ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show 876: What Kind of Lover Am I?
Sep 9, 2025
Explore two tough questions every married couple should confront: what kind of lover am I and would I want to be intimate with me? Discover the 6 Pillars of Intimacy that can reignite passion in your marriage. Reflect on personal roles as lovers, and the importance of honest self-evaluation. Learn how shifting focus from self to partner can enhance intimacy. With practical exercises and a growth mindset, you’ll be inspired to deepen your connection and transform your relationship.
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Ask The Honest Question
- Asking "What kind of lover am I?" creates honest self-reflection that can transform intimacy.
- Alisa and Tony frame honesty about yourself as a high form of intimacy and growth.
Self-Ratings Skew Upward
- People naturally rate themselves more favorably on self-assessments.
- Tony and Alisa warn that self-perception can be biased and mask real issues.
Talk Instead Of Assume
- Talk about your sexual intimacy instead of assuming everything's fine.
- Start conversations early so you avoid defensiveness when issues arise.
