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The Psychology of your 20s

96. I feel ugly

Jun 6, 2023
40:27

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  • The podcast explores the impact of societal beauty standards on self-esteem and the negative learning experiences that contribute to low self-esteem and body dysmorphia.
  • The podcast emphasizes the negative influence of social media algorithms and the importance of being mindful of the content we consume to protect our self-esteem and mental well-being.

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Feeling Ugly and Body Image

In this podcast episode, the host discusses her personal experience of feeling unattractive and obsessed with her appearance. She reflects on her journey from childhood self-perception to the impact of beauty standards in her teenage years. She explores the psychology behind obsessing over attractiveness, the societal influences and negative learning experiences that contribute to low self-esteem and body dysmorphia. The host also highlights the spotlight effect and false consensus effect, which lead us to believe that others notice and judge us more harshly than they actually do. She acknowledges the evolutionary origins of beauty standards and the socialization process that often reinforces the idea that our value lies in our physical appearance. The host emphasizes the importance of shifting focus away from appearance, challenging negative thoughts, and practicing self-compassion. She also encourages limiting exposure to harmful beauty standards, surrounding oneself with positive influences, and seeking professional support if negative feelings persist.

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