
Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser
The intention with this podcast is to platform people who perhaps haven't been part of the discourse around masculinity and sexuality in the mainstream, spiritual, Tantra and sacred sexuality communities. From sex workers, male strippers, and relationship coaches to psychosexual therapists, transgender educators and indigenous men. "Men, Sex, and Pleasure" is a podcast discussing all things masculinity, sexuality, male bodies and men's experience of pleasure.
Latest episodes

Mar 21, 2024 • 5min
Quicky #52 A Thought Experiment About Porn (with Cam Fraser)
From episode #52, a solo episode with just Cam.
More from that episode:
Introduction to and intentions for the conversation
I understand the harm some porn has caused
Anti-Porn vs Pro-Porn vs Anti-Anti-Porn
What is porn? The problem with definitions
The problem with the “porn is a drug” analogy
Thought experiment: Where do you draw the line
Operation Spanner and private sex groups
Mainstream vs Ethical (Feminist) porn
Messages, escalation, addiction, exploitation

Mar 17, 2024 • 42min
#205 Penis Enlargement and Straightening (with Dr. Peter White)
Dr. Peter White, with 10+ years experience, discusses penile curvature treatment, safe use of Phallosan Forte, expected results, penile health concerns, and customer service focus. Topics include advancements in penis enlargement devices, non-surgical treatments, and the importance of customer support in the field.

Mar 12, 2024 • 5min
Quicky #51 Why Some Straight Men Have Sex With Other Men (with Dr. Joe Kort)
Therapist Dr. Joe Kort discusses heteroflexible, homoflexible men, bisexual erasure, and queering heterosexuality. Topics include fragile masculinity, working with couples in therapy, and sexual fluidity for men and women.

Mar 10, 2024 • 51min
#204 Penis Health: Erections and Enhancement (with Dr. Judson Brandeis)
On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Dr. Judson Brandeis. Dr. Brandies has been voted Top Urologist in the San Francisco Bay Area by San Francisco Magazine from 2014 to 2020. In February 2019, he opened his office in San Ramon, where he focuses his practice entirely on Men’s Sexual Health and Rejuvenation. Dr. Brandeis is the National Director of Clinical Excellence for GAINSWave and created and runs the SWEET Study, the largest study of Shockwave Therapy for erectile dysfunction ever performed. Dr. Brandeis is also a national sexual medicine educator who has run weekend educational seminars all around the United States.
Key points:
- Dr. Brandeis introduces himself
- Erectile dysfunction treatment options
- Low intensity shockwave therapy
- Penile enhancement
- Erection variability and hard flaccid condition
- Risks and adverse effects
Relevant links:
Dr. Brandeis’ website: https://brandeismd.com/
Dr. Brandeis’ Instagram: @judsonbrandeismd

Mar 6, 2024 • 4min
Quicky #50 Men's Desire to Fuck and Kill (with Emily Claire)
Former lawyer turned Tantra practitioner, Emily Claire, shares insights on healing relationships with men and integrating masculine and feminine energies. Topics include men's natural desires, integrating primal instincts with heart and presence, and practical advice for men wanting to begin this work.

Mar 3, 2024 • 1h 6min
#203 Presence and Masculine Sexuality (with Cam Fraser)
On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I share an audio recording of one of my sexuality seminars. The title of this sexuality seminar is, "Presence and Masculine Sexuality. If you're interested in learning more, head to my website and check out what else I have on offer.
Key points:
- Who am I?
- What do I mean by "presence"?
- Practical tools for being more present
- What does "masculine sexuality" mean?
- Practical tools for embodying your masculinity
- An invitation to explore more
Relevant links:
Cam's website: www.cam-fraser.com

Feb 28, 2024 • 5min
Quicky #49 Semen Retention (with Johnathan White)
From episode #49 with Johnathan White.
More from that episode:
- Johnathan shares about his teachings
- Creating your own personal practice
- Learning to listen to your body
- Your first non-ejaculatory ogasm
- Techniques for non-ejaculatory orgasms
- Mantak Chia’s “Million Dollar Point” technique
- Obsessing over and redefining orgasm
- The importance of non-sexual practices
- Semen retention and NoFap
- The energetics of ejaculation
- Conscious ejaculation vs semen retention
- Testicle breathing practice
Relevant Links:
Johnathan’s Instagram: @sexual.kungfu
Johnathan’s YouTube: Sexual Kung Fu

Feb 25, 2024 • 1h 2min
#202 Who’s Doing the Emotional Labour in Your Relationship? (with Dr. Kate Balestrieri)
This podcast episode delves into the complexities of emotional labor in relationships, emphasizing the need for communication and balance. Dr. Kate Balestrieri discusses practical steps for addressing inequalities and highlights the importance of understanding and sharing emotional labor for a healthier partnership.

Feb 22, 2024 • 4min
Quicky#48 Relationships and Personal Development (with Tyran Mowbray)
From episode #48 with Tyran Mowbray.
More from that episode:
- Tyran shares some of his story
- What men talk about when they get together
- The flaws in taking back your power
- Men in the sexuality space
- “Fellahs, is it gay to talk about having sex with women?”
- Being a conscious man in a relationship
- Saying “No” and asserting boundaries
- Men can’t be raped

Feb 18, 2024 • 55min
#201 Doc Johnson and the Evolution of Adult Toys (with Chad Braverman)
On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Chad Braverman. Chad is the CCO and COO of Doc Johnson, a billion dollar sex toy company founded by his father in 1976. Chad has propelled Doc Johnson into the spotlight with cutting-edge technology and products. He is challenging societal norms and transforming the sex toy industry which is often shrouded in secrecy.
Key Points:
- Chad introduces himself
- Doc Johnson history and products
- Chad's experience joining the family business
- Shifting social attitudes towards sex toys
- Future plans for Doc Johnson
- Challenges of being a father in the industry
Relevant links:
Doc Johnson’s Website: https://docjohnson.com/home
Doc Johnson’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/docjohnsonusa/?hl=en
Doc Johnson’s X: https://twitter.com/TheOriginalDoc