ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show 895: The Real Reason Sex Fades
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Jan 20, 2026 Discover why sexual desire fades in long-term marriages and how to reignite that spark. It’s not about shame; it’s about emotional safety and communication. Individual actions can transform a relationship dramatically. Say goodbye to myths around age and chemistry—intimacy can last for decades! Learn how stress and unresolved conflicts erode connection, and why rekindling intimacy starts with nonsexual conversations and shared projects. Small, intentional steps can rebuild both emotional and physical closeness.
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The Cascade Of Lost Confidence
- Faded sexual intimacy erodes confidence, closeness, and emotional safety over time.
- Those losses feed negative narratives like "I'm not wanted," which deepen withdrawal.
Garage Project Became Intimacy
- Tony and Alisa reorganized their garage together and called it "recreational intimacy."
- Working on a project together removed phones and created low-pressure connection that led to closeness.
Ask, Then Zip Your Lip
- Talk about your sexual connection without offering immediate solutions or defenses.
- Ask how your partner feels and then listen without interrupting to rebuild safety.
