

96. I feel ugly
14 snips Jun 6, 2023
The discussion dives into the struggle with body image and feelings of unattractiveness. Personal stories reveal the emotional impact of societal beauty standards on self-worth. Listeners are encouraged to practice self-compassion while navigating social media pressures. The idea of redefining beauty emphasizes inner qualities over physical appearance. Practical strategies for fostering self-acceptance and the importance of seeking help are shared, creating a supportive dialogue for young adults confronting these challenges.
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Janice's Story
- Janice Torres shares her personal struggle with feeling unattractive, tracing it back to childhood.
- She discusses her tomboy past and how societal beauty standards impacted her self-perception.
Social and Evolutionary Roots
- Feeling ugly is tied to our social nature and how we perceive others' judgments.
- Evolutionary psychology suggests that beauty standards are rooted in mate selection and survival.
The Value of Attractiveness
- Historically, attractiveness was linked to survival, particularly for women signaling fertility.
- Societal messages reinforce the idea that a woman's value lies in her physical appearance.