

The Non-Anxious Leader Podcast
Jack Shitama
The Non-Anxious Leader Podcast uses a family systems theory approach to increase your spiritual, emotional and physical well-being so you can be the best leader possible. Each episode explores research and practical tips to help you be a personal and professional non-anxious presence.
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Aug 26, 2024 • 11min
Episode 293: 7 Characteristics of a Non-Anxious Leader
A non-anxious leader works to be their best self so that others can do the same. Here's what that looks like.
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Aug 19, 2024 • 14min
Episode 292: Why Saying What You Believe Matters (Rebroadcast)
Non-anxious leaders say what they believe while giving others the freedom to disagree. In this political season, the research shows why this matters.
Show Notes:
When Political Discussions Get Heated, Is It Best to Just Stay Out of It? from Kellogg Insight
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Aug 12, 2024 • 17min
Episode 291: An Interview with Dr. Kathleen Smith (Part 4 of 4)
Dr. Kathleen Smith is a therapist, author and faculty member at the Bowen Center for the Study of the Family. In this final segment of our discussion, we discuss how a leader manages healthy connection, what progress looks like and Kathleen's take on societal anxiety.
Show Notes:
Everything Isn’t Terrible: Conquer Your Insecurities, Interrupt Your Anxiety, and Finally Calm Down
True To You: A Therapist’s Guide to Stop Pleasing Others and Start Being Yourself
The Anxious Overachiever | Kathleen Smith | Substack
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Aug 5, 2024 • 15min
Episode 290: An Interview with Dr. Kathleen Smith (Part 3 of 4)
Dr. Kathleen Smith, a therapist and author at the Bowen Center, shares her insights on leadership and mental health. She emphasizes the power of mini-steps for personal growth, drawing from Bowen theory. The conversation touches on the leadership lessons in 'Ted Lasso', highlighting anxiety management in teamwork. Smith discusses how distance can hinder strong connections, advocating for direct communication. Finally, she explores the importance of authentic interactions in workplace settings, offering tools for navigating difficult conversations effectively.

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Jul 29, 2024 • 16min
Episode 289: An Interview with Dr. Kathleen Smith (Part 2 of 4)
Dr. Kathleen Smith, a therapist and author at the Bowen Center, dives into managing anxiety and embracing discomfort. She discusses the effects of over-functioning and under-functioning in relationships and how they shape personal dynamics. By examining calmness versus internal anxiety, she encourages self-awareness for healthier interactions. Smith also highlights curiosity as a powerful antidote to anxiety, contrasting it with quick fixes. Listeners are treated to insights on achieving personal authenticity and reflecting on family dynamics.

Jul 22, 2024 • 18min
Episode 288: An Interview with Dr. Kathleen Smith (Part 1 of 4)
Dr. Kathleen Smith, therapist and author, discusses her journey into Bowen Theory and the value of family of origin work. She explores automatic responses influenced by family dynamics and stresses the importance of curiosity and self-management in family conversations.

Jul 15, 2024 • 13min
Episode 287: A Family Systems Take on the Five Stages of Maturity
Explore Robert Kegan's five stages of adult development and how they relate to self-differentiation. Learn about the importance of self-awareness, open-mindedness, and accountability in personal and professional growth. Discover the balance between self-definition and emotional connection in different stages of adulthood for effective leadership.

Jul 8, 2024 • 19min
Episode 286: Worry, Stress, Anxiety, Excitement and the Non-Anxious Leader (Rebroadcast)
Understanding the difference between worry, stress, anxiety and excitement can help leaders remain a non-anxious presence in the most challenging moments.
Show Notes:
The Difference Between Worry, Stress and Anxiety by Emma Pattee
A Bundle of Nerves – Choiceology Podcast with Katy Milkman
Get Excited: Reappraising Pre-Performance Anxiety as Excitement by Alison Wood Brooks
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Jul 1, 2024 • 13min
Episode 285: How Positive Intelligence Helps You to Be a Non-Anxious Presence (Part 2of 2)
This episode continues with an explanation of Positive Intelligence and covers the three strategies to increase your PQ so you can be a non-anxious presence.
Show Notes:
Positive Intelligence: Why Only 20% of Teams and Individuals Achieve Their True Potential AND HOW YOU CAN ACHIEVE YOURS by Shirzad Chamine
Take the Saboteur Assessment | Positive Intelligence
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Jun 24, 2024 • 12min
Episode 284: How Positive Intelligence Helps You to Be a Non-Anxious Presence (Part 1 of 2)
Positive Intelligence is a practical approach to help you be your best through self-regulation and self-differentiation. This two-part series explains what it is and how it can help you.
Show Notes:
Positive Intelligence: Why Only 20% of Teams and Individuals Achieve Their True Potential AND HOW YOU CAN ACHIEVE YOURS by Shirzad Chamine
Take the Saboteur Assessment | Positive Intelligence
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