

Order of Man
Ryan Michler
We are reclaiming what it means to be a man. Each week we interview the world’s most successful men on the planet - elite athletes, warriors, New York Times Bestselling Authors, and world-class entrepreneurs – extract their hard-fought lessons and experiences and deliver them straight to you. Past guests include Jocko Willink, Tim Kennedy, Andy Frisella, Lewis Howes, Grant Cardone, Ryan Holiday, Ben Greenfield, Rich Roll, and so many more. If you’re ready to level up your life as a man, this is the show for you.
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May 7, 2025 • 1h 4min
Find Your Values, Validate Yourself, and Why You Hate Yourself | ASK ME ANYTHING
Ryan and Kipp recap their recent event in St. Louis, sharing both triumphs and humorous mishaps. They tackle sibling conflicts and the struggle to balance work stress and family life. Diving deep into leadership pressures, they discuss the cyclical nature of marriage and the importance of self-validation. Personal values take center stage as they guide listeners in aligning their actions with their beliefs. Additionally, they shed light on the impact of credit scores on financial health and offer insights for navigating the complexities of life after divorce.

May 6, 2025 • 1h 19min
GEOFF HOPF | Hard Times Create Strong Men
Geoff Hopf, a bestselling author and U.S. Marine Corps veteran, dives into his famous quote: 'Hard times create strong men.' He discusses the importance of moral resilience and self-reliance in today's world. The conversation covers the need for traditional masculinity and the 4 pillars of survival. Hopf emphasizes personal responsibility in fatherhood and shares insights on overcoming societal distractions and mental clarity. His experiences provide a compelling narrative on navigating challenges and embracing strength in turbulent times.

May 2, 2025 • 31min
When You Mess Up, Learn | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
Discover the power of embracing failure as a stepping stone for personal growth. The host shares six actionable strategies to transform setbacks into opportunities, urging listeners to avoid complacency and focus on what they can control. Key insights include the importance of self-forgiveness and the dangers of bitterness. This motivational talk encourages men to confront challenges head-on and redefine their futures by letting go of past mistakes. Tune in for an inspiring message about resilience and personal responsibility!

Apr 30, 2025 • 1h 5min
Optics Vs Execution, The Brain’s Argument with Itself, & How to Learn From Divorce | ASK ME ANYTHING
In this episode of Ask Me Anything, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorenson tackle tough, real-world questions from men facing divorce, personal setbacks, and disconnection at home. They dive into how optics impact execution, how to master emotional resilience through stress, and why ego can sabotage your growth. From powerful mindset shifts to tactical advice for navigating separation and fatherhood, this episode is packed with hard truths and uplifting insights. Whether you’re healing, leading, or rebuilding—this one hits home. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Technical Troubles and Weekend Recap 05:45 – Viewer Questions Begin 06:02 – What to Do When Divorce Hits 10:07 – Reconnecting Without Shared Interests 15:09 – Rebuilding After a Breakup 21:45 – Divorce Logistics and Legal Readiness 27:59 – How to Apologize to Your Kids 32:23 – Blessings Hidden in Disappointment 44:58 – Would You Want Your Son to Live Your Life? 52:07 – Hierarchical Decision-Making 52:34 – Optics vs. Execution Debate 59:00 – The Brain’s Argument With Itself 01:02:24 – Optics as a Sign of Respect 01:04:50 – Final Thoughts and Hope Through Hard Times Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Apr 29, 2025 • 1h 5min
HAL ELROD | Unwavering Faith + Extraordinary Effort is Unstoppable
Hal Elrod, a keynote speaker and author of The Miracle Morning, shares his inspiring journey of overcoming a cancer diagnosis and a near-fatal accident. He discusses the critical balance between unwavering faith and extraordinary effort in achieving goals. Hal emphasizes the power of affirmations for healing and how mindset plays a crucial role in recovery. He also highlights the importance of personal discipline through his Battle Ready program and encourages listeners to create their own miracles by embracing challenges with hope and resilience.

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Apr 25, 2025 • 30min
Mindset of Masculine Money Management | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
Explore seven essential mindsets for effective money management aimed at men seeking to thrive as protectors and providers. Money is discussed as both a tool and a metric of value, while emotional regulation in financial decisions takes center stage. Learn about a strategic approach to finances: fortify, neutralize, and attack. The importance of professional support and informed decision-making is emphasized, encouraging a proactive mindset for mastering personal finances. Ready to elevate your financial game?

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Apr 23, 2025 • 1h 1min
The Pleasure of Pursuit, Why Young Men Are Moving to the Right, and the Power and Peril of Solitude | ASK ME ANYTHING
Dive into the intriguing world of the pleasure of pursuit versus instant gratification. Discover why many young men are gravitating toward conservative views, seeking structure and mentorship. The hosts tackle imposter syndrome, offering insights for overcoming it in job situations. They also delve into relationship dynamics, addressing why women leave relationships and the importance of communication. Plus, find humor in critiques of exaggerated achievements, like celebrity space flights, and gain valuable lessons from parenting and personal growth experiences.

Apr 22, 2025 • 1h 2min
DAVID MEESSEN | The Work of Building Attraction
David Meessen, a certified life and executive coach, helps high-achieving men navigate the complexities of finding love. He discusses the growing intimidation men face when approaching women and how dating apps can be detrimental. Meessen introduces progressive desensitization as a key strategy to build confidence. He emphasizes the value of radical honesty in attraction and the importance of maintaining personal values while dating. The conversation also highlights the significance of genuine communication and the alarming trends in modern romantic relationships.

Apr 18, 2025 • 29min
The Peril of Self-Betrayal | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
This discussion delves into the concept of self-betrayal, revealing how it fuels anxiety and damages relationships. Listeners discover emotional signs like impatience and frustration that signal this issue. Practical strategies are shared, including creating lists of neglected tasks and the importance of journaling for self-reflection. The host emphasizes aligning actions with personal values to bridge the integrity gap and achieve a more fulfilling life. Reflection is encouraged to foster internal growth and improved external realities.

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Apr 16, 2025 • 1h 2min
Learning to Let Go, Choose Yourself, and Earn Your Kids’ Trust | ASK ME ANYTHING
Dive into a lively discussion about personal growth as the hosts tackle listener questions on trust and the nuances of self-care. They reflect on the significance of auditing life decisions and share insights on rebuilding trust with kids. Discover the impact of journaling for emotional clarity and the signs of overworking that can lead to burnout. Personal stories, such as a Texas hunting trip, add a touch of adventure, while practical advice on relationships and prioritizing commitments keeps the conversation grounded and relatable.