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LARRY HAGNER | The "Dad Drift" and How to Beat It

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Sep 2, 2025
Larry Hagner, founder of The Dad Edge and author of 'The Pursuit of Legendary Fatherhood,' shares insights from over two decades of fatherhood. He delves into the concept of 'dad drift,' discussing how fathers can lose focus on their families amidst daily distractions. Larry highlights the importance of active engagement and open communication with spouses and children. He also emphasizes nurturing connections, combating complacency, and creating psychological safety to foster deeper relationships, all while navigating the challenges of parenting with authenticity and purpose.
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ANECDOTE

Injury Turned Into Focus Time

  • Larry described his patella tendon injury and major surgery after the Forge tug-of-war incident.
  • He used recovery time to focus on finishing and launching his book.
INSIGHT

The Drift Is Subtle But Devastating

  • The "drift" is a slow slide into mediocrity across work, marriage, health, and relationships.
  • Left unchecked, drift erodes energy, safety, and long-term fulfillment for men and families.
ADVICE

Pick One First Domino And Attack It

  • Identify one "first domino" area to regain momentum: faith, fitness, or marriage.
  • Focus resources and systems on that area to create spillover improvements in other domains.
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