

Order of Man
Ryan Michler
We are reclaiming what it means to be a man. Each week we interview the world's most successful men on the planet - elite athletes, warriors, New York Times Bestselling Authors, and world-class entrepreneurs – extract their hard-fought lessons and experiences and deliver them straight to you. Past guests include Jocko Willink, Tim Kennedy, Andy Frisella, Lewis Howes, Grant Cardone, Ryan Holiday, Ben Greenfield, Rich Roll, and so many more. If you're ready to level up your life as a man, this is the show for you.
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Sep 30, 2025 • 1h 17min
VANESSA BENNETT | The Myths of Masculinity and Motherhood
Vanessa Bennett, a licensed psychotherapist and author of 'The Motherhood Myth', dives deep into the misunderstandings between men and women. She explores how societal pressures shape relationships and the importance of emotional safety in attraction. They discuss the need for leadership over dominance and how effective communication fosters healthier partnerships. Vanessa emphasizes the significance of shadow work and personal integrity, urging individuals to own their roles in relationships while navigating desire versus need. It's a compelling look at modern masculinity and femininity.

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Sep 26, 2025 • 21min
A Man's Guide to Taking Risk | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
This discussion delves into the crucial role of risk-taking for personal growth and leadership. It emphasizes the importance of understanding your motivations and weighing potential risks against rewards. Techniques for minimizing downsides and ensuring financial readiness are highlighted. The chat also explores using SWOT analysis for better decision-making and stresses the value of mentorship. Ultimately, it calls for men to embrace calculated risks as a moral duty, guiding them toward a purposeful and courageous life.

Sep 24, 2025 • 51min
The Power of Intention, High-Income Skills, and Overcoming Financial Hurdles | ASK ME ANYTHING
Explore the nuances of Roth versus traditional 401(k)s and discover why even late savers should get started immediately. Learn how to scale rental properties wisely by using equity without overextending. Dive into the challenges of starting a meat processing business, including pricing and customer experience. Understand the importance of high-income skills like sales and emotional management. Finally, navigate the complexities of debt culture and why it’s often better to hold investments rather than cashing them out for a low-rate mortgage.

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Sep 23, 2025 • 1h 31min
SHAWN STEVENSON | Using Bio Feedback to Fuel Your Body
Shawn Stevenson, a health and fitness expert and bestselling author, dives into the complexities of food and our relationship with it. He discusses how cultural shifts have impacted family meals and men’s health. The conversation covers the placebo effect’s surprising power, why not all calories are created equal, and the importance of gut microbiome diversity. Stevenson offers practical tips for using biofeedback in nutrition and training, and shares actionable advice for men over 40 on optimizing their health and vitality.

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Sep 19, 2025 • 30min
Nice Guys Never Win | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
This discussion dives into the pitfalls of 'Nice Guy Syndrome,' revealing how avoiding conflict and seeking approval harms relationships and careers. Discover the emotional costs such as confusion and resentment, and learn why living authentically is crucial. The host shares five powerful daily practices to foster decisiveness and build strong boundaries. It's a bold call for men to reject victimhood, embrace responsibility, and lead with confidence. Get ready to reclaim respect and authenticity!

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Sep 17, 2025 • 1h 5min
What the Successful Know About Wealth, When to Invest, Why Own Rentals | ASK ME ANYTHING
Dive into the habits that set wealthy individuals apart from the average. Discover the essential difference between real and nominal gains in investing and why it matters. Explore the intricacies of renting versus buying and how timing impacts your financial decisions. Challenge the myth that wealth is tied to dishonesty, and learn how to leverage home equity for investment success. Plus, unlock the secrets of backdoor Roth IRAs for maximum financial growth. Equip yourself with actionable insights for smart wealth management!

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Sep 16, 2025 • 1h
JAY JAIRDULLO | Why Self-Image is Everything
In this conversation, retired police officer Jay Giardullo shares insights from his 25 years in law enforcement and coaching. He discusses the concept of self-image and its profound impact on personal identity. Jay breaks down the idea of 'false masculinity' while emphasizing the importance of core values and emotional intelligence, particularly in fatherhood. He advocates for building authentic male friendships and highlights the significance of loyalty and support in relationships, urging listeners to shift their focus from negativity to positivity for personal growth.

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Sep 12, 2025 • 24min
When Good Men Do Nothing | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
The conversation dives into the alarming rise of political violence and the urgent need for men to take action. Four key actions are highlighted: protecting families, opposing harmful ideologies, stepping into influential roles, and nurturing strong brotherhoods. Ryan emphasizes financial security as a means of protection and discusses the power of community engagement. He calls on men to refuse silence and actively participate in shaping societal values. Personal stories and plans for local chapters add a motivating touch to the message.

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Sep 11, 2025 • 1h 4min
CHARLIE KIRK | Are Men the Enemy?
Charlie Kirk, a prominent political activist and founder of Turning Point USA, discusses pressing issues surrounding masculinity and responsibility. He emphasizes the dangers of an overly feminized education system and the impact of absent fathers on boys' development. The conversation urges for strong male role models and the importance of resilient parenting. Kirk also highlights the declining birth rates and their societal implications, calling for a focus on family values to combat cultural crises and misinformation.

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Sep 10, 2025 • 1h 4min
Work/Life Balance is a Myth, Re-Focusing Your Energy, and When Plans Go Wrong | ASK ME ANYTHING
In a lively discussion, the hosts tackle the myth of work-life balance, advocating for energy management instead. They highlight practical strategies for aligning daily actions with long-term goals and the perils of distractions that hinder productivity. Engaging family meetings are introduced as a way to set and track personal goals. The importance of resilience when plans go awry is emphasized, alongside tips for effective planning. Plus, updates on community support and tools for growth keep the conversation focused on a fulfilling, intentional life.


