

The Psychology of your 20s
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A podcast that explains how everything is psychology. Even your 20s. Hosted by Jemma Sbeg, each Tuesday and Friday we deep dive into the science and psychology behind a topic, concept or universal experience that defines our 20s - from dating, to mental health, career anxiety, friendship, finances and all the growing pains associated with this decade. Listen now.
My book is out NOW: https://www.psychologyofyour20s.com/general-clean
For business enquires please email psychologyofyour20s@gmail.com
My book is out NOW: https://www.psychologyofyour20s.com/general-clean
For business enquires please email psychologyofyour20s@gmail.com
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Jun 16, 2023 • 30min
99. The myth of the 5-year plan
In your 20s, the pressure to have a life plan can be overwhelming. The podcast dismantles the myth of the five-year plan, highlighting how it can stifle spontaneity and personal growth. It emphasizes the importance of flexibility and embracing life’s surprises. Listeners are encouraged to challenge societal expectations and prioritize exploration over rigid goals. The discussion also touches on the stress these expectations create and the value of community in facing uncertainties together.

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Jun 13, 2023 • 43min
98. The psychology of self sabotage
Explore the complex world of self-sabotage, where our biggest obstacles often come from within. Discover how unresolved emotional trauma and childhood experiences fuel destructive patterns. From procrastination to unhealthy relationships, the psychological roots unveil the interplay of self-worth and fear of failure. Learn practical strategies to break free from negative beliefs and embrace healthier habits. Self-awareness and community support emerge as key tools in overcoming these challenges and fostering personal growth.

31 snips
Jun 9, 2023 • 40min
97. The long distance dilemma
Long-distance relationships can be tricky, but many choose them despite the challenges. The podcast dives into why distance creates friction and what makes these relationships tick. It emphasizes the importance of trust, communication, and personal growth while offering practical tips to keep connections strong. Listeners learn to recognize signs that indicate whether a relationship can last or if it's time to let go. With insights on navigating emotional hurdles and strategic decision-making, this discussion sheds light on love across miles.

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Jun 6, 2023 • 40min
96. I feel ugly
The discussion dives into the struggle with body image and feelings of unattractiveness. Personal stories reveal the emotional impact of societal beauty standards on self-worth. Listeners are encouraged to practice self-compassion while navigating social media pressures. The idea of redefining beauty emphasizes inner qualities over physical appearance. Practical strategies for fostering self-acceptance and the importance of seeking help are shared, creating a supportive dialogue for young adults confronting these challenges.

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Jun 1, 2023 • 33min
95. Dating with intention in our 20s
Dating in your 20s doesn't have to be just about casual flings. Explore how self-awareness and understanding personal values can lead to more meaningful connections. Discover the importance of healthy boundaries and embracing spontaneity in romantic pursuits. Learn to engage with others beyond dating apps and navigate societal pressures while prioritizing self-care. This conversation encourages authenticity and personal growth, helping you enjoy the journey of meeting new people.

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May 29, 2023 • 47min
94. Chronic illness and overcoming adversity ft. Bradley Dryburgh
Bradley Dryburgh, host of 'A Lot To Talk About' and a brave advocate for cystic fibrosis awareness, shares his incredible journey from a life-threatening hospital stay to running multiple marathons. He dives into the mental resilience needed to navigate chronic illness and emphasizes the vital role of family support in overcoming life's obstacles. Bradley's reflective storytelling highlights the beauty of personal growth through adversity, encouraging authenticity and genuine connections as keys to thriving in our 20s.

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May 26, 2023 • 33min
93. How to build consistency
Dive into the psychology of consistency and its impact on achieving goals in your 20s. Discover how microhabits can lead to major accomplishments while enjoying the journey. Learn to embrace failure as a stepping stone for growth and the importance of rest to prevent burnout. Explore the balance of structured routines and relationships that foster motivation without tying your self-worth to productivity. This engaging discussion reveals the secrets to building a solid foundation for long-term success.

5 snips
May 23, 2023 • 37min
92. The psychology of platonic soulmates
Explore the fascinating world of platonic soulmates, where deep connections blossom without romance. Discover how these relationships, rooted in trust and vulnerability, can significantly enhance emotional well-being. Delve into ancient philosophies, including insights from Plato, and learn how to identify these special bonds in your life. Personal stories highlight the importance of nurturing these ties during your 20s, offering a fresh perspective on friendship as a vital part of personal growth.

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May 19, 2023 • 44min
91. Overcoming milestone anxiety in our 20s
In our 20s, the pressure to hit life milestones can be overwhelming. The discussion explores the roots of milestone anxiety and how societal expectations shape our feelings of inadequacy. It emphasizes the importance of embracing personal timelines and reframing anxiety into excitement for our unique journeys. Strategies for practicing self-compassion and overcoming feelings of failure are highlighted, along with the value of sharing these experiences with others. Ultimately, it’s about finding joy in our path, no matter how different it may look from the norm.

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May 16, 2023 • 45min
90. The psychology of open relationships
Discover the rising trend of open relationships among young adults, revealing the psychological factors driving non-monogamous preferences. Explore emotional complexities like jealousy and the need for clear boundaries. Delve into personal experiences and insights on being a third party, emphasizing self-awareness and communication. The discussion challenges traditional views on monogamy, encouraging reflection on relationship beliefs and the dynamics of consent. This captivating exploration sheds light on the motivations and challenges of navigating love in a non-traditional landscape.