ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show 896: More Than Roses and Romance
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Jan 27, 2026 They explore how Valentine's Day can trigger pressure, disappointment, and comparison in relationships. They discuss shifting from tests to invitations and planning ahead to make connection intentional. The conversation highlights listening skills, asking what makes your partner feel loved, and taking small, imperfect actions to build lasting intimacy.
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Valentine's Day As A Relationship Mirror
- Valentine's Day often reveals the current state of a marriage by acting as a mirror for connection or disconnection.
- Alisa and Tony note the day's emotional weight reflects unmet expectations and needs in the relationship.
Ask First, Then Plan
- Ask your spouse how they feel about Valentine's Day before the day arrives and listen to understand.
- Use that answer to plan small, meaningful actions rather than guessing or buying things impulsively.
Single Words Reveal Big Feelings
- Listeners described mixed feelings: love, pressure, disappointment, normalcy, fear, ambivalence and neglect.
- Those single-word reactions highlight varied expectations and the emotional stakes tied to the day.
