
Do You F*cking Mind?
Mindset hacks for a badass life, hosted by cognitive neuroscientist Alexis Fernandez.
On Mondays my episodes are a combo of neuroscience and psychology. I deep dive into everything from habit formation and how to live a carefree life, to friendships and heartbreak.
And on Thursdays we've got Head Noise - where I answer your questions! Email info@dyfmpod.com to submit your questions.
Order your copy of my latest book How to Chase Change - exclusively an audiobook - at https://bit.ly/44xwszR .
Latest episodes

Sep 7, 2023 • 49min
243. Limit the amount of people that owe you and liberate yourself
On this episode I talk about why you should limit the amount of people that owe you. Why feeling that someone owes you something can be very detrimental for your happiness, self love and productivity and what you can do to stop feeling this way TODAY. Brain Fact : Lateral Inhibition (AAANNNDDD a fun optical illusion for you to try) See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Sep 3, 2023 • 56min
242. The illusion of endless options on dating apps and why it can be so harmful
This podcast discusses the harmful effects of dating apps and encourages users to not get too invested in them. It explores the negative impact of ghosting in online dating and the illusion of endless options. The podcast also provides tips on healing past pain in a relationship.

Aug 31, 2023 • 58min
241. Leaving someone is not giving up on them
This podcast explores the process of leaving a relationship, addressing guilt and empowering listeners to make the right decisions. It also discusses rejection sensitive dysphoria and emotional self-regulation, the importance of recognizing unhealthy relationships, and the challenges of emotional regulation in relationships.

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Aug 24, 2023 • 54min
240. Why discipline is your ticket to the life you want
Discover the significance of discipline in achieving freedom, self-love, and self-respect. Learn about a woman who can smell Parkinson's disease and the compounds in skin oil that indicate the disease. Explore the importance of discipline for achieving goals and the misconceptions surrounding it. Gain insights on implementing discipline in your life and navigating disappointment in relationships.

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Aug 20, 2023 • 47min
239. Green flags to look for in your day
Learn about green flags and how they can improve happiness, productivity, relationships, and peace of mind. Understand hangovers and how to manage symptoms. Recognize green flags and redirect energy. Turn envy into motivation. Explore the positive effects of being in a flow state. Find flow state and address negative self-talk.

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Aug 17, 2023 • 46min
238. You do not have to be the bigger person. Your peace of mind comes first
The podcast discusses when it is okay to not be the bigger person, emphasizing the importance of setting boundaries and prioritizing peace of mind. It also explores personal growth, understanding manipulative messages, and rebuilding after difficult situations. The speaker addresses a listener's question about navigating fallout with a friend group after getting married.

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Jul 30, 2023 • 45min
237. How to overcome retroactive jealousy and overthinking in a relationship (E)
On this episode I cover how to deal with feelings of retroactive jealousy and overthinking in a relationship, and how overcoming these feelings will improve the quality of your relationship not only with your partner but with yourself. When you master this, you will feel more confident within yourself and happier in your skin. (Encore episode) See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Jul 27, 2023 • 48min
236. Determine your own value and never look for it in other places again
On this episode I break down the difference between perceived value and actual value. How to stop letting other people determine your value and how to use the idea of value exchange and the principal of effort + sacrifice to turn everything around and start determining your own value. Brain Fact : Zahavian signal See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jul 23, 2023 • 55min
235. Chase change, don’t let change chase you
On today’s episode I talk about my favorite statement and one I try and live by all the time. How to become someone who is adaptable and resilient to change and loss and how to gain so much more along the way. I will talk about how to become someone who takes control of the changes in their life, instead of leading a life where you are only reactive to the things that happen to you and end up feeling powerless to external situations. Brain Fact: The link between oversleeping and health problems See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jul 20, 2023 • 45min
234. The difference between drive and self-control and how to have both
On today’s episode I break down what drive is compared to self control, how to know where your strengths are and where you weaknesses are and then I give you tools to help create a balance between the two. Brain Fact: Changing your surroundings to improve your focus See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.