

Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser
Cam Fraser
"Men, Sex, and Pleasure" is a podcast discussing all things masculinity, sexuality, male bodies and men's experience of pleasure.
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May 8, 2024 • 5min
Quicky #59 The Life of a Male Sex Worker (with Dex Parker)
From episode #59 with Dex Parker. More from that episode:
- Dex shares about his journey
- What is sex work?
- Experiences of a male sex worker
- Erotic content creation
- Alternative expressions of male sexuality
- Discussing pornography
- Advice for exploring your sexuality

May 5, 2024 • 58min
#212 Breathwork for Men: Energy, Expression, and Orgasm (with Oli Jenkinson)
On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Oli Jenkinson. Oli embarked on his Breathwork journey over 5 years ago amidst the stress of his corporate job, discovering its power to activate his parasympathetic nervous system. Through intuitive exploration and formal training in Bali, he delved deeper into Conscious Connected Breathing, experiencing profound emotional releases that transformed his life. Combining his personal journey with professional training, he founded Alchemy Breathwork, dedicated to guiding others in emotional healing and resilience. Rejecting hyper-spiritualism, Oli's approach emphasizes practical, sustainable growth, helping individuals navigate and process emotions for a fulfilling life. His mission is to provide a space where people can authentically heal and thrive.
Key Points:
- Oli introduces himself
- Breathwork, catharsis, and surrender
- Breathwork at home
- The energetics of breathwork
- Breathwork for men
- Engaging the throat, diaphragm, and perineum
Relevant links:
Oli’s website: https://www.alchemybreathwork.com.au/
Oli’s Instagram: @alchemy.breathwork

May 1, 2024 • 4min
Quicky #58 Finding Your Sexual Edges (with Yuval Mann)
Sexuality coach Yuval Mann discusses his life journey, overcoming sexual blockages, defining sacredness, and emotional regulation. Topics include exploring sexual boundaries, embodiment work, and being present in the moment for enriched sexual experiences.

Apr 28, 2024 • 57min
#211 Body Image and your Sex Life (with Gabriella de Mori)
On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Gabriella de Mori. Gabriella is a registered counsellor with a Masters Degree in Counselling who thrives on coaching women from emotional overwhelm to self-confidence so they learn to trust themselves to take care of their inner world with grace. Based in Fremantle, Perth she operates a successful private practice offering a variety of dynamic and holistic services that include individual counselling, couples counselling, group courses and coaching, a meditation library and digital resources she has created.
Key points:
- Gabriella introduces herself
- Social media and not feeling “good enough”
- Meditating and self-esteem
- Mindfulness as foreplay
- Dating, feeling sexy, and anxiety
- Unrealistic expectations
Relevant links:
Gabriella’s Instagram: @gabriella.de.mori
Gabriella’s website: https://www.gabriellademori.com/

Apr 24, 2024 • 4min
Quicky #57 Natural Medicine for Sexual Health Concerns (with Dexter Kendrick)
From episode #57 with Dexter Kendrick.
More from that episode:
- Dexter introduces himself
- Eastern Medicine vs Western Medicine
- Penis heath
- Fertility and conception
- Changing your diet for sexual health
- Prostate health
- Mediumship and sexuality
- Telling people about their future
- Practicing Chinese Medicine as a Black man

Apr 21, 2024 • 1h
#210 Pleasure without Pressure: Anxiety, Intimacy, and Sex (with Sureya Leonara)
On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Sureya Leonara. Sureya is a Holistic Sex & Relationship Coach and Writer. She is on a mission to change the world through healing and liberating sexuality, the seed of our creation, in a way that permeates every area of our lives, not just the bedroom. With eloquence, depth, playfulness, unconventional insight, and penetrating intuition, she catalyses profound shifts in the lives of her clients and audiences.
Key points:
- Sureya introduces herself
- Expanding definitions of pleasure and somatic awareness
- Cultivating curiosity, experimentation, and a no-pressure approach to sex
- Supporting partners through mutual understanding and non-linear intimacy
- Addressing performance anxiety and the mind-body connection
Relevant links:
Sureya’s website: www.sureyaleonara.com
Sureya’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sureya_leonara
Sureya’s Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sureyaleonara
Sureya's free practice: https://blue-block-67264.myflodesk.com/nxsyaw1wyh

Apr 17, 2024 • 5min
Quicky #56 Better Sex with Presence and Variety (with Lauren White)
From episode #56 with Lauren White.
More from that episode:
Lauren shares the evolution of her message
What does it mean to be sexually confident?
The way we talk about masturbation and sex
The problem with being “good in bed”
Embodying your pleasure
Learning to communicate
Comfortability and sexual confidence
Your body is a playground
Advice for women
Advice for men

Apr 14, 2024 • 1h 9min
#209 Semen Retention Debunked (with Cam Fraser)
Cam Fraser, a semen retention debunker, discusses debunking major claims of semen retention practitioners including testosterone, depression, zinc, nutrition, the body, and premature aging. He shares opinions and personal experiences while exploring the myths and scientific evidence around semen retention.

Apr 11, 2024 • 7min
Quicky #55 Building a Matchmaking Business (with Asa Baav)
From episode #55 with Asa Baav.
More from that episode:
- Asa shares about her agency, Tailor Matched
- Matchmaking vs Coaching
- What is sexual compatibility?
- Collecting information about our sexual desires
- Approaching conversations about sexual function
- Dating: Don’t waste your time
- Who is using matchmaking services?
- Expanding the dating pool
- The stigma of using a matchmaking service
- Emphasizing connection over appearance

Apr 8, 2024 • 47min
#208 ADHD and Sexuality (with Daz Alexandra Tendler)
Sexologist Daz Alexandra Tendler discusses ADHD and sexuality, covering topics like defining ADHD, managing symptoms, sexual dysfunction, supporting partners, and enhancing sexual experiences. They provide insights on destigmatizing ADHD, managing distractions, and navigating intimacy, as well as the impact of medication on sensory changes during sex.


