

The Non-Anxious Leader Podcast
Jack Shitama
The Non-Anxious Leader Podcast uses a family systems theory approach to increase your spiritual, emotional and physical well-being so you can be the best leader possible. Each episode explores research and practical tips to help you be a personal and professional non-anxious presence.
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Nov 4, 2024 • 21min
Episode 303: Family Systems Theory - A Practical Overview (Rebroadcast)
Discover how family systems theory applies to leadership and the power of self-differentiation. Learn to balance personal values with emotional connections while navigating familial pressures. The importance of self-regulation shines as leaders distinguish between reactive and thoughtful responses. Embrace playfulness to reduce anxiety and transform tense interactions. Understand how awareness of emotional dynamics can strengthen relationships and lead to healthier decision-making. Personal stories illustrate these concepts, making them relatable and actionable.

Oct 28, 2024 • 12min
Episode 302: Nobody Likes to Be Told What to Do
Discover the power of self-differentiation and its impact on personal autonomy. Explore how overcoming resistance transforms challenges into growth opportunities, using relatable anecdotes like cleaning the garage. Learn how effective leadership hinges on a growth mindset that fosters emotional connections within teams. Delve into the role of empathy in creating a supportive work environment that enhances individual commitment and community engagement.

Oct 21, 2024 • 9min
Episode 301: How Humor Helps You as a Non-Anxious Leader (and How It Doesn't)
Leadership doesn’t have to be all seriousness; humor can be a powerful tool. It helps reduce anxiety and fosters trust within teams. However, it’s essential to use humor appropriately to maintain healthy relationships. The podcast reveals how leaders can balance humor with the truth to create a positive atmosphere. Discover the transformative impact of lightness in leadership and learn how small insights can lead to bigger breakthroughs. Trust and a non-anxious approach can change the game!

Oct 14, 2024 • 14min
Episode 300: Pain and Responsibility
Allowing others to experience the pain and consequences of their actions (and life in general) will help them build resilience and capacity. Here's how.
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Oct 7, 2024 • 17min
Episode 299: Everyone Loves a Non-Anxious Presence - Chapters 10-14
If you want to calm down, grow up and live your best life, this audio version of the book can help.
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Sep 30, 2024 • 15min
Episode 298: Everyone Loves a Non-Anxious Presence - Chapters 5-9
If you want to calm down, grow up and live your best life, this audio version of the book can help.
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Sep 23, 2024 • 16min
Episode 297: Everyone Loves a Non-Anxious Presence - Chapters 1-4
If you want to calm down, grow up and live your best life, this audio version of the book can help.
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Sep 16, 2024 • 11min
Episode 296: Non-Anxious Leaders Don't Expect Reciprocity
Shane Parrish, an author renowned for his insights on mental models, and Rhiannon Beaubien, co-author of a comprehensive volume on the same topic, delve into the nuances of reciprocity in leadership. They discuss the importance of forming genuine connections rather than focusing on transaction-based relationships. Their conversation emphasizes altruism as a crucial aspect of emotional reciprocity and how intentional choices can enhance leadership effectiveness. Personal anecdotes and insights from C.S. Lewis illustrate the power of selfless leadership.

Sep 9, 2024 • 12min
Episode: 295 Self-Differentiated Leaders Set Healthy Boundaries (Rebroadcast)
Join Marianne van Dijk, a specialist in healthy boundaries and family systems dynamics, as she illuminates vital distinctions between threats and boundaries in leadership. She discusses how setting healthy boundaries fosters self-definition and strengthens emotional ties. Learn how the absence of these boundaries can lead to manipulation and dependence, providing practical insights to cultivate a non-anxious leadership style and navigate relationships more effectively. Tune in for a transformative conversation!

Sep 2, 2024 • 11min
Episode 294: There IS an "I" in Team
The best team members understand what it means to be a self AND be a part of a team. Here's what that looks like.
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Togetherness, individuality, and the downside of being a pommel horse guy by Kathleen Smith
Episode 284: How Positive Intelligence Helps You to Be a Non-Anxious Presence (Part 1 of 2)
Episode 285: How Positive Intelligence Helps You to Be a Non-Anxious Presence (Part 2of 2)
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