

Order of Man
Ryan Michler
We are reclaiming what it means to be a man. Each week we interview the world’s most successful men on the planet - elite athletes, warriors, New York Times Bestselling Authors, and world-class entrepreneurs – extract their hard-fought lessons and experiences and deliver them straight to you. Past guests include Jocko Willink, Tim Kennedy, Andy Frisella, Lewis Howes, Grant Cardone, Ryan Holiday, Ben Greenfield, Rich Roll, and so many more. If you’re ready to level up your life as a man, this is the show for you.
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Aug 1, 2025 • 23min
Be The Rock For Your Family | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
In this engaging discussion, the speaker emphasizes the importance of being a dependable figure for family and community. He outlines seven key strategies, including communicating desires clearly and establishing firm boundaries. Listeners are encouraged to uphold trust and honor commitments while remaining emotionally steady. The conversation also highlights the significance of personal growth and reliability, urging men to embody strength and protection in their roles. This insightful dialogue empowers individuals to serve their loved ones with resilience and capability.

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Jul 30, 2025 • 51min
Mastering Feedback, Boundaries, and Family Mentoring | ASK ME ANYTHING
In this engaging discussion, the hosts tackle how to navigate career changes and the importance of setting personal boundaries. They delve into the significance of positive role models for children and share inspiring stories of embracing challenges, like exploring caves. Listeners gain insights into the dynamics of workplace feedback, learning to see it as a growth opportunity. The transformative power of community is highlighted, with tips on accountability and self-investment for meaningful personal progress.

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Jul 29, 2025 • 1h 6min
AARON HALE | Re-Sizing Your Ego
Aaron Hale, a US Army veteran and former Explosive Ordnance Disposal tech, shares his incredible journey after losing his sight and hearing from an IED explosion. He discusses the raw emotions of facing permanent disabilities, battling suicidal thoughts, and the vital support from his family and fellow veterans. Hale emphasizes the importance of gratitude, overcoming fear, and finding resilience through running, including his awe-inspiring experience at the Badwater 135 Ultra Marathon. His story is a testament to the power of transformation amid adversity.

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Jul 25, 2025 • 25min
Confronting the Stress of Masculinity | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
This discussion dives into the stress men encounter as providers and protectors. Practical strategies for managing stress are shared, focusing on personal responsibility. Techniques include identifying stress triggers, removing distractions, and prioritizing mental and physical health. Listeners learn how to break free from monotonous routines and tweak their life's tempo to maintain focus and direction. This empowering conversation aims to help men enhance performance and better serve their families and communities.

Jul 23, 2025 • 60min
Learning to Let Go, Never Offering Unsolicited Advice, and Getting Good at Saying, ‘I Don’t Know’’ | ASK ME ANYTHING
Join a lively discussion about embracing uncertainty and the power of saying 'I don't know'. Discover how men build camaraderie through shared activities and personal growth. There are insights from marathon training to the importance of serving others for fulfillment. They also balance empathy and tough love in leadership roles, emphasizing meaningful connections. Enjoy a light-hearted take on reincarnation, while exploring the value of planning for self-improvement and resilience.

Jul 22, 2025 • 1h 3min
NICK O'KELLY | Confronting the Stigma of Men’s Mental Health
Nick O'Kelly, a retired Green Beret and combat veteran, addresses the stigma surrounding men's mental health. He shares his journey through anxiety and depression, emphasizing the importance of seeking support while maintaining traditional masculinity. O'Kelly discusses the challenges of transitioning from military to civilian life, balancing vulnerability, and the need for purpose. He highlights the emotional toll of success and the importance of open conversations about mental health, aiming to empower men to confront their issues without fear.

Jul 18, 2025 • 18min
What You Do Is Who You Are | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
Ryan Michler shares how daily actions shape our identities and success. He reflects on his adventures, illustrating the importance of consistency in achieving personal goals. The discussion dives into overcoming setbacks like divorce and imposter syndrome. Michler provides practical steps in four areas: mental health, relationships, physical health, and financial wisdom. He emphasizes celebrating small wins and urges men to embrace purposeful living for greater achievements.

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Jul 16, 2025 • 1h 3min
Ruthlessly Work Towards Goals | ASK ME ANYTHING
In a lively discussion, the hosts tackle emotional intelligence and personal growth, emphasizing the need for actionable strategies. They delve into co-parenting challenges, sharing personal experiences and the importance of boundaries. The conversation highlights manifestation as more than positive thinking, advocating for clear goals and hard work. Reflecting on their own journeys, they stress adaptability and accountability, inspiring listeners to pursue authenticity and excellence in their lives.

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Jul 15, 2025 • 1h 2min
DR. ERIC COLE | How Cyberthreats Endanger Men and Their Families
Dr. Eric Cole, a cybersecurity expert and former CIA hacker, dives into the critical importance of protecting families from online threats. He discusses the dangers of oversharing personal information and highlights risky apps that children might encounter. With tips on monitoring kids' online activities and establishing effective cyber hygiene, Eric stresses that passwords are becoming obsolete. He emphasizes the need for parents to balance technology use and safeguard children from online predators, ensuring their safety in an increasingly digital world.

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Jul 11, 2025 • 20min
A Man’s Guide to Taking More Risks | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
Ryan Michler dives into the world of calculated risk-taking, urging men to seek growth in relationships, health, and wealth. He outlines five actionable strategies including defining your vision and conducting a SWOT analysis. The discussion emphasizes the importance of preparedness and intentionality to balance ambition with wise choices. Michler also highlights the value of mentorship, noting that seeking coaching can lead to smarter decisions and prevent costly mistakes. Embracing risk boldly yet wisely may unlock greater opportunities in life.