
Do You F*cking Mind?
Mindset hacks for a badass life, hosted by cognitive neuroscientist Alexis Fernandez.
On Mondays my episodes are a combo of neuroscience and psychology. I deep dive into everything from habit formation and how to live a carefree life, to friendships and heartbreak.
And on Thursdays we've got Head Noise - where I answer your questions! Email info@dyfmpod.com to submit your questions.
Order your copy of my latest book How to Chase Change - exclusively an audiobook - at https://bit.ly/44xwszR .
Latest episodes

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Aug 13, 2024 • 12min
FOCUS: Do Your Future Self a Favour
Dive into the emotional and physical struggles women face before their periods, with a focus on proactive wellness. Learn how small, actionable steps can create significant changes for your future self. The importance of meal prepping and organizing tasks is highlighted for achieving personal growth. Discover strategies to conquer procrastination, including the 'five second rule,' and realize how today's choices shape your long-term happiness.

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Aug 11, 2024 • 41min
354. Dealing With Resentment Part 1
Explore the nuanced emotions of resentment, distinguishing it from anger and learning effective management strategies. Delve into the complexities of chronic fatigue syndrome, uncovering its symptoms and neurological roots. Understand how resentment intertwines with mental health and its impact on relationships. Gain insights on navigating unbalanced relationships, exploring strategies for emotional understanding and adjustment. Discover transformative approaches to shift mindsets over 30 days with an upcoming audiobook.

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Aug 11, 2024 • 20min
354. Dealing with Resentment Part 2
The hosts dive deep into the murky waters of resentment, sharing listener scenarios to shed light on feelings of powerlessness. They discuss the significance of reclaiming personal power, backed by insights from childhood experiences. Practical strategies are offered to let go of unhealthy expectations in relationships. Emotional boundaries come into play as they highlight the key role of communication in fostering intimacy. This engaging conversation encourages self-awareness and offers a roadmap to healthier connections.

Aug 10, 2024 • 15min
FOCUS: Breaking Down Different Kinds Of Stress & How Stress Impacts The Brain On A Structural Level & How To Reverse It.
Dive into the complexities of stress and how it affects women's health, focusing on premenstrual challenges and hormone balance. Discover the critical differences between acute and chronic stress and their unique impacts on brain functionality. Learn how acute stress can boost motivation while chronic stress may lead to cognitive impairments. Gain insights into strategies to protect your brain and potentially reverse stress-related damage for better overall well-being.

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Aug 9, 2024 • 7min
FOCUS: How To Move Past The Feeling Of Being Owed Something By Someone. How To Expect Less From Others But Improve The Relationship At The Same Time While Providing More For Yourself.
Explore the power of letting go of expectations in relationships. Discover how self-reliance can enhance emotional support and improve connections. Learn to navigate the tricky dynamics of dependency while liberating yourself from feelings of being owed. Gain insights on providing more for yourself while creating healthier relationships with others. This conversation dives deep into fostering personal growth and redefining interactions to foster mutual respect and understanding.

Aug 8, 2024 • 10min
FOCUS: Simple Steps in Learning to Release Control in Order to Manage Your Burnout.
Dive into the complexities of burnout and how it affects both work and personal lives. Discover practical strategies to recognize symptoms and differentiate burnout from chronic stress. The discussion offers valuable insights on coping mechanisms that can lead to relief and improved well-being. Plus, get a sneak peek at an upcoming audiobook focused on navigating change and managing daily pressures.

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Aug 7, 2024 • 36min
353. HEADNOISE: Becoming More Spontaneous, Letting Go Of Animosity & How To Not Need To Control Everything.
Discover how to navigate toxic friendships while embracing spontaneity. Learn tips for balancing planning and flexibility during travel. Uncover strategies for managing work stress and setting boundaries to improve life satisfaction. Find out how to approach amicable breakups with grace and personal growth. Plus, explore ways to handle hormonal health challenges, particularly during PMS. With interactive listener segments and insights into change, this discussion encourages a fresh perspective on relationships and self-care!

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Aug 6, 2024 • 7min
FOCUS: Stop Ruminating, Letting Go Of The Need To Have An Answer For Everything & Being At Peace.
Dive into the complexities of rumination and how our minds replay past scenarios. Discover the emotional biases that cloud our perceptions and the link between mood and our interpretations of events. Learn to embrace uncertainty as a way to liberate yourself from mental burdens. It’s a crucial step towards achieving inner peace and moving forward in life.

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Aug 5, 2024 • 6min
FOCUS: The Part of the Brain Responsible for Willpower. How it Differs in Size & Why it Determines your Level of Restraint (which can be changed)
Delve into the fascinating link between willpower and brain structure! Discover how the anterior mid-cingulate cortex can grow with practice, showcasing that willpower is not just innate but a skill that can be developed. This engaging discussion encourages listeners to face challenges as opportunities for personal growth and resilience, reshaping their perceptions of self-control and determination.

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Aug 4, 2024 • 45min
352. When Is It Okay To Give a Second Chance?
Dive into the nuances of second chances in relationships, exploring the pivotal role of self-care and boundary-setting. Discover the fine line between accountability and forgiveness while reflecting on personal motives. A fascinating detour into medically induced comas reveals their purpose and procedures, adding an unexpected twist. Plus, get ready for fresh insights on resilience and change with a sneak peek of a new audiobook. This discussion is not just about love; it’s about learning when to hold on and when to let go.