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Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser

#226 Hypnotic, Erotic, and Neo-Tantric (with Alexandra Holovitz)

Aug 12, 2024
57:17

Episode #226 of #mensexpleasure with Tantric Hypnotherapist Alexandra Holovitz.


Key points:

Alexandra's background and work

Alexandra introduces herself as a coach and erotic hypnosis practitioner. She runs the brand "Alexandra Guru" and is passionate about supporting men to embrace their masculine and feminine polarity, as well as becoming more multi-orgasmic.


Erotic hypnosis vs. regular hypnosis

Alexandra explains that erotic hypnosis uses an erotic setup to help clients access deeper pleasure, body sensations, and explore fantasies in a safe, visualized space before potentially trying them out in real life. It differs from regular hypnosis in its focus on the erotic and sensual.


Case studies and client experiences

Alexandra shares two case studies - one of a client who used erotic hypnosis to anchor pleasurable sensations that he could access during boring meetings, and another of a couple who used it to explore and overcome shame around trying new practices.


Addressing men's fears around erotic hypnosis

Alexandra discusses how many men are initially hesitant or fearful about losing control or being "mind controlled" through erotic hypnosis. She emphasizes that she cannot make clients do anything they don't want, and that the process is about empowering them to access more pleasure and sensations.


Practical tips and resources

Alexandra recommends clients do an "emotional CV" exercise to reflect on past experiences and emotions, which can provide helpful context. She also offers custom hypnosis recordings and a free "Guided Sub Pleasure" audio for clients to use on their own.


Erotic hypnosis course and closing thoughts

Alexandra shares that she is launching a new course to teach men how to use erotic hypnosis as a "bedroom superpower" to spice up their lives. She encourages men to be curious and open-minded about exploring erotic hypnosis and the many ways it can enhance pleasure and connection.


Relevant link:

Alexandra's website: https://www.alexandra.guru/

Alexandra's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexandra_guru/

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