Girls Gone Deep

How can ropes and shibari be used in different ways? At play parties to understand a new partner quickly, as a mode for a transformational or transcendental experience, as a method for submission or dominance... In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Rina Trevi about her journey from dominatrix to tantrika and vulnerability coach, the spiritual side of shibari, and how rope play at parties can be a path to pleasure, presence, and a whole lot of surrender.From dominatrix to tantrika: What pulled Rina into the world of tantra/ropes/embodiment? (2:36)First experience submitting to ropes … in a five hour session! (5:23)Ropes as a transcendent experience. Shibari = Ayuhasca? Ropes as a medium to access higher levels of consciousness. (9:42)Ropes at a play party: Setting an intention to play with ropes for fun at a play party. (13:17)Ropes during sex. (18:48)Training in ropes. How important is it to be trained vs just knowing attunement and body manipulation? (27:39)How to stay present and attuned. Breath, sound and non-verbal communication. (33:21)How to hold space for the rope bottom to feel what comes up, and read body language. (36:03)Bringing elements into rope: earth, air, fire, water. (39:50)Surrender vs submission. (51:17)Intimately Tied and Yoni Massage - Rina’s current passions and upcoming offerings! (56:59)Transformational shibari experience. (1:02:18)LINKS: Website: www.vulnerabilitycoaching.comInstagram: @rina_treviRopes: www.intimatelytied.comWhere to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Elle and Vee recap their weekend at a mansion airbnb with 45 of their friends, celebrating several birthdays and a bachelor bachelorette!Gemini Bach Bash (00:00)Theme nights (04:54)Seal team slut olympics (06:32)Intentions and elle’s announcement! (19:12)Thursday Night Highlights (28:01)Before Kiss Someone New, Do You Get Consent From Their Partner? (32:37)Sensual Loving and Sweaty Sex   (35:02)Cumming at Play Parties: Priority or not?  (39:22)Homemade Porn Compilation Videos  (41:19)MFM (42:53)MMFF: Navigating Agreements with New Couple Using Fears, Desire and Boundaries (47:20)One Dom Two Subs: Getting Permission to Cum and Dealing with Denial, Bondage, Riding Crop to the Pussy (55:29)Testing Pain Threshold With Claws and Clips and Aftercare (01:03:24)Blow Job Train (01:08:17)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Olivia Dydyna about her journey from being inorgasmic to fully awakened through sound, breath, and deep self-connection. The girls explore Soulgasm, light language, sounding for pleasure, and how to unlock turn-on even when trauma lives in the body. If you've ever wondered what it means to center yourself, speak your truth, and experience desire beyond outcome—this one’s for you.Olivia’s Story: From inorgasmic to orgasmic. (2:10)How do we achieve ultimate turn on? Mentally, physically, emotionally. (5:16)Breath work to get turned on. (8:15)Soulgasm: liberating the energy in your body to have a breakthrough. “What do you desire?” (9:09)Holding Space and Letting Answers Reveal Themselves: Leaving space for what comes up when there’s no response. (14:06)How to get turned on when our body holds traumatic wounds? (18:05)Sounding: Alternative ways to get turned on. (19:36)Authentic sounds we make when we have sex. (23:05)How to unlock the voice when you’re shy or blocked vocally. (25:38)Light Language: a language of the soul speaking directly to the genitals. (29:06)IRL examples. Developing a relationship to your cervix. Humming. (34:01)Surprising or beautiful experience. (38:08)Sounding for men. (41:18)Decentering the outcome of orgasm and finding the “one”. (44:59)Decentering men: what does life look like when we center ourselves? Balancing autonomy and togetherness. (49:03)Work with Olivia! (51:42)Links:Olivia's website: Besexessful.comWhere to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

In this episode, Vee and Elle dive into their recent experiences in ENM, sharing naughty stories, recent personal growths and lesson learned. Jewelry Mishaps and Lingerie Inconveniences During Sex.  (00:00)Top Floor Play Party Intentions: New Play Partner, New Location, Plus Pushing Exhibitionist Boundaries. (5:48)The Art of the Stacking: Creative Sexual Positions with 4 people (Porn Star Wolf Hudson Inspired). (18:49)Soft Cock: Thank you!  (21:41)Advantages of Smaller Dicks: Listener Question Answered. (23:50)FOMO Trigger: Partner Staying Out Later Than You.  (33:51)Metamour Challenge.  (40:53)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

For all our sapiosexuals out there, get ready for this panty-dropper!  Elle and Vee chat with comedian and podcast host Kaytlin Bailey and "erotic initiatrix" Priestess Francesca about the history of International Whores Day, sex workers' rights, and our internalized prejudices. What is International Whores Day? (3:58)Decriminalizing vs Legalizing. (9:12)Spirituality and Religion intersecting with sex work. (12:13)Controlling sex workers is a feminist issue. (17:41)Internalized whorephobia in sex positive spaces. (20:23)Ethical non monogamy (ENM) and sex work. (29:39)What does the future of sex work look like and how can we be better allies? (38:47)Vee’s experience hiring a dominatrix with her ex, and how couples can utilize sex workers as educators. (47:25)Kaytlin Bailey Links:-Founder & Executive Director at Old Pros, a nonprofit that uses storytelling to advocate for s * x worker rights. Follow @oldprosonline — Email Newsletter | Instagram  The Oldest Profession Podcast Wh*re's Eye View one woman showPriestess Francesca Links:WebsiteInstagramFree Masterclass!Sources:International Whores' Day: You can listen to the whole history of International Whores' Day on this episode of The Oldest Profession Podcast hosted by Kaytlin Bailey and Ceyenne Doroshow and this article in the Daily BeastSESTA/FOSTA: "SESTA/FOSTA refers to a set of laws passed under the Trump administration: The Stop Enabling Sex Traffickers Act (SESTA) and the Fight Online Sex Trafficking Act (FOSTA). ...Rather than preventing the online exploitation of trafficked persons, these laws have hurt the people they intended to help, pushing sex workers and trafficking victims into more dangerous and exploitative situations." More information on the impacts of SESTA/FOSTA can be found at Decriminalize Sex WorkGlobal Network of Sex Work ProjectsWhere to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

This week, Elle and Vee dive deep into all things masturbation—from silent solo play to sex toy confessions, and the rituals we don’t talk about (but definitely should).What comes to mind when you think of masturbation? (04:42)Masturbating rather than playing in a couple. (06:10)Sexual empowerment through masturbation and sexting. (10:40)Cock stroking. (14:15)Does solo play take away from partner play? (14:58)Shame and a link to Kellogg's cereal. (17:32)How often do you masturbate, what do you use, and how long do you masturbate? (21:11)Making noise while touching yourself. (25:16)Does masturbation compete with intimacy in a couple? (28:33)Formative Experiences: Silent solo play, Elle’s early explorations, first orgasms and toys. (32:36)Wierd vocalization and sounds: have you were whimpered or cried during solo play? (38.28) Self pleasure ritual, and toys for G-spot orgasm and self prostate play. (40:37)Do you have better orgasms solo or with your partner? (44:18) Porn and Masturbation. (46:15)Self Touch Practice. (48:39)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

This week, Vee and Elle delve into their experiences with vulnerability, impact play, and the emotional complexities that arise during kinky encounters. From flogging techniques, to primal play, to collecting cum, squirt juice, a spit chalice, and even scat play, the girls don’t hold back, in their signature style. Crygasm, Vulnerability and Emotional Releases in Spanking Session (00:00)Flogging, Whipping, and Spanking Techniques (6:16Tantric Intimacy Social and Trance-like Spanking (15:41)Mindful and Intentional Scenes and Connections (22:35)Primal Play Fantasy Exploration  (25:21)Ecstatic dance and High Off My Own Supply (31:41)Fisting Experiences, Receiving and Giving   (35:59)Collecting Cum in a Jar to Collecting Squirt Juice in a Bowl (44:39)Spit Fetish and Collecting Spit Chalice (52:37)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Priestess Francesca about kink, piss, and the juicy world of dark desires. Bring your curiosity and leave your shame at the door.What is Dark Erotiscm? (3:04)Shadow Work: “fill the hole where shame used to be with love and acceptance.” (10:09)Taboo Kinks: Why are we afraid of our kinks and how can we approach them? (13:57)How can you start exploring your dark erotic desires? What to check for before you begin on your kink journey. (17:58)Where do turn-ons come from? The psychology behind why we desire what we do. The eroticsm of our traumatic experiences: recreate or obliterate. (23:40)Vee’s first erotic piss play scene! (28:55)Unpacking Pee Play: How do you find where the pleasure lies? (34:52)Solo Piss Play: drinking your own golden nectar. (39:49)How to spin toilet play differently depending on the energy of the scene (worship, degradation, objectification). (40:56)Psychology behind degradation play, and the power behind Priestess Francesca’s Scat Play Scene. (43:09)Discomfort is not always productive: growth vs guardianship of yourself. (48:26)Freak School. (55:09)Erotic Alchemy. (56:34)Priestess Francesca Links:WebsiteInstagramFree Masterclass!Source Information: Homosexuality in the DSM: While homosexuality was formally removed from the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual (DSM) of Mental Disorders in 1973, it wasn't until DSM-5 (which mobilized it's task force of 13 work groups in 2007 to focus on various disorder areas) that all diagnostic categories pertaining to sexual orientation were removed.  Many scholars and advocacy groups believe that only this can be considered "complete declassification" of non-heterosexual sexual orientations as mental disorders.BDSM in the DSM: Thanks to tremendous efforts by the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (NCSF) the American Psychiatric Association (APA) announced in 2010 that it would be changing the diagnostic codes for BDSM in the next edition of the DSM (formally published in 2013 and integrated into practice in the years that followed). Trans Porn Statistical Analysis by State (USA): In 2022, Lawsuit.org issued statistical analysis to understand the love for transgender related porn by scraping daily Google search trend data, segmenting by DMA (metro area), and comparing search volume to both 2020 election voting trends, and public opinions about LGBT rights. "The data tells a tragic tale of self-loathing closet cases, Republicans who privately get off sexually to trans folks, while publicly trying to remove trans peoples’ rights and stoking hate against them." You can dig into their data analWhere to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

This week, Elle and Vee chat with Athena, Vee's metamour and wingwoman in NYC. In this candid chat, the girls hear the details of Athena's first gang bang, chat about how to make your fantasies a reality, being a single woman in the lifestyle, and so much more!  Exploring the Abyss of Porn Together (00:00) Introducing Athena: From Fainting to Best Friends (2:19)Embracing Your Inner Slut: Athena's Story (5:23)Visual Vs. Spontaneous Fantasy & Planning a Fantasy Hangups (10:45)Planning the Unplanned: Details of the Hooded, Tied Gang bang (18:05)—How Sensory Deprivation Helped Self-Image and Pleasure —The Dynamics of Trust and Safety Why a Gang bang?  Exploring Validation and Attention (33:28)The Complexity of Fantasy Staying in the Mind vs. Making it Reality (38:56)Fuck Around and Find Out: Surrendering to Experience (44:42)Play Party Expectations And Pre Party Text (48:23)Introspection Using Fears, Desires and Boundaries (50:54)Creativity and Playfulness in the Lifestyle (55:28)Creating Security in Unconventional Relationships (58:39)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

In this episode, Elle and Vee go deep with Adam Darrow, the author of Seek the Risk: One Man's Journey Into Non-Monogamy. Described as a "firsthand recounting of a wide-open relationship, told with unflinching candor from the male perspective", Elle and Vee were struck by the relatability of Adam's ENM story in Seek the Risk, from the overthinking and jealousy to the adventurous sex and deep connection in his relationship. His firsthand account of how he worked through the challenging emotional moments of his relationship with "the wrong girl" is FULL of nuggets, many of which are mentioned in this deep, candid, vulnerable conversation.  Grab a pen and dig in :) What does Seek the Risk mean? "Experience hunting" rather than "trophy bagging". (2:52)Applying the Seek the Risk philosophy to CNM (consensual non monogamy). (6:49)Misalignment and shame: when one partner is the one who is pushing, and one is being pushed. Being mindful and careful about not shaming the “slower” partner. (9:23)The treasure you seek: when do you know it’s growth vs. self-flagellation? (15:13)Tool #1: Creating a container to hear stories about your partner’s sexual activities so you aren’t blindsided by them. Asking for consent to share information. (18:30)Tool #2: Check-ins/debriefs. (23:37)Being triggered at a sex party and how to work through it. (25:36)Tool #3: “Take the cigarette break.” aka Not reacting in the moment. Notice your own growth! (31:22)Tool #4: Self-hypnosis aka “magical reframing”. (36:01)Tool #5: “Exist in the grey.” Don’t act on emotions when spiraling out: sit with uncomfortable feelings. “Negative outcome fantasy.” (38:50)Imposter syndrome: how our childhood traumas show up in our adult relationships. (43:37)IFS: internal family systems and Aspecting (from ISTA). (49:52)Masculinity: Societal hypocrisies and submissive associations with pegging and anal play. (52:58)Final Nugget! (1:00:34)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.