of the blog Girl and the Word, discusses healing from trauma, importance of trauma therapy, using pain to find strength, and her experience with marriage and healing. They also discuss triggers, unhealed trauma, and how to lead our inner children. Anh Lin shares about her new book and gives advice for listeners.

Oct 29, 2023 • 26min
242: Becoming the Person You Want to Be
Most of our paths aren't are straight or easy as they seem on the outside. Our stories are never finished and are still being written in every day of our lives. In this episode, Aileen talks about her own journey to release her album 'Honestly,' and how that journey led to the birth of Lavendaire.
Aileen is a content creator, entrepreneur and artist of life, creating content, resources & lifestyle products that empower you to help you become your best self, make positive changes, and create beautiful, meaningful life.
TIMESTAMPS
0:53 The beginnings of Aileen’s story
1:33 The year leading up to Aileen’s first album: Honestly
3:48 Writing the song ‘Honestly’
4:25 How Aileen’s album came about
5:09 The story behind ‘Honestly’
5:29 ‘Honestly’ by Aileen Xu
10:04 Aileen reveals her thoughts and feeling on this song
10:31 When and how Lavendaire started
11:50 About her song ’The War’
12:41 ‘The War’ by Aileen Xu
17:30 Aileen’s thoughts and feeling on ’The War’
18:86 You’ve got to start somewhere
19:42 Commitment and dedication on your baby steps
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FOLLOW AILEEN
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Honestly EP
🎙️Complete show notes for this episode here
📹The video version of this interview is available on YouTube: Episode 242
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Oct 25, 2023 • 10min
10 Minute Meditation for Positivity, Gratitude, Joy
An empowering 10-minute guided meditation for positivity, gratitude & joy. Great for beginners. Visualize radiant light and reflect on gratitude. Affirmations and deep breathing exercises to promote calm and wellbeing.

Oct 22, 2023 • 58min
241: Using EFT/Tapping to Heal and Grow into Your Best Life with Brad Yates
Brad Yates, author of 'The Wizard's Wish' and co-author of 'Freedom', discusses how Tapping can help release stress and limiting beliefs. They cover the basics of EFT, the benefits of Tapping, and share inspiring stories of individuals whose lives have been changed by this technique. Brad also shares his routine and tips for beginners, and demonstrates a tapping session to release fear and resistance towards goals. They emphasize the importance of self-love as a starting point.

Oct 15, 2023 • 53min
240: The Courage to Start Over Again with Fresh Starts Registry
Learn about the importance of having a support system during major life changes like weddings, job changes, and graduations. Olivia and Jenny, founders of Fresh Start Registry, discuss the challenges of starting over and how to be the support someone else needs. They also share their favorite stories and the challenges they have faced since starting the company.

Oct 11, 2023 • 14min
Gratitude Affirmations | Daily Affirmations to Attract Positivity & Abundance
✨ Join the waitlist for my new app for affirmations & meditations → https://resonance.lavendaire.com
In this episode, we present powerful positive affirmations for gratitude and thankfulness. Listen to these affirmations daily for 21 days to reprogram your mind for positive thinking—listen while you sleep, or as morning affirmations.
Stay tuned for more guided audios every other Wednesday!
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Oct 8, 2023 • 59min
239: Slow Living - Creating your Inner Peace and Dream Life with The Cottage Fairy
In our fast-paced digital world, it can be difficult or even sometimes counter-intuitive to think about slow living. We want to keep pace with everything and stay ahead. But how do we balance this with our desire to be at peace with ourselves and our lives? In this episode, Aileen and Paola talk about the importance of slowing down, being aware of how you perceive yourself, and how you can create your inner peace on your own terms.
Paola Merrill is a Puerto Rican American writer, artist, and the creator of the youtube channel TheCottageFairy. She creates meditative short films focused on slow living and bringing awareness to the beauty of wild lands.
TIMESTAMPS
1:50 Growing up and what led to slow living
12:18 How Paola’s Youtube channel The Cottage Fairy grew
15:31 How Paola’s love of fairytales influenced her art and life
19:50 Changing location can help change your mindset
22:32 Being aware of how you perceive yourself
24:14 Paola’s dream life growing up
27:08 Being your own safe space
31:03 The invisible journey to find your courage
35:10 The story of when Paola worked at a bookstore
36:03 How Paola’s book was written
40:55 The importance of taking care of yourself and slowing down
44:23 Being peaceful and mindful as a business owner and content creator
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FOLLOW PAOLA
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🎙️Complete show notes for this episode here
📹The video version of this interview is available on YouTube: Episode 239
SUBSCRIBE TO THE LAVENDAIRE LIFESTYLE PODCAST
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Oct 1, 2023 • 54min
238: Jules Acree on Intentional Productivity & Aligning with Your Inner Self
Jules Acree, founder of The Homebodies & writer of the Slow Brew Sunday newsletter, joins Aileen to talk about intentional productivity, finding systems that work, & the importance of flexibility. They discuss prioritizing tasks, using social media intentionally, & releasing guilt on being "unproductive". Jules also shares her journey as a creator & entrepreneur, as well as what inspired her to start her podcast.