

Girls Gone Deep
Elle and Vee
Two sex-positive ladies in the ethically non-monogamous lifestyle chatting about how we use dating and sex as a space for personal development and growth, and creating the most joyous life possible. A podcast for the open-minded, curious and naughty. @girlsgonedeeppod www.girlsgonedeep.com
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Dec 18, 2025 • 52min
151: When Pleasure Gets Weird (and Hot): Knife Play, Cervical Orgasms, Cock Warming and Pain/Pleasure Cycling
This week Elle and Vee discuss all the ways they've been exploring pleasure recently: including BDSM scenes with vibrators, flogging and five orgasms, achieving sub space, mushroom-fueled connection, cervical orgasms while pregnant, knife play, cock warming, and that very specific moment when you yawn on a dick and keep going anyway. Halloween Night BDSM Scene Gone Wrong: Vee and Mister A are stranded in a spooky AirBnB. (1:37)Pain/Pleasure Cycling: Vee has five orgasms during a BDSM scene with Mister A. (4:32)Sub Space: Vee finds surrender when she wears her collar. The difference between letting go and being objectified. (12:00) Psylocybin Sex: connective sex. (17:08)Cervical Orgasms and Third Trimester Sex: Elle stimulates her cervix, gets juicy and talks about which positions she can and can’t do while she’s super pregnant. (18:44)Hotel Ambience Hacks: How to set the mood and get the right mood lighting in your hotel room. (26:32)Knife Play Bondage Scene: Mister A uses bondage tape, a knife and a wand on Vee. The surprising upside to having an STI. (28:50)Knife Play with Strangers at the Nude Beach: Elle talks about the time she let a guy on a nude beach pretend to shave her pussy with a knife. (38:32) Cock Warming: WTF is cock warming? What’s the point? (42:53)Gentle Face Fucking and Yawning During Blow Jobs: a gentler version of face fucking, and yawning due to air hunger during head. (45:22)Where to Find Us & How to Support the Show: 💋Linktree: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonedeep 🎧 Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod 🛍️ Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop — wear your kinks proudly. 🍑 Woo More Play: Shop with our affiliate link — support the pod while you stock up on your favorite pleasure essentials. 🔮 WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your game deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com IG: @wlthegame 🔥 Naughty Disco’s Sexy NYC Dance Party: code GONEDEEP69 for 15% off any event ticket IG: @naughtydisco 💌 Contact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Dec 11, 2025 • 46min
150: Guys Gone Deep: Sex Party Wisdom, Sobriety and Being a Dad in the Scene with Magnum of Naughty Disco
Join Magnum, the Creator of Naughty Disco and a parent in the sex-positive community, as he dives into the spicy world of non-monogamy. He shares how he started his vibrant dance parties while navigating relationships and parenting. Learn about essential sex party etiquette, how to connect authentically without being creepy, and what both men and women should know about each other. Magnum also discusses being sober in the lifestyle and finding a supportive community, all while keeping the vibe fun and inclusive!

Dec 4, 2025 • 58min
149: Shamelessly Sexy: Unattached Sex, Feeder Porn & Why Writing About Sex Makes You Better in Bed: Inside The Intimacy Journal with Tash Doherty
This week, Vee and Elle sit down with Tash Doherty — a British-Irish-American writer, creator of Misseducated (the blog and podcast helping the world become shamelessly sexy), and author of These Perfectly Careless Things, her spicy coming-of-age debut novel. She is a bold, candid, and deeply reflective sexuality writer who holds nothing back. We discuss Tash’s latest project, The Intimacy Journal, which invites readers into deeper erotic self-reflection through writing.They also wander into taboo territory like:vibrators in one-night standsthe shame around “needing” toysfatphobia, feeder porn, and being praised for the parts of you you’ve been taught to hatebeing “born-again monogamous” versus non-monogamous and craving freedomwhether shameless sexuality is about saying yes more, saying no more, or adding nuance instead of binary answersBy the end, this episode feels like a permission slip: to write about your sex life, to admit your kinks (even the ones you’d never act out), to take up space in your pleasure, and to use tools like The Intimacy Journal to get better at sex. ChaptersMeet Tash Doherty: From Rule-Following Schoolgirl To Shameless Sex Writer. (00:00)“Unattached Sex”. (5:15)What Does It Mean To You To Have Sex With One Person For The Rest Of Your Life? The Importance Of Having One Night Stands: The Human Desire Buffet And Freedom Vs. Restriction. (9:12)Why Journal? Does It Create A Better Sex Life? (18:11)Taking Up Space: Café Tables, Crosswalks & Orgasm Gaps Vs. Equality. (20:56)What Is Shamelessly Sexy? Is It Saying Yes More, No More Honestly… Or Something Else? Curiosity? Boundaries? (25:51)Toys In The Bedroom: Vibrators During One Night Stands or Fear of Toys? (33:39)First Time, Worst Time, Most Alive: Journaling Prompts IRL. (40:33)Feeder Porn / Weight Gain Kink, Fatphobia, Erotic Reclamation & Control. (59:55)__________ 🔥 Guest Info: Substack: Misseducated https://misseducated.substack.comWebsite: https://www.tashdoherty.com (Articles, book info, the Intimacy Journal updates) The Intimacy Journal A guided, sensual self-reflection journal blending poetry, erotic memory, desire-mapping, and introspective prompts to deepen your relationship with your sexuality. The journal also includes a QR code linking to a community space where readers can anonymously share their stories.__________🔥 Naughty Disco’s Sexy Holiday Dance Party —Dec 19th: Just Naughtycode GONEDEEP69 for 15% off any event ticket IG: Where to Find Us & How to Support the Show: 💋Linktree: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonedeep 🎧 Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod 🛍️ Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop — wear your kinks proudly. 🍑 Woo More Play: Shop with our affiliate link — support the pod while you stock up on your favorite pleasure essentials. 🔮 WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your game deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com IG: @wlthegame 🔥 Naughty Disco’s Sexy NYC Dance Party: code GONEDEEP69 for 15% off any event ticket IG: @naughtydisco 💌 Contact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Nov 27, 2025 • 1h 2min
148: Kinky Christmas Gift Guide: Our Favorite Toys on our Wishlist This HO-liday Season!
Have you been naughty or nice? Either way, Vee and Elle are serving up the ultimate sexy gift guide to help you heat up your season.We’re sharing the toys, experiences, and books we actually love… and several come with special discount codes just for GGD listeners. Happy HOlidays, naughty snowballs!Vee is bedridden from a sex injury, and Elle has pelvic girdle pain. Our fave toys - why are we doing this? (Answer: because we helpful, good girls :) (5:55)Best Couple Toy: Sex Swing. (7:36)Best G Spot Flapping Vibrator. (14:20)Best Vibrator: Hitachi Magic Wand. (16:14)Best G-Spot/P-Spot Stimulator: njoy. (18:55)*Sensory Play sexy eye mask: Purple PassionExperiental = Vee’s #1 combo gift: Rope and a workshop or BEDucated. (23:34)https://beducate.me/pd2548-gonedeep**use code GONEDEEP69 for 65% offBest for Witchy Sluts: Waands Crystal Pleasure Wands, Cervix Wands, yoni eggs, and butt plugs. (27:37)What’s the point of a yoni egg? (32:27)**use code GIRLSGONEDEEP for 15% offBest Personalized Experience: Hiring a professional: coaching, dominatrixes, yoni massage, shibari session… (34:32)-Priestess Francesca-Rina Trevi-Magda Kay-Leola Watkins-Briana Cribeyer-Work with Vee! (email or DM GGD)Best Ergonomic Sexual Experience: Sex Wedge Pillow. (37:43)Best For Easy Cleanup After Squirting: Waterproof Blanket. (39:50)Best Electroplay Experience: Violet Wand, mixed with conductive shibari rope. (40:37)Best Sexy Accessory: Nipple Clamps with chain. (41:37)Best Party Experience: Sex Parties! (42:45)Best At-Home Unique Experience: Love is Art Kit! (43:30) **use code GODEEPER for 10% offBest Icebreaker Game: WHOREible Life. (46:11)**use code GONEDEEP for 10% offBOOKS: (47:20)Unbound by Kasia UrbaniakPolywise by Jessica FernWhere to Find Us & How to Support the Show: 💋Linktree: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonedeep 🎧 Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod 🛍️ Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop — wear your kinks proudly. 🍑 Woo More Play: Shop with our affiliate link — support the pod while you stock up on your favorite pleasure essentials. 🔮 WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your game deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com IG: @wlthegame 🔥 Naughty Disco’s Sexy NYC Dance Party: code GONEDEEP69 for 15% off any event ticket IG: @naughtydisco 💌 Contact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Nov 20, 2025 • 53min
147: Our Most Unhinged Confessions: Rim Jobs, The Butt Plug Debate, Sex in Public & More feat. WHOREible Life Card Game
This week, Elle and Vee play time Fuck-Marry-Kill version of the card game WHOREible Life with Athena. This episode is pure chaotic pleasure — the kind where nostalgia, food, kink, and butt-stuff all swirl into one ridiculous open conversation. We go from childhood games to double-ended vegetables, from grooming disasters to pegging wins, from lingerie-in-public confessions to pee-play experimentation, from CNC fantasies to explicit photo close calls. Strap in (or strap on)… this one gets naughty.What is Whoreible Life? Playing the Fuck, Marry, Kill version. (00:00)Fuck, Marry, Kill: Rim Job, Being Whipped by a Single Tail Whip, Being One of the Dicks in a DVP (double vaginal penetration) (4:17)Giving Rim Jobs. (5:55)Laser Hair Removal Experiences. (7:06)Receiving Rim Jobs. (10:48)Butt Plugs: Public Play. (12:32)How long can you wear a butt plug? Metal vs. silicone butt plugs. (19:20)Pegging Train Fuck & Spit Roasting Challenges. (27:20)Dildo DP to Pee Play. (30:50)Naughty Photos. (34:18)Fuck. Marry. Kill: Fuck Yourself In The Ass, Consensual Non Consent (CNC) Rape Fantasy, Or Orgasm Denial. (38:37)Free Use Vs. CNC & CNC Scene Car Fucking Scene Described. (40:35)Sex in Public Spaces. (45:46)To Go Commando or Not. (47:54)Countdown to Orgasm. (52:10)____________________________🔥 Sponsor Love: Beducated 🔥 The Netflix of Sex Education. Get 65% off the yearly pass with code GONEDEEP69 — our biggest discount of the year!⚡ Sale ends Dec 3rd 💦 Risk-free with a 14-day money-back guarantee. 👉 Sign up at Beducated.comhttps://beducate.me/pd2547-gonedeep____________________________Where to Find Us & How to Support the Show: 💋Linktree: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonedeep 🎧 Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod 🛍️ Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop — wear your kinks proudly. 🍑 Woo More Play: Shop with our affiliate link — support the pod while you stock up on your favorite pleasure essentials. 🔮 WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your game deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com IG: @wlthegame 🔥 Naughty Disco’s Sexy NYC Dance Party: code GONEDEEP69 for 15% off any event ticket IG: @naughtydisco 💌 Contact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Nov 13, 2025 • 1h 11min
146: Anal Prep & Training: The Exact Cleansing Routine for Better Comfort, Pleasure & Confidence
This week, it’s Guys Gone Deep! Elle and Vee are joined by Ricky — their resident anal expert — for an honest, hilarious, and educational chat about what it really takes to feel comfortable exploring the backdoor.From understanding how to prepare your body, to learning the right tools, techniques, and hygiene tips, this episode dives into the practical side of exploration — and the mindset that makes it enjoyable. We cover topics like body awareness, relaxation, communication, common myths, and how to let go of shame or stereotypes around who “should” or “shouldn’t” enjoy this kind of play.Whether you’re curious, experienced, or somewhere in between, this conversation blends science, self-care, and a healthy dose of humor to help you approach new experiences with confidence and curiosity.Early anal exploration and learning to use lube. (2:27)Anal cleansing to prep for butt play. (8:35)Tools: bulbs or syringes? (13:22)Best positions to clean yourself. Hint: stay upright! (15:54)What NOT to do. (19:54)How to prevent farting or air bubbles. (23:43)Play with butt plugs and dildos. (25:37)Diet: what can I eat before anal? What foods to avoid before anal? (30:14)Internalized homophobia: overcoming the shame of thinking “butt stuff is gay”. (37:05)Training: warming yourself up and inserting your own toys. Using a tongue (rimjob) or fingers to warm up. (41:02)Anal training kits and the best way to train the sphincter. (48:20)Focusing on the receptors in your sphincter to relax your hole. (54:19)What's the best lube for anal play? (57:48)Poppers: what are they, the risks, and the benefits. (1:03:21)Drug-free relaxation tips. (1:06:30)________________________________________🔥 Sponsor Love: Beducated 🔥 The Netflix of Sex Education. Ready to upgrade your sex life?Get 65% off the yearly pass with code GONEDEEP69 — our biggest discount of the year!⚡ Sale ends Dec 3rd💦 Risk-free with a 14-day money-back guarantee.👉 Sign up at Beducated.comhttps://beducate.me/pd2546-gonedeep______________________Where to Find Us & How to Support the Show: 💋Linktree: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonedeep 🎧 Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod 🛍️ Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop — wear your kinks proudly. 🍑 Woo More Play: Shop with our affiliate link — support the pod while you stock up on your favorite pleasure essentials. 🔮 WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your game deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com IG: @wlthegame 🔥 Naughty Disco’s Sexy NYC Dance Party: code GONEDEEP69 for 15% off any event ticket IG: @naughtydisco 💌 Contact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Nov 6, 2025 • 1h 12min
145: From a 25-Year Sexless Marriage to Sex Goddess: Breaking the Rut with Dr. Alisa Kriegel
What happens when a psychologist in a 25-year sexless marriage decides she’s done living without desire?This week,Dr. Alisa Kriegel joins Elle and Vee to share her raw, transformative journey from disconnection to deep erotic empowerment — the story behind her upcoming memoir From Sexless Marriage to Sex Goddess.We talk about:How up to 40% of marriages are sexless — and why no one wants to admit itThe power of communication, curiosity, and skin-to-skin contact in rekindling intimacyThe truth about genital fit and why “one size fits all” is a mythThe healing that comes when you finally feel desired againUsing dating and non-monogamy as tools for self-discovery and growthWhy becoming a “sex goddess” is about owning your body, your boundaries, and your pleasureIf you’ve ever felt disconnected from your desire, trapped in routine, or unsure how to find your way back to pleasure — this episode will remind you that it’s never too late to reclaim your erotic energy.CHAPTERSIntroduction to Alisa Kriegel (00:00)Sexlessness in Relationships: How It’s defined (3:46)Prioritizing Intimacy (5:37)The Sexless Marriage (14:47)Self-Discovery through Online Dating and into Swinging (19:43)The Worst One Night Stand Experience (25:11)Below Average, Average and Slightly Above Average Cocks (27:30)What is Genital Fit? Kama Sutra (30:41)Understanding Body Changes and Sexuality (32:41)Sex First Mentality (36:40)What is a Sex Goddess (39:06)Dating to Learn Revelations Desire and the False Emotional Protection of Dating Men In Relationships (47:36)Men Love Pussy (56:20)Can Someone Else’s Orgasm Trigger Your Orgasm Without Any Manual Stimulation? (59:53)A List for a Relationship Blueprint: Manifesting Your Partner (01:03:32)The Problem with Traditional Dating (01:07:18)______________________🎙️ Guest InfoDr. Alisa Kriegel Psychologist • Author • Sex & Relationship Expert 📖 Book: From Sexless Marriage to Sex Goddess — available November 4, 2025 🎧 Podcast: Let’s Talk About Sex, Really 🌐 Website: alisakriegel.com 📸 Instagram: @alisakriegelauthor______________________🔥 Sponsor Love: Beducated 🔥 The Netflix of Sex Education. Ready to upgrade your sex life?Get 65% off the yearly pass with code GONEDEEP69 — our biggest discount of the year!Where to Find Us & How to Support the Show: 💋Linktree: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonedeep 🎧 Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod 🛍️ Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop — wear your kinks proudly. 🍑 Woo More Play: Shop with our affiliate link — support the pod while you stock up on your favorite pleasure essentials. 🔮 WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your game deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com IG: @wlthegame 🔥 Naughty Disco’s Sexy NYC Dance Party: code GONEDEEP69 for 15% off any event ticket IG: @naughtydisco 💌 Contact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Oct 30, 2025 • 48min
144: Rough Oral Sex: Face Fucking Tips for Topping, Bottoming, and Keeping it Safe
Dive into the world of face fucking, exploring the thrilling differences between fellatio and erumatio. Discover how consent, trust, and communication shape this intense experience. The hosts share practical tips for managing gag reflexes, finding the best positions, and using nonverbal cues to enhance safety and pleasure. Plus, they discuss the aesthetics of play and how smeared makeup can symbolize a wild encounter. Want to learn how to suggest face fucking to your partner? They've got you covered with expert advice and listener insights!

Oct 23, 2025 • 53min
143: Inside the Temple of Eden: All-Femme Play Parties and Sexuality Beyond the Male Gaze feat. Eden
This week, Vee and Elle chat with Eden, a tantra facilitator and intimacy coach, discussing the importance of creating safe spaces for women to explore their sexuality and intimacy without the male gaze. They talk what actually happens inside femme-only temples — no boys, no judgment, just sacred play, deep connection, and maybe a little glitter lube. They unpack queerness, non-monogamy, and the power of women’s spaces that feel safe and sexy. From overcoming mean-girl energy to feeling fully seen in our desires, this convo pulls back the curtain on tantra, sisterhood, and the kind of turn-on that heals. Introduction to Eden and Creating Safe Spaces for Women (00:00)Exploring Queerness and Its Pathway to Non-Monogamy (7:31)Monogamish & Territorial Feelings and Do You and Your Partner Share Separate Play Details (10:51)Elle’s Journey Into Queerness and All Femme Party Experiences (16:08)(The Role of Male Gaze When Women Are Playing And Who Initiates in all Femme Spaces (19:37)Painted Picture Being In The Temple of Eden (22:29)Ice Breaker Games and Relating Games (26:04)Is There A Space for Straight Women In All Women Spaces? (31:42)What’s the Difference between Temple Parties vs. Traditional Play Parties (35:20)Expanding Events DC and Philly (43:08)What if I am a Newvie or Inexperienced to Tantra, Can I Come to Temple of Eden? (46:01Practices To Do At Home To Feel Your Inner Goddess (50:27)Follow Along! EFT Tapping Glamour Magic Practice (52:03)—Follow her on Instagram embodiedwithedenEvents tantraphilly.comEdens WebsiteWhere to Find Us & How to Support the Show: 💋Linktree: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonedeep 🎧 Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod 🛍️ Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop — wear your kinks proudly. 🍑 Woo More Play: Shop with our affiliate link — support the pod while you stock up on your favorite pleasure essentials. 🔮 WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your game deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com IG: @wlthegame 🔥 Naughty Disco’s Sexy NYC Dance Party: code GONEDEEP69 for 15% off any event ticket IG: @naughtydisco 💌 Contact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Oct 16, 2025 • 60min
142: Collars, Limerence, and Cum Boundaries: What To Talk About Before Your First Play Party
This week, Vee and Elle unpack everything couples should talk about before stepping into a shared play space—from emotional boundaries to desires, jealousy, and how to reconnect afterward, using a conversation framework they learned on an ISTA retreat. From collars and rituals to new relationship energy (NRE), aka limerence, and the messy middle between fantasy and reality—Vee goes deep on her experience. Whether you're new to the lifestyle, playing with a new partner, or redefining your relationship agreements, this episode is packed with real talk, practical tools, and deeply personal moments.RDBSM (Relationship, Desires, Boundaries, Sexual Health, Meaning). (00:25)R: Relationship: Vee navigates a new Monogamish relationship with Mister A. Dom/sub dynamics and wearing collars to denote ownership and ritual. (6:13)Conscious Relating: redefining your relationships as they fit into your life. (7:26)D: Desires: playing together with another couple or a female unicorn. (13:31)B: Boundaries: the idea of men’s cum as ownership leading to wanting to be there for your partner’s orgasm. (13:57)NRE (New Relationship Energy) vs Love: WTF is limerence? And how do you know when it’s evolved from new relationship energy to actual true romantic love? Instability vs stability. (17:14)Boundaries contd: Not playing separately, keeping play and connection in the container of the scene or the play party, and then “keep it in the group text”. Locking in and taking the performative aspect out of exhibitionism. (20:37)M: Meaning: creating a container to explore safely within the time boundaries of the party. (26:30)Traffic Light System: What to do in the moment if you’re feeling activated or jealous? Borrowing from BDSM scenes to have a safe word or traffic light system in more traditional scenes. (29:15)A: Aftercare: going home together, reconnecting, and talking over breakfast? (33:13)Post-Party: Back to School theme and showing ownership by wearing a collar. (34:29)Wax Play experience: performing for your man when you know he’s watching. (37:38)Connecting with your partner first: Vee cums for the first time at a play party! (42:44)Mixed feelings: Watching your partner fuck someone else. What a guy should say when the female is unsure about playing. (45:42)Popping their cherry: Vee and Mister A play with another couple for the first time. (51:08)Aftercare and debriefing the next day. (57:02)Where to Find Us & How to Support the Show: 💋Linktree: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonedeep 🎧 Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod 🛍️ Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop — wear your kinks proudly. 🍑 Woo More Play: Shop with our affiliate link — support the pod while you stock up on your favorite pleasure essentials. 🔮 WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your game deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com IG: @wlthegame 🔥 Naughty Disco’s Sexy NYC Dance Party: code GONEDEEP69 for 15% off any event ticket IG: @naughtydisco 💌 Contact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.


