
Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser
The intention with this podcast is to platform people who perhaps haven't been part of the discourse around masculinity and sexuality in the mainstream, spiritual, Tantra and sacred sexuality communities. From sex workers, male strippers, and relationship coaches to psychosexual therapists, transgender educators and indigenous men. "Men, Sex, and Pleasure" is a podcast discussing all things masculinity, sexuality, male bodies and men's experience of pleasure.
Latest episodes

Apr 24, 2024 • 4min
Quicky #57 Natural Medicine for Sexual Health Concerns (with Dexter Kendrick)
From episode #57 with Dexter Kendrick.
More from that episode:
- Dexter introduces himself
- Eastern Medicine vs Western Medicine
- Penis heath
- Fertility and conception
- Changing your diet for sexual health
- Prostate health
- Mediumship and sexuality
- Telling people about their future
- Practicing Chinese Medicine as a Black man

Apr 21, 2024 • 1h
#210 Pleasure without Pressure: Anxiety, Intimacy, and Sex (with Sureya Leonara)
On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Sureya Leonara. Sureya is a Holistic Sex & Relationship Coach and Writer. She is on a mission to change the world through healing and liberating sexuality, the seed of our creation, in a way that permeates every area of our lives, not just the bedroom. With eloquence, depth, playfulness, unconventional insight, and penetrating intuition, she catalyses profound shifts in the lives of her clients and audiences.
Key points:
- Sureya introduces herself
- Expanding definitions of pleasure and somatic awareness
- Cultivating curiosity, experimentation, and a no-pressure approach to sex
- Supporting partners through mutual understanding and non-linear intimacy
- Addressing performance anxiety and the mind-body connection
Relevant links:
Sureya’s website: www.sureyaleonara.com
Sureya’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sureya_leonara
Sureya’s Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sureyaleonara
Sureya's free practice: https://blue-block-67264.myflodesk.com/nxsyaw1wyh

Apr 17, 2024 • 5min
Quicky #56 Better Sex with Presence and Variety (with Lauren White)
From episode #56 with Lauren White.
More from that episode:
Lauren shares the evolution of her message
What does it mean to be sexually confident?
The way we talk about masturbation and sex
The problem with being “good in bed”
Embodying your pleasure
Learning to communicate
Comfortability and sexual confidence
Your body is a playground
Advice for women
Advice for men

Apr 14, 2024 • 1h 9min
#209 Semen Retention Debunked (with Cam Fraser)
Cam Fraser, a semen retention debunker, discusses debunking major claims of semen retention practitioners including testosterone, depression, zinc, nutrition, the body, and premature aging. He shares opinions and personal experiences while exploring the myths and scientific evidence around semen retention.

Apr 11, 2024 • 7min
Quicky #55 Building a Matchmaking Business (with Asa Baav)
From episode #55 with Asa Baav.
More from that episode:
- Asa shares about her agency, Tailor Matched
- Matchmaking vs Coaching
- What is sexual compatibility?
- Collecting information about our sexual desires
- Approaching conversations about sexual function
- Dating: Don’t waste your time
- Who is using matchmaking services?
- Expanding the dating pool
- The stigma of using a matchmaking service
- Emphasizing connection over appearance

Apr 8, 2024 • 47min
#208 ADHD and Sexuality (with Daz Alexandra Tendler)
Sexologist Daz Alexandra Tendler discusses ADHD and sexuality, covering topics like defining ADHD, managing symptoms, sexual dysfunction, supporting partners, and enhancing sexual experiences. They provide insights on destigmatizing ADHD, managing distractions, and navigating intimacy, as well as the impact of medication on sensory changes during sex.

Apr 3, 2024 • 5min
Quicky #54 Women Helped Me Become Multi-Orgasmic (with Shaft Uddin)
Guest Shaft Uddin, 'Wim Hof of Tantra', discusses non-ejaculatory orgasms, Tantra in media, daily practice, and research on multiple male orgasms. Emphasizes teamwork, communication, and non-shaming approach in sexual exploration.

Mar 31, 2024 • 1h 3min
#207 Men's Health: Prostate, Pelvic Floor, and Partnership (with Jo Milios, Ph.D.)
On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Jo Milios, Ph.D. Jo is a Physiotherapist with a special interest in Men’s Health, Yoga, and Pilates. Since establishing a Men’s Health service in 2005, she has treated over 3000 prostatectomy patients, over 500 chronic pelvic pain patients, and 100’s of men with Erectile Dysfunction. Among achievements such as delivering Men’s Health courses to Physiotherapists in Australia, England, Ireland, Portugal, New Zealand, and South Africa, Jo also established PROST! Exercise 4 Prostate Cancer, a not-for-profit community education and exercise program for men in 2012.
Key Points:
- Jo introduces herself
- Prostate health protocols
- Kegels vs Reverse Kegels: Pelvic floor exercises
- Prostatectomy recovery
- Shockwave therapy for erectile dysfunction
- The importance of intimacy
Relevant links:
Jo’s website: http://www.menshealthphysiotherapy.com.au/

Mar 27, 2024 • 5min
Quicky #53 How ADHD Impacts Sexuality (with Ginger Jen)
Ginger Jen, an individual with ADHD, discusses how the condition impacts sexuality, including strategies for body connection, expressing sexuality, dealing with sexual rejection, and communication with partners. She also shares her personal journey with ADHD, the intersection of escorting and ADHD, and insights on working with men in the sexuality space.

Mar 25, 2024 • 55min
#206 Mindful Masturbation for More Pleasure (with Tyson Adams)
On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Tyson Adams. Tyson is a trauma-informed IFS men’s coach, somatic bodyworker, and psychedelic facilitator. After spending 20 years addicted to pornography, he outgrew it seven years ago and has found his passion and purpose in helping other men master their lifeforce energy. He also co-facilitates men’s work leadership intensives and works with couples experiencing intimacy challenges. When he’s not working, you’ll catch him on a rock wall or riding a slackline in sunny San Diego.
Key points:
- Tyson reintroduces himself
- Defining mindfulness
- Benefits of mindful masturbation
- Challenges to mindful masturbation
- Mirror work and embodiment
- Psychedelic experiences and self-pleasure
Relevant links:
Tyson’s Instagram: @tysonadams__
Tyson’s website: https://linktr.ee/tysonadams