On this episode, the hosts talk about Ash's affair, qualifying for FMLA as a polyamorous family, and their favorite punctuation marks. They also discuss parenting, sex parties, and village growing pains.

This is by far the best and most unhinged episode we've ever recorded and we're worried we may never top it. (We will.) It's honestly all over the place and we're not sure how to summarize it, but we talk about: age gap relationships, sleeping arrangements, Jes's new orgasm discovery she calls "bass orgasms", how Ash loves to listen through the vent to Jes and Dr. M boning, why Ash's pants were at half mast in the preview photo, what it's like living with partners who have boundaries around how they help with the parenting, and what you do with the thumb you just pulled out of your lover's booty... There's also lots and lots of roasting of each other and this episode ended with everyone in tears from laughing so hard. Wanna hear the rest? Join our Patreon at a level you can afford and receive access to this episode and so much more.

The notorious Dr. M joins The Daylovers in this episode. They reflect on the best and worst year of their lives. They discuss monogamy and non-monogamy, their feelings about social media, navigating unexpected changes in a polycule, challenges and surgeries their toddler had, reflections on life's challenges and trauma, and finding a new house after a miraculous surgery.

When we left off 6 months ago (holy shit), it was right before Jessica's birthday orgy and Joe was about to meet his long distance lover, Ash, for the first time. Well, now it's 6 months later and YOU get to meet her...cuz she lives here now. And she's the best thing to ever happen to our little family. *** Support us on Patreon and get access to exclusive content! Also donate to our new community-building app, Nuclear Fusion, before August 6th, and be a part of the beta program! Check out all the new virtual courses we have for you, like Rituals for Connection, and The Reluctant Polyamorist, on our website!

In this episode, Jessica and Joe talk about how hard it was to get this episode made, the chaos created when you move two partners into your small home within a year, how hard it is to purge your home, and what the fuck is a Roth IRA.  Enjoy the full episode, as well as a bunch of other exclusive content, on our Patreon (www.patreon.com/remodeledlove).

You may know Emily, Dedeker, and Jase as the hosts of the world-renown podcast, Multiamory. And now you can officially add 'authors' to their bio lines! Dropping May 23rd, 2023 (though available for pre-order today), "Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships" is a curated collection of the most popular communication tools, advice, and wisdom from the Multiamory podcast that have helped thousands of listeners improve their communication and create healthy relationships. In this book, you’ll learn how to: Get what you need out of conversations with your partner with the Triforce of Communication, create Microscripts that will interrupt old patterns, diffuse tension, and form better communication habits, set up a regular RADAR check-in to support the long-term health of all of your relationships, determine your unique processing style, and how it may be clashing with your partner’s, process and reconnect after an argument with Repair SHOP, and more! Learn more about their book at www.multiamory.com/book. *** Producers: Jessica Levity, Homeslice Productions Intro song: Rachael McIlhiney covering HozierGuests: Emily, Dedeker, and Jase of Multiamory *** 🎙If you love our content and want to support us: Buy our book "Polyamory & Parenthood: Navigating Non-Monogamy as Parents of Young Children", available at www.remodeledlove.com and in print/Kindle on Amazon! Venmo: Jessica-levity CASHAPP: $jessicalevity PayPal: homesliceproductions@gmail.com Patreon: Patreon.com/remodeledlove …➡️Join our “Close Friends” list on IG for BTS access to our life, and ability to message us, by becoming a patron at the $5 or more level. Book a peer-to-peer polyam coaching session with The Daylovers through www.remodeledlove.com

Breaking up is hard to do. In this episode of Remodeled Love, Jessica talks with one of her favorite polyam podcasters, ashe danger phoenix of the Dear Jessamyn podcast. They discuss why lesbian breakups take so long, and is there a way to make them shorter; can we discuss breakups with someone before entering into a relationship with them, the difference between low stakes breakups, ghosting, and breakups that rip your heart out--how to see them coming, how to lean into it, and how to stay conscious during the death.  Polyamory inherently forces the need to get good at breakups, simply by the nature of the fact that you end up dating so many more folks. Getting "good" at breakups is a powerful muscle to build on this path. *** Producers: Jessica Levity, Homeslice Productions Intro song: Rachael McIlhiney covering Hozier Guest: ashe danger phoenix, Tenderfire Media *** 🎙If you love our content and want to support us: Buy our book "Polyamory & Parenthood: Navigating Non-Monogamy as Parents of Young Children", available at ⁠www.remodeledlove.com⁠ and in print/Kindle on ⁠Amazon⁠! Venmo: Jessica-levity CASHAPP: $jessicalevity PayPal: homesliceproductions@gmail.com Patreon: ⁠Patreon.com/remodeledlove⁠ …➡️Join our “Close Friends” list on IG for BTS access to our life, and ability to message us, by becoming a patron at the $5 or more level. Book a peer-to-peer polyam coaching session with The Daylovers through ⁠www.remodeledlove.com

In this episode The Daylovers catch you up on all things Remodeled Love, including some yummy new support groups. changes in the structure of their personal+professional life intersections, and some exciting visions for the future. They also share some Hot Goss (the hottest goss they've ever had), aka: Jes's upcoming birthday orgy, and some delicious new elements to her relationship with her boyfriend...and quite possibly the most exciting development ever for Joe. The episode ends with Joe sharing his existential dread around the nature of higher ed, and Jes and Joe answer a lister question about seeking clarity in a relationship. *** Producers: Jessica Levity, Homeslice Productions Intro song: Rachael McIlhiney covering Hozier *** 🎙If you love our content and want to support us: Buy our book "Polyamory & Parenthood: Navigating Non-Monogamy as Parents of Young Children", available at ⁠www.remodeledlove.com⁠ and in print/Kindle on ⁠Amazon⁠! Venmo: Jessica-levity CASHAPP: $jessicalevity PayPal: homesliceproductions@gmail.com Patreon: ⁠Patreon.com/remodeledlove⁠ …➡️Join our “Close Friends” list on IG for BTS access to our life, and ability to message us, by becoming a patron at the $5 or more level. Book a peer-to-peer polyam coaching session with The Daylovers through ⁠www.remodeledlove.com

In the kickoff to Season 3 of the "Remodeled Love" podcast, Jes chats with the creator of and artist over at @Shrimpteeth, Sam.  There are several arguments against the presence of the "peer support" model in the polyamorous digital sphere:the potential for the abuse of power, the fact that there's no board to report abuse to, no official training or accreditation for "coaches", the charging of money, etc.  But how does peer support actually work? Jes and Sam break down their backgrounds, how they personally show up in the peer support space, the issues they come across, how peer support makes these essential services accessible and inclusive, and why it's essential for anyone offering peer support to know their scope and have a fall out plan.  *** Producers: Jessica Levity, Homeslice Productions Intro song: Rachael McIlhiney covering Hozier *** 🎙If you love our content and want to support us: Buy our book "Polyamory & Parenthood: Navigating Non-Monogamy as Parents of Young Children", available at ⁠www.remodeledlove.com⁠ and in print/Kindle on ⁠Amazon⁠! Venmo: Jessica-levity CASHAPP: $jessicalevity PayPal: homesliceproductions@gmail.com Patreon: ⁠Patreon.com/remodeledlove⁠ …➡️Join our “Close Friends” list on IG for BTS access to our life, and ability to message us, by becoming a patron at the $5 or more level. Book a peer-to-peer polyam coaching session with The Daylovers through ⁠www.remodeledlove.com

In this episode of Remodeled, Jes chats with a brilliant and diverse group of polyamorous men, some of whom you may recognize as popular content creators in the polyamorous digital sphere. Joining Mr. Daylover at the table is our good friend Wade (remember him from Season 1??), Albert of @Polymananswers & @Albah.Love (and Jes' comet partner in Sacramento), and Bear of @Bear.n.Fifi. Jes asks the guys what they've noticed as polyamorous men, as well as polyam peer support specialists, around the struggles of polyamorous and poly-curious men to recognize, feel, process, and receive help around the emotions that dudes must confront on this path. The group dives deep into some vulnerable and powerful intersectionalities, and unpack some of their own, deepest emotional struggles.  Topics covered include: toxic masculinity, race, sobriety, trans identities, demisexuality, bisexuality, power, control, fear, insecurity, and white supremacy, just to name a few.  This episode is a must-listen for, well, everyone. But especially for Dudes and anyone who loves them. *** Producers: Jessica Levity, Homeslice Productions Intro song: Rachael McIlhiney covering Hozier *** 🎙If you love our content and want to support us: Buy our book "Polyamory & Parenthood: Navigating Non-Monogamy as Parents of Young Children", available at ⁠www.remodeledlove.com⁠ and in print/Kindle on ⁠Amazon⁠! Venmo: Jessica-levity CASHAPP: $jessicalevity PayPal: homesliceproductions@gmail.com Patreon: ⁠Patreon.com/remodeledlove⁠ …➡️Join our “Close Friends” list on IG for BTS access to our life, and ability to message us, by becoming a patron at the $5 or more level. Book a peer-to-peer polyam coaching session with The Daylovers through ⁠www.remodeledlove.com