

Girls Gone Deep
Elle and Vee
Two sex-positive ladies in the ethically non-monogamous lifestyle chatting about how we use dating and sex as a space for personal development and growth, and creating the most joyous life possible. A podcast for the open-minded, curious and naughty. @girlsgonedeeppod www.girlsgonedeep.com
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Oct 9, 2025 • 1h 15min
141: Sex and Psychedelics: Can MDMA Ruin Sober Sex? Do Orgasms Release DMT? ...and More with Nicolle Double L
This week, Vee and Elle sit down with journalist and sexual freedom philosopher Nicolle Double L to explore the intersection of BDSM, psychedelics, and sexuality as tools for self-discovery and healing. The conversation dives into cervical orgasms, DMT release, altered states, and how sex can mirror a psychedelic journey, especially when paired with presence and aftercare. The discussion delves into the neurochemistry of orgasms, the therapeutic aspects of BDSM, and the significance of set and setting in both sexual and psychedelic experiences.Chapters: Introduction and Connection To Writing, Shame, and BDSM (00:00)The Role of MDMA and Psychedlics in Healing (13:49)Does MDMA Ruin Sober Sex? (17:03) The Neuroscience of Edging, Orgasms and Psychedlelics (25:40)The Parallels of Set, Setting and Integration After Sex/BDSM Experiences As Seen in Psychedelic Experiences (29:03)What is Integration? Ex: Aftercare or Honest Space For Feedback & Reflection (32:30)Safe Space vs Brave Space (35:16)Do Cervical Orgasms release DMT? (39:55)Visions and Taste Changes During Orgasms (47:18)The Descent of Inanna: The First Dominatrix? (53:46)Rape Fantasy or Consual Non-Consent (CNC) (57:07)BDSM: Flow States, The Default Network Mode (DNM), the Suspension of Selfhood, Good Dom Vs Bad Dom (59:28)Listener Q/A: If You Are Experimenting With Psychedlics, What Should Take Into Consideration To Not Have A Bad Experience? (01:10:18)Nicolle Double L articles referenced in this episode:Can MDMA Increase Women’s Sexual Desire?Do Orgasms Cause the Release of DMT?BDSM is the temporary suspension from the burden of selfhoodSign up for her substack to get more!The Sexual Freedom Philosopher Substack Follow:Instagram nicolledoublelInstagram menwhotakebathsLearn More:Nicolle Double L’s LinkTreeWhere to Find Us & How to Support the Show: 💋Linktree: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonedeep 🎧 Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod 🛍️ Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop — wear your kinks proudly. 🍑 Woo More Play: Shop with our affiliate link — support the pod while you stock up on your favorite pleasure essentials. 🔮 WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your game deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com IG: @wlthegame 🔥 Naughty Disco’s Sexy NYC Dance Party: code GONEDEEP69 for 15% off any event ticket IG: @naughtydisco 💌 Contact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Oct 2, 2025 • 47min
140: Cock Worship, Sexting, and Sexual Experiences We’d Pay For: Playing Esther Perel’s Game Where Should We Begin?
In this episode, Vee and Elle play only the NSFW cards from Esther Perel’s card game Where Should We Begin.Where Should We Begin: Esther Perel’s card game.“A text message you fantasize about recieving…”: domming your husband from afar, cock cages, and naughty sexts. (6:06)“A sexual experience I’d pay for…” From sex workers in Amsterdam to strippers to dominatrixes. (10:30)Somatica visualization/fantasy: Vee guides Elle to figure out what she would want in a fantasy situation. (14:56)“When I imagine a life of poly…” What is your capacity for polyamorous relationships? (19:40)“The relationship that taught me the most about sex...” (26:44)“A sexual encounter I wish hadn’t been cut short…” (30:51)“My sexual superpower is…” Cock worship, empathy and attunement, sloppy blowjobs with deep throat, unicorning. (35:44)Whoreible Life vs Where Should We Begin. (40:14)Evolving dynamics and labels in the consensually non-monogamous scene. (41:11)Where to Find Us & How to Support the Show: 💋Linktree: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonedeep 🎧 Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod 🛍️ Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop — wear your kinks proudly. 🍑 Woo More Play: Shop with our affiliate link — support the pod while you stock up on your favorite pleasure essentials. 🔮 WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your game deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com IG: @wlthegame 🔥 Naughty Disco’s Sexy NYC Dance Party: code GONEDEEP69 for 15% off any event ticket IG: @naughtydisco 💌 Contact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Sep 25, 2025 • 57min
139: Vee’s ISTA Retreat Experience: Embodiment, Boundaries, and Emotional Release
In this episode, Vee shares her transformational ISTA experience— what is ISTA like (International School of Temple Arts)? What can you expect going to an ISTA retreat? The ladies dive into how Vee FINALLY found the tools to get out of her head and into her body, how to communicate boundaries lovingly, and awakening eros AKA life force. Get ready to hear about emotional release, using tantric exercises to let go of an ex, and the conversation to have before hooking up with a new person. What is ISTA? Deep dive into self. What drew Vee to go to ISTA? (1:05)Breath. Sound. Movement: tool for moving through emotions. (5:48)Intentions going into ISTA. (7:45) Being your own anchor and not seeking outside validation. (10:52)Aha Moments: tuning into the 4 energy centers to make decisions. (15:23)Engaging with the world from a place of fullness. (20:20)Communicating your NO and learning how to speak your boundaries. (21:22)The Body Keeps the Score: “if it’s hysterical, it’s historical.” (24:23)Using rituals and symbolism to let go of an ex. (26:10)Dancing without judgement as a tool for getting into your body and awakening your sensuality. (27:36)Approaching situations and ENM with curiosity. Working through triggers and wounds by “surrendering” to situations that are out of your control. (29:59)Celibacy and back-of-the-bus hookups. (34:33)Boundaries are awesome. (38:31)RDBSM *TA: Relationship Desires Boundaries STI Health Meaning *Trauma *Aftercare. (41:58)Top Tips for going to ISTA. (53:44)Where to Find Us & How to Support the Show: 💋Linktree: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonedeep 🎧 Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod 🛍️ Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop — wear your kinks proudly. 🍑 Woo More Play: Shop with our affiliate link — support the pod while you stock up on your favorite pleasure essentials. 🔮 WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your game deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com IG: @wlthegame 🔥 Naughty Disco’s Sexy NYC Dance Party: code GONEDEEP69 for 15% off any event ticket IG: @naughtydisco 💌 Contact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Sep 18, 2025 • 49min
138: NRE or Just a Good Dom? Navigating New Relationship Energy and Dom/Sub Dynamics
In this meandering conversation, Elle and Vee blend kink, parenting, and intimacy into one candid, sex-positive chat. They dive into everything from pregnancy porn and the risks of recording intimate videos to the awkwardness of moms finding sexy photos. They explore sex-positive parenting, New Relationship Energy (NRE), and the intensity of Dominant/submissive dynamics—discussing what makes a good Dom, what subs and tops truly get out of play, and why negotiation is key. Seasons of life: Have Vee and Elle switched places sexually?! (00:35)Pregnancy gang bang video. (3:19)Dangers of recording videos. Repercussions of having home porn. (5:24)Sexy photos discovered by mom. (10:06)Sex-positive parenting: Speaking about sex with your mother as an adult, and having the sex talk with your kids. (14:47)NRE: New Relationship Energy. How Dominant/Submissive dynamics can create an intense connection and attachment quickly. (23:39)“Sub space feels like love and care.” (30:04)Characteristics of a good dom. Unbound by Kasia Urbaniak. (31:56)What do doms get out of topping? (34:05)What do subs get out of bottoming? (37:16)Negotiations before a D/S scene. (40:40)Ice bath vs Impact Play. (44:16) Where to Find Us & How to Support the Show: 💋Linktree: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonedeep 🎧 Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod 🛍️ Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop — wear your kinks proudly. 🍑 Woo More Play: Shop with our affiliate link — support the pod while you stock up on your favorite pleasure essentials. 🔮 WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your game deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com IG: @wlthegame 🔥 Naughty Disco’s Sexy NYC Dance Party: code GONEDEEP69 for 15% off any event ticket IG: @naughtydisco 💌 Contact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Sep 4, 2025 • 1h 4min
137: Golden Showers & Scat Play: How to Explore Toilet Kinks with Priestess Francesca
Disclaimer: This podcast is intended for informational and educational purposes only. The content shared here should not be taken as medical or mental health advice. Discussions may include topics related to sexual health and practices, but they are not a substitute for guidance from a qualified healthcare provider. Please consult with a licensed professional regarding any personal questions or concerns about your health, relationships, or sexual well-being, especially when it involves excrement.You asked, we provided! After Priestess Francesca's first episode with us on taboo kinks, we got so many questions about the scat scene, we had to have her back! Priestess Francesca is back to talk all things toilet play — from golden showers to scat, blood play, and beyond. We cover the turn-ons, the taboos, the safety must-knows, and how to start the conversation with your partner.What is Toilet Play? Water Sports vs Hard Sports. Golden, Ruby, Brown and Roman Showers. (5:40)HOW to do Toilet Play: populating the menu of options/intentions behind toilet play. What are some ideas for scenes depending on the feeling you want to achieve? (praise, humiliation, degradation, age play, gender bending, etc.) (7:30)Aftercare in a humiliation or degradation scene. How do you figure out what the right aftercare is for the person and the situation? (12:28)Shower pee play scenes and waterboarding. (18:20)Sacred context of ingesting urine: uses of urine throughout history and in sacred ritual contexts in Tantra, Buddhism, Hinduism, etc. (20:37)Ruby showers and blood play, and urine's medicinal benefits? (25:57)WHY Toilet Play? Liberating yourself through opening yourself to taboo kinks. (32:58)Black Hole Wisdom: you’ll never be the same again after you’ve done certain things even once. You are forever transformed. (36:49)Safety precautions when doing piss play. (44:28)Safety precautions for scat and blood play. (49:01)How to play with scat and pee even when you're not excreting in the scene. (54:24)How to start the conversation with your partner if you’re interested in toilet play. (59:09)Where to Find Us & How to Support the Show: 💋Linktree: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonedeep 🎧 Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod 🛍️ Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop — wear your kinks proudly. 🍑 Woo More Play: Shop with our affiliate link — support the pod while you stock up on your favorite pleasure essentials. 🔮 WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your game deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com IG: @wlthegame 🔥 Naughty Disco’s Sexy NYC Dance Party: code GONEDEEP69 for 15% off any event ticket IG: @naughtydisco 💌 Contact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Aug 28, 2025 • 47min
136: Threesomes with Best Friends, Changing Dynamics in an ENM Relationship, Naughty Sex Dreams and ISTA Tips
This week, the girls catch up on whats been going on for them, from threesomes to new partners. Vee reveals something big going on in her life: a change in her relationship dynamic, and how it seems to be affecting her ability to orgasm. Elle shares updates on how her pregnancy is affecting her dreams. “Cumming and running”: Elle sets boundaries during play weekends. (00:47)The orgasm happens in the brain: not being able to cum when you’re going through something stressful. Vee makes an announcement. (4:22)Old insecurities: “if it’s hysterical, it’s historical.” Unprocessed emotions from adolescence being triggered in sex party situations. (7:51)What is de-escalation? Figuring out a new dynamic with a former primary partner. (10:40)ISTA (International School of Temple Arts) tips: Vee asks Elle for her top tips for someone attending an ISTA retreat. (13:20)Naughty pregnancy dreams of threesomes with teachers, waking up horny and sucking cock while cooking pancakes. Unpacking sex-at-school-fantasies. (21:48)Vee’s threesomes: “jujjing” and running. Being the person in group play who is in service of others’ pleasure. (29:27)Mr. Lube Man: why men who use lube and keep it handy are hot. (37:43)Pushing growth edges vs. giving yourself grace and doing what feels comfortable when you’re going through a tough time. (39:34)Threesomes with friends vs. threesomes with new people. (42:06)Where to Find Us & How to Support the Show: 💋Linktree: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonedeep 🎧 Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod 🛍️ Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop — wear your kinks proudly. 🍑 Woo More Play: Shop with our affiliate link — support the pod while you stock up on your favorite pleasure essentials. 🔮 WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your game deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com IG: @wlthegame 🔥 Naughty Disco’s Sexy NYC Dance Party: code GONEDEEP69 for 15% off any event ticket IG: @naughtydisco 💌 Contact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Aug 25, 2025 • 58min
135: Sex Mishaps: Anal Oopsies, Lost Tampons and Condoms, Blow Job Gag Reflexes, and Near-Arrests
This week, Elle, Vee and repeat guest Athena spill all the messy, hilarious, and downright disastrous sex stories you never hear about. From sneezing out cum and fishing out lost condoms to broken furniture, tampon mishaps, and anal surprises, nothing is off-limits. We share our own awkward moments along with wild tales from the community that prove sex fails are equal parts mortifying and funny. Because at the end of the day, sex is messy, bodies are human, and sometimes the best aftercare is just laughing it off.Cum In Your Nose, Snorting and Sneezing Cum. (00:00)Where Do Your Play Partners Cum Most Often? (4:42)Condoms Stuck Inside the Pussy & Condom Clean Up Etiquette. (6:12)Stuck Tampons. (12:38)IUD Pokes and Issues (17:01)Anal “Oopsies”. (20:41)Furniture Fails. (29:54)Throwing Up While Sucking Dick. (35:10)Blow Job Hang Ups And Desert Dry Mouth. (42:01)Ridiculous Mishap List. (48:42)Almost Arrested for Public Indecency? (53:57)Where to Find Us & How to Support the Show: 💋Linktree: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonedeep 🎧 Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod 🛍️ Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop — wear your kinks proudly. 🍑 Woo More Play: Shop with our affiliate link — support the pod while you stock up on your favorite pleasure essentials. 🔮 WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your game deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com IG: @wlthegame 🔥 Naughty Disco’s Sexy NYC Dance Party: code GONEDEEP69 for 15% off any event ticket IG: @naughtydisco 💌 Contact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Aug 14, 2025 • 1h 19min
134: Unpacking Submission, “I Can’t Get Over My Ex”, and How To Push New Boundaries Healthily With Briana Cribeyer
In this episode, Vee and Elle chat with Briana Cribeyer, a sacred sexuality facilitator, guide, and founder of Sacred Sexuality Rising. They explore various relationship dynamics and the challenges that can arise while navigating an ENM (ethically non-monogamous) journey. Briana answers listener questions and shares tips and tools for handling difficult situations, balancing masculine and feminine energies, doing inner child work, and using thoughtful questions to open communication around how to successfully push a new boundary. Intro: The Balance Of Masculine And Feminine Energy: Releasing The End Goal (00:00)Practices For Embracing Femininity: Ask Yourself What Am I Trying To Prove And Who Am I Trying To It To, Being In Your Body Moment To Moment, Making Sounds, Letting Go Of The End Goal (06:46)Empowered Femininity, Sloppy Doms and Exploring Submission (14:03) “Subbing to Source”: Create Space to Choose to Trust and Let Go (22:25)Adults as Children: Inner Child Work And Its Impact On Relationships (27:46)Nervous System Dysregulation Signs: “If It’s Hysterical It’s Historical” (31:25)Listener Question Answered: How I Keep From Feeling Not Enough to My Primary Partner (34:12)Grief Work, Acknowledging Childhood Pain, Misdirected Complaints And how This Effects Relationships (37:41)Fighting: The Power Of Breath To Tap Into Emotional Awareness and Resist “Fire Fingers” (42:31)Radical Self-Responsibility And Hormonal Influences (47:43)“I Can’t Get Over my Ex” How Attachment Styles Play Into This (51:05)Listener Q&A: Wife and I have been a soft swap couple that dirty talks about full swap, but we aren’t sure about taking the next step to full swap? 4 questions to use. (58:35)Nuggets: The 3 of us summarizing our takeaways (01:09:30)What Briana has coming up! How you can work with her (01:13:43)Instagram @she_boldly_goes_Briana's LinktreeWhere to Find Us & How to Support the Show: 💋Linktree: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonedeep 🎧 Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod 🛍️ Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop — wear your kinks proudly. 🍑 Woo More Play: Shop with our affiliate link — support the pod while you stock up on your favorite pleasure essentials. 🔮 WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your game deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com IG: @wlthegame 🔥 Naughty Disco’s Sexy NYC Dance Party: code GONEDEEP69 for 15% off any event ticket IG: @naughtydisco 💌 Contact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Aug 7, 2025 • 55min
133: Girls Gone Shallow and Other Ice Breakers with JJ of The Sexie Show
This week, Elle and Vee chat with JJ of The Sexie Show podcast, and play Girls Gone Shallow, a sex-themed game testing how well they know each other. Play along with your partner, and we invite you to make the stakes interesting ;)Battlestrip: what is it? (1:57)What is the role of games in a sexy environment? Pushing our growth edges, getting silly and reducing anxiety. How can we carry the energy over from the icebreaker games to sexual scenes? (8:01)Exxotica: porn convention. (17:10)Most successful icebreakers? Depending on size of party, vibe of the crowd etc. (19:49)Would you rather... (23:38)Most divisive sexual ice breaker question: which Harry Potter house would you want to fuck? (25:23)Best ice breakers for small parties/intimate gatherings. (26:37)Activity games vs verbal games: which is better? (30:48)Girls Gone Shallow! How well do Vee and Elle know each other? (32:54)Who has had the most time with dicks inside them? (36:31)Would we fuck 70% of who’s been on the podcast? (39:44)Who would be the top if we were gay men in a relationship? (43:16)Would you accept $10k for globally televised sex with a stranger? (44:10)Would you fuck a sex robot? (45:08)Who would be the more handsome drag king? (46:10)Would you rather fuck yourself from 5 years in the past than 5 years in the future. (47:27)Would you be able to have an orgasm suspended upside down? (48:53)Have you paid for or received money for sexual acts? (51:35)Links:Website: sexieshow.comBattlestrip 4: ticketsWhere to Find Us & How to Support the Show: 💋Linktree: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonedeep 🎧 Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod 🛍️ Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop — wear your kinks proudly. 🍑 Woo More Play: Shop with our affiliate link — support the pod while you stock up on your favorite pleasure essentials. 🔮 WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your game deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com IG: @wlthegame 🔥 Naughty Disco’s Sexy NYC Dance Party: code GONEDEEP69 for 15% off any event ticket IG: @naughtydisco 💌 Contact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Jul 31, 2025 • 52min
132: Bite Marks, Next Level Anal Play and Role Play vs Fantasy…What’s the Difference?
This episode dives into the humorous adventures of anal play, including unexpected kitchen experiments with vegetables. The hosts share personal reflections on the deeper aspects of pleasure, highlighting the emotional connections that enrich experiences. They explore the distinction between role play and fantasy, offering insights for navigating desires. Plus, tips on communication within polyamorous settings and the intriguing world of audio porn for solo pleasure. Expect lots of laughter and candid discussions on intimacy and boundaries!


