In this episode, the girls bring back Brandi from Episode 047: Fulfilling Fantasies: Exploring Kinks and BDSM, the DC Fetish Ball, Sex Therapy and Hiring a Pro Dominatrix. Together they play WHOREible Life by trying to guess whether or not each player has done the act mentioned on the card. This conversation perfectly displays how WHOREible Life the game facilitates a little bit of the naughty chat with a little bit of the DEEP!Sex Positions While Pregnant: which positions create a boy and which create a girl, and why laying on your back doesn’t work while pregnant. (2:15)Card 1: Had sex before the age of 15? First time stories. (9:41)What is considered “full on sex” or “fourth base” with a female? (15:29)Formative sexual oral experiences as precursors to the lifestyle. (18:07)Card 2: Used a fleshlight. What is a fleshlight? Other toy options for penis owners. (23:01)Card 3: Own 3 or more dildos. Sex toy closets and favorite sex toys. (30:41)Dildos vs. vibrators, and when and why would you use each? Frozen glass dildo to relieve pussy pain. (33:57)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com

There are plenty of podcasts that talk about do’s and dont’s at a sex parties. This episode goes deeper.The girls share their "aha" moments, discuss common mistakes made by veterans in the lifestyle, and storytell through it all with real-life examples.Joining Elle and Vee chat in this discussion is returning guest Jess from  Episode 58: “Help! My Ass Swallowed my Butt Plug!”, Golden Shower Pee Play, Fisting, and Staying Focused in Group Play and  Episode 37: Edging: The Advantages of Withholding Orgasm, Electro Play and SpankingEpisode BreakdownIntro and The Need for this Discussion from the More Experienced Perspective on Sex Parties. (00:35)DON’T yuck someone else's yum. Be open minded for to other’s desires and kinks. "What about that turns you on?" (04:51)Tips for Making More Connections at Parties. (09:33)DO Attend Sex Parties with other friends: How many is too many? What’s the right amount of people to ensure fun while still branching away to meet new people? (11:01)DON’T Set Expectations, rather, DO Set Personal Goals.  (13:44)DO Create an Immersive Environment by Putting in Effort in Dressing Up for the Theme. (16:31)DO Be Sexually Forward with Clear Communication and Honesty  (20:08)DON’T Take Anything Personally, and how not to lead People On. (26:45)DO Ask “What Are Your Intentions For The Night?” To Uncover Compatibility. (30:43)DON’T Assume It’s Free for All: Interactions Between Other People Does Not Mean It Also Applies To You. (32:24)DO Use Your Words and Tell Others When You Feel Uncomfortable, otherwise, you’re a part of the problem. (37:52)DO Read the Room for Energy and Vibe, DON’T Talk During the Orgy. (43:32)DO Pack Your Slutbag, Organization Tips, Bringing Your Own Sex Toys, Toy Condoms. (46:42)DON’T get too fucked up: Substances and Moderation.  (48:54)DON’T STINK! Preparation and Hygiene. (52:45)DO Flirt Early, Arrive Early. (55:59)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com

In this conversation, Elle and Vee chat with couple B and Lolo to discuss their long-distance relationship and how they practice non monogamy. They share how they navigate being apart and how they keep their relationship hot and exciting. The conversation touches on topics such as playing separately, sharing sexy content, phone and video sex, the importance of creating the right atmosphere for sexual experiences, and their successful approach to meeting new people and introducing 'vanillas' into the lifestyle._________________________ Episode Breakdown:Maintaining a Long-Distance Relationship requires effort and communication, and the story of how Lolo and B met. (01:27)How they explored the non monogamous lifestyle together, B had no experience and Lolo tried with her ex-husband. (7:19)How they practice non monogamy in their long distance relationship.  (15:17)How to keep it hot while being long distance: sexy content and FaceTime sex. (18:20)Orgasms: Frustration losing an orgasm, breathing through the orgasms or holding your breath. (22:10)Creating a sexy environment in temporary spaces like hotels or airbnbs: the role of low lighting and color temperature with amber-hued incandescent light bulbs, led light strips. (28:40)Preventing messes with waterproof fitted sheets, furniture placement and other essentials.  (34:49)Music recommendations: Create a party-like atmosphere without being distracting is ideal for setting the mood. (38:53)Hedonism Jamaica Story Share: Naked, covered in squirt juice and room temperature to get naked plus how B and LoLo met Elle. (41:50)Enthusiastic consent and how it's importance in meeting new people, the power of open and honest communication. (46:48)Successful Sport Fishing: How they pick up 'Vanillas’ (non monogamous people) for threesomes or foursomes, while out at a bar. Creating a safe space for exploration.  (51:56) Their foundation for a successful journey their relationship, through ENM, and being long distance: No Secrets, No Lies: Everything Else is a Conversation. (1:02:18)Navigating jealousy and conflict requires self-reflection, non reactivity in the moment and effective communication. (1:04:22)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com

In today’s episode, Elle and Vee bring back two guests to play WHOREible Life (@wlthegame), the game of have you ever all things sex and kink!The first guest is Kate Maxx from (from Episode 73: Owning and Loving What You Do with Kate Maxx featuring Humiliatrix Work, Stripping, and OnlyFans Content Creation Our second guest is Bridget Scholes (@bridgetscholessexology) from Episode 75: Sexologist Bridget Scholes on Connected Pleasure, Mismatched Libidos, Spontaneous vs Responsive Desire, and Piss PlayBridget is a sexologist in Australia. She also owns her on dildo sex company, Madame Dahlia (@madame.dahlia) and host of Sexploration with Bridget Scholes Podcast.With both guests, we play the game WHOREible Life by choosing two cards and asking which Would you rather….This conversation perfectly displays how WHOREible Life the game facilitates a little bit of the naughty chat with a little bit of the DEEP!WL cards: Would you rather orgasm from spanking or other impact play or make someone squirt (1:11)WL cards: Would you rather roleplay as puppy or cat OR be bound and restricted as a rope bunny (5:11)Underwater shibari with Markus Leather (5:55) WL cards: Wear a spreader bar OR have someone ride your face (11:06)Ways to insert yourself into an orgy (14:32)All girl orgy, how female play changes when men are not watching, the skirt club a space for bi-curious and bisexual women (16:38)WL cards: Practice tantric sex OR receive foot worship, foot licking or toe sucking (21:50)Tantric sex and how to do energetic breathing alone or with your partner to increase sexual energy (23:05)WL cards: be fucked by someone else with a strap on OR slap someone in the face with an open hand (27:41)Using glass dildos from temperature to the pressure and hardness to massaging to penetration (32:20)WL cards: Have sex on a beach or post a personal porn video for public viewing (35:21)Giving handjobs (37:10)Sex on a beach (39:56)Chili, pepper spray and jalapeños sex mishaps (42:12)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com

Vee shares challenges in ENM: demisexuality and stress affecting sex life. Sex party takeaways: communication, orgasms, leaving fulfilled. Balancing desires as a couple at events. Rooftop sex story and exploring attraction. Numbness from oversaturation at sex parties.

Elle had her baby! In this episode, she shares all the intimate details about how she and her husband, M, used natural sexual tactics to induce labor, and how they got back to being sexual after six weeks of healing. How to induce labor with sex: nipple play, penetrative sex, nipple clamps, orgasms and Braxton Hicks. (3:07)What is labor pain like? Comparing contractions to DVP, speculum spreading, fisting, anal discomfort: breathing through discomfort, and thinking of words as spells. (11:04)Post-baby vagina: "the husband stitch", and does it look different? Is it loose? (17:31)Postpartum sex: how long does it take to get back to sex after having a baby? Getting over the fear of having an orgasm. How to get comfortable with penetration again. The first orgasm after six weeks of vaginal healing. (20:43)Scheduling sex when you have a newborn. (28:09)Breast milk play: Breastfeeding and nipple play. Tasting breast milk and squirting it during blow jobs. (28:41)Being in the open lifestyle and parenthood: confidence issues with postpartum body. Diving back into sex parties and ENM (ethical non-monogamy) after having a child. (35:40)Maintaining your sex life with a baby around. How having a short timeline can be hot! (38:34)Major takeaways from giving birth and getting back to sex: Prioritizing sex to reignite sexuality in your relationship postpartum. Falling in love with your partner again. (42:01)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com

Professional cuddler and dominatrix Bee from Temple in Chicago discusses yoni gazing, DDLG dynamics, therapeutic kink, and shibari. Highlights include overcoming vulva shame, the importance of touch, and switchy domme power dynamics. Also covers the healing power of professional cuddling, boundaries in professional domination, and creating connections through shared experiences in the kink community.

In today’s episode, Elle and Vee bring back repeat guest Slutlana (from Episode 31: Opening Your Marriage, Throuples, and Falling In Love With Someone Besides Your Husband) and Alexa Andre (from Episode 71: Relaxing While Receiving Oral, One Penis Policy, and Biphobia) to play the game Whoreible Life.This conversation perfectly displays how WHOREible Life the game facilitates a little bit of the naughty chat with a little bit of the DEEP! There are many many ways to play, so in this episode they play it two ways: “Would You Rather” and “Done It, Fantasy, No Thank You” - 1 Done it — share the story!2 Fantasy — share your fantasy of this card!3 No thank you - and why you're not interested in this act.Have you ever had sex in your parents’ bed?  How “the talk” and your parents’ approach to sex can affect your early relationship with sexuality. (3:13)Different approaches to talking about sex with your kids. (8:48) Have you ever role played in a rape fantasy or “Consensual Non Consent” (CNC) scene?  Describing examples of CNC scenes, role playing, safe words and what needs to be discussed and agreed beforehand. (13:30)Lowering our standards while dating during the Covid pandemic and putting ourselves in potentially unsafe situations. (22:52)Catharsis in acting out fears through sexual fantasies like rape scenes and consensual non-consent. (30:34)Would you rather use a double ended dildo or make a girl squirt?  Being surprised by a squirter. Glass vs silicone double ended dildos, and the first time orgasming with a double ended dildo - what position works best. (38:27)Double ended dildo vs. Feeldo. (42:50)Would you rather practice tantric sex or role play as submissive? Masturbating and focusing on the breath; breath orgasms without physical touch. (45:40)Workout orgasms and Elle’s experience orgasming with an ab roller. (48:02)Would you rather watch VR porn or be dominated to lose the right to orgasm? Orgasm denial, being a brat, and Reddit porn communities. (50:45)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com

Elle and Vee chat with Bridget Scholes (@bridgetscholessexology) who is a sexologist in Australia. She also owns her on dildo sex company, Madame Dahlia (@madame.dahlia).Being sexually attracted to others while married. (2:03)Healthy sex life in marriage and now divorced. (8:14)Using the lifestyle app Feeld to meet partners and always saying yes. (11:43)Sex club tips and lessons learned. (14:31)Going to sex clubs alone vs with a partner. (18:28)ENM nuggets: fostering communication, honesty and self reflection. (23:35)If a previously discussed boundary feels right in the moment, should you push it? (26:40)Common issues brought up in couples relationship therapy: reigniting desire in a longterm relationship, and the misconception of mismatched libidos. (28:13)How do partners with mismatched libidos navigate a conversation to get on the same page? (31:29)Pleasure languages, spontaneous vs responsive desire... or in other words, an Ellle vs a Vee. (34:07)Books that have helped on a personal sexual level and journey into non monogamy: Polysecure, Come As You Are, Mating in Captivity and other self help books. (36:46)Seducing yourself: Madame Dahlia dildo company, connected pleasure vs vibrator play. (40:45)Ebbs and flows of sex and how to get out of your head. (45:04)How to foster desire: sensual and simple pleasures. (48:58)Using social media to look at erotic art. (53:50)How male orgasms differ physiologically from female orgasms. (57:12)Kink: turned on by pee play / piss play. (59:49)Letting go of the messiness of sex, and dissociation from masturbation. (1:02:18)Website: bridgetscholessexology.com.auWhere to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com

In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Lola Jean (@lolajeandotcom) about her work as a sex educator.  She's known for holding the World Record for Highest Volume Squirted, but this conversation steers away from that (after first touching on why squirting can be annoying) and dives into her work as a fetish wrestler (aka "play fighting" using jiu jitsu moves). No frills sex education: what does that mean? Working the social media algorithm as a sex educator. All the courses Lola Jean has on her website from choking to masturbation to play fighting, and more. (1:18)How did Lola Jean get to where she is as a sex educator, squirting icon and fetish wrestler? (6:58)ENM (Ethical Non Monogamy): differentiating non-monogamy, just “being single”, and situationships. Figuring out what you want by dating all types of couples and relationship dynamics. Sex and love addicts anonymous (SLAA). Attachment styles. (9:27)Squirting: how does it feel to be known as a squirter? Fetishizing and red flags.  What should we know about squirting? When trying to do it, figure out WHY you’re trying to do it. Who is it for? (17:30)Broad vs specific response squirting. (22:04)Why squirting actually sucks. (25:24)Fetish Wrestling: Different types of choking (Fantasy Choke, Blood Choke, Air Choke). (29:51)What does a fetish wrestling session look like? Power dynamics? Vetting process? Types of fetish wrestling sessions: fantasy, semi-competitive, full competitive, lift and carry.  (35:53)What is the psychology behind fetish wrestling? What's in it for both the provider and the client? (41:56)Sex workers' self care after sessions. (44:30)Where to find Lola Jean:Website: lolajean.comSeven Days of DominationWhere to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com