

ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo
Is your marriage everything that you want it to be? Are you ready to make a change? Join Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo to create a strong marriage so you can have mind blowing intimacy inside and outside the bedroom. Marriage is not always easy but it's so worth it. Come and make your marriage EXTRAORDINARY!
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Aug 5, 2025 • 30min
871: I’m Not a Mind Reader
Learn about the unrealistic expectation that your spouse should be a mind reader and how this damages communication and intimacy. | “I know that you believe you understand what you think I said, but I'm not sure you realize that what you heard is not what I meant.” —Robert McCloskey
Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage?
Yes it is!
In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach.
Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today!
Links from today’s episode:
Join Menopause Shouldn't Such Today
The 6 Pillars of Intimacy Conflict Resolution: The Secret to Breaking the Conflict Cycle in Your Marriage
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Jul 29, 2025 • 29min
870: Spiritual Mentors
Learn about the power of reaching out to mentors who shaped your spiritual journey and how gratitude can transform you and your marriage. | “Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow.” —Melody Beattie
Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage?
Yes it is!
In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach.
Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today!
Links from today’s episode:
Transform Your Church's Marriage Ministry
Join Intimacy Mastery Today
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Jul 22, 2025 • 28min
869: Boudoir Photography
Learn how boudoir photography builds confidence, enhances intimacy, and celebrates your unique beauty — no perfect body required. | “Real beauty comes from confidence and being who you are, not aspiring to look or be someone else.” —Phillip DeFranco
Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage?
Yes it is!
In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach.
Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today!
Links from today’s episode:
Join Intimacy Mastery Today
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Jul 15, 2025 • 31min
868: Hard Reset
Learn about the concept of "hard resets" to help you break out of those ruts and get real momentum going in your marriage. | “Reset, readjust, restart, refocus…as many times as you need to.” —Anonymous
Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage?
Yes it is!
In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach.
Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today!
Links from today’s episode:
Join Intimacy Mastery Today
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Jul 8, 2025 • 30min
867: How Long Should Sex Last
In this episode let's discuss a question that comes up in bedrooms around the world: How long should sex last? | “The goal isn't to last forever or finish quickly—it's to connect deeply with your spouse in whatever time you have together.” —Anonymous
Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage?
Yes it is!
In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach.
Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today!
Links from today’s episode:
Join Intimacy Mastery Today
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Jul 1, 2025 • 31min
866: The Masks We Wear in Marriage
Learn what happens when you've been pretending to be someone you're not in your marriage, and how exhausting that becomes over time. | “Authenticity is the daily practice of letting go of who we think we're supposed to be and embracing who we are.” —Brene Brown
Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage?
Yes it is!
In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach.
Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today!
Links from today’s episode:
Bo’s Cafe: Novel
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Apply for Coaching With Alisa
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Jun 24, 2025 • 35min
865: Sex Talk
Discover how to tackle the often-avoided conversations about sexual intimacy to significantly enhance your connection with your partner. Explore practical approaches to rekindle the spark in your marriage, even during life transitions. Learn about the importance of open dialogue and how it can transform your experiences, from initiating intimacy to discussing desires. Gain insights on foreplay dynamics and the role of personal preferences in enhancing intimacy, all while recognizing communication as the key to deepening your relationship.

Jun 17, 2025 • 30min
864: Art of the Tender Topic
Learn about how to approach sensitive subjects without triggering defensiveness or creating more distance between you and your spouse. |
“Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the assessment that something else is more important than the fear.” —Franklin Roosevelt
Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage?
Yes it is!
In The 6 Pillars of Intimacy®, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach.
Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today!Links from today’s episode:
Join Intimacy Mastery Today
Bo's Cafe: Novel
Emotion Wheel
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Jun 10, 2025 • 29min
863: Not Mentally Present During Sex
Learn about navigating different circumstances when your mind begins to wonder and you are not mentally present during sex. | “The most distant person can be the one right in front of you.” —Anonymous
Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage?
Yes it is!
In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach.
Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today!Links from today’s episode:
The Vagina Bible
5 Senses to Heighten Your Sexual Connection
Join Intimacy Mastery Today
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Jun 3, 2025 • 27min
862: Marriage Advice
Learn about the best marriage advice you would give your younger self to experience the extraordinary marriage you desire now! | “Marriage is not a noun, it’s a verb. It’s not something you get, it’s something you do. It’s the way you love your spouse every day.” —Barbara DeAngelis
Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage?
Yes it is!
In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy®, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach.
Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today!Links from today’s episode:
Join Intimacy Mastery Today
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