Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Bryan Reeves. A former US Air Force Captain, Bryan is now an internationally renowned Author and Life/Relationship Coach with a current focus on supporting men to have better lives and relationships. His viral blog has been read by over 50 million people in every country on the planet (except North Korea). He’s the co-founder of "Elevate Your Relationship,” a live coaching program for men ready to elevate their relationship game, which currently serves men in 10 countries. He's co-host of the popular podcast, “Men, This Way,” and his newest book, Choose Her Every Day (Or Leave Her), is available on Audible, Amazon and other retailers. Key Points: - Bryan introduces himself - Exploring personal growth and relationships - The power of vulnerability and connection - Navigating power dynamics in relationships - Reframing pleasure and intimacy - Recap and closing thoughts Relevant links: Bryan’s website: https://bryanreeves.com/ Bryan’s Instagram: @bryanreevesinsight

Guest Lauren French, an expert in Comprehensive Sexuality Education, discusses the importance of media and porn literacy, creating safe spaces for kids to learn, language and terminology, intergenerational trauma, and the significance of sex- and pleasure-positivity. She also shares about her family and lineage, and offers compassionate words for First Nations people.

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Stefanie Iris Weiss, a New York City-based writer, certified clinical sexologist, and professional astrologer in private practice for two decades. A pleasure activist and author of ten books, Stefanie writes about sex, politics, the environment, and astrology. The core of her work focuses on sexuality, somatics, sustainability, and the stars, subjects that coalesce at the heart of the natural world and our nature as humans. The long arc of her work explores how the environment, our bodies, and the cosmos commingle. Her latest book, Sex and Your Stars: A Sexologist’s Guide to the Erotic Energy of the Zodiac, is now available for pre-order. Key points: - Stefanie introduces herself - Astrology and sexology integration - Misconceptions about astrology and sexology - Exploring the zodiac signs and elements - Advice for men exploring astrology and sex - Accessing your astrological chart Relevant links: Stefanie’s website: https://stefanieirisweiss.com/ Stefanie’s Instagram: @ stefanieirisweiss

Alicia Brown, a sex educator, talks about sharing sexuality info with Indigenous communities, learning communication skills, online vs. offline sex talks, terminology, and traditions. She emphasizes the importance of reconnecting with lost Indigenous knowledge and identity.

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Dr. Jordin Wiggins. Jordin is a Naturopathic Doctor, Pleasure & Intimacy Coach, and author. She teaches high-achieving, successful women how to be as badass in the bedroom and relationships as they are in business. She is the CEO of the Pleasure Collective, a coaching community for women reclaiming their pleasure as well as the host of The Pleasure Principles podcast, where she dedicates her time to exploring and understanding pleasure, health, and sex in today's society. Jordin maintains a small private practice in Ontario to help entrepreneurs and professional women feel their best. Key Points: - Jordin introduces herself - Differing perspectives on pleasure - Barriers to experiencing pleasure - The importance of self-exploration - Navigating pleasure in relationships - Broader implications of prioritizing pleasure Relevant links: Jordin’s website: https://www.thepleasurecollective.com/ Jordin’s Instagram: @drjordinwiggins

From episode #64 with Bek Antonucci. More from that episode: - Bek shares about her personal story - Living with herpes - The stigma of STIs - Normalizing conversations about sexual health - Talking about sex online - Intention vs impact - Sister wounds and brother wounds - “What do men need to know?” - Attention seeking - Advice for being a sexually embodied person on the internet

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with author and men’s coach GS Youngblood. He wrote a book titled “The Masculine in Relationship”, which offers a model called the Masculine Blueprint for men to become grounded in their own power and more relational with their Feminine partner. The premise of his work is that many relationship problems are actually rooted in a lack of Relational Masculinity - which is a combination of groundedness, leadership, and relational skills. This is what he teaches to men. GS's work draws inspiration from various disciplines, including psychology, men's work, spirituality, martial arts, tango, meditation, and BDSM. Key points: - GS introduces himself - Overcoming emasculation - What is The Masculine Blueprint? - Applying the Blueprint - Recap and Call-to-action Relevant links: GS’s website: gsyoungblood.com GS’s Instagram: @gsyoungbloodmir

From episode #63 wit Betty Martin. More from that episode: - Betty shares about her career - The inception of The Wheel of Consent - Giving/Receiving and Doing/Done-To - The four quadrants - The 3 Minute Game - Learning how to take pleasure - You can’t make someone surrender - Practical advice for men using The Wheel

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Jenna Love. Jenna has been a sex worker in Australia for over a decade, mostly as an independent full service sex worker and online adult content creator, but also with experience in brothels and massage parlours. She is the President of Scarlet Alliance, Australian Sex Workers Association, and is the co-host and Producer of sex industry podcast Somebody You Love, which was a finalist in the Australian Podcast Awards Sex & Relationships category in 2021. She is a pansexual polyamorous cat mum who lives with her husband of 15 years on Dharug & Gundungurra land in the Blue Mountains, NSW. Key points: - Jenna introduces herself - Decriminalization vs legalization models - The “whorearhcy” - Challenging misconceptions about clients - The range of client experiences - Pleasure and sex work Relevant links: Jenna’s Instagram: @jennaloveaus

From episode #62 with Julieta Chiara. More from that episode: - Julieta shares some of her journey - Sexuality related career pathways - Discovering your authentic sexual self - Sex industry expectations and assumptions - Introducing kink and BDSM - Male submission and surrender - Male dominance and assertiveness - Creating safety to sexually explore - Experimenting with power play - Tantra and Shibari