On this episode, the hosts talk about Ash's affair, qualifying for FMLA as a polyamorous family, and their favorite punctuation marks. They also discuss parenting, sex parties, and village growing pains.
Moving towards consequence-free parenting improves relationships and fosters trust and honesty with children.
Advocating for desires and needs in polyamorous relationships is crucial for clarity and fulfillment.
Motherhood can lead to burnout and questioning of life trajectory, navigating societal pressures and workaholism.
Deep dives
Learning Lessons in Parenting
In parenting, one lesson I am learning is to move towards consequence-free parenting. Emphasizing connection, honoring children's feelings and needs, and collaborating with them instead of resorting to punishment. This shift has improved my relationship with my child and allowed for more trust and honesty.
Learning Lessons in Polyamory
In polyamory, I am learning that life logistics and challenges can sometimes make building relationships difficult. I have realized the importance of advocating for my desires and needs in relationships and not settling for unclear or unfulfilling interactions. It is essential to communicate and ask for what I want, even if it means navigating through potential discomfort.
The Impact of Burnout in Motherhood
As a mother, I am grappling with burnout and questioning how motherhood has altered the trajectory of my life. The pressure to achieve and the constant comparison to a hypothetical life without children can be overwhelming. I am exploring the impact of workaholism and societal expectations on my experience as a mother.
Navigating Social Interactions as a Parent
Navigating social interactions as a parent can be challenging, especially when it comes to connecting with other parents. Eager and open attempts to build friendships can sometimes be met with confusion or discomfort. It is important to remember that different parenting experiences and cultural norms can influence these interactions.
The Anticipation and Excitement of a Sex Party
We recently attended a sex party and the anticipation leading up to it was intense. The details and experiences of the party will be shared in an upcoming episode, providing a raw and real perspective on the event. Stay tuned for an intimate and candid conversation about this unique experience.
In this episode: Joe finds out Ash is having an affair with Dr. M('s pores), we talk about our journey to get Ash qualified for FMLA as a polyamorous family, and we discuss, in depth, our favorite punctuation.
We also talk about what Jes and Joe are individually learning in the world of parenthood right now, and Ash shares what they are learning in the world of polyamory.
There's also some other stuff about sex parties, autistic embarrassment around being "too eager", and village growing pains.
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