

Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser
Cam Fraser
The intention with this podcast is to platform people who perhaps haven't been part of the discourse around masculinity and sexuality in the mainstream, spiritual, Tantra and sacred sexuality communities. From sex workers, male strippers, and relationship coaches to psychosexual therapists, transgender educators and indigenous men. "Men, Sex, and Pleasure" is a podcast discussing all things masculinity, sexuality, male bodies and men's experience of pleasure.
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Jun 12, 2024 • 3min
Quicky #64 Destigmatising Herpes (with Bek Antonucci)
From episode #64 with Bek Antonucci. More from that episode:
- Bek shares about her personal story
- Living with herpes
- The stigma of STIs
- Normalizing conversations about sexual health
- Talking about sex online
- Intention vs impact
- Sister wounds and brother wounds
- “What do men need to know?”
- Attention seeking
- Advice for being a sexually embodied person on the internet

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Jun 9, 2024 • 58min
#217 The Masculine Blueprint (with GS Youngblood)
On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with author and men’s coach GS Youngblood. He wrote a book titled “The Masculine in Relationship”, which offers a model called the Masculine Blueprint for men to become grounded in their own power and more relational with their Feminine partner. The premise of his work is that many relationship problems are actually rooted in a lack of Relational Masculinity - which is a combination of groundedness, leadership, and relational skills. This is what he
teaches to men. GS's work draws inspiration from various disciplines, including psychology, men's work, spirituality, martial arts, tango, meditation, and BDSM.
Key points:
- GS introduces himself
- Overcoming emasculation
- What is The Masculine Blueprint?
- Applying the Blueprint
- Recap and Call-to-action
Relevant links:
GS’s website: gsyoungblood.com
GS’s Instagram: @gsyoungbloodmir

Jun 5, 2024 • 3min
Quicky #63 Unpacking Giving and Receiving (with Dr. Betty Martin)
From episode #63 wit Betty Martin. More from that episode:
- Betty shares about her career
- The inception of The Wheel of Consent
- Giving/Receiving and Doing/Done-To
- The four quadrants
- The 3 Minute Game
- Learning how to take pleasure
- You can’t make someone surrender
- Practical advice for men using The Wheel

Jun 2, 2024 • 53min
#216 Decriminalize or Legalize? Sex Work, Clients, and Labour (with Jenna Love)
On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Jenna Love. Jenna has been a sex worker in Australia for over a decade, mostly as an independent full service sex worker and online adult content creator, but also with experience in brothels and massage parlours. She is the President of Scarlet Alliance, Australian Sex Workers Association, and is the co-host and Producer of sex industry podcast Somebody You Love, which was a finalist in the Australian Podcast Awards Sex & Relationships category in 2021. She is a pansexual polyamorous cat mum who lives with her husband of 15 years on Dharug & Gundungurra land in the Blue Mountains, NSW.
Key points:
- Jenna introduces herself
- Decriminalization vs legalization models
- The “whorearhcy”
- Challenging misconceptions about clients
- The range of client experiences
- Pleasure and sex work
Relevant links:
Jenna’s Instagram: @jennaloveaus

May 29, 2024 • 3min
Quicky #62 Tops and Bottoms (with Julieta Chiara)
From episode #62 with Julieta Chiara.
More from that episode:
- Julieta shares some of her journey
- Sexuality related career pathways
- Discovering your authentic sexual self
- Sex industry expectations and assumptions
- Introducing kink and BDSM
- Male submission and surrender
- Male dominance and assertiveness
- Creating safety to sexually explore
- Experimenting with power play
- Tantra and Shibari

May 26, 2024 • 1h
#215 Cultivating Intimacy: Consent and Care (with Destin Gerek)
On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Destin Gerek. Destin is a Certified Sexologist through The American College of Sexologists International. Destin is a globally recognized coach in masculinity, sexuality, and personal empowerment. He is the author of the best-selling book, The Evolved Masculine: Be the Man the World Needs, and the One She Craves and the creator of the film Seductive Devotion. Destin hosts the podcast Diving Deep with Destin: Sex, Love, & Evolution.
Key points:
- Destin introduces himself
- Creating safe erotic spaces through consent and care
- Impact of mainstream porn on relationships and sex
- Transforming masculinity through self-mastery and care for women
- Working with high-achieving men through somatic sexology
Relevant links:
Destin’s website: https://destingerek.com/
Destin’s Instagram: @destingerek

May 21, 2024 • 3min
Quicky #61 Competition and Polyamory (with Lindsey, Katie and Sugar)
From episode 61 with Lindsey, Katie, and Sugar.
More from that episode:
- Lindsey, Katie and Sugar share the origin story of Clit Talk
- Competition vs collaboration
- Polyamory, jealousy and compersion
- You can’t fulfill all your partner’s needs
- What is a pleasure-positive lifestyle?
- Pleasure practices and advice
- How can women get their men to open up?
- Stop coaching your partner
- An unfiltered look inside women’s minds

May 19, 2024 • 55min
#214 Mindful Masturbation and Multiple Orgasms (with Moshe Weizman)
Certified men’s sex coach Moshe Weizman discusses mindful masturbation, non-ejaculatory orgasms, and energy practices for enhancing male pleasure. He blends Taoist techniques with Sexological Bodywork principles, emphasizing personal practice and self-connection in solo and partnered sex.

May 15, 2024 • 4min
Quicky #60 Helping Women Understand Men (with Amanda Biccum)
From episode #60 with Amanda Biccum.
More from that episode:
- Amanada shares about her work with men
- What is “Men’s Work?”
- Single gender and mixed gender containers
- Listening to men’s stories
- Holding space for you partner’s insecurity
- Moving sexual energy with a partner
- Rigidity kills polarity
- Understanding the feminine
- Practice asserting your boundaries

May 12, 2024 • 56min
#213 Embodying the Lover Archetype (with Shaun Pickering)
On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Shaun Pickering. Shaun is an Archetypal guide to couples, a sovereign birth guide for men, and also a mentor/coach. He helps men understand where they’re are at in terms of being a pillar in the birth space, as well as helping men build a plan to empower them in the birth space. He is also the host of the Birthspace Brotherhood podcast.
Key points:
- Shaun introduces himself
- What is the Lover Archetype?
- Immature vs Mature
- Addicted vs Impotent
- The importance of self-love
- Embodying the Lover
Relevant links:
Shaun’s website: https://stan.store/shaunpickering
Shaun’s Instagram: @iam.shaunpickering