
Do You F*cking Mind?
Mindset hacks for a badass life, hosted by cognitive neuroscientist Alexis Fernandez.
On Mondays my episodes are a combo of neuroscience and psychology. I deep dive into everything from habit formation and how to live a carefree life, to friendships and heartbreak.
And on Thursdays we've got Head Noise - where I answer your questions! Email info@dyfmpod.com to submit your questions.
Order your copy of my latest book How to Chase Change - exclusively an audiobook - at https://bit.ly/44xwszR .
Latest episodes

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Jul 31, 2024 • 42min
351. Am I The Drama?
Dive into the complexities of self-awareness in relationships and the drama that unfolds within friendships. Explore the pain of exclusion and betrayal as boundaries are crossed. The struggle with jealousy in friendships takes center stage, emphasizing the need for communication. Reflect on how romantic relationships can change dynamics with friends, highlighting feelings of sidelining. Personal anecdotes provide insight into navigating these emotional challenges while fostering inclusivity and open dialogue.

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Jul 28, 2024 • 40min
350. The Science of Delayed Gratification & How it Can Change Your Life
Explore the fascinating science of delayed gratification and its transformative effects on personal growth and mental health. Discover insights from the iconic marshmallow study, revealing how impulse control shapes future success and social skills. Delve into the brain's workings, highlighting the impact of DHA, an essential Omega-3 fatty acid, on cognitive function. Learn practical strategies for mastering delayed gratification, emphasizing the balance between immediate rewards and long-term goals.

Jul 27, 2024 • 8min
BONUS: Get out of your own way today
Explore how to break free from self-imposed barriers that hold you back from achieving your potential. Discover effective motivational strategies designed to tackle mental hurdles. Learn the significance of identifying negative thought patterns and how to combat them. Take away practical, small steps that can propel you toward your goals. This is the perfect boost to conquer those dreaded Sunday scaries!

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Jul 24, 2024 • 40min
349. 9 Neuroscientific Ways To Increase your Focus for Study, Learn faster and Improve Retention
Discover actionable neuroscientific ways to increase focus for studying, including strategies like changing study locations, associating study with positive emotions, and prioritizing sleep. Learn about Chronic Traumatic Encephalopathy and its impact on the brain, and explore personal transformation tips for improving learning and focus.

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Jul 21, 2024 • 39min
348. The science behind why a tactical cry is good for you (and crying to sad music too)
This podcast delves into the science behind crying, explaining how emotional tears can benefit emotional well-being. It explores unique breakup reasons shared by listeners and unconventional dumping stories. The episode also discusses EMDR therapy for PTSD, the therapeutic effects of crying, and using sad music for emotional healing.

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Jul 18, 2024 • 53min
347. Advice you Didn't Know you Needed
This podcast episode provides advice on dealing with hard decisions, difficult people, making life changes, education, bullying, healing from betrayal, handling mansplainers, communication, relationships, overcoming scarcity mindset, rejection, seeking growth, diverse insights on politics, memory improvement, infidelity, emotional regulation, sexual harmony, terminating friendships, setting boundaries, finding motivation, workout routines, and reading people for enhancing relationships and efficiency.

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Jul 14, 2024 • 59min
346. Dealing with Energy Vampires and Negative People
Learn how to identify and deal with energy vampires, set boundaries, and protect your mental well-being. Explore the impact of toxic relationships on creativity, family time, and physical health. Navigate through strategies to handle negative people and maintain emotional balance.

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Jul 10, 2024 • 57min
345. Change Your Money Mindset and Live Your Rich Life with Ramit Sethi
Ramit Sethi, author of 'I Will Teach You to Be Rich', discusses changing money mindset, budgeting tips, travel dreams, teaching kids about money, and overcoming financial fears. Embrace a proactive money mindset for a wealthy life.

Jul 7, 2024 • 37min
344. Should I demand an apology? How do I deal with draining friends?
On this DYFM Head Noise episode, I answer your stories! How to deal with your best friends boyfriend who you cannot stand? How to welcome love when you feel like you have it all? How to deal with energy vampire friends? I give some hard truths and (very) tough love so you can change your situation and not let people affect you so much. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jul 3, 2024 • 46min
343. How to Make Friends in your 20s, 30s and Beyond
This is one of my most requested topics! It is something that so many people want advice on or struggle with so let's dive DEEP into this topic. Heaps of hot take aways in this ep so keep your wits about you and grab a pen and paper its gonna be INTENSE. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.