Last year my 5 year marriage was… a disaster. We were arguing, bickering, fighting… ALL THE TIME. Now we may have a blow up every blue moon and THIS is the major reason why NOT ONLY our  fighting nearly stopped BUT ALSO our marriage is better than ever. 

What I cover in this episode: 

• It’s normal to get frustrated with your partner with tiny things 

• How do I handle the *climax* of my frustration 

• No bypassing of emotions 

• I don’t attempt to take the “high road” 

• I don’t “whatever” when he messes up BUT… 

• If I am giving someone grief, I ALSO need to give them credit 

• No one has “fighting” on their vision board 

• When do I communicate the issues 

• Your partner isn’t trying to piss you off on purpose (pinkie promise) 

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