

Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser
Cam Fraser
"Men, Sex, and Pleasure" is a podcast discussing all things masculinity, sexuality, male bodies and men's experience of pleasure.
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May 29, 2024 • 3min
Quicky #62 Tops and Bottoms (with Julieta Chiara)
From episode #62 with Julieta Chiara.
More from that episode:
- Julieta shares some of her journey
- Sexuality related career pathways
- Discovering your authentic sexual self
- Sex industry expectations and assumptions
- Introducing kink and BDSM
- Male submission and surrender
- Male dominance and assertiveness
- Creating safety to sexually explore
- Experimenting with power play
- Tantra and Shibari

May 26, 2024 • 1h
#215 Cultivating Intimacy: Consent and Care (with Destin Gerek)
On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Destin Gerek. Destin is a Certified Sexologist through The American College of Sexologists International. Destin is a globally recognized coach in masculinity, sexuality, and personal empowerment. He is the author of the best-selling book, The Evolved Masculine: Be the Man the World Needs, and the One She Craves and the creator of the film Seductive Devotion. Destin hosts the podcast Diving Deep with Destin: Sex, Love, & Evolution.
Key points:
- Destin introduces himself
- Creating safe erotic spaces through consent and care
- Impact of mainstream porn on relationships and sex
- Transforming masculinity through self-mastery and care for women
- Working with high-achieving men through somatic sexology
Relevant links:
Destin’s website: https://destingerek.com/
Destin’s Instagram: @destingerek

May 21, 2024 • 3min
Quicky #61 Competition and Polyamory (with Lindsey, Katie and Sugar)
From episode 61 with Lindsey, Katie, and Sugar.
More from that episode:
- Lindsey, Katie and Sugar share the origin story of Clit Talk
- Competition vs collaboration
- Polyamory, jealousy and compersion
- You can’t fulfill all your partner’s needs
- What is a pleasure-positive lifestyle?
- Pleasure practices and advice
- How can women get their men to open up?
- Stop coaching your partner
- An unfiltered look inside women’s minds

May 19, 2024 • 55min
#214 Mindful Masturbation and Multiple Orgasms (with Moshe Weizman)
Certified men’s sex coach Moshe Weizman discusses mindful masturbation, non-ejaculatory orgasms, and energy practices for enhancing male pleasure. He blends Taoist techniques with Sexological Bodywork principles, emphasizing personal practice and self-connection in solo and partnered sex.

May 15, 2024 • 4min
Quicky #60 Helping Women Understand Men (with Amanda Biccum)
From episode #60 with Amanda Biccum.
More from that episode:
- Amanada shares about her work with men
- What is “Men’s Work?”
- Single gender and mixed gender containers
- Listening to men’s stories
- Holding space for you partner’s insecurity
- Moving sexual energy with a partner
- Rigidity kills polarity
- Understanding the feminine
- Practice asserting your boundaries

May 12, 2024 • 56min
#213 Embodying the Lover Archetype (with Shaun Pickering)
On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Shaun Pickering. Shaun is an Archetypal guide to couples, a sovereign birth guide for men, and also a mentor/coach. He helps men understand where they’re are at in terms of being a pillar in the birth space, as well as helping men build a plan to empower them in the birth space. He is also the host of the Birthspace Brotherhood podcast.
Key points:
- Shaun introduces himself
- What is the Lover Archetype?
- Immature vs Mature
- Addicted vs Impotent
- The importance of self-love
- Embodying the Lover
Relevant links:
Shaun’s website: https://stan.store/shaunpickering
Shaun’s Instagram: @iam.shaunpickering

May 8, 2024 • 5min
Quicky #59 The Life of a Male Sex Worker (with Dex Parker)
From episode #59 with Dex Parker. More from that episode:
- Dex shares about his journey
- What is sex work?
- Experiences of a male sex worker
- Erotic content creation
- Alternative expressions of male sexuality
- Discussing pornography
- Advice for exploring your sexuality

May 5, 2024 • 58min
#212 Breathwork for Men: Energy, Expression, and Orgasm (with Oli Jenkinson)
On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Oli Jenkinson. Oli embarked on his Breathwork journey over 5 years ago amidst the stress of his corporate job, discovering its power to activate his parasympathetic nervous system. Through intuitive exploration and formal training in Bali, he delved deeper into Conscious Connected Breathing, experiencing profound emotional releases that transformed his life. Combining his personal journey with professional training, he founded Alchemy Breathwork, dedicated to guiding others in emotional healing and resilience. Rejecting hyper-spiritualism, Oli's approach emphasizes practical, sustainable growth, helping individuals navigate and process emotions for a fulfilling life. His mission is to provide a space where people can authentically heal and thrive.
Key Points:
- Oli introduces himself
- Breathwork, catharsis, and surrender
- Breathwork at home
- The energetics of breathwork
- Breathwork for men
- Engaging the throat, diaphragm, and perineum
Relevant links:
Oli’s website: https://www.alchemybreathwork.com.au/
Oli’s Instagram: @alchemy.breathwork

May 1, 2024 • 4min
Quicky #58 Finding Your Sexual Edges (with Yuval Mann)
Sexuality coach Yuval Mann discusses his life journey, overcoming sexual blockages, defining sacredness, and emotional regulation. Topics include exploring sexual boundaries, embodiment work, and being present in the moment for enriched sexual experiences.

Apr 28, 2024 • 57min
#211 Body Image and your Sex Life (with Gabriella de Mori)
On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Gabriella de Mori. Gabriella is a registered counsellor with a Masters Degree in Counselling who thrives on coaching women from emotional overwhelm to self-confidence so they learn to trust themselves to take care of their inner world with grace. Based in Fremantle, Perth she operates a successful private practice offering a variety of dynamic and holistic services that include individual counselling, couples counselling, group courses and coaching, a meditation library and digital resources she has created.
Key points:
- Gabriella introduces herself
- Social media and not feeling “good enough”
- Meditating and self-esteem
- Mindfulness as foreplay
- Dating, feeling sexy, and anxiety
- Unrealistic expectations
Relevant links:
Gabriella’s Instagram: @gabriella.de.mori
Gabriella’s website: https://www.gabriellademori.com/