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Is your marriage everything that you want it to be? Are you ready to make a change? Join Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo to create a strong marriage so you can have mind blowing intimacy inside and outside the bedroom. Marriage is not always easy but it's so worth it. Come and make your marriage EXTRAORDINARY!
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Jul 15, 2025 • 32min
868: Hard Reset
Learn about the concept of "hard resets" to help you break out of those ruts and get real momentum going in your marriage. | “Reset, readjust, restart, refocus…as many times as you need to.” —Anonymous
Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage?
Yes it is!
In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach.
Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today!
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Jul 8, 2025 • 31min
867: How Long Should Sex Last
In this episode let's discuss a question that comes up in bedrooms around the world: How long should sex last? | “The goal isn't to last forever or finish quickly—it's to connect deeply with your spouse in whatever time you have together.” —Anonymous
Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage?
Yes it is!
In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach.
Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today!
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Jul 1, 2025 • 32min
866: The Masks We Wear in Marriage
Learn what happens when you've been pretending to be someone you're not in your marriage, and how exhausting that becomes over time. | “Authenticity is the daily practice of letting go of who we think we're supposed to be and embracing who we are.” —Brene Brown
Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage?
Yes it is!
In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach.
Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today!
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Jun 24, 2025 • 36min
865: Sex Talk
Learn how to have the conversations about sexual intimacy that most couples avoid and why asking the right questions can completely transform your connection in the bedroom. | “Communication is the fuel that keeps the fire of your relationship burning, without it, your relationship goes cold.” —William Paisley
Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage?
Yes it is!
In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach.
Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today!Links from today’s episode:
19 Questions to Amazing Sex Marriage Guide
Überlube
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Jun 17, 2025 • 31min
864: Art of the Tender Topic
Learn about how to approach sensitive subjects without triggering defensiveness or creating more distance between you and your spouse. |
“Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the assessment that something else is more important than the fear.” —Franklin Roosevelt
Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage?
Yes it is!
In The 6 Pillars of Intimacy®, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach.
Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today!Links from today’s episode:
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Bo's Cafe: Novel
Emotion Wheel
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Jun 10, 2025 • 30min
863: Not Mentally Present During Sex
Learn about navigating different circumstances when your mind begins to wonder and you are not mentally present during sex. | “The most distant person can be the one right in front of you.” —Anonymous
Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage?
Yes it is!
In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach.
Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today!Links from today’s episode:
The Vagina Bible
5 Senses to Heighten Your Sexual Connection
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Jun 3, 2025 • 28min
862: Marriage Advice
Learn about the best marriage advice you would give your younger self to experience the extraordinary marriage you desire now! | “Marriage is not a noun, it’s a verb. It’s not something you get, it’s something you do. It’s the way you love your spouse every day.” —Barbara DeAngelis
Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage?
Yes it is!
In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy®, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach.
Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today!Links from today’s episode:
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May 27, 2025 • 29min
861: It's Not You, It's Me
Learn about menopause-related physical intimacy challenges that are caused by hormonal changes. | “Communication is the fuel that keeps the fire of your relationship burning; without it, your relationship goes cold.” —William Paisley
Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage?Yes it is!
In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach.
Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today!Links from today’s episode:
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May 20, 2025 • 30min
860: Not Good Enough
Learn about feeling that your actions are “not good enough” when your spouse suggests working on an area of your marriage. | “Some days you’ll be productive, some days you won’t. Some days you’ll be healthy and energized, some days you won’t. But every day you can control whether you show up or not.” —Mark Manson
Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage?Yes it is!
In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach.
Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today!Links from today’s episode:
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May 13, 2025 • 40min
859: Oral Sex for Your Husband
Learn about the struggles that some wives, including Alisa, have when it comes to giving oral sex. | “Don’t be afraid to try new things. They aren’t all going to work but when you find the one that does you are going to be so proud of yourself for trying.” —Anonymous
Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage?Yes it is!In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach.Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today!Links from today’s episode:
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