

When Vulnerability Goes Wrong, The OODA Loop, and Honoring Choice | ASK ME ANYTHING
9 snips Aug 27, 2025
Dive into a lively discussion about the Cracker Barrel logo controversy that reveals our focus on the trivial. The hosts offer practical advice on helping kids deal with bullies, emphasizing communication and martial arts as confidence boosters. They tackle the challenges of picky eaters with meal negotiation tips. Discover the OODA Loop's value in decision-making and personal growth, and hear insights on balancing priorities and fostering vulnerability in relationships. It's a blend of humor and actionable wisdom on masculinity and self-improvement.
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Choose Better Problems
- People obsess over trivial cultural changes because they lack bigger problems to solve.
- Ryan and Kipp urge choosing better problems and avoiding novelty-for-novelty's-sake.
Commit 90 Days Before Changing Course
- Give any new habit or program at least 90 days at roughly 80% consistency before changing it.
- Avoid half-hearted implementation; follow through to see real results.
Raise Socially Competent Kids
- Teach kids social skills and assertiveness to reduce victimization.
- Model introductions, ordering for themselves, and regular social practice to build competence.