

ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo
Is your marriage everything that you want it to be? Are you ready to make a change? Join Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo to create a strong marriage so you can have mind blowing intimacy inside and outside the bedroom. Marriage is not always easy but it's so worth it. Come and make your marriage EXTRAORDINARY!
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Jul 8, 2025 • 30min
867: How Long Should Sex Last
In this episode let's discuss a question that comes up in bedrooms around the world: How long should sex last? | “The goal isn't to last forever or finish quickly—it's to connect deeply with your spouse in whatever time you have together.” —Anonymous
Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage?
Yes it is!
In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach.
Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today!
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Jul 1, 2025 • 31min
866: The Masks We Wear in Marriage
Learn what happens when you've been pretending to be someone you're not in your marriage, and how exhausting that becomes over time. | “Authenticity is the daily practice of letting go of who we think we're supposed to be and embracing who we are.” —Brene Brown
Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage?
Yes it is!
In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach.
Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today!
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Bo’s Cafe: Novel
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Jun 24, 2025 • 35min
865: Sex Talk
Discover how to tackle the often-avoided conversations about sexual intimacy to significantly enhance your connection with your partner. Explore practical approaches to rekindle the spark in your marriage, even during life transitions. Learn about the importance of open dialogue and how it can transform your experiences, from initiating intimacy to discussing desires. Gain insights on foreplay dynamics and the role of personal preferences in enhancing intimacy, all while recognizing communication as the key to deepening your relationship.

Jun 17, 2025 • 30min
864: Art of the Tender Topic
Learn about how to approach sensitive subjects without triggering defensiveness or creating more distance between you and your spouse. |
“Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the assessment that something else is more important than the fear.” —Franklin Roosevelt
Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage?
Yes it is!
In The 6 Pillars of Intimacy®, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach.
Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today!Links from today’s episode:
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Bo's Cafe: Novel
Emotion Wheel
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Jun 10, 2025 • 29min
863: Not Mentally Present During Sex
Learn about navigating different circumstances when your mind begins to wonder and you are not mentally present during sex. | “The most distant person can be the one right in front of you.” —Anonymous
Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage?
Yes it is!
In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach.
Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today!Links from today’s episode:
The Vagina Bible
5 Senses to Heighten Your Sexual Connection
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Jun 3, 2025 • 27min
862: Marriage Advice
Learn about the best marriage advice you would give your younger self to experience the extraordinary marriage you desire now! | “Marriage is not a noun, it’s a verb. It’s not something you get, it’s something you do. It’s the way you love your spouse every day.” —Barbara DeAngelis
Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage?
Yes it is!
In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy®, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach.
Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today!Links from today’s episode:
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May 27, 2025 • 28min
861: It's Not You, It's Me
Learn about menopause-related physical intimacy challenges that are caused by hormonal changes. | “Communication is the fuel that keeps the fire of your relationship burning; without it, your relationship goes cold.” —William Paisley
Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage?Yes it is!
In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach.
Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today!Links from today’s episode:
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May 20, 2025 • 29min
860: Not Good Enough
Learn about feeling that your actions are “not good enough” when your spouse suggests working on an area of your marriage. | “Some days you’ll be productive, some days you won’t. Some days you’ll be healthy and energized, some days you won’t. But every day you can control whether you show up or not.” —Mark Manson
Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage?Yes it is!
In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach.
Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today!Links from today’s episode:
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May 13, 2025 • 39min
859: Oral Sex for Your Husband
Learn about the struggles that some wives, including Alisa, have when it comes to giving oral sex. | “Don’t be afraid to try new things. They aren’t all going to work but when you find the one that does you are going to be so proud of yourself for trying.” —Anonymous
Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage?Yes it is!In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach.Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today!Links from today’s episode:
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May 6, 2025 • 26min
858: Emotional Let Down
Learn about the emotional let down that comes after something you’ve anticipated and the impact this can have on your marriage. | “Let down is inevitable but if you close the distance so is connection. So is joy.” —Mia McKenzie
Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage?
Yes it is!
In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach.
Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today!
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