
Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser
The intention with this podcast is to platform people who perhaps haven't been part of the discourse around masculinity and sexuality in the mainstream, spiritual, Tantra and sacred sexuality communities. From sex workers, male strippers, and relationship coaches to psychosexual therapists, transgender educators and indigenous men. "Men, Sex, and Pleasure" is a podcast discussing all things masculinity, sexuality, male bodies and men's experience of pleasure.
Latest episodes

Apr 11, 2024 • 7min
Quicky #55 Building a Matchmaking Business (with Asa Baav)
From episode #55 with Asa Baav.
More from that episode:
- Asa shares about her agency, Tailor Matched
- Matchmaking vs Coaching
- What is sexual compatibility?
- Collecting information about our sexual desires
- Approaching conversations about sexual function
- Dating: Don’t waste your time
- Who is using matchmaking services?
- Expanding the dating pool
- The stigma of using a matchmaking service
- Emphasizing connection over appearance

Apr 8, 2024 • 47min
#208 ADHD and Sexuality (with Daz Alexandra Tendler)
Sexologist Daz Alexandra Tendler discusses ADHD and sexuality, covering topics like defining ADHD, managing symptoms, sexual dysfunction, supporting partners, and enhancing sexual experiences. They provide insights on destigmatizing ADHD, managing distractions, and navigating intimacy, as well as the impact of medication on sensory changes during sex.

Apr 3, 2024 • 5min
Quicky #54 Women Helped Me Become Multi-Orgasmic (with Shaft Uddin)
Guest Shaft Uddin, 'Wim Hof of Tantra', discusses non-ejaculatory orgasms, Tantra in media, daily practice, and research on multiple male orgasms. Emphasizes teamwork, communication, and non-shaming approach in sexual exploration.

Mar 31, 2024 • 1h 3min
#207 Men's Health: Prostate, Pelvic Floor, and Partnership (with Jo Milios, Ph.D.)
On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Jo Milios, Ph.D. Jo is a Physiotherapist with a special interest in Men’s Health, Yoga, and Pilates. Since establishing a Men’s Health service in 2005, she has treated over 3000 prostatectomy patients, over 500 chronic pelvic pain patients, and 100’s of men with Erectile Dysfunction. Among achievements such as delivering Men’s Health courses to Physiotherapists in Australia, England, Ireland, Portugal, New Zealand, and South Africa, Jo also established PROST! Exercise 4 Prostate Cancer, a not-for-profit community education and exercise program for men in 2012.
Key Points:
- Jo introduces herself
- Prostate health protocols
- Kegels vs Reverse Kegels: Pelvic floor exercises
- Prostatectomy recovery
- Shockwave therapy for erectile dysfunction
- The importance of intimacy
Relevant links:
Jo’s website: http://www.menshealthphysiotherapy.com.au/

Mar 27, 2024 • 5min
Quicky #53 How ADHD Impacts Sexuality (with Ginger Jen)
Ginger Jen, an individual with ADHD, discusses how the condition impacts sexuality, including strategies for body connection, expressing sexuality, dealing with sexual rejection, and communication with partners. She also shares her personal journey with ADHD, the intersection of escorting and ADHD, and insights on working with men in the sexuality space.

Mar 25, 2024 • 55min
#206 Mindful Masturbation for More Pleasure (with Tyson Adams)
On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Tyson Adams. Tyson is a trauma-informed IFS men’s coach, somatic bodyworker, and psychedelic facilitator. After spending 20 years addicted to pornography, he outgrew it seven years ago and has found his passion and purpose in helping other men master their lifeforce energy. He also co-facilitates men’s work leadership intensives and works with couples experiencing intimacy challenges. When he’s not working, you’ll catch him on a rock wall or riding a slackline in sunny San Diego.
Key points:
- Tyson reintroduces himself
- Defining mindfulness
- Benefits of mindful masturbation
- Challenges to mindful masturbation
- Mirror work and embodiment
- Psychedelic experiences and self-pleasure
Relevant links:
Tyson’s Instagram: @tysonadams__
Tyson’s website: https://linktr.ee/tysonadams

Mar 21, 2024 • 5min
Quicky #52 A Thought Experiment About Porn (with Cam Fraser)
From episode #52, a solo episode with just Cam.
More from that episode:
Introduction to and intentions for the conversation
I understand the harm some porn has caused
Anti-Porn vs Pro-Porn vs Anti-Anti-Porn
What is porn? The problem with definitions
The problem with the “porn is a drug” analogy
Thought experiment: Where do you draw the line
Operation Spanner and private sex groups
Mainstream vs Ethical (Feminist) porn
Messages, escalation, addiction, exploitation

Mar 17, 2024 • 42min
#205 Penis Enlargement and Straightening (with Dr. Peter White)
Dr. Peter White, with 10+ years experience, discusses penile curvature treatment, safe use of Phallosan Forte, expected results, penile health concerns, and customer service focus. Topics include advancements in penis enlargement devices, non-surgical treatments, and the importance of customer support in the field.

Mar 12, 2024 • 5min
Quicky #51 Why Some Straight Men Have Sex With Other Men (with Dr. Joe Kort)
Therapist Dr. Joe Kort discusses heteroflexible, homoflexible men, bisexual erasure, and queering heterosexuality. Topics include fragile masculinity, working with couples in therapy, and sexual fluidity for men and women.

Mar 10, 2024 • 51min
#204 Penis Health: Erections and Enhancement (with Dr. Judson Brandeis)
On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Dr. Judson Brandeis. Dr. Brandies has been voted Top Urologist in the San Francisco Bay Area by San Francisco Magazine from 2014 to 2020. In February 2019, he opened his office in San Ramon, where he focuses his practice entirely on Men’s Sexual Health and Rejuvenation. Dr. Brandeis is the National Director of Clinical Excellence for GAINSWave and created and runs the SWEET Study, the largest study of Shockwave Therapy for erectile dysfunction ever performed. Dr. Brandeis is also a national sexual medicine educator who has run weekend educational seminars all around the United States.
Key points:
- Dr. Brandeis introduces himself
- Erectile dysfunction treatment options
- Low intensity shockwave therapy
- Penile enhancement
- Erection variability and hard flaccid condition
- Risks and adverse effects
Relevant links:
Dr. Brandeis’ website: https://brandeismd.com/
Dr. Brandeis’ Instagram: @judsonbrandeismd
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