
Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser
The intention with this podcast is to platform people who perhaps haven't been part of the discourse around masculinity and sexuality in the mainstream, spiritual, Tantra and sacred sexuality communities. From sex workers, male strippers, and relationship coaches to psychosexual therapists, transgender educators and indigenous men. "Men, Sex, and Pleasure" is a podcast discussing all things masculinity, sexuality, male bodies and men's experience of pleasure.
Latest episodes

May 15, 2024 • 4min
Quicky #60 Helping Women Understand Men (with Amanda Biccum)
From episode #60 with Amanda Biccum.
More from that episode:
- Amanada shares about her work with men
- What is “Men’s Work?”
- Single gender and mixed gender containers
- Listening to men’s stories
- Holding space for you partner’s insecurity
- Moving sexual energy with a partner
- Rigidity kills polarity
- Understanding the feminine
- Practice asserting your boundaries

May 12, 2024 • 56min
#213 Embodying the Lover Archetype (with Shaun Pickering)
On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Shaun Pickering. Shaun is an Archetypal guide to couples, a sovereign birth guide for men, and also a mentor/coach. He helps men understand where they’re are at in terms of being a pillar in the birth space, as well as helping men build a plan to empower them in the birth space. He is also the host of the Birthspace Brotherhood podcast.
Key points:
- Shaun introduces himself
- What is the Lover Archetype?
- Immature vs Mature
- Addicted vs Impotent
- The importance of self-love
- Embodying the Lover
Relevant links:
Shaun’s website: https://stan.store/shaunpickering
Shaun’s Instagram: @iam.shaunpickering

May 8, 2024 • 5min
Quicky #59 The Life of a Male Sex Worker (with Dex Parker)
From episode #59 with Dex Parker. More from that episode:
- Dex shares about his journey
- What is sex work?
- Experiences of a male sex worker
- Erotic content creation
- Alternative expressions of male sexuality
- Discussing pornography
- Advice for exploring your sexuality

May 5, 2024 • 58min
#212 Breathwork for Men: Energy, Expression, and Orgasm (with Oli Jenkinson)
On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Oli Jenkinson. Oli embarked on his Breathwork journey over 5 years ago amidst the stress of his corporate job, discovering its power to activate his parasympathetic nervous system. Through intuitive exploration and formal training in Bali, he delved deeper into Conscious Connected Breathing, experiencing profound emotional releases that transformed his life. Combining his personal journey with professional training, he founded Alchemy Breathwork, dedicated to guiding others in emotional healing and resilience. Rejecting hyper-spiritualism, Oli's approach emphasizes practical, sustainable growth, helping individuals navigate and process emotions for a fulfilling life. His mission is to provide a space where people can authentically heal and thrive.
Key Points:
- Oli introduces himself
- Breathwork, catharsis, and surrender
- Breathwork at home
- The energetics of breathwork
- Breathwork for men
- Engaging the throat, diaphragm, and perineum
Relevant links:
Oli’s website: https://www.alchemybreathwork.com.au/
Oli’s Instagram: @alchemy.breathwork

May 1, 2024 • 4min
Quicky #58 Finding Your Sexual Edges (with Yuval Mann)
Sexuality coach Yuval Mann discusses his life journey, overcoming sexual blockages, defining sacredness, and emotional regulation. Topics include exploring sexual boundaries, embodiment work, and being present in the moment for enriched sexual experiences.

Apr 28, 2024 • 57min
#211 Body Image and your Sex Life (with Gabriella de Mori)
On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Gabriella de Mori. Gabriella is a registered counsellor with a Masters Degree in Counselling who thrives on coaching women from emotional overwhelm to self-confidence so they learn to trust themselves to take care of their inner world with grace. Based in Fremantle, Perth she operates a successful private practice offering a variety of dynamic and holistic services that include individual counselling, couples counselling, group courses and coaching, a meditation library and digital resources she has created.
Key points:
- Gabriella introduces herself
- Social media and not feeling “good enough”
- Meditating and self-esteem
- Mindfulness as foreplay
- Dating, feeling sexy, and anxiety
- Unrealistic expectations
Relevant links:
Gabriella’s Instagram: @gabriella.de.mori
Gabriella’s website: https://www.gabriellademori.com/

Apr 24, 2024 • 4min
Quicky #57 Natural Medicine for Sexual Health Concerns (with Dexter Kendrick)
From episode #57 with Dexter Kendrick.
More from that episode:
- Dexter introduces himself
- Eastern Medicine vs Western Medicine
- Penis heath
- Fertility and conception
- Changing your diet for sexual health
- Prostate health
- Mediumship and sexuality
- Telling people about their future
- Practicing Chinese Medicine as a Black man

Apr 21, 2024 • 1h
#210 Pleasure without Pressure: Anxiety, Intimacy, and Sex (with Sureya Leonara)
On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Sureya Leonara. Sureya is a Holistic Sex & Relationship Coach and Writer. She is on a mission to change the world through healing and liberating sexuality, the seed of our creation, in a way that permeates every area of our lives, not just the bedroom. With eloquence, depth, playfulness, unconventional insight, and penetrating intuition, she catalyses profound shifts in the lives of her clients and audiences.
Key points:
- Sureya introduces herself
- Expanding definitions of pleasure and somatic awareness
- Cultivating curiosity, experimentation, and a no-pressure approach to sex
- Supporting partners through mutual understanding and non-linear intimacy
- Addressing performance anxiety and the mind-body connection
Relevant links:
Sureya’s website: www.sureyaleonara.com
Sureya’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sureya_leonara
Sureya’s Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sureyaleonara
Sureya's free practice: https://blue-block-67264.myflodesk.com/nxsyaw1wyh

Apr 17, 2024 • 5min
Quicky #56 Better Sex with Presence and Variety (with Lauren White)
From episode #56 with Lauren White.
More from that episode:
Lauren shares the evolution of her message
What does it mean to be sexually confident?
The way we talk about masturbation and sex
The problem with being “good in bed”
Embodying your pleasure
Learning to communicate
Comfortability and sexual confidence
Your body is a playground
Advice for women
Advice for men

Apr 14, 2024 • 1h 9min
#209 Semen Retention Debunked (with Cam Fraser)
Cam Fraser, a semen retention debunker, discusses debunking major claims of semen retention practitioners including testosterone, depression, zinc, nutrition, the body, and premature aging. He shares opinions and personal experiences while exploring the myths and scientific evidence around semen retention.
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