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Jul 19, 2022 • 1h 2min

24: We Wrote A F*cking Book!

In this episode of Remodeled, The Daylovers enjoy deliciously upscale recording accommodations and talk about their new book, "Polyamory & Parenthood: Navigating Non-Monogamy as Parents of Young Children". They offer a brief overview of their new book, and share a little of the behind-the-scenes process. Jes also shares some show feedback--mainly that folks really enjoy the episodes between the two of them, and Jes promises to return to more of a balance between those types of episodes and the interview style episodes featuring special guests (she still has 6 fantastic interviews on the back-burner she needs to get out, though...). They also introduce their new format for episodes featuring just the two of them: I. What's new with Remodeled Love (in this episode: their new e-book, and "Dudes with Feelings": a support group for polyamorous men) II. The Hot Goss (reflections on their respective love lives) III. ETIBHL ("Existential Thoughts I've Been Having Lately". In this episode: Jes talks about the housing crisis, and (CW) Joe talks briefly about gun violence).  IV: Dear Flabby (the advice column portion of their show where they answer a listener question. In this episode they answer a question about how to handle "moodiness" from your partner when you're getting ready to go on a date.) This episode is very funny, and informative, and they hope you enjoy it. *** Producers: Jessica Levity, Homeslice Productions Intro song: Rachael McIlhiney covering Hozier *** 🎙If you love our content and want to support us: Buy our book "Polyamory & Parenthood: Navigating Non-Monogamy as Parents of Young Children", available at ⁠www.remodeledlove.com⁠ and in print/Kindle on ⁠Amazon⁠! Venmo: Jessica-levity CASHAPP: $jessicalevity PayPal: homesliceproductions@gmail.com Patreon: ⁠Patreon.com/remodeledlove⁠ …➡️Join our “Close Friends” list on IG for BTS access to our life, and ability to message us, by becoming a patron at the $5 or more level. Book a peer-to-peer polyam coaching session with The Daylovers through ⁠www.remodeledlove.com
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Apr 4, 2022 • 51min

23: Polyamory & Fatphobia with Coach Shor

In this episode Jes chats with @coach_shor on the intersections of compulsory monogamy, compulsory heterosexuality, compulsory cis-ness, and fatphobia. And, as always, they dive into the semiotics of it all. Sponsor for this episode is the good folks from Beducated!: Click here or copy past this link (http://beducate.me/pd2206-remodeled-couples) to receive 65% off a yearly subscription, locked in for life! #RedefineFamily #RedefineLove #RemodeledLove ••• 🎙If you love our content and want to support us: Buy our book "Polyamory & Parenthood: Navigating Non-Monogamy as Parents of Young Children", available at ⁠⁠www.remodeledlove.com⁠⁠ and in print/Kindle on ⁠⁠Amazon⁠⁠! Venmo: Jessica-levity CASHAPP: $jessicalevity PayPal: homesliceproductions@gmail.com Patreon: ⁠⁠Patreon.com/remodeledlove⁠⁠ …➡️Join our “Close Friends” list on IG for BTS access to our life, and ability to message us, by becoming a patron at the $5 or more level. Book a peer-to-peer polyam coaching session with The Daylovers through ⁠⁠www.remodeledlove.com
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Jan 21, 2022 • 1h 19min

22: Tales from the Daylover Diary

In this episode, Jes and Joe catch you the fuck up on their polyamorous lives. SO MUCH HAS HAPPENED SINCE THEY GOT BACK ON THE APPS! They share some exciting new connections, some tragic lessons, and a hilarious anecdote that only polyamorous parents can truly understand. 🎙If you love our content and want to support us: Buy our book "Polyamory & Parenthood: Navigating Non-Monogamy as Parents of Young Children", available at ⁠⁠www.remodeledlove.com⁠⁠ and in print/Kindle on ⁠⁠Amazon⁠⁠! Venmo: Jessica-levity CASHAPP: $jessicalevity PayPal: homesliceproductions@gmail.com Patreon: ⁠⁠Patreon.com/remodeledlove⁠⁠ …➡️Join our “Close Friends” list on IG for BTS access to our life, and ability to message us, by becoming a patron at the $5 or more level. Book a peer-to-peer polyam coaching session with The Daylovers through ⁠⁠www.remodeledlove.com
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Nov 29, 2021 • 60min

21: Our Evolution into a Beautiful, Non-Sexual, Polyamorous Marriage

The podcast discusses the journey of a couple evolving into a non-sexual, polyamorous marriage. They explore the factors behind their evolution, such as asexual feelings, postpartum motherhood, and long-term relationships. They emphasize that their evolution does not represent all polyamorous married couples and share why they chose to stay married. The podcast also delves into the concept of non-sexual intimacy in long-term relationships and negotiating sex and desire in a polyamorous marriage. They express gratitude for their supportive community and encourage listeners to join.
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Oct 25, 2021 • 1h 1min

20: Let Grown Folks Do What They Want (with Evita Lavitaloca Sawyers)

Evita Lavitaloca Sawyers, a content creator and critic of the polyamorous community, discusses her backstory, polyamory origin story, and critiques of the community. They also talk about the challenges of being an artist in a space driven by likes and the importance of diverse voices in the polyamorous community.
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Oct 8, 2021 • 43min

19: Survivorship Industrial Complex, & More, with Sydney Rae Chin

[CW: Brief mentions of trauma, intimate partner violence, and sexual violence] In this episode, Jes chats with fellow Instagram content creator, Sydney Rae Chin. Sydney (they/she) identifies as a queer, non-binary, East Asian, anti-capitalist femme. They talk Sydney's critique of the social media space: the entrepreneurial culture, the problematic nature with some of the Polyam content creators, the lack of consent found in the space, and also what Sydney calls the "Survivorship Industrial Complex".  Sydney is stepping away from IG for a while, but you should follow them anyway @SydneyRaeChin. Additionally, you can tip them for their brilliance on Venmo @Sydney_Rae, and make sure to read their blog at sydneyraechin.com/blog. *** >> www.remodeledlove.com >> www.facebook.com/RemodeledLove >> Instagram: @remodeledlove >> Twitter: @remodeledLove >> TikTok: @HomesliceProductions 🎙If you love our content and want to support us: Buy our book "Polyamory & Parenthood: Navigating Non-Monogamy as Parents of Young Children", available at ⁠⁠www.remodeledlove.com⁠⁠ and in print/Kindle on ⁠⁠Amazon⁠⁠! Venmo: Jessica-levity CASHAPP: $jessicalevity PayPal: homesliceproductions@gmail.com Patreon: ⁠⁠Patreon.com/remodeledlove⁠⁠ …➡️Join our “Close Friends” list on IG for BTS access to our life, and ability to message us, by becoming a patron at the $5 or more level. Book a peer-to-peer polyam coaching session with The Daylovers through ⁠⁠www.remodeledlove.com EXECUTIVE PRODUCERS: Homeslice Productions
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Sep 27, 2021 • 1h 17min

Episode 18: Polyamory and ADHD, with Dr. Antonia

Dr. Antonia, a clinical psychologist specializing in ADHD and relationships, discusses the correlations between Polyamory and ADHD. They explore how ADHD impacts attraction to polyamory, difficulties in managing relationships, and the importance of understanding these connections. The podcast delves into topics like time management, polysaturation, and the need for novelty in relationships, shedding light on the challenges and dynamics of polyamory for individuals with ADHD.
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Sep 13, 2021 • 58min

Episode 17: Polyamorous Men, with @Polyamfam

We continue our Polyamorous Men series with this live interview with The Good Chad of @Polyamfam. In this episode we discuss Chad's polyamory origin story. Chad shares the struggles he had early on-- his insecurities and jealousies, and how polyamory actually helped him work through them to become a better version of himself. Chad talks about the role toxic masculinity played in his polyamorous journey, and he gives us his number one tip in helping other men overcome toxicity: Listen. To. Women.    You can support Chad by buying his art, attending his events, and following his page.  You can support me in various ways, all found at www.remodeledlove.com >> www.facebook.com/RemodeledLove >> Instagram: @remodeledlove >> Twitter: @remodeledLove >> TikTok: @HomesliceProductions 🎙If you love our content and want to support us: Buy our book "Polyamory & Parenthood: Navigating Non-Monogamy as Parents of Young Children", available at ⁠⁠www.remodeledlove.com⁠⁠ and in print/Kindle on ⁠⁠Amazon⁠⁠! Venmo: Jessica-levity CASHAPP: $jessicalevity PayPal: homesliceproductions@gmail.com Patreon: ⁠⁠Patreon.com/remodeledlove⁠⁠ …➡️Join our “Close Friends” list on IG for BTS access to our life, and ability to message us, by becoming a patron at the $5 or more level. Book a peer-to-peer polyam coaching session with The Daylovers through ⁠⁠www.remodeledlove.com EXECUTIVE PRODUCERS: Homeslice Productions
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Aug 3, 2021 • 1h

Episode 16: Purity to Polyamory

Guest: '@PurityToPolyamory', an Instagram account creator and advocate for non-monogamy. They discuss purity culture's toxicity and the parallels between deconstructing faith and realizing they are polyamorous. In part 2, they share their journey of discovering polyamory with their long-term partner and the recent profound shift in their relationship. An insightful exploration of personal growth and navigating differences in a polyamorous marriage.
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Jul 27, 2021 • 42min

Episode 15: Embrace Your Inner Cuck

In this live and (mostly) unedited episode, The Daylovers share some exciting news regarding their recent rise to UK trash mag fame, update everyone on their dating life, and talk about some fun new merch they just launched. Plus, Jes goes off about how capitalism has ruined dating apps, does a deep dive into how her demisexuality affects her online dating life, and announces her newly discovered identity as a "Demisexual Slut".  *** You can submit questions you may have about Jes and Joe, polyamory in general, or a specific situation you're navigating by emailing remodeledlove@gmail.com, or submit the anonymous form at www.remodeledlove.com.  >> www.remodeledlove.com  >> www.facebook.com/RemodeledLove  >> Instagram: @remodeledlove  >> Twitter: @remodeledLove  >> TikTok: @HomesliceProductions  🎙If you love our content and want to support us: Buy our book "Polyamory & Parenthood: Navigating Non-Monogamy as Parents of Young Children", available at ⁠⁠www.remodeledlove.com⁠⁠ and in print/Kindle on ⁠⁠Amazon⁠⁠! Venmo: Jessica-levity CASHAPP: $jessicalevity PayPal: homesliceproductions@gmail.com Patreon: ⁠⁠Patreon.com/remodeledlove⁠⁠ …➡️Join our “Close Friends” list on IG for BTS access to our life, and ability to message us, by becoming a patron at the $5 or more level. Book a peer-to-peer polyam coaching session with The Daylovers through ⁠⁠www.remodeledlove.com EXECUTIVE PRODUCERS: Homeslice Productions

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