
Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser
The intention with this podcast is to platform people who perhaps haven't been part of the discourse around masculinity and sexuality in the mainstream, spiritual, Tantra and sacred sexuality communities. From sex workers, male strippers, and relationship coaches to psychosexual therapists, transgender educators and indigenous men. "Men, Sex, and Pleasure" is a podcast discussing all things masculinity, sexuality, male bodies and men's experience of pleasure.
Latest episodes

Feb 14, 2024 • 5min
Quicky #47 Sex Education in Singapore (with Dr. Martha Tara Lee)
Dr. Martha Tara Lee, a sex therapist in Singapore, discusses her studies, cultural challenges, stigma as an Asian woman sex therapist, ancient Eastern sexual practices, and using Asian culture in sex therapy. The podcast explores sex education challenges, censorship, defamation laws, and pornography regulations in Singapore.

Feb 11, 2024 • 1h 4min
#200 Reclaiming Eroticism with Yoni Massage (with Ella D’Aloia)
Holistic sex coach and yoni massage therapist Ella D’Aloia discusses the healing benefits of yoni massage, the importance of self-pleasure, approaching your partner's genitals with respect and consent, reclaiming stigmatized words for genitals, men's erotic journeys, and the need for ongoing sexual education.

Feb 7, 2024 • 4min
Quicky #46 Play Sessions for Practicing Pleasure (with Georgia Grace)
Sex educator Georgia Grace discusses her work, sex-tech innovations like the Arcwave Ion, and enhancing male pleasure with sex toys. They explore boundaries, online harassment, and updating outdated understandings about sexuality for a more pleasurable experience.

Feb 3, 2024 • 1h 18min
#199 Martial Arts: Emotions and Masculinity (with Tyson LaRone)
On this episode of #mensexpleasure I chat with Tyson LaRone. Tyson is a Martial Arts Instructor, Strongman competitor and Monster Energy Drink Enthusiast who TikToks about politics, history, philosophy, society and generally trying to affect positive change however he can.
Key points:
- Tyson introduces himself
- Parenting philosophies
- Validating emotions in parenting and martial arts instruction
- Contradictory models of masculinity
- The harms of an exploitative view of relationships
- Finding fulfillment through honest self-reflection
Relevant links:
Tyson’s TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thewarriorphilosopher

Jan 30, 2024 • 4min
Quicky #45: Leaving Sex Addicts Anonymous (with Dominick Quartuccio)
From episode #45 with Dominick Quartuccio.
Key Points from that episode:
- Dominick shares some of this story
- The final straw before rehab
- Sex Addicts Anonymous
- Is sex addiction real?
- Defining addiction and relapse
- Religion and negative attitudes towards sex
- Reframing your relationship with sex
- Talking to men about sex

Jan 28, 2024 • 1h 1min
#198 What's the Deal with the Manosphere? (with Dr. James B. Stein)
Dr. James B. Stein, an Assistant Professor, discusses the 'Manosphere', Red Pill ideology, vulnerable men exploitation, community guidance, Andrew Tate, Jordan Peterson, and exiting the Manosphere. The podcast explores media literacy, toxic behaviors, challenging gender stereotypes, and embracing sensuality for personal growth.

Jan 21, 2024 • 1h 1min
#197 The Eunuch: The First Incel Novel (with Charles Fischer)
#197 The Eunuch: The First Incel Novel
On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Charles Fischer, the author of The Eunuch—a darkly comic novel set in Babylon during the reign of Nebuchadnezzar II. Told from the point of view of Nergal, a eunuch slave-scribe who keeps the secrets of the king’s harem, the book is a tale of depravity and love in a time of imperial decline. Charles Fischer holds degrees from St. Olaf College, Harvard Divinity School, and the University of Washington. He lives in Seattle with his wife, Lisa, and teaches writing and humanities at Everett Community College in Washington. The Eunuch is his first novel.
Key Points:
- Charles introduces himself
- "The Eunuch": Journey of a decade's creation
- Babylon invasion story through a eunuch's eyes
- Nergal's struggle with masculinity and isolation
- Sublimating desires into art through writing
- Importance of community in personal growth
- Exploring love's forms: eros, philia, agape
- Finding love in unexpected places and forms
Relevant links:
Charles’ Twitter: https://twitter.com/cfischer2
Charles’ novel: https://www.gabbrohead.com/the-eunuch

Jan 14, 2024 • 1h 5min
#196 Black Men and Vulnerability: Relationships, Identity, and Healing (with Harvey Laguerre)
On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Harvey Laguerre. Harvey is a 49 year old, stay-at-home dad of 4. The emergence of Covid-19 led to the creation of a relationship podcast with his wife, called Love is Black. The success of that podcast emboldened him to create his own. Men Are The P.R.I.Z.E. Podcast is the result of years of learning what it means to be a man in the world today. The definition of masculinity has changed drastically and not for the better. Attributes that were once manly, are now toxic. What has not changed is the lack of safe spaces for men to express their emotions. Being a vulnerable man is not celebrated like it should be. This podcast is that safe space for men to open up and reveal their inner monologue. This podcast is the what, where, when, why and how of manhood.
Key points:
- Harvey introduces himself
- Damaging stereotypes impact black men's lives
- Need for safe spaces to express vulnerability
- Self-accountability leads to empowerment and growth
- High suicide rates, isolation during holidays
- Stereotypes affect black boys' and teens' identity
- Societal pressure limits emotional expression in men
- Importance of culturally relatable therapists and coaches
Relevant links:
Harvey’s website: www.HarveyLaguerre.com

Jan 7, 2024 • 1h 6min
#195 The Importance of Rites of Passage for Men (with Jeddy Azuma)
Jeddy Azuma discusses the importance of rites of passage for men, exploring traditional vs materialistic symbols, engaging with other cultures, and personal growth. He emphasizes educating children and transitioning into purposeful leadership roles.

Dec 31, 2023 • 57min
#194 How to Overcome Premature Ejaculation (with Jasper Brown)
On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Jasper Brown. Jasper is a men’s coach whose work has guided hundreds of men to embody a conscious approach towards masculinity. For almost a decade, he has dedicated himself to facilitating the evolution of men through embodied masculinity, finding a higher purpose, and healing their relationships.
Key Points:
- Jasper introduces himself
- Jasper’s journey overcoming premature ejaculation
- Jasper’s most important insights
- Practices for overcoming premature ejaculation
- The power of a supportive partner
- Advice for couples
Relevant links:
Jasper’s Instagram: @awakened_eros