Girls Gone Deep 153: You Asked, We Answered: How to Find a Third, First Girl-on-Girl Experiences, 24-Person Orgies, & What Makes Our ENM Partnerships Work?
Jan 1, 2026
Vee and Elle tackle listener questions, sharing their strategies for finding a third partner and making them feel valued. They reminisce about their first girl-on-girl experiences, exploring how authenticity plays a role in their intimate encounters. The duo also defines different types of orgies, recounting wild tales of a 24-person gathering. They stress the importance of communication in ethical non-monogamy, offering practical tips on scheduling intimacy and nurturing their primary relationship while exploring new connections.
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Prioritize Connection And Transparency
- Make a connection first and avoid coming off as hungry when seeking a unicorn or third.
- Be transparent about intentions, safety, and that she can opt out anytime to build comfort.
Use A Quick Negotiation Framework
- Use RDBSM (relationship, desires, boundaries, STI, meaning) or fears/desires/boundaries shorthand before playing.
- Do a short version for casual meetings and a longer version when needed to ensure consent and clarity.
Vet Men Fast With Video Chats
- For finding male thirds, move quickly from apps to video chat to weed out catfish and confirm seriousness.
- Schedule meetings ASAP and switch to texting to show intent and avoid time-wasting.
