Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Nicolas Notini Wallin. Nicolas had his first Energyflow awakening at the age of three playing drums. It was life-changing, the greatest magic. Inspired by family friend and music legend Quincy Jones he decided early on to devote his life to exploring this Energy in music, improvisation, compassion and personal growth. It remains his biggest passion in life. He has a career as a recording studio musician and he is a serial entrepreneur and founder in digital entertainment Key Points: - Nicolas introduces himself - Nicolas' passion for transforming energy - The analogy of music and improvisation to relationships - Compassion as a framework for living and working - Nicolas' 100-day challenge for cultivating self-love and positive energy - Closing reflections Relevant links: Nicolas' website: www.warriorsoflove.org

From episode #71 with Sascha Heart) More from that episode: - Sascha shares about his passions and work - Building confidence to have better sex - Men who feel intimidated by women - You are not your partner’s coach - Fear of leaving a relationship - Entrepreneurship and financial independence - Nourishment and connecting in with your body - The masculine seeks freedom - Semen retention vs conscious ejaculation - The symbolism of ejaculation - Ejaculation shaming - Semen retention and meditation

Katy Bampton, a dedicated Somatic Sexologist, empowers individuals by enhancing their confidence and communication in intimate settings. In this conversation, she discusses the journey of embodiment and the importance of breathwork for deeper intimacy. Katy emphasizes overcoming societal conditioning and expanding intimacy beyond penetration, promoting practices like self-touch and mindful massage. Listeners learn to create a safe space for exploring desires while transcending traditional notions of intimacy, paving the way for transformative experiences.

From episode #70 with Chloe Adriana. More from that episode: - Chloe shares about her transformative journey - How Chloe defines radiance - How Cam defines radiance - The power of travel and exploration - Masculinity and dark masculine energy - Relationship with penises - How penises are portrayed in media - Rewriting sexual scripts - Loving your genitals

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Pharrell Shaymar. Pharrell is a professional boxing coach, proud trans man, and LGBTQ+ advocate and community leader. Pharrell uses the prism of boxing through advocacy, breaking down barriers, educational videos, and breaking stereo types of trans people in combat sports. His key message is, "I will never become biologically male, but I am a gentleman." Key points: - Pharrell introduces himself - Pharrell’s journey to advocacy - Challenges of trans athletes in sports - Pharrell’s personal experience as a trans man - Navigating masculinity and identity - Advice on mental health and self-discovery Relevant links: Pharrell’s Instagram: @pharrell_shaymar Pharrell’s website: https://www.pharrellshaymar.com/

From the solo episode #69 with Cam Fraser. More from that episode: - The stigmatization of male sex toys - Celebrating men’s self-pleasuring - Fifty Shades of Grey Relentless Vibrations Couples Vibrator - We-Vibe X Lovehoney Clitoral and G-Spot Vibrator - Blowmotion Warming Vibrating Male Masturbator - Blowmotion Warming Pulsating Vibrating Male Masturbator - Blowmotion Real Feel Vibrating Male Masturbator - Blowmotion Blow Job Real Feel Vibrating Suction Male Masturbator - Desire Luxury Male Vibator - Desire Luxury Vibrating Prostate Massager - Kinky Confessions Card Game

Dave Booda, writer, musician, and social entrepreneur, discusses pickup artist and sacred sexuality communities, emphasizing authenticity, connection, and accountability. He shares advice for those in dogmatic communities, reflecting on his diverse experiences and personal passions in the world of sexuality.

From episode #68 with Danny Lakey. More from that episode: - Danny shares about his career on radio - Showing up authentically - Australian men and our drinking culture - Sobriety and masculinity - Altered states of consciousness - Experiencing the divine feminine - Stigma about psychedelics and sex - Combining sex with psychedelics - Danny shares some advice

In a thought-provoking discussion, Mattia Zambaldi, a men’s sex coach and former elite sports physiotherapist, explores the integration of mind, heart, and body in men's transformation. He critiques traditional masculinity and promotes a balance of masculine and feminine energies. Topics include embodiment practices, the healing power of pleasure during crises, and the role of breathwork in self-awareness. Mattia also shares insightful meditative exercises that connect participants with nature, fostering a deeper understanding of identity and emotion.

From episode #67 with Manu Paradiso. More from that episode: - Manu shares about his story and his passion - Discussing approaches to coaching men - Personal sexual turning points - The line between sexualization and objectification - Having intention with sexual energy - Being honest about your intentions - Listening to your “Yes” - Advice for men interested in this work