

Order of Man
Ryan Michler
We are reclaiming what it means to be a man. Each week we interview the world's most successful men on the planet - elite athletes, warriors, New York Times Bestselling Authors, and world-class entrepreneurs – extract their hard-fought lessons and experiences and deliver them straight to you. Past guests include Jocko Willink, Tim Kennedy, Andy Frisella, Lewis Howes, Grant Cardone, Ryan Holiday, Ben Greenfield, Rich Roll, and so many more. If you're ready to level up your life as a man, this is the show for you.
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Sep 10, 2025 • 1h 4min
Work/Life Balance is a Myth, Re-Focusing Your Energy, and When Plans Go Wrong | ASK ME ANYTHING
In a lively discussion, the hosts tackle the myth of work-life balance, advocating for energy management instead. They highlight practical strategies for aligning daily actions with long-term goals and the perils of distractions that hinder productivity. Engaging family meetings are introduced as a way to set and track personal goals. The importance of resilience when plans go awry is emphasized, alongside tips for effective planning. Plus, updates on community support and tools for growth keep the conversation focused on a fulfilling, intentional life.

Sep 9, 2025 • 1h 13min
DAVID PISARRA | When Your Marriage Ends, Do This…
David Pissara, an attorney and men's advocate specializing in divorce and custody, shares crucial insights for navigating the tumultuous landscape of marriage breakdowns. He discusses emotional manipulation men often face and how to effectively confront it. Pissara highlights the importance of understanding legal rights during divorce and the potential biases in the family court system. He also explores indicators of impending divorce, personal responsibility in relationships, and how to turn the challenges of divorce into opportunities for personal growth.

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Sep 5, 2025 • 24min
How to Be Vulnerable Like a Man | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
This captivating discussion challenges common perceptions of vulnerability in men. It suggests vulnerability is not just about being open but a strategic tool for personal growth. The importance of discernment before sharing experiences is emphasized, along with the need for goals that guide openness. Practical solutions should accompany vulnerability, promoting accountability in relationships. Listeners will find inspiration in encouraging honest self-reflection while building supportive communities for genuine connections.

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Sep 3, 2025 • 35min
Daily Efficiencies, Practices, Planning, and Systems | ASK ME ANYTHING
Dive into the world of daily efficiencies with insights on balancing flexibility and structure for a productive life. Discover the art of becoming an early riser and making planning a ritual. Learn practical tactics like using buffers, handling unexpected events, and categorizing your days to keep you on track. The conversation is packed with actionable strategies for enhancing routines and achieving personal growth. Whether you're working from home or pursuing long-term goals, these tips offer a roadmap to success.

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Sep 2, 2025 • 1h 12min
LARRY HAGNER | The "Dad Drift" and How to Beat It
Larry Hagner, founder of The Dad Edge and author of 'The Pursuit of Legendary Fatherhood,' shares insights from over two decades of fatherhood. He delves into the concept of 'dad drift,' discussing how fathers can lose focus on their families amidst daily distractions. Larry highlights the importance of active engagement and open communication with spouses and children. He also emphasizes nurturing connections, combating complacency, and creating psychological safety to foster deeper relationships, all while navigating the challenges of parenting with authenticity and purpose.

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Aug 29, 2025 • 22min
How a Man Overcomes Betrayal | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
Discover how to confront and overcome betrayal in both personal and professional realms. The speaker shares personal anecdotes and practical strategies for navigating these challenges with respect and self-control. Emphasis is placed on learning valuable lessons, recognizing early red flags, and establishing strong boundaries. This discussion serves as an empowering call for resilience and growth, encouraging individuals to rise above hardship and foster healthier relationships moving forward.

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Aug 27, 2025 • 1h 23min
When Vulnerability Goes Wrong, The OODA Loop, and Honoring Choice | ASK ME ANYTHING
Dive into a lively discussion about the Cracker Barrel logo controversy that reveals our focus on the trivial. The hosts offer practical advice on helping kids deal with bullies, emphasizing communication and martial arts as confidence boosters. They tackle the challenges of picky eaters with meal negotiation tips. Discover the OODA Loop's value in decision-making and personal growth, and hear insights on balancing priorities and fostering vulnerability in relationships. It's a blend of humor and actionable wisdom on masculinity and self-improvement.

Aug 26, 2025 • 56min
TYE NICHOLS | From Fairway Dreams to Mainstreet Reality
Tye Nichols, owner-operator of Fairway Fields and a full-time employee at Jocko Fuel, shares his ambitious vision of reviving an abandoned golf course in Maine. He discusses overcoming self-doubt and the importance of building trust within the community. Tye emphasizes transforming dreams into reality through perseverance and humility while balancing family life and financial challenges. Listeners will be inspired by his journey of self-discovery and commitment to creating a unique golfing destination.

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Aug 22, 2025 • 23min
How to Initiate Boys Into Manhood | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
How do we guide boys into manhood in today’s world? The discussion dives into the importance of separation from women during rites of passage. Challenges and risks are vital components of growth, shaping young lives into capable men. Milestones mark their journey, emphasizing responsibility and independence. Honoring achievements through public recognition adds significance. Personal stories and practical tips empower fathers and mentors to foster the next generation's strength and character.

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Aug 20, 2025 • 1h 3min
Choosing Your Battles, Finding God in Hardship, and Owning Your Addictions | ASK ME ANYTHING
This engaging discussion dives into the art of choosing battles, highlighting the importance of resilience and determination. It also emphasizes inviting a higher power into past struggles and approaching sensitive topics like addiction with honesty. Strategies for navigating difficult conversations and managing public criticism are explored, showcasing how kindness and clarity can lead to growth. With personal anecdotes and practical wisdom, the speakers inspire intentional living through accountability and reflection.


