
The Dream Life Podcast
Welcome to the Dream Life Podcast where Life & Business Coach Kate Decker helps you create your "holy crap, this is my life" life through simple yet effective small changes & chasing micro-moments. Here, we create a space where people-pleasing is soooo last season, guilt is only a bad word, boundaries are a must, saying ‘no’ is no-rmal. Each episodes is filled with inspiration, motivation but also very powerful actionable steps you can take right away. All designed to help you fulfill your potential, become your best self and live the life you've always dreamed of.
Latest episodes

Sep 27, 2023 • 22min
77. Affirmations. Yay or Nay? Do they work or is it just a bunch of hocus pocus?
Affirmations.. Do they work or not? There is so much controversy in the personal development world around this and I am READY to give your the ACTUAL answer.
In this episode I talk about:
What are affirmations?
Do they actually work?
Why did affirmations get a bad rep?
How to utilize affirmations so they ACTUALLY change your subconscious mind
How do I use affirmations
Why do I use them
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Sep 25, 2023 • 27min
76. How to ditch IMPOSTER SYNDROME
Do you ever feel like you are just not good enough? Or do the thoughts of “who are YOU to…. “ stop you from pursuing the life you want to have?
Well… you are not alone. Imposter syndrome is a real b*tch. So let’s look at how can we ditch it.
In this episode I cover:
What is imposter syndrome
How do you stop identifying with that mean voice in your head
Where did it show up in MY life recently
Why is it so hard to see how far we’ve come (and how to change that)
What to do when you have “evidence” that you are not good enough / educated enough / skilled enough….
How to change the inner voice in your head
The power of subconscious reprogramming
“What do I want to be right about?”
Hypnosis, RRT
“Imposter syndrome it’s just a voice,
It’s not true.
It’s just a voice,
It’s not YOU. “
THE PROGRAM THAT HELPED ME to get over "I'm not good enough", procrastination + regulating my nervous system (RRT):
https://katedecker--andreacrowder.thrivecart.com/regulate/
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Sep 20, 2023 • 27min
75. How to overcome the "I don't feel like it" syndrome and get sh*t done?
Do you ever NOT feel like doing the things you are supposed to do? Whether that is a work task, go for a run, drink water… or sell your latest program? ME TOO!
However, if you are the type of person that wants to live her absolutely best, dreamy life… we both know we can’t always just crawl into our beds with ice-cream.
So how do we get sh*t done when we don’t feel like it WITHOUT pushing and forcing ourselves to do it?
In this episode I share:
How do I NOT force/pressure myself to do things yet get them done
My favorite mental tool
“Would I like to have done it?”
My 4 step process to get sh*t done with NO pressure
What is the difference between a goal and a value
How to leverage your values to get sh*t done
How to ditch things from your to-do list without guilt
How do I get started?
There is NOTHING wrong with you for feeling this way
Your body is your guidance system to highest productivity
THE INSTAGRAM POST:
It ended up having 20K views, 1042 likes, 205 shares, 157 saves.
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Sep 13, 2023 • 41min
74. TOP 10 Life Lessons from Bali
The top 10 life lessons I learned from my 4 week trip to Bali, last year.
If you are currently not happy where you are, feel behind, can't manage to feel spiritually connected... or you are just curious how can you improve your own life... this is the episode for you.
If there is one thing I was, is to have everything BUT an ordinary life. And these lessons are spot on for that.
They taught me to chase the *moments* rather than big breakthroughs, respect the duality of good and bad and made me realize that we are ALL doing so much better than we think.
MY SHAMAN WAS RIGHT (IG reel):
FULL YOUTUBE VIDEO:
https://youtu.be/rwCxTsgh8GQ
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Aug 22, 2023 • 21min
73. FASTEST way to uncover your limiting beliefs, shadows and fears (without hours of jouraling)
How to uncover what is stopping you from living your BEST LIFE?
Look at your limitations, fears and shadows.
Now.. I hate when the answer is to "go journal on it".
I am giving you multiple ways to uncover this, without having to "sit and thik" :)
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Aug 15, 2023 • 25min
72. Getting AHEAD by slowing the f* down
How 2 month sabbatical turned into 4+ months.
Navigating the fears of "what if everyone forgets me", "OMG I'll run out of money", and "what if I never feel like coming back?"
How slowing the f* down propelled me forward FASTER than I expected.
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Jul 19, 2023 • 25min
71. I found out I'm PREGNANT two days after announcing BURNING DOWN my business
Was the egg or the chicken first?!
In this episode I am sharing:
- what was my original plan for my sabbatical
- how has it been during first + now second trimester
- why did I keep my pregnancy a secret for soooo long
- the lessons this pregnancy has already taught me (useful for non-pregnant listeners, too!)
HOW I FOUND OUT (video)
https://www.instagram.com/reel/CupaF7Fp_Ut/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==
HOW I TOLD ZACH (video)
https://www.instagram.com/reel/CuzwZF4pi7Y/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==
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May 25, 2023 • 15min
70. Am I too *late* starting a NEW career at 30?!
Am I too late starting a NEW career at 30?!
Topics I covered:
Wishing you had started earlier
Your Zone of Genius
You would NOT have been able to do what you want to do NOW the way you’re gonna do it now 5 min before now
How is the concept of “late” is flawed
Operating on the quantum timeline
How I went from not wanting to launch a Pinterest course to making $30K month from biz coaching
Big Leap - Gay Hendricks
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IG: @xokatedecker

May 22, 2023 • 21min
69. - Why did I BURN DOWN my business?!
Okok... in this episode we'll dive into the WHYYY the heck did I decide to burn down my business 👀
Things I address in this episode:
- Why did I walk away from a safe multi 6 figure business when nothing was wrong.
- Does having a full-time job mean you are not all in on your business?
- Dealing with the guilt and fear of judgement about me taking this step.
- Navigating the fears of HOW THE HECK am I going to make money if I quit?!
- The emotional rollercoaster I went through before announcing the End of the Era.
- You can change your mind. Anytime.
- Making illogical decisions based on your heart’s desires in a world operating on logic.
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IG: @xokatedecker
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Dec 19, 2022 • 8min
68. The DUMBEST mistake I've ever made that probably cost me THOUSANDS of $$$
LOL, so here we are, me sharing the dumbest mistake I've probably ever made. And OBVI, how to AVOID it.
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