

Do You F*cking Mind?
Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa
Mindset hacks for a badass life, hosted by cognitive neuroscientist Alexis Fernandez. On Mondays my episodes are a combo of neuroscience and psychology. I deep dive into everything from habit formation and how to live a carefree life, to friendships and heartbreak. And on Fridays we've got Head Noise - where I answer your questions! Email info@dyfmpod.com to submit your questions. Order your copy of my latest book How to Chase Change at https://bit.ly/44xwszR .
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Aug 21, 2024 • 37min
356. HEADNOISE: Sharing Your Truth, Coming Out & Living Authentically
The discussion centers around the challenges of coming out, especially in difficult family dynamics. Personal boundaries take the spotlight as a vital tool for self-acceptance and navigating relationships. Listeners hear inspiring stories of resilience from those grappling with homophobia and toxic friendships. The importance of sharing one’s truth is emphasized, encouraging others to do the same. This journey towards authenticity is intertwined with practical advice for reclaiming personal power and fostering supportive communities.

Aug 20, 2024 • 15min
FOCUS: How To Stop C*ck Blocking Yourself From Doing Things
The discussion centers on the importance of taking immediate action over just talking about goals. It emphasizes embracing imperfection and the early struggles that come with starting something new. Listeners are encouraged to view failure as a stepping stone towards growth. There’s a powerful message about fostering confidence through small achievements, which prepares one for bigger challenges. Overall, it’s a call to prioritize doing over seeking validation to truly grow and succeed.

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Aug 18, 2024 • 53min
355.Stop Arguing For Your Limitations & Do This Instead
Explore how self-imposed limitations can stifle personal growth and learn strategies to break free. Discover the transformative power of reframing obstacles into motivation. Hear inspiring stories that highlight the importance of challenging your beliefs and embracing empowerment. The discussion encourages recognizing limitations not as fixed barriers but as opportunities for growth. Unleash your potential by reshaping your mindset and taking responsibility for your choices!

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Aug 14, 2024 • 48min
Determine your own value and never look for it in other places again (E)
Discover the differences between perceived and actual value while learning to determine your own self-worth. Explore a transformative 30-day task designed for self-discovery and the fascinating Zahavian signal concept, which links honesty and attractiveness. Delve into the power of honest signaling in relationships and society, emphasizing true intentions over superficial traits. Understand the journey to genuine self-worth, using a pyramid analogy to differentiate true value from accolades. Finally, embrace self-value in relationships to foster deeper connections.

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Aug 13, 2024 • 13min
FOCUS: Do Your Future Self a Favour
Dive into the emotional and physical struggles women face before their periods, with a focus on proactive wellness. Learn how small, actionable steps can create significant changes for your future self. The importance of meal prepping and organizing tasks is highlighted for achieving personal growth. Discover strategies to conquer procrastination, including the 'five second rule,' and realize how today's choices shape your long-term happiness.

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Aug 11, 2024 • 43min
354. Dealing With Resentment Part 1
Explore the nuanced emotions of resentment, distinguishing it from anger and learning effective management strategies. Delve into the complexities of chronic fatigue syndrome, uncovering its symptoms and neurological roots. Understand how resentment intertwines with mental health and its impact on relationships. Gain insights on navigating unbalanced relationships, exploring strategies for emotional understanding and adjustment. Discover transformative approaches to shift mindsets over 30 days with an upcoming audiobook.

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Aug 11, 2024 • 21min
354. Dealing with Resentment Part 2
The hosts dive deep into the murky waters of resentment, sharing listener scenarios to shed light on feelings of powerlessness. They discuss the significance of reclaiming personal power, backed by insights from childhood experiences. Practical strategies are offered to let go of unhealthy expectations in relationships. Emotional boundaries come into play as they highlight the key role of communication in fostering intimacy. This engaging conversation encourages self-awareness and offers a roadmap to healthier connections.

Aug 10, 2024 • 16min
FOCUS: Breaking Down Different Kinds Of Stress & How Stress Impacts The Brain On A Structural Level & How To Reverse It.
Dive into the complexities of stress and how it affects women's health, focusing on premenstrual challenges and hormone balance. Discover the critical differences between acute and chronic stress and their unique impacts on brain functionality. Learn how acute stress can boost motivation while chronic stress may lead to cognitive impairments. Gain insights into strategies to protect your brain and potentially reverse stress-related damage for better overall well-being.

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Aug 9, 2024 • 9min
FOCUS: How To Move Past The Feeling Of Being Owed Something By Someone. How To Expect Less From Others But Improve The Relationship At The Same Time While Providing More For Yourself.
Explore the power of letting go of expectations in relationships. Discover how self-reliance can enhance emotional support and improve connections. Learn to navigate the tricky dynamics of dependency while liberating yourself from feelings of being owed. Gain insights on providing more for yourself while creating healthier relationships with others. This conversation dives deep into fostering personal growth and redefining interactions to foster mutual respect and understanding.

Aug 8, 2024 • 11min
FOCUS: Simple Steps in Learning to Release Control in Order to Manage Your Burnout.
Dive into the complexities of burnout and how it affects both work and personal lives. Discover practical strategies to recognize symptoms and differentiate burnout from chronic stress. The discussion offers valuable insights on coping mechanisms that can lead to relief and improved well-being. Plus, get a sneak peek at an upcoming audiobook focused on navigating change and managing daily pressures.