JB Copeland's Sappy Hour

In today’s episode, we dig into two powerful stories about childhood trauma, emotional shutdown, and what it takes to finally start healing.One caller struggles with anxious attachment, protest behavior, and feeling unheard in relationships. The other shares her experience losing her dad to brain cancer at 13 while her mom was having an affair — and how that shaped her ability to feel anything at all.We talk about why your reactions don’t make you “hard to love,” how the inner child shows up when you feel unsafe, and why therapy doesn’t have to start with talking. I break down EMDR, somatic work, art therapy, and the equine therapy that changed my life.If you’ve ever felt unseen, dismissed, or scared to face your own emotions — this one’s for you.If you like this, click subscribe, like and share with a friend.Got a story on your heart? We’re listening.Sappy Hotline: 888-444-9461Join the community—follow JB Copeland on your favorite platform:https://www.instagram.com/sappysappyhouse/https://www.instagram.com/jb_copeland/https://www.facebook.com/jb.copeland1/https://www.tiktok.com/@jb_copelandhttps://snapchat.com/add/jb_copelandhttps://x.com/jbcopeland444https://open.spotify.com/show/6Zv0YLkyJGxJImU1MnLHgC

You’re not tired because you’re doing too much — you’re tired because too much is unfinished.In this 6-minute episode, JB Copeland breaks down the real reason your energy feels scattered: open loops.Every unmade decision, every half-written text, every conversation you’re avoiding — they all keep running in the background of your mind, draining your mental battery like apps you never close.This is your reminder to clean up your inner tabs.Close your loops.Watch your peace — and your energy — return.

In this episode of Sappy Hour, I sit down with Ben Nemtin — #1 New York Times bestselling author, speaker, and co-founder of The Buried Life.You might know Ben from the viral movement that started as four friends with a bucket list of 100 dreams — from playing basketball with President Obama to helping strangers achieve their own impossible goals.In this conversation, we go deeper. We talk about what stops people from chasing their dreams, how to rebuild purpose when you’ve lost it, and why following your heart often means confronting your fears first. We also explore insights from his book What Do You Want to Do Before You Die? and The Bucket List Journal — and how small, consistent action can completely change the trajectory of your life.If you’ve ever felt stuck, behind, or unsure where to start — this one’s going to wake something up in you.Ben's Journal - The Bucket List Journal📘 Grab my new book Sappy Medium — for anyone who’s ready to stop performing and start living. Use code SAPPYHOUR10 for 10% off. 🎧 Listen to Sappy Hour on Spotify & Apple Podcasts.📲 Follow us on Instagram: @jb_copeland | @sappysappyhouse

We don’t stay stuck because we’re broken — we stay stuck because we’re addicted to what’s familiar. Not just emotionally, but chemically.Our nervous systems cling to the same emotions — stress, guilt, fear — not because they feel good, but because they feel known.That’s the familiar hell: the emotional home you know too well.Peace, love, freedom — that’s the unfamiliar heaven. And most people never get there because the unknown feels unsafe.This episode is the full breakdown of The 7 Steps — the real process of how to rewire your mind and body, break the habit of being your old self, and step into the version of you your future actually needs.You’ll learn how to:​Interrupt the loop keeping you stuck.​Sit in the unknown and rewire your nervous system.​Redefine your future self.​Rehearse until it’s real.​Feel it before you see it.​Sustain the state in everyday life.​Surrender and trust God to meet you halfway.​Get my new book Sappy Hour ⁠HERE***use SAPPYHOUR10 for 10% off​🎧 Listen to Sappy Hour everywhere podcasts are streamedJournal Prompts — Step 3: Redefine Your Future Self 1. Who is the person I’m becoming?(Describe them in detail — the way they think, love, rest, and show up.) 2. How does this version of me start their day — mentally, emotionally, spiritually? 3. What do they no longer entertain?(What habits, conversations, or distractions just don’t match their energy anymore?) 4. How does this version of me handle conflict, uncertainty, or disappointment? 5. What does confidence look like in their body language?(How do they move through a room? How do they breathe?) 6. What emotions guide their decisions most often?(Peace? Clarity? Gratitude? Curiosity?) 7. What do they believe about timing, faith, and the bigger picture? 8. How do they talk to themselves when no one’s listening?(What’s their inner tone — gentle, patient, certain?) 9. What kind of relationships surround this version of me?(Who do they attract? Who feels safe around them?) 10. If I was already this person, what would I do differently today?

Loneliness isn’t proof that something’s wrong with you.It’s proof that there’s something inside you still alive enough to want connection.JB Copeland unpacks the psychology of chronic loneliness — what it really means when you’ve “always felt lonely.” From childhood attachment to self-discrepancy theory, he breaks down how lack emotional attunement shapes our adult lives, and how we can begin to reconnect with the actual self that’s been waiting underneath the performance.Maybe you don’t need to find more people. Maybe you just need to find the part of you that’s been missing.Get my new book Sappy Hour HERE***use SAPPYHOUR10 for 10% off🎧 Listen to Sappy Hour everywhere podcasts are streamed📲 Instagram: @jb_copeland

Your body already knows what your mind is still trying to figure out.In this episode, I’m breaking down the science and spirituality of intuition — how your heart, body, and brain work together as one intelligent system, and how to know when it’s intuition guiding you… and when it’s conditioning trying to keep you safe.We’ll dive into:🧬 The HeartMath studies that prove your heart senses before your brain🧠 The Iowa experiments showing how your body knows before your thoughts do💫 How intuition bridges science and spirit — the field, the frequency, the divine intelligence moving through you⚡️ The difference between intuition and trauma responses❤️ How to retrain your nervous system to feel safe enough to hear truth againThis episode will help you stop confusing anxiety for intuition — and start trusting your deepest knowing.Meditation & Breathwork on the Open Appfree 30 day link hereGet my new book "Sappy Medium" hereuse SAPPYHOUR10 for 10% off🎧 Listen to Sappy Hour everywhere podcasts are streamed📲 Instagram: @jb_copeland

Your life just flipped. They left. You're at a loss. You feel rejected. Life doesn't make sense. The future you pictured vanished, and right now everything feels upside down.This episode is about more than “moving on.” It’s about how to turn heartbreak into self-trust.We’ll break down:How anxious attachment makes us chase instead of heal.6 research-backed steps to shift from panic → peace.The daily compass: “Am I bringing peace or anxiety?”This isn’t cliché advice. It’s psychology, spirituality, and lived human truth to help you breathe again, rebuild steady, and realize: falling apart can mean falling into place.Check out ⁠Sappy Medium below. Use code SAPPYHOUR10 for 10% off.📞 Call the Sappy Hotline: 888-444-9461 — your story might be featured.🎧 Sappy Hour streams every Friday on YouTube, Spotify, and Apple Podcasts.👉 Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share this episode if it helped you.

What if your goals didn’t trigger fear—but safety?In this episode of Sappy Hour, I sit down with Emily McDonald (@emonthebrain) to explore the neuroscience of success, safety, and rewiring your mind to stop self-sabotage.We cover:Why your nervous system links goals with danger (and how to reprogram it)The power of heart rate variability (HRV) and adaptabilityHow meditation quiets the default mode network (autopilot)Emily’s 3M Morning Routine: Movement, Mindfulness, MindsetHow to practice creator mode instead of reactive modeUsing intention & visualization to rewire fear into freedom✨ Partnered with OPEN → Try the “Becoming Magnetic” meditation track for free:OPEN link below + 30 day free code (JB30) is applied automatically.Open link hereCheck out Sappy Medium. Use code SAPPYHOUR10 for 10% off.📞 Call the Sappy Hotline: 888-444-9461 — your story might be featured.🎧 Sappy Hour streams every Friday on YouTube, Spotify, and Apple Podcasts.👉 Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share this episode if it helped you.follow Emily McDonald on socials @emonthebrain

“Family shaped you— they don’t get to script you.”In this Sappy Hour episode, JB breaks down why you can feel free in your own life but small at a familiar table—and how to keep your self‑respect and your relationships.We unpack family systems (roles like caretaker/peacekeeper/achiever), parentification (when kids become the emotional adults), the polyvagal lens (why a tone or look flips your body into defense), and the ACEs research that gives compassion—not shame—for what your nervous system remembers. This isn’t about cutting people off. It’s about differentiation: staying connected while staying you.You’ll hear two powerful voicemails—a 19‑year‑old who feels drained visiting home and an adult raised through addiction/illness now rebuilding authenticity—and JB weaves them into one clear answer: love with limits, compassion with clarity, connection without self‑abandonment. You’ll learnWhy families act like systems—and how roles become “the price of belonging.”Parentification: the upside (empathy, competence) and the cost (anxiety, shaky self).Polyvagal 101: ventral/sympathetic/dorsal—and how “the look” drops you down the ladder.ACEs: early stress ≠ destiny; it explains your load and points to care before choice.Feedback vs. criticism (Gottman): behavior‑specific input vs. identity attacks.Differentiation: love them, keep you—in real life, without villains.Top moments (no timestamps)“Guilt” vs grief: why not wanting to go home doesn’t make you ungrateful.“Retire the role, keep the gold”: empathy stays; self‑erasure goes.“Your body is a historian”: what neuroception is and how to meet it with awareness.“Short, kind, consistent”: how systems learn who you are now.“Family shaped you. They don’t get to script you.”If this helped, share it with the friend who needs language for what they feel.Sappy Hotline: 888‑444‑9461 Book: Sappy Medium || use code SAPPYHOUR10 for 10% off.IG/TikTok: @jb_copeland

In this powerful conversation, JB Copeland sits down with Dr. Gabor Maté, world-renowned physician and author of In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts, to unpack the deep link between trauma, addiction, and healing.We explore how childhood wounds shape adult struggles — from people-pleasing and guilt, to the way addiction becomes a survival strategy. Dr. Maté shares profound insights on why we suffer, how our bodies store pain, and what it really takes to begin the journey toward freedom.If you’ve ever felt stuck in old patterns, battled self-blame, or wondered why moving forward feels so hard — this episode will give you clarity, compassion, and practical wisdom.✨ In this episode:Why addiction is not the problem, but the attempt to solve oneHow childhood experiences shape self-worth and emotional survivalThe role of guilt, shame, and people-pleasing in adult relationshipsWhy facing our deepest emotions is the first step to healingPractical shifts for self-compassion, forgiveness, and recoveryDr. Maté reminds us that healing isn’t about perfection — it’s about reconnection with self.🎧 Listen now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube.📘 Read JB’s new book Sappy Medium☎️ Call the Sappy Hotline: 888-444-9461📲 Follow @jb_copeland for daily insights