Unhooked: Breaking Porn Addiction Podcast

In this engaging episode of the Unhooked podcast, host Jeremy Lipkowitz and self-leadership coach Jord Cuiper explore personal growth, self-trust, and the courage to embrace change. They examine the 'first mountain syndrome' as a metaphor for a life path lacking joy and fulfilment. The speakers highlight the role of environment on behaviours and goals and the need to align actions with core values. They discuss the significance of setting boundaries and tackling addictions as signals of dissatisfaction. A focal point is the importance of recognizing when one's on the 'wrong mountain' and the bravery required to change paths despite significant investments in the current one. The discussion underscores embracing the unknown and giving one’s all to reach one's potential as integral to personal development and an authentic and satisfying life.01:08 The Discomfort in Pursuit of Personal Growth02:22 Exploring the Importance of Environment in Personal Growth04:39 The Impact of Environment on Personal and Business Growth09:02 The Fear of the Unknown and the Courage to Change10:36 The Importance of Courageous Action in Personal Growth20:36 The Impact of Protective Mechanisms on Personal Growth34:33 The Challenge of Setting Boundaries and Speaking Your Truth42:59 Exploring Masculinity: What Does It Mean to Be a Man?46:07 The Importance of Embodiment in Self-Leadership47:06 The Dangers of Spiritual Materialism47:36 The Importance of Ethical Practice in Personal Growth50:05 The Gap Between Knowing and Living Your Values52:00 Redefining Success: Living by Your Highest Values52:29 The Dangers of Pursuing the Wrong Goals01:14:11 The Importance of Personal Growth in Achieving SuccessConnect with Jord:https://www.instagram.com/jordcuiper/https://www.jordcuiper.com/--------Interested in getting 1:1 coaching support? Learn about my Coaching Program and book a free discovery call: https://www.jeremylipkowitz.com/introGET NOTIFIED WHEN DOORS OPEN TO UNHOOKED RECOVERY: https://jeremylipkowitz.mykajabi.com/unhookedConnect with me on Social:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremylipkowitz/Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremylipkowitz/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/JeremyLipkowitzABOUT JEREMY LIPKOWTZJEREMY IS A MEDITATION TEACHER, LIFE COACH, AND DIGITAL HABITS EXPERT WHO WORKS WITH ENTREPRENEURS, EXECUTIVES, AND LEADERS.Jeremy overcame addiction, shame, self-judgement, and depression in his early twenties with the help of mindfulness meditation. Mindfulness not only helped him let go of destructive behaviors, it also allowed him to connect with deeper meaning and purpose in his life.For the past 10 years Jeremy has been teaching mindfulness and emotional intelligence practices at universities, recovery centers, and companies throughout Asia and the US. He holds a Bachelors and Master’s degree in Genetics and Genomics, and spent several years at Duke University working towards a PhD in Genetics & Systems Biology before he turned full-time to teaching mindfulness.Jeremy is also an ICF certified Executive Coach. As a former scientist and academic, Jeremy has a great passion for bringing his EI based coaching skills into the corporate and professional world. He realizes how powerful & transformative these practices can be for skeptics and senior-level managers. He is known for his calm and grounded demeanor, his expertise in habits and high-performance, and his compassionate approach to transformation.

Explore the fascinating psychology behind modern pornography's addictive qualities. Delve into the concept of intermittent rewards and how it keeps users ensnared in compulsive behaviors. Understand the emotional triggers that fuel this addiction and discover healthier dopamine alternatives. Gain insights into effective recovery strategies to break free from this digital trap. This thought-provoking discussion emphasizes awareness and mindfulness as key tools in overcoming challenges.

Today I am sharing my own story with porn addiction. I've done this now a couple times (sharing my own story) but this conversation pulls out a few new details about my story, and offers more insight into the world of mindfulness and addiction, so I felt it would be helpful to share this one as well. In this episode we dive deep into what addiction is, what porn addiction is, its prevalence, signs and symptomsand my own insight and practical tips on overcoming rock bottoms, dealing with shame, embracing sexuality and much MUCH MORE! Even if Porn may not be your addiction, this episode will be helpful and relevant to any addiction. So if you, or anyone you know, are struggling with addiction of any kind, please listen to and share this episode far and wide! If you enjoyed this convo, you should also consider going and checking out more of Kelsey's Interview on the Human Theater Podcast!--------Interested in getting 1:1 coaching support? Learn about my Coaching Program and book a free discovery call: https://www.jeremylipkowitz.com/introGET NOTIFIED WHEN DOORS OPEN TO UNHOOKED RECOVERY: https://jeremylipkowitz.mykajabi.com/unhookedConnect with me on Social:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremylipkowitz/Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremylipkowitz/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/JeremyLipkowitzABOUT JEREMY LIPKOWTZJEREMY IS A MEDITATION TEACHER, LIFE COACH, AND DIGITAL HABITS EXPERT WHO WORKS WITH ENTREPRENEURS, EXECUTIVES, AND LEADERS.Jeremy overcame addiction, shame, self-judgement, and depression in his early twenties with the help of mindfulness meditation. Mindfulness not only helped him let go of destructive behaviors, it also allowed him to connect with deeper meaning and purpose in his life.For the past 10 years Jeremy has been teaching mindfulness and emotional intelligence practices at universities, recovery centers, and companies throughout Asia and the US. He holds a Bachelors and Master’s degree in Genetics and Genomics, and spent several years at Duke University working towards a PhD in Genetics & Systems Biology before he turned full-time to teaching mindfulness.Jeremy is also an ICF certified Executive Coach. As a former scientist and academic, Jeremy has a great passion for bringing his EI based coaching skills into the corporate and professional world. He realizes how powerful & transformative these practices can be for skeptics and senior-level managers. He is known for his calm and grounded demeanor, his expertise in habits and high-performance, and his compassionate approach to transformation.Coaching Certifications* CPCC, Co-Active Training Institute* ICF Member* ACC International Coaching FederationJeremy is a Certified Teacher with the Search Inside Yourself Leadership Institute, a mindfulness-based emotional intelligence program initially developed at Google. He also spent time living and training as a fully-ordained Buddhist monk in Myanmar. He now combines his science-based expertise with a hunger for personal development to help others discipline their minds and achieve genuine inner- peace and fulfillment.  

"When a man can't find a deep sense of meaning, they distract themselves with pleasure." - Viktor FranklIn this episode of "Unhooked," we delve into the essence of living a more spiritual life by uncovering three simple steps that anyone, regardless of their beliefs, can begin practicing today. These steps offer a universal approach to cultivating a deeper sense of meaning, purpose, and connection in your life. We'll explore how to avoid unwholesome actions, cultivate wholesome ones, and most importantly, how to purify your heart and mind, a crucial aspect often overlooked in many traditions. Join us as we break down these three pillars of spiritual living, providing you with practical insights and guidance for your personal journey towards a more meaningful and fulfilling life.-------------------Interested in getting 1:1 coaching support? Learn about my Coaching Program and book a free discovery call: https://www.jeremylipkowitz.com/introGET NOTIFIED WHEN DOORS OPEN TO UNHOOKED RECOVERY: https://jeremylipkowitz.mykajabi.com/unhookedConnect with me on Social:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremylipkowitz/Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremylipkowitz/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/JeremyLipkowitzABOUT JEREMY LIPKOWTZJEREMY IS A MEDITATION TEACHER, LIFE COACH, AND DIGITAL HABITS EXPERT WHO WORKS WITH ENTREPRENEURS, EXECUTIVES, AND LEADERS.Jeremy overcame addiction, shame, self-judgement, and depression in his early twenties with the help of mindfulness meditation. Mindfulness not only helped him let go of destructive behaviors, it also allowed him to connect with deeper meaning and purpose in his life.For the past 10 years Jeremy has been teaching mindfulness and emotional intelligence practices at universities, recovery centers, and companies throughout Asia and the US. He holds a Bachelors and Master’s degree in Genetics and Genomics, and spent several years at Duke University working towards a PhD in Genetics & Systems Biology before he turned full-time to teaching mindfulness.Jeremy is also an ICF certified Executive Coach. As a former scientist and academic, Jeremy has a great passion for bringing his EI based coaching skills into the corporate and professional world. He realizes how powerful & transformative these practices can be for skeptics and senior-level managers. He is known for his calm and grounded demeanor, his expertise in habits and high-performance, and his compassionate approach to transformation.Coaching Certifications* CPCC, Co-Active Training Institute* ICF Member* ACC International Coaching FederationJeremy is a Certified Teacher with the Search Inside Yourself Leadership Institute, a mindfulness-based emotional intelligence program initially developed at Google. He also spent time living and training as a fully-ordained Buddhist monk in Myanmar. He now combines his science-based expertise with a hunger for personal development to help others discipline their minds and achieve genuine inner- peace and fulfillment.  

From battling severe anorexia and bulimia to becoming a nutrition advisor and health coach, Kelsey Buchalter is a true inspiration. Listen to her story on our latest podcast episode! --In this interview, I speak with Kelsey Buchalter, a health coach, TEDx speaker, and someone who has successfully navigated severe anorexia, bulimia, and anxiety. We discuss various topics including Kelsey's journey from fighting serious health issues to becoming a mental, physical, and spiritual health advocate. Kelsey shares her unique insights into using physical activity (dance), a specific diet (carnivore ), movement, sleep, and community as key pillars to recovery. Towards the end, we emphasize the need for personal responsibility in recovery and how Kelsey used self-education to alter her perspective towards health.https://www.instagram.com/kelseybuchalter/ https://open.spotify.com/show/0kXrqL9gzQofnlpQWK5R1D https://podcasts.apple.com/za/podcast/the-human-theatre/id1625694010 , https://www.linkedin.com/in/kelsey-buchalter-4b7103259-------------------ABOUT JEREMY LIPKOWTZJEREMY IS A MEDITATION TEACHER, LIFE COACH, AND DIGITAL HABITS EXPERT WHO WORKS WITH ENTREPRENEURS, EXECUTIVES, AND LEADERS.Jeremy overcame addiction, shame, self-judgement, and depression in his early twenties with the help of mindfulness meditation. Mindfulness not only helped him let go of destructive behaviors, it also allowed him to connect with deeper meaning and purpose in his life.For the past 10 years Jeremy has been teaching mindfulness and emotional intelligence practices at universities, recovery centers, and companies throughout Asia and the US. He holds a Bachelors and Master’s degree in Genetics and Genomics, and spent several years at Duke University working towards a PhD in Genetics & Systems Biology before he turned full-time to teaching mindfulness.Jeremy is also an ICF certified Executive Coach. As a former scientist and academic, Jeremy has a great passion for bringing his EI based coaching skills into the corporate and professional world. He realizes how powerful & transformative these practices can be for skeptics and senior-level managers. He is known for his calm and grounded demeanor, his expertise in habits and high-performance, and his compassionate approach to transformation.Coaching Certifications* CPCC, Co-Active Training Institute* ICF Member* ACC International Coaching FederationJeremy is a Certified Teacher with the Search Inside Yourself Leadership Institute, a mindfulness-based emotional intelligence program initially developed at Google. He also spent time living and training as a fully-ordained Buddhist monk in Myanmar. He now combines his science-based expertise with a hunger for personal development to help others discipline their minds and achieve genuine inner- peace and fulfillment.  

Explore profound topics like shame, self-doubt and addiction with James Oliver, a self-leadership coach. Discover strategies to overcome shame, break the cycle of self-abuse and understand the connection between pornography and relationships. Learn about the importance of self-awareness, vulnerability, and healing shame through Internal Family Systems. Dive into personal experiences of pornography addiction and the benefits of celibacy and self-pleasure practice. Embrace sexuality without shame for a stronger connection with oneself.

The podcast discusses 7 habits to becoming porn-free and making 2024 the best year. It emphasizes setting fulfilling goals, letting go of what holds you back, and embracing discomfort. Mindfulness, meditation, and physical health are explored as essential tools for personal growth and addiction recovery.

Today, we're diving into the game-changing world of morning routines. Inspired by Hal Elrod's "The Miracle Morning," I'll walk you through the key elements of S.A.V.E.R.S: Silence, Affirmations, Visualizations, Exercise, Reading, and Scribing.Morning routines set the tone for your day, and nailing them means taking charge of your life. From meditation to affirmations and exercise, these rituals pack a punch in just a few minutes. Find what resonates with you, whether it's a quick five-minute routine or a longer commitment.As we approach 2024, let's make January 1st the day to kickstart a new habit. Merry Christmas and happy holidays—enjoy the time with your loved ones. I'll catch you on the next episode as we embrace the power of morning routines for a fulfilling year ahead!----------Interested in getting 1:1 coaching support? Learn about my Coaching Program and book a free discovery call: https://www.jeremylipkowitz.com/introGET NOTIFIED WHEN DOORS OPEN TO UNHOOKED RECOVERY: https://jeremylipkowitz.mykajabi.com/unhookedConnect with me on Social:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremylipkowitz/Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremylipkowitz/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/JeremyLipkowitz--- ABOUT THE HOST:JEREMY IS A MEDITATION TEACHER, LIFE COACH, AND DIGITAL HABITS EXPERT WHO WORKS WITH ENTREPRENEURS, EXECUTIVES, AND LEADERS.Jeremy overcame addiction, shame, self-judgement, and depression in his early twenties with the help of mindfulness meditation. Mindfulness not only helped him let go of destructive behaviors, it also allowed him to connect with deeper meaning and purpose in his life.For the past 10 years Jeremy has been teaching mindfulness and emotional intelligence practices at universities, recovery centers, and companies throughout Asia and the US. He holds a Bachelors and Master’s degree in Genetics and Genomics, and spent several years at Duke University working towards a PhD in Genetics & Systems Biology before he turned full-time to teaching mindfulness.Jeremy is also an ICF certified Executive Coach. As a former scientist and academic, Jeremy has a great passion for bringing his EI based coaching skills into the corporate and professional world. He realizes how powerful & transformative these practices can be for skeptics and senior-level managers. He is known for his calm and grounded demeanor, his expertise in habits and high-performance, and his compassionate approach to transformation.Coaching Certifications* CPCC, Co-Active Training Institute* ICF Member* ACC International Coaching FederationJeremy is a Certified Teacher with the Search Inside Yourself Leadership Institute, a mindfulness-based emotional intelligence program initially developed at Google. He also spent time living and training as a fully-ordained Buddhist monk in Myanmar. He now combines his science-based expertise with a hunger for personal development to help others discipline their minds and achieve genuine inner- peace and fulfillment.   

Today we'll explore a topic that touches each of us at some point in our lives—the necessity to confront the uncomfortable truths about our paths and acknowledge when things aren't aligning with our deepest aspirations. Join me as we explore the nuances of admitting misalignments, especially in the subtle grey areas often overshadowed by denial. From social media habits to seeking validation, we confront the silent discrepancies that impact our lives. Drawing on reflections from a recent silent meditation retreat, I navigate the process of self-awareness and the bravery it takes to recognize when actions fall short of our ethical principles. As we discuss strategies for realignment, from journaling and seeking feedback to embracing change, let's uncover the courage needed to pivot when our plans aren't yielding the desired results. So, let's dive in and explore the transformative power of acknowledging, evolving, and embracing change for a more authentic life.Interested in getting 1:1 coaching support? Learn about my Coaching Program and book a free discovery call: https://www.jeremylipkowitz.com/introGET NOTIFIED WHEN DOORS OPEN TO UNHOOKED RECOVERY: https://jeremylipkowitz.mykajabi.com/unhookedConnect with me on Social:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremylipkowitz/Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremylipkowitz/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/JeremyLipkowitz--- ABOUT THE HOST:JEREMY IS A MEDITATION TEACHER, LIFE COACH, AND DIGITAL HABITS EXPERT WHO WORKS WITH ENTREPRENEURS, EXECUTIVES, AND LEADERS.Jeremy overcame addiction, shame, self-judgement, and depression in his early twenties with the help of mindfulness meditation. Mindfulness not only helped him let go of destructive behaviors, it also allowed him to connect with deeper meaning and purpose in his life.For the past 10 years Jeremy has been teaching mindfulness and emotional intelligence practices at universities, recovery centers, and companies throughout Asia and the US. He holds a Bachelors and Master’s degree in Genetics and Genomics, and spent several years at Duke University working towards a PhD in Genetics & Systems Biology before he turned full-time to teaching mindfulness.Jeremy is also an ICF certified Executive Coach. As a former scientist and academic, Jeremy has a great passion for bringing his EI based coaching skills into the corporate and professional world. He realizes how powerful & transformative these practices can be for skeptics and senior-level managers. He is known for his calm and grounded demeanor, his expertise in habits and high-performance, and his compassionate approach to transformation.Coaching Certifications* CPCC, Co-Active Training Institute* ICF Member* ACC International Coaching FederationJeremy is a Certified Teacher with the Search Inside Yourself Leadership Institute, a mindfulness-based emotional intelligence program initially developed at Google. He also spent time living and training as a fully-ordained Buddhist monk in Myanmar. He now combines his science-based expertise with a hunger for personal development to help others discipline their minds and achieve genuine inner- peace and fulfillment.   

In today's episode, recorded just before I head into my 10-day silent vipassana meditation retreat, I delve into the transformative power of silent retreats and share six compelling reasons why you should consider embarking on this introspective journey in 2024. From unraveling the mysteries of your mind to realizing the self-created nature of suffering, each insight is a stepping stone toward a more mindful and fulfilled life. Stay tuned to the end for a limited-time offer!Here's a link to the discount code for the meditation course: https://jeremylipkowitz.mykajabi.com/offers/6w4ypimW?coupon_code=RETREATThe offer expires on Dec 17th, so act now to get access to the course!------Interested in getting 1:1 coaching support? Learn about my Coaching Program and book a free discovery call: https://www.jeremylipkowitz.com/introGET NOTIFIED WHEN DOORS OPEN TO UNHOOKED RECOVERY: https://jeremylipkowitz.mykajabi.com/unhookedConnect with me on Social:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremylipkowitz/Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremylipkowitz/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/JeremyLipkowitz--- ABOUT THE HOST:JEREMY IS A MEDITATION TEACHER, LIFE COACH, AND DIGITAL HABITS EXPERT WHO WORKS WITH ENTREPRENEURS, EXECUTIVES, AND LEADERS.Jeremy overcame addiction, shame, self-judgement, and depression in his early twenties with the help of mindfulness meditation. Mindfulness not only helped him let go of destructive behaviors, it also allowed him to connect with deeper meaning and purpose in his life.For the past 10 years Jeremy has been teaching mindfulness and emotional intelligence practices at universities, recovery centers, and companies throughout Asia and the US. He holds a Bachelors and Master’s degree in Genetics and Genomics, and spent several years at Duke University working towards a PhD in Genetics & Systems Biology before he turned full-time to teaching mindfulness.Jeremy is also an ICF certified Executive Coach. As a former scientist and academic, Jeremy has a great passion for bringing his EI based coaching skills into the corporate and professional world. He realizes how powerful & transformative these practices can be for skeptics and senior-level managers. He is known for his calm and grounded demeanor, his expertise in habits and high-performance, and his compassionate approach to transformation.Coaching Certifications* CPCC, Co-Active Training Institute* ICF Member* ACC International Coaching FederationJeremy is a Certified Teacher with the Search Inside Yourself Leadership Institute, a mindfulness-based emotional intelligence program initially developed at Google. He also spent time living and training as a fully-ordained Buddhist monk in Myanmar. He now combines his science-based expertise with a hunger for personal development to help others discipline their minds and achieve genuine inner- peace and fulfillment.