
Girls Gone Deep
Two sex-positive ladies in the ethically non-monogamous lifestyle chatting about how we use dating and sex as a space for personal development and growth, and creating the most joyous life possible. A podcast for the open-minded, curious and naughty. @girlsgonedeeppod www.girlsgonedeep.com
Latest episodes

Sep 12, 2024 • 56min
088: Inside the Mind of a Submissive: A Deep Dive into Dom/Sub Dynamics, Intimate Breakdown of BDSM Scenes and Punishments Feat. Summer
In this conversation, Elle and Vee chat with Summer (FetLife: DaddysPrettyToy ) about her journey through a BDSM Dom/Sub relationship. She shares her experiences as a trained submissive, highlighting the positive aspects of her BDSM journey and the transformative power of a healthy Dom/Sub dynamic. Listen in for a detailed play-by-play of her scenes, insights into her daily tasks, and the reasons and methods behind her punishments.How Fifty Shades of Grey and Playful Wrestling with Her Boyfriend Inspired Summer to Explore BDSM: She discusses how she found her first Dom and what motivated her to get into this lifestyle. (1:04)Her First Dom/Sub Relationship: The Agreement and Lessons Beyond. (8:40) A Day in the Life of a D/s Relationship: Sessions and Communication: Details of a typical day in her Dom/Sub relationship, including the dynamics of their sessions and the importance of clear communication. (11:43)A Day in the Life of a Trained Sub: 8-10 Hour Sessions and Rules (13:12) A Sexy Wax Play Scene: Building Trust, Aftercare, and Debriefing: Summer describes a wax play scene, the questions that were asked to build trust, why the scene was suddenly stopped, and the aftercare and debriefing discussion. (15:52)Characteristics of a Good Dom and How It Can Be a Gift to a Sub. (19:09)The Misuse of the Term 'Dom'. (20:17)Shibari Rope Scene Play by Play: Summer compares the differences between her two Doms, the sexual skills she learned, and details a scene involving being frog-tied with shibari rope and using a TENS unit. (22:49)Being a Good Dom Means being a Good Sub: Summer explains where her two dominants learned their skills. Exploring how BDSM practices push personal limits and how these experiences can translate into real-world scenarios. (31:00) Punishments as a Sub: What Happens When You’re a Brat; A look at the various types of punishments a submissive might encounter, whether they enjoy them or not, and what happened when Summer was a "brat." (35:53)People-Pleasing, Struggling to Say No, and Asking for Permission to See Other Men (40:21)Ending a Sub/Dom Relationship for a Vanilla Relationship (44:20) Finding the Right Dom for You: A play-by-play of how Summer met her Dom on FetLife, along with tips and questions you can use to find the right Dom for yourself. (46:20) Insights into how her Dom helped with her personal wellness and growth. (49:15)Reflecting on whether it's possible for Summer to pursue a monogamous relationship after such deep and intimate Dom/Sub experiences. (51:00)Be intentional with your desires and sexual awakening. Tips to Be Safe when exploring BDSM. (54:00)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Sep 5, 2024 • 1h 11min
087: Orgasmic States: Full Body Orgasms, Becoming Orgasmic, and Energetic Release through Tantra with Intimacy Coach Magda Kay
In this episode, Elle and Vee dive deep with School of Intimacy founder, intimacy coach, and author of No More Faking It, Magda Kay. This episode is FULL of "nuggets", touching on everything from tantra to energy centers to how to up the intimacy in your relationship to why it might be better to practice tantra with someone other than your primary partner. You don't want to miss this one!Why tantra and intimacy coaching?Becoming orgasmic: orgasming with yourself and unlocking the ability to orgasm with others.The pussy as an energy hub: taking on sexual partners’ trauma. What is a full body orgasm, and how do we know if we’ve had one?Orgasmic states and self mastery through tantra.Releasing through tantric sex, and who should you practice with? Crying during sex, and holding space for your partner’s release.How to find the right practitioner for a yoni or lingum massage. Listener Question: “How can I get my wife’s spark back in the bedroom?” Listener Question: “What’s a quick guide on tantric breathing?”Intimacy Block: The ability to let go with people you don’t know or care about as much. Looking at sex as something more than just the physical experience. School of Intimacy: providing the foundation for better sex, relationship and tantric education.Can you practice tantra with the same sex, when traditionally it's all about the yin and yang of the masculine and feminine energies? Find Magda: Website: www.magdakay.comInstagram: @magdakayofficialYoutube: @magdakayWhere to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Aug 29, 2024 • 50min
086: “House Of Love” Sex Party Takeaways: Tips to Get Horny and Hard, Cream Pies, and How To Feel Confident in Your Post-Baby Body ... PLUS the Best Books for Dealing with Jealousy!
In this episode, Elle and Vee catch up and discuss their takeaways from two sex party events their friend group (the Joy Fam) threw, including recapping sexy stories, "a-ha" moments and reflections. Implementing Lessons Learned: change your environment and have vacation sex! (0:33)House of Love club night takeaways: Vee’s birthday celebration, and Elle’s first big night out since having a baby! Getting over new mom nervousness with costumes: How themes get you into the sexy mood - especially animal theme :) (3:56)How to feel confident while carrying baby weight: MILK PLAY! Break the touch barrier by using breast milk play as an ice breaker? (5:56)Sexy Story with The Greek: what makes a good single male in the lifestyle? Wolf energy. (11:11)Feeling overwhelmed at a sex party when you’re the guest of honor, taking a backseat but staying involved. (18:27)Joyunion: sex friends getting together with babies - it’s different but the same! (20:46)TIP: how to get sexual if you’re not sure if you’re horny. Getting turned on by hearing another woman orgasming. (23:27)Sexy story: Pushing past your own limits. Elle orgasms twice when she thinks she can only do it once. (27:13)CREAM PIE STORY: Trying to do TVP (triple vaginal penetration), DVP (double vaginal penetration) and cream pies. (29:33)TIP: take 5 minutes away from the overstimulation of the party to let your body relax and your dick to get hard. (31:46)TAKEAWAY: The problem with peeing in the middle of the orgy. (34:26)TAKEAWAY: The best orgy snack, and issues with dry mouth. (37:00)Being a mom in an orgy and getting distracted during play. How to re-center yourself and focus on your body and sensations. (39:36)Listener question: Our book recommendations for jealousy! (43:34)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Aug 22, 2024 • 40min
085: Getting Weird with Your Slutty Friends: “Baptism by Pee”, Putting Objects in Your Vagina, Sexual Alter Egos, All-Girl Play (FFF Threesomes and more), and Comparing The Best Strap-ons
In this episode, the girls chat with Mommy (Episode 018: Female Friendships in ENM) and play WHOREible Life, their favorite game to break down barriers and get naughty AND deep! They touch on everything from being called Mommy during sex, to stretching fetishes and putting food in vaginas, to bisexuality and all-female orgies!Growth: seizing the moment rather than getting in your head and not taking advantage of sexy opportunities. (1:59)-Would you rather role play as a teacher or be called mommy during sex? (7:52)-Would you rather have peanut butter licked off your genitals or be peed on? (12:35)Whats Up Down There? The weird things people put in their vaginas, and what’s the weirdest thing you’ve had in your vagina or put into a vagina? (14:51)Pee Play: Peeing on people, first Tinder dates with pee fetishists, Baptism by pee. When you’re new to the lifestyle and go on a date with someone who’s super kinky. (19:15)Watersports and Vee pushing her boundaries by sitting in pee in bathtubs and in resort pools. (22:50)-Would you rather have a same sex threesome or give another bruises from impact play? (26:08)All girl play and bisexuality on a spectrum. Sometimes you crave female energy, and sometimes you crave a dick! (30:00)Comparing Elle and Mommy’s favorite strap ons: Oxyd Creations and Strap-On-Me. (34:09)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Aug 15, 2024 • 54min
084: Solo Travel and Vacation Horniness: Hot Hookups, Nipple and Anal Play, and “Selling Someone” on Open Relationships and Sex Toys … PLUS Listener Questions: Sex Party Newbies and Men’s Body Hair
In this episode, Vee and Elle catch up on Vee’s solo trip to Thailand and Vietnam. Vee has some major sexual takeaways and "aha moments" going on vacation with no sex in sight... until the last day of her trip when she met Mr. Bangkok. Hear her play by play and so much more, including:Solo Travel: not knowing when you’re going to have sex next, and where are all the sex clubs in Thailand?! (1:57)Hot Hookup: Vee has a sexy one night stand in Bangkok after 8 hours of foreplay in the back of a bus! The sexiness of meeting in a non-sexual environment. (6:54)NIPPLE PLAY: Vee almost has a nipple orgasm. Techniques of nipple play. The beauty of having an experience with someone who can’t get enough of you no matter what you look or smell like. (15:35)ANAL PLAY: enthusiasm and ravenousness. (23:38)Hooking up with Monogamous, Macho Men: how to approach the “open relationship” conversation with a vanilla hookup. Unlearning ingrained societal norms. Toys in the bedroom. (26:01)Relaxation plus vacation equals maximum horniness! (30:49)Listener Questions, Answered!How to Find Your Lifestyle Community (especially when you live in less progressive areas): Kasidie, Feeld, SDC, SLS, Fetlife, hotel takeovers, Luxx Parties, etc. and the benefits of each option. (33:44)Dipping Your Toes Into Sex Parties and Kink for the First Time: go to meetups and mixers rather than the full blown sex parties. Go early to sex parties for the ice breaker games and making connections while it’s less crowded! (42:12)Men’s Body Hair: what’s popular these days, and what’s appropriate? If you take nothing else away from this: Shave your balls and asshole. (48:58)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Aug 8, 2024 • 41min
083: Dildos and Fleshlights, Pregnant Sex Positions, First Times, and Formative Sexual Experiences feat. Brandi
In this episode, the girls bring back Brandi from Episode 047: Fulfilling Fantasies: Exploring Kinks and BDSM, the DC Fetish Ball, Sex Therapy and Hiring a Pro Dominatrix. Together they play WHOREible Life by trying to guess whether or not each player has done the act mentioned on the card. This conversation perfectly displays how WHOREible Life the game facilitates a little bit of the naughty chat with a little bit of the DEEP!Sex Positions While Pregnant: which positions create a boy and which create a girl, and why laying on your back doesn’t work while pregnant. (2:15)Card 1: Had sex before the age of 15? First time stories. (9:41)What is considered “full on sex” or “fourth base” with a female? (15:29)Formative sexual oral experiences as precursors to the lifestyle. (18:07)Card 2: Used a fleshlight. What is a fleshlight? Other toy options for penis owners. (23:01)Card 3: Own 3 or more dildos. Sex toy closets and favorite sex toys. (30:41)Dildos vs. vibrators, and when and why would you use each? Frozen glass dildo to relieve pussy pain. (33:57)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Aug 1, 2024 • 59min
082: Sex Party Etiquette and Tips from Experienced Sluts: Avoiding Common Assumptions, Establishing Connections, and Being Sexually Forward feat. Jess
There are plenty of podcasts that talk about do’s and dont’s at a sex parties. This episode goes deeper.The girls share their "aha" moments, discuss common mistakes made by veterans in the lifestyle, and storytell through it all with real-life examples.Joining Elle and Vee chat in this discussion is returning guest Jess from Episode 58: “Help! My Ass Swallowed my Butt Plug!”, Golden Shower Pee Play, Fisting, and Staying Focused in Group Play and Episode 37: Edging: The Advantages of Withholding Orgasm, Electro Play and SpankingEpisode BreakdownIntro and The Need for this Discussion from the More Experienced Perspective on Sex Parties. (00:35)DON’T yuck someone else's yum. Be open minded for to other’s desires and kinks. "What about that turns you on?" (04:51)Tips for Making More Connections at Parties. (09:33)DO Attend Sex Parties with other friends: How many is too many? What’s the right amount of people to ensure fun while still branching away to meet new people? (11:01)DON’T Set Expectations, rather, DO Set Personal Goals. (13:44)DO Create an Immersive Environment by Putting in Effort in Dressing Up for the Theme. (16:31)DO Be Sexually Forward with Clear Communication and Honesty (20:08)DON’T Take Anything Personally, and how not to lead People On. (26:45)DO Ask “What Are Your Intentions For The Night?” To Uncover Compatibility. (30:43)DON’T Assume It’s Free for All: Interactions Between Other People Does Not Mean It Also Applies To You. (32:24)DO Use Your Words and Tell Others When You Feel Uncomfortable, otherwise, you’re a part of the problem. (37:52)DO Read the Room for Energy and Vibe, DON’T Talk During the Orgy. (43:32)DO Pack Your Slutbag, Organization Tips, Bringing Your Own Sex Toys, Toy Condoms. (46:42)DON’T get too fucked up: Substances and Moderation. (48:54)DON’T STINK! Preparation and Hygiene. (52:45)DO Flirt Early, Arrive Early. (55:59)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Jul 25, 2024 • 1h 11min
081: Maintaining a Long-Distance Relationship, Creating a Sexy Environment in Temporary Spaces, and How to Pick Up a Vanilla Feat. Lolo and B
In this conversation, Elle and Vee chat with couple B and Lolo to discuss their long-distance relationship and how they practice non monogamy. They share how they navigate being apart and how they keep their relationship hot and exciting. The conversation touches on topics such as playing separately, sharing sexy content, phone and video sex, the importance of creating the right atmosphere for sexual experiences, and their successful approach to meeting new people and introducing 'vanillas' into the lifestyle._________________________ Episode Breakdown:Maintaining a Long-Distance Relationship requires effort and communication, and the story of how Lolo and B met. (01:27)How they explored the non monogamous lifestyle together, B had no experience and Lolo tried with her ex-husband. (7:19)How they practice non monogamy in their long distance relationship. (15:17)How to keep it hot while being long distance: sexy content and FaceTime sex. (18:20)Orgasms: Frustration losing an orgasm, breathing through the orgasms or holding your breath. (22:10)Creating a sexy environment in temporary spaces like hotels or airbnbs: the role of low lighting and color temperature with amber-hued incandescent light bulbs, led light strips. (28:40)Preventing messes with waterproof fitted sheets, furniture placement and other essentials. (34:49)Music recommendations: Create a party-like atmosphere without being distracting is ideal for setting the mood. (38:53)Hedonism Jamaica Story Share: Naked, covered in squirt juice and room temperature to get naked plus how B and LoLo met Elle. (41:50)Enthusiastic consent and how it's importance in meeting new people, the power of open and honest communication. (46:48)Successful Sport Fishing: How they pick up 'Vanillas’ (non monogamous people) for threesomes or foursomes, while out at a bar. Creating a safe space for exploration. (51:56) Their foundation for a successful journey their relationship, through ENM, and being long distance: No Secrets, No Lies: Everything Else is a Conversation. (1:02:18)Navigating jealousy and conflict requires self-reflection, non reactivity in the moment and effective communication. (1:04:22)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Jul 18, 2024 • 45min
080: Face Riding, Face Slapping, Glass Dildo Tips, Giving Handjobs and Spicy Food Mishaps feat. Kate Maxx and Bridget Scholes
In today’s episode, Elle and Vee bring back two guests to play WHOREible Life (@wlthegame), the game of have you ever all things sex and kink!The first guest is Kate Maxx from (from Episode 73: Owning and Loving What You Do with Kate Maxx featuring Humiliatrix Work, Stripping, and OnlyFans Content Creation Our second guest is Bridget Scholes (@bridgetscholessexology) from Episode 75: Sexologist Bridget Scholes on Connected Pleasure, Mismatched Libidos, Spontaneous vs Responsive Desire, and Piss PlayBridget is a sexologist in Australia. She also owns her on dildo sex company, Madame Dahlia (@madame.dahlia) and host of Sexploration with Bridget Scholes Podcast.With both guests, we play the game WHOREible Life by choosing two cards and asking which Would you rather….This conversation perfectly displays how WHOREible Life the game facilitates a little bit of the naughty chat with a little bit of the DEEP!WL cards: Would you rather orgasm from spanking or other impact play or make someone squirt (1:11)WL cards: Would you rather roleplay as puppy or cat OR be bound and restricted as a rope bunny (5:11)Underwater shibari with Markus Leather (5:55) WL cards: Wear a spreader bar OR have someone ride your face (11:06)Ways to insert yourself into an orgy (14:32)All girl orgy, how female play changes when men are not watching, the skirt club a space for bi-curious and bisexual women (16:38)WL cards: Practice tantric sex OR receive foot worship, foot licking or toe sucking (21:50)Tantric sex and how to do energetic breathing alone or with your partner to increase sexual energy (23:05)WL cards: be fucked by someone else with a strap on OR slap someone in the face with an open hand (27:41)Using glass dildos from temperature to the pressure and hardness to massaging to penetration (32:20)WL cards: Have sex on a beach or post a personal porn video for public viewing (35:21)Giving handjobs (37:10)Sex on a beach (39:56)Chili, pepper spray and jalapeños sex mishaps (42:12)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Jul 11, 2024 • 1h
079: Working Through Personal Challenges in ENM: Ebbs and Flows in Libido, Breakups and Changing Dynamics in Your Polycule, and Oversaturation
Vee shares challenges in ENM: demisexuality and stress affecting sex life. Sex party takeaways: communication, orgasms, leaving fulfilled. Balancing desires as a couple at events. Rooftop sex story and exploring attraction. Numbness from oversaturation at sex parties.