

Emotion At Work
Phil Willcox
The Emotion at Work Podcast
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Jul 19, 2018 • 1h
Episode 27 - Emotion at Work in Emotion Regulation
This episode is one of those that talks about stuff you as a human do all the time but aren't all that aware of or use different words to describe it. My guest this time is James Gross who is the worlds leading researcher in Emotion Regulation. Through the podcast we chat about:
- What are emotions?
- What is emotion regulation?
- The 5 families of emotion regulation strategies
- Examples of what people do within each of those families
- How emotion regulation can be extrinsic (where others use these strategies with/for/to you to 'help' you regulate your emotions) and intrinsic (where you use them with your own emotions)
- What the workplace and individuals can learn from emotion regulation
This was a great episode to record!!!! My inner geek was super excited
Your references:
Links to all the research papers that James mentions at approx 52 minutes
https://spl.stanford.edu/selected-publications
The 'Emotion and Self Regulation Lab' where Gal Sheppes works that James mentions at approx 56 minutes
http://people.socsci.tau.ac.il/mu/galsheppes/
The project that Angela Duckworth is working on that I mention at approx 58 minutes
https://bcfg.wharton.upenn.edu/
More from James:
Website: https://spl.stanford.edu/james-gross-phd-0
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Jun 28, 2018 • 1h 25min
Episode 26 - Emotion at Work in Emotional Exploitation
This is one of the most thoughtful podcasts I have done. You can hear the thinking. Hear when my guest Jo Wainwright and or I are paying attention, listening and supporting each other. There will be a temptation to listen to this episode on 1.5 or 2 times speed as there are some pauses and gaps in speech. Instead, I implore you to do one or both of these things:
Let it play as it was originally intended.
Pay attention to the way that Jo listens and supports me and the conversation.
There is some real value in learning in the interaction style used in this podcast.
Jo and I explore the roles of emotion and emotions in the workplace. We talk about emotional labour, emotional work and emotional exploitation. How at work humans are expected to do both emotional work and labour and yet are not supported to do so. I love that Jo makes a comparison with how at work we will ensure people have hard hats, supportive chairs, high visibility jackets, ear defenders, keyboards and mice that are ergonomically designed. Yet, what is lacking is the safety kit to support emotional work and labour in the workplace.
We get into some of the tangible actions, ideas, suggestions, experiences that can help make this work and/or work better in workplaces.
Your references are as follows:
Emotion work - https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Emotion_work
Emotional labour - https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Emotional_labor
https://www.mindtools.com/pages/article/newTMM_44.htm
Action learning sets - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Action_learning
Victor Frankl “Man’s search for meaning” - https://www.amazon.co.uk/Mans-Search-Meaning-classic-Holocaust/dp/1844132390/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1530028214&sr=8-1&pi=AC_SX236_SY340_QL65&keywords=man+search+of+meaning&dpPl=1&dpID=51CDTKBPNPL&ref=plSrch
Before change there has to be acceptance - a blog linked to this notion - https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/evil-deeds/200806/essential-secrets-psychotherapy-change-or-acceptance
Reflexivity - https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reflexivity_(social_theory)
Episode 12 with Prof Dawn Archer - https://emotionatwork.podbean.com/e/episode-12-emotion-at-work-in-impression-management/
Thinking Environment - http://www.timetothink.com/thinking-environment/
More from Jo:
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jostephenson309/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/JoWainwright0
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Jun 14, 2018 • 1h 16min
Episode 25 - Emotion at work in Emotional Intelligence
Cliff Lansley, an expert in emotional intelligence and a PhD candidate, discusses the intricacies of emotions in the workplace. He dives into the definitions of emotions and emotional intelligence, unpacking how they can be assessed. Cliff critiques existing assessment methods and emphasizes the need for contextual understanding in evaluations. He highlights the role of emotional scripts that can bias perception and shares insights on developing a more effective EQ model, incorporating individual differences and cultural factors into the mix.

May 31, 2018 • 1h 40min
Episode 24 - Emotion at Work *anniversary special*
Mark Gilroy, a managing director at TMSDI and expert in leadership and team development, guest-hosts a reflective anniversary conversation. They discuss Phil's journey in podcasting, emphasizing the joy of meaningful conversations and shifting workplace narratives around emotion. Phil shares how his focus evolved from happiness to embracing emotional complexity, linking personal experiences such as a call-center incident to broader themes like credibility and face management. The duo also calls for diverse voices in discussions about workplace challenges like grief and imposter syndrome.

May 21, 2018 • 1h 12min
Episode 23 - Emotion at Work in the Workplace
In this episode, I get to chat with Monica Parker from Hatch Analytics and we chat about something that has interested me for years. I have spent a fair bit of time in different workplaces and they had profound effects on how I felt both on specific days and overtime. So, I am really excited that I am going to get to explore this with our guest today.
Looking to the physical workplace is something that is huge right now. Whether that be trying to imitate google with slides and bean bags, considering the emotional impact of things like space, temperature and desks or the need/preference for remote working. all of these things (and more) have emotional input, consequences and often, in my experience, this emotional aspect is forgotten or relegated to low priority. For me, it has to start with emotion and how people feel and work out from there. Then again, I would say that I suppose.
References:
Photo
https://vimeo.com/178593347
SPSS (it is a statistics number cruncher)
https://www.ibm.com/uk-en/marketplace/spss-statistics
Resolution Foundation story (that Phil mentioned)
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/business-44029808
Universal Basic Income
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/business-43078920
Emotional Equations - Chip Conley
https://www.amazon.com/Emotional-Equations-Creating-Happiness-Business/dp/1451607261
Video from Porter Davis
https://youtu.be/QTm5fXcEcxo
More from Monica:
Website: https://hatchanalytics.com/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/monicaparker/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/monicacparker
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May 4, 2018 • 1h 23min
Episode 22 - Emotion at Work Stories - Anxiety, difference and minority groups
This episode picks up the Emotion at Work in Stories theme I shared at the start of 2018. This time with Tony Jackson as my guest, we explore how anxiety has always been a part of his life and has been working on it more purposefully in the last five years or so.
We delve into the factors that have and continue to contribute to the anxiety that Tony experiences, his ways of working with his anxiety and what he does from a restorative perspective. We talk about how 'difference' is something that Tony carries with him and is a near-constant feature in his thoughts and then affects either his approaches to interactions and interactions themselves. Tony is also really clear that his experiences have, and continue to shape his empathy and inclusivity. He says that his stories and experiences have given him things that he works with and at times struggles with and it has also equipped him with a set of skills that help him to work really well with others. Finally, we get into the detail and practical things that Tony does to help him be well and enjoy his work and life.
With this being a Stories episode there aren’t many references as such. There are some things from the news and other places we talk about and here are the links to those things:
Tony talks about psychosynthesis and I forget to ask him what it is, here is a link:
https://psychosynthesistrust.org.uk/about-psychosynthesis-trust/what-is-psychosynthesis/
The Poisonwood Bible by Barbara Kingsolver:
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Poisonwood-Bible-Barbara-Kingsolver/dp/0062213709
The Psychology of Executive Coaching by Bruce Peltier
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Psychology-Executive-Coaching-Bruce-Peltier/dp/0415993415
More from Tony:
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tonycjackson/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/JacksonT0ny
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Apr 19, 2018 • 1h 20min
Episode 21 - Emotion at Work in Employee Experience
I loved recording this podcast because it gives a look at the background and theory as well as practical experience, hints and tips for reviewing and improving Employee Experience. In this episode, I am joined by Lara Plaxton who is the head of HR at FDM UK. Lara has a fairly unique perspective on employee experience as the work that FDM do, doesn't necessarily match with the standard model. FDM support organisations and graduates, ex-forces and returners by placing graduates in client organisations but importantly, those graduates remain as employees of FDM. So FDM's employees experience two (potentially) different cultures; one for being an employee of FDM and then working in a client's business every day.
During this podcast, we explore some key terms and definitions around User Experience, Employee Experience and Design Thinking before going more specifically into what Lara and FDM do to measure and improve their employee experience. We cover some key things to think about, tips and techniques to review or improve employee experience and we delve deep into the thinking and theory behind this area.
As always, links and references:
Systems thinking
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V38HrPnYkHI - short video with Peter Senge
https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S1877050915002860 - research paper (open access)
http://amj.aom.org/content/58/1/1.short - short article on design thinking
http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/j.0011-7315.2004.02611.x/full - Pullman and Gross (2004) Ability of experience design elements to elicit emotions and loyalty behaviors
https://www.wiley.com/en-gb/Interaction+Design:+Beyond+Human+Computer+Interaction,+4th+Edition-p-9781119020752 - Preece, Sharp and Rogers (2015); Interaction Design - Beyond Human-Computer Interaction
Employee Experience
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Employee_experience_management - Short definition
https://www.forbes.com/sites/jeannemeister/2017/01/05/the-employee-experience-is-the-future-of-work-10-hr-trends-for-2017/#13666e8920a6 - summary article
http://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/13678868.2014.886443 - Cascio (2014); Leveraging Employer Branding, performance management and human resource development to enhance employee retention
User Experience
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/User_experience
The Service - Profit chain HBR article
https://hbr.org/2008/07/putting-the-service-profit-chain-to-work
Moira Clarke 10 year causation analysis
https://www.henley.fi/wp-content/uploads/2017/04/Moira-full-article.pdf
Human Centred Design
http://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.2752/175630614x14056185480186 - Giacomin (2015); What is Human Centred Design
Gamification
https://www.routledge.com/The-Business-of-Gamification-A-Critical-Analysis/Dymek-Zackariasson/p/book/9781138824164 - Dymek & Zackariasson (2017); the business of gamification
Design Thinking
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U-hzefHdAMk - Video with Tim Brown CEO of IDEO
More from Lara:
LinkedIn: https://uk.linkedin.com/in/lara-plaxton-7927aaa
Twitter: https://twitter.com/_Lara_HR
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Learn more about Emotion at Work: https://www.emotionatwork.co.uk
Connect with Phil: https://www.linkedin.com/in/phil-willcox-02013425/

Apr 5, 2018 • 1h 13min
Episode 20 - Emotion at Work in Competitive Contexts
In this episode of the podcast, I chat with an athlete that has competed at the highest level in his class. As a Visually Impaired (VI) judo fighter Jonathan (Jono) Drane has represented team GB at the Paralympic Games in Rio 2016 finishing 5th in the 81kg weight category while having a torn Anterior Cruciate Ligament (ACL). Prior to Rio, he won gold in this first competitive VI championship in the US and won a Bronze medal in the 2014 IBSA world championships.
During the podcast, we explore how he personally experienced emotion in the ring, how it affected him, what he did before, during, and after his bouts to work with emotion. We also explore how, in one of his current roles in coaching judo, he explores emotions with those he coaches. We also discuss strategies that Jono has (or still does) use to work with emotion(s) and his view of how his life and neurodiversity (ADHD) impact his ability to effectively work with emotion(s).
References as always:
Jo Frazier and the Thriller in Manilla
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rEtCq6X7fUI
Inverted U hypothesis
https://academy.sportlyzer.com/wiki/arousal-and-performance/inverted-u-hypothesis/
Kasparov - deep thinking
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Deep-Thinking-Machine-Intelligence-Creativity/dp/1473653517/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1521797622&sr=8-1&keywords=kasparov+deep+thinking
Alpha Go - Korean Master playing ‘go’
https://www.alphagomovie.com/
Mind Gym - understanding
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Mind-Gym-Wake-Up-Your/dp/0316729922
The book of five rings - strategy
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Book-Five-Rings-Musashi-Miyamoto/dp/0517415283/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1521797799&sr=1-1&keywords=the+book+of+five+rings
The rise of the superhuman - Stephen Cottler
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Rise-Superman-Decoding-Ultimate-Performance/dp/1784291226/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1521797828&sr=1-1&keywords=the+rise+of+the+superhuman
The Zen or Archery - Mindfulness and Archery
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Zen-Art-Archery-Training-Become/dp/0140190740/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1521797858&sr=1-1&keywords=the+zen+of+archery
More from Jonathan:
Twitter: https://twitter.com/jonolopodis
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Mar 22, 2018 • 1h 14min
Episode 19 - Emotion at Work in Humanising the workplace
In this episode, I am joined by Sarah Taylor Ph.D. where we explore her research and practice into the ways we can enrich workplaces by humanizing it and how we can also bureaucratize it too. Our focus is her research in an elderly care setting and what employees and care workers in that setting really enjoy about their work, and how it is not necessarily what lines up with any set of 'professional standards'.
We begin with setting a philosophical and sociological backdrop and then dive into a lot of detail as to what her research has found. We close by learning more about how Sarah is taking her research into a more corporate setting and looking at how her findings can inform ways that her organization manages performance.
A really great conversation and as always... the references:
Rupert Sheldrake - https://www.sheldrake.org
Theory U - https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Theory_U
- Scharmer, C. O. (2009). Theory U: Leading from the Future as it Emerges. San Francisco: Berrett-Koehler.
The 5th wave of public health - http://www.thelancet.com/journals/lancet/article/PIIS0140-6736(13)62341-7/abstract
Nonpaywalled/access limited article -
http://blog.policy.manchester.ac.uk/featured/2014/05/will-new-wave-bring-a-tide-of-progress-for-public-health/
Hanlon, P., Carlisle, S., Hannah, M., Reilly, D., & Lyon, A. (2011). Making the
case for a ―fifth wave‖ in public Health. Public Health, 125(1), 30–36.
Atul Gawande - Being Mortal: Medicine and what matters in the end
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Being-Mortal-Medicine-What-Matters/dp/0805095152
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mviU9OeufA0
Martin Buber: I - Thou relationship
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/I_and_Thou
- Andrews, N. (2014). We Need to Talk about Love‘. Co-production Walves.
Available from:
https://allinthistogetherwales.files.wordpress.com/2013/05/who-is-helping-who.pdf
- Kitwood, T. (2012). Dementia Reconsidered: The Person Comes First. Berkshire: Open University Press.
Loss of practical wisdom
https://www.ted.com/talks/barry_schwartz_on_our_loss_of_wisdom/up-next
Owen & Mayer - beautiful moments of connection
http://www.myhomelife.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/JRF-report-on-care-home-quality-of-life-full.pdf
More from Sarah:
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sarahtaylorthrivewise/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/ThriveWiseUK
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Mar 8, 2018 • 1h 1min
Episode 18 - Emotion at Work in Stress and Wellbeing
In this episode, I am delighted to have Professor Sir Cary Cooper as my guest. Cary is the President of the CIPD, researcher, practitioner and part of the Manchester Business School. I wanted to get Cary on the podcast for quite a while now as someone that is personally experienced and a respected researcher in this area. We get into:
Cary's personal experiences with Stress and Wellbeing
His experiences working, consulting and researching in the workplace
The importance of stress and mental health for individuals, teams, companies and the economy as a whole
Uncertainty, anxiety, burnout and the difference between acute and chronic stress
This is a fab episode and here are the links and references:
Articles on technostress
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/prefrontal-nudity/201708/dealing-technostress
https://journal.thriveglobal.com/what-is-technostress-6b4cc39661d7
https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0969699715001192
Chronic Fatigue
https://books.google.co.uk/books?hl=en&lr=&id=V3zLBQAAQBAJ&oi=fnd&pg=PP1&dq=cary+cooper+chronic+fatigue&ots=AWd3OEcPtr&sig=biAR_U8VCmFPzI2_12GFModo-NE#v=onepage&q=cary%20cooper%20chronic%20fatigue&f=false
http://oem.bmj.com/content/oemed/54/6/367.full.pdf - Spurgeon, Harrington & Cooper (1997)
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Myths-Management-People-Wrong-Business/dp/0749480238
Mind:
https://www.mind.org.uk/?gclid=Cj0KCQiAuP7UBRDiARIsAFpxiRKCKJCPyl1kJIPn3BU845i89XJ5l0T2nvBFIsrurUd3r8HD6ZxqtwYaAhHxEALw_wcB#
Articles linked to Antonio Horatio-Osorio the CEO of Lloyds that openly discussed his mental health challenges
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-15573121
Report on social mobility in the UK (2017)
https://www.suttontrust.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/07/BCGSocial-Mobility-report-full-version_WEB_FINAL.pdf
More from Sir Cary:
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/professor-sir-cary-cooper-4213909/
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