
UnF*ck Your Brain: Feminist Self-Help for Everyone
UnF*ck Your Brain: Feminist Self-Help for Everyone breaks down the centuries of sexist socialization that causes us to struggle with self-doubt, burnout, and anxiety.
Hosted by Master Feminist Coach Kara Loewentheil, J.D., founder of The School of New Feminist Thought and author of Take Back Your Brain (Penguin 2024), each episode teaches you how to turn down the noise of societal expectations, turn up the volume on what YOU really want in life, and change your thinking to make sure you go get it.
This podcast is an essential resource for anyone eager to embrace a life free from limiting beliefs and societal constraints.
If you ever find yourself asking questions like…
*Why am I so anxious about stuff that isn’t a big deal?
*How can I stop overthinking everything?
*Am I selfish for wanting my life to look different?
*Will I ever feel comfortable in my body?
*Am I a bad parent?
*How can I ask for more money at work?
*Can I stop people-pleasing?
*How can my partner and I communicate better?
… then you won’t want to miss an episode.
Visit schoolofnewfeministthought.com to learn more about The School of New Feminist Thought and more.
Latest episodes

Apr 18, 2025 • 3min
This Only Happens Once a Year…
Celebrate a special occasion with a unique opportunity for self-improvement! The speaker shares an exciting flash sale on memberships, offering discounted access to the Feminist Self-Help Society. This program is designed to empower individuals and create a supportive community. Don't miss this annual chance to enhance your personal growth journey!

Apr 17, 2025 • 14min
390. Pretend You Have Amnesia - Instant Brain Reboot
Stuck on repeat with unhelpful thoughts? Discover a powerful mental tool to break free and embrace fresh perspectives. Explore how pretending to have amnesia can reset your mental narratives, helping you reevaluate self-perceptions and improve relationships. This engaging thought experiment encourages focusing on the present and appreciating successes without comparison. Embrace the amnesia mindset for a clearer, more positive outlook and renewed personal clarity.

Apr 10, 2025 • 15min
389. Why & How to Be Extraordinary (Yes I’m Talking to You) (Greatest Hits)
What does it mean to be extraordinary? The discussion dives into how society conditions women and marginalized groups to shy away from their greatness, often labeling ambition as selfish. In these challenging times, it's crucial to embrace one's power and commit to personal values. The conversation also highlights personal branding, self-worth, and the importance of sharing stories to uplift others. Plus, there's an exciting upcoming workshop aimed at helping participants connect with their 'feminist future self' and nurture their individuality.

Apr 3, 2025 • 16min
388. How to Plan When the Future Feels Uncertain
Feeling lost in a world of unpredictability? This discussion dives into tackling anxiety around future planning amidst chaos. It’s all about embracing uncertainty and rethinking your goals. The speaker shares tips on fostering a flexible mindset to make decisions confidently. Plus, there's a workshop aimed at helping individuals envision their future selves, empowering them to grow through challenges. Discover how to turn unpredictability into a catalyst for personal transformation!

Mar 27, 2025 • 20min
387. The Thought Ladder and Thinking v. Believing (Greatest Hits)
Today, I'm revisiting one of the most essential tools in thought work: the thought ladder. If you’ve ever tried to change your results by slapping on a shiny new thought that doesn’t quite feel believable, you already know it doesn’t work that way. In this episode, I’m breaking down why belief—not just thought—is what really drives change, and how to climb the ladder in a way your brain can actually follow. This work takes patience and persistence, but the payoff is huge.Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://schoolofnewfeministthought.com/387Mentioned in this episode:🎉 My Birthday Flash Sale Is Coming — Get On the List!Every year on my birthday, I give YOU a present — a flash sale on your first month inside The Feminist Self-Help Society, my flagship coaching membership.
The sale only runs April 24–26, so this is your official heads up. If you want in, make sure you’re on the list.
👉 Go to schoolofnewfeministthought.com/list-podcast or text your email to +1 (347) 997-1784 with the code word LIST and I’ll send you a reminder when the doors open.
Don’t miss it — I only do this once a year!Bday Sale Waitlist

Mar 20, 2025 • 30min
386. Defying Ageist Stereotypes: A Conversation with Susan Hyatt
Ever felt the urge to shake things up with a bold, unexpected move? Women are taught that midlife is when we’re supposed to fade into the background, but what if it’s actually the perfect time to dream bigger, take more risks, and redefine what’s possible for ourselves?This week, Master Certified Life Coach Susan Hyatt is back to talk about making courageous changes—at any age. She’s sharing her own wild decision to sail around the world (with six pets, no less!) and calling out the limiting beliefs that keep women from going after their biggest dreams. Whether you're looking to switch careers, take up a new hobby, or embark on an adventure, this episode is your sign to go for it!Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://schoolofnewfeministthought.com/386Mentioned in this episode:🎉 My Birthday Flash Sale Is Coming — Get On the List!Every year on my birthday, I give YOU a present — a flash sale on your first month inside The Feminist Self-Help Society, my flagship coaching membership.
The sale only runs April 24–26, so this is your official heads up. If you want in, make sure you’re on the list.
👉 Go to schoolofnewfeministthought.com/list-podcast or text your email to +1 (347) 997-1784 with the code word LIST and I’ll send you a reminder when the doors open.
Don’t miss it — I only do this once a year!Bday Sale Waitlist

Mar 13, 2025 • 16min
385. How to Cope When You Don’t Feel Ok
Are you struggling to focus with everything happening in the world right now? You’re not alone. When life feels chaotic and uncertain, it’s natural for your brain to spiral. But staying stuck in that disoriented, doom-scrolling state isn’t actually helping you feel safer—it’s just keeping you trapped in stress and anxiety.In this episode, I break down why your brain wants to keep obsessively checking the news and why that strategy never really helps. Plus, I’ll share one powerful mindset shift that can help you navigate this unsettling time. Tune in to learn how to make this shift and find a little more peace—no matter what’s happening around you.Get full show notes and more information here: https://schoolofnewfeministthought.com/385Mentioned in this episode:🎉 My Birthday Flash Sale Is Coming — Get On the List!Every year on my birthday, I give YOU a present — a flash sale on your first month inside The Feminist Self-Help Society, my flagship coaching membership.
The sale only runs April 24–26, so this is your official heads up. If you want in, make sure you’re on the list.
👉 Go to schoolofnewfeministthought.com/list-podcast or text your email to +1 (347) 997-1784 with the code word LIST and I’ll send you a reminder when the doors open.
Don’t miss it — I only do this once a year!Bday Sale Waitlist

Mar 6, 2025 • 35min
384. The Logical Case for Positive Thinking with Oliver Burkeman
Do you constantly feel like you need to control everything in your life? Like if you could just be more organized, more productive, more perfect, then you’d finally feel at peace? What if the real secret to feeling more fulfilled was actually letting go of that control? This week, I’m joined by Oliver Burkeman, author of 4,000 Weeks, to talk about why embracing our limits—not fighting them—is the key to a more meaningful life. Oliver and I dive into our culture’s obsession with productivity and perfection, why it actually makes us more anxious, and how to stop chasing an impossible standard and start spending your precious time in a way that actually matters. If you’re ready to stop feeling like life is a never-ending to-do list, this episode is for you.Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://schoolofnewfeministthought.com/384Mentioned in this episode:🎉 My Birthday Flash Sale Is Coming — Get On the List!Every year on my birthday, I give YOU a present — a flash sale on your first month inside The Feminist Self-Help Society, my flagship coaching membership.
The sale only runs April 24–26, so this is your official heads up. If you want in, make sure you’re on the list.
👉 Go to schoolofnewfeministthought.com/list-podcast or text your email to +1 (347) 997-1784 with the code word LIST and I’ll send you a reminder when the doors open.
Don’t miss it — I only do this once a year!Bday Sale Waitlist

Feb 27, 2025 • 27min
383. Self-Help When the World is Burning (Greatest Hits)
Lately it has felt like the world is on fire—war, climate crises, political chaos… it’s a lot for our brains to handle. And yet, instead of stepping back, we find ourselves doom-scrolling, consuming bad news like it’s our job, and wondering why we feel so anxious and exhausted.Is obsessively staying informed actually helping you—or just keeping you stuck? In this Greatest Hits episode, I break down how to rewire your brain’s alarm system, recognize when “being informed” is just people-pleasing in disguise, and refocus on your actual sphere of influence—so you can take meaningful action without burning yourself out.Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://schoolofnewfeministthought.com/383Mentioned in this episode:🎉 My Birthday Flash Sale Is Coming — Get On the List!Every year on my birthday, I give YOU a present — a flash sale on your first month inside The Feminist Self-Help Society, my flagship coaching membership.
The sale only runs April 24–26, so this is your official heads up. If you want in, make sure you’re on the list.
👉 Go to schoolofnewfeministthought.com/list-podcast or text your email to +1 (347) 997-1784 with the code word LIST and I’ll send you a reminder when the doors open.
Don’t miss it — I only do this once a year!Bday Sale Waitlist

Feb 20, 2025 • 19min
382. How to Be Capable in Times of Crisis
Are you feeling overwhelmed or even paralyzed by everything happening in the world right now? Do you catch yourself looking to others for answers—waiting for someone to tell you what to do or how to respond?Women are taught from birth that we’re too emotional, too irrational, too incapable of figuring things out on our own—especially when things get tough. But that conditioning is total BS, and it’s costing us our agency, autonomy, and ability to take action. In this short but powerful episode, I’m breaking down why it’s crucial to trust yourself, how to develop self-efficacy even when you’re feeling overwhelmed, and why waiting for permission or direction is the biggest thing holding you back.Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://schoolofnewfeministthought.com/382Mentioned in this episode:🎉 My Birthday Flash Sale Is Coming — Get On the List!Every year on my birthday, I give YOU a present — a flash sale on your first month inside The Feminist Self-Help Society, my flagship coaching membership.
The sale only runs April 24–26, so this is your official heads up. If you want in, make sure you’re on the list.
👉 Go to schoolofnewfeministthought.com/list-podcast or text your email to +1 (347) 997-1784 with the code word LIST and I’ll send you a reminder when the doors open.
Don’t miss it — I only do this once a year!Bday Sale Waitlist
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