

ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo
Is your marriage everything that you want it to be? Are you ready to make a change? Join Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo to create a strong marriage so you can have mind blowing intimacy inside and outside the bedroom. Marriage is not always easy but it's so worth it. Come and make your marriage EXTRAORDINARY!
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Jan 6, 2026 • 30min
893: When Good Intentions Aren't Enough
Explore the common struggle couples face between wanting change and actually making it happen. Discover the six pillars of intimacy that can rekindle connections. Uncover the reasons why good intentions often fall flat without actionable systems in place. Learn the importance of focusing on small, consistent habits for lasting intimacy. Hear tips on assessing emotional readiness, overcoming personal resistance, and why seeking coaching can be beneficial. Prioritizing your marriage can lead to deeper commitment and security.

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Dec 30, 2025 • 34min
892: Countdown to Connection
Explore the 6 Pillars of Intimacy and their transformative power for marriages. Discover how simple actions, like surprise date nights, can enhance connections. The hosts discuss the importance of prioritizing emotional and spiritual intimacy before diving into sexual intimacy. They highlight the significance of communication, especially through life's transitions. Learn how tracking desire and planning can boost passion, and celebrate financial wins while building deeper closeness through shared activities.

Dec 23, 2025 • 31min
891: O Come Let Us Adore Him
Explore the profound topic of spiritual intimacy and how it might even surpass sexual intimacy. Discover personal stories, including the impact of loss on faith, and learn how holiday stress can challenge your connection. The hosts share practical tips for nurturing spiritual bonds, like heartfelt prayers and reading scripture together. They emphasize building rituals to cultivate intimacy and encourage couples to invite God into their marriage this Christmas. This inspiring discussion offers a fresh perspective on deepening your relationship.

Dec 16, 2025 • 30min
890: Unwrap Me…Keep Sex Fun During the Holidays
Discover how to keep intimacy alive during the busy holiday season! The hosts explore common struggles couples face and share five playful strategies to enhance sexual connection. From scheduling intimate moments to the benefits of honest emotional conversations, they emphasize prioritizing relationships. Flirting and small gestures are highlighted as key to maintaining attraction. Wrapped gifts and creative surprises add an element of fun, ensuring that couples can enjoy deeper intimacy despite the festive chaos.

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Dec 9, 2025 • 31min
889: Deck the Halls and Drop the Drama
This discussion tackles how the holidays amplify stress in relationships and offers tips for managing it. Unpack the irony of holiday cheer clashing with real-life peace challenges. Discover personal stress styles and how they affect intimacy. Learn to prioritize communication and teamwork in your marriage. Get actionable advice on creating family guardrails and maintaining connection amidst the chaos. The hosts encourage couples to take intentional steps to enjoy a drama-free holiday season together.

Dec 2, 2025 • 28min
888: Coffee, Cocoa and Conversations
Explore how holiday busyness can widen the emotional gap in marriages. Discover the impact of simple moments like cookies and cocoa to foster connection. Alisa shares a listener's story about the intimacy benefits of showering together. Learn about the Five-Day Intimacy Challenge to spark meaningful conversations. The hosts discuss creating cozy micro-traditions to invite curiosity. They emphasize emotional intimacy as the foundation for a thriving relationship, offering practical tips to reconnect with your partner.

Nov 25, 2025 • 29min
887: Gratitude Over Grumbling
Learn about the power of gratitude and what grumbling and complaining actually does to your brain, your body, and your marriage. | "Gratitude turns what we have into enough, and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos into order, confusion into clarity." - Melody Beattie
Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage?
Yes it is!
In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach.
Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today!
Links from today’s episode:
Free Gratitude Planner
Join Intimacy Mastery Today
Apply for Coaching With Alisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Nov 18, 2025 • 31min
886: Art and Science of Non-Sexual Touch
Explore the transformative power of non-sexual touch and how it enhances connection and satisfaction in relationships. Discover research linking affectionate gestures to increased happiness and intimacy. Learn how small, intentional touches can create meaningful moments and shift dynamics. Understand the physiological benefits, like oxytocin release, that foster bonding. The hosts suggest practical steps to reconnect through rituals and a fun seven-day touch challenge, encouraging couples to communicate their needs and preferences.

Nov 11, 2025 • 30min
885: Performance Anxiety
Learn about the impact that performance anxiety can have on both husband and wife during your sexual encounters. | “It's your reaction to adversity, not adversity itself that determines how your life's story will develop.” —Dieter F. Uchtdorf
Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage?
Yes it is!
In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach.
Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today!
Links from today’s episode:
Join Intimacy Mastery Today
Apply for Coaching With Alisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Nov 4, 2025 • 33min
884: Sexual Intimacy Isn’t Optional...It’s Essential
Sexual intimacy is framed as a vital lifeline in marriage, not a luxury. The hosts discuss practical reasons couples may pause intimacy, while emphasizing that a broader definition can enhance connection. They highlight the importance of normalizing conversations about sexual needs and suggest that emotional intimacy significantly boosts sexual satisfaction. Personal experiences illustrate how to maintain closeness through life changes. The hosts encourage scheduling intimacy and using tools to deepen the relationship, while also advocating for seeking help when necessary.


