Girls Gone Deep 150: Guys Gone Deep: Sex Party Wisdom, Sobriety and Being a Dad in the ENM Party Scene with Magnum of Naughty Disco
Dec 11, 2025
Join Magnum, the Creator of Naughty Disco and a parent in the sex-positive community, as he dives into the spicy world of non-monogamy. He shares how he started his vibrant dance parties while navigating relationships and parenting. Learn about essential sex party etiquette, how to connect authentically without being creepy, and what both men and women should know about each other. Magnum also discusses being sober in the lifestyle and finding a supportive community, all while keeping the vibe fun and inclusive!
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First Foray Into The Play Scene
- Magnum found the lifestyle via dating apps and Feeld after his marriage ended and used it for casual sex and repeat connections.
- His first play party was a Halloween hotel suite where he experienced public play and it kickstarted his scene involvement.
Why Naughty Disco Was Born
- Magnum created Naughty Disco to merge sex-positive play vibes with dance-focused music and careful curation.
- He emphasized themed, lurid dress, no-phones, consent-aware guardians, and selective Instagram promotion to shape the crowd.
Curate Promotion And Enforce Privacy
- Use curated, private promotion (like vetted Instagram follow lists) to build a safer, more aligned event crowd.
- Enforce no-phones and have consent-aware photographers and guardians to protect attendee privacy and comfort.