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Leaders aren’t born, they’re made. This Monday show helps you discover leadership wisdom through insightful conversations. Independently produced weekly since 2011, Dr. Dave Stachowiak brings perspective from a thriving, global leadership academy, plus more than 15 years of leadership at Dale Carnegie. Bestselling authors, expert researchers, deep conversation, and regular dialogue with listeners have attracted 40 million downloads and over 250K followers on Spotify and Apple Podcasts. Activate your FREE membership to access the entire leadership and management library at CoachingforLeaders.com
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Apr 21, 2014 • 51min
137: The Power Of Servant Leadership, with John Dickson
John Dickson: Spokane County, Washington
Here's a link to the Lean Fighter article John mentioned about some of the work he contributed to at Boeing
John mentioned the learning organization that was articulated by Peter Senge. This model was made popular in Senge's book The Fifth Discipline*, which is a must-read for leaders and also appears on my Top 10 books for leaders list.
“The servant-leader is servant first. It begins with the natural feeling that one wants to serve, and serve first. The conscious choice brings one to aspire to lead.” -Robert Greenleaf
“Enthusiasm is the little recognized secret of success.” -Dale Carnegie
A recent article from the Spokesman-Review on the new utility bill payment system that John spoke of on the show.
What’s one shift you could make that would make you more like a servant leader?
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Apr 14, 2014 • 48min
136: How To Create Connections in The Smallest of Moments, with Douglas Conant
Douglas Conant, former CEO of Campbell Soup and author of the bestselling book TouchPoints, shares valuable insights on leadership. He emphasizes the importance of daily interruptions as opportunities for connection and how to leverage these moments to enhance team dynamics. Conant discusses his experience overcoming setbacks and the significance of building relationships. He also highlights the impact of handwritten notes on fostering appreciation and the balance between empathy and high performance in leadership, urging a 'how can I help?' approach.

Apr 7, 2014 • 48min
135: How To Get The Most Out Of Training, with Bonni Stachowiak
This week, we dedicate the entire show to community questions about training.
Guest: Bonni Stachowiak (@bonni208)
Question from Jordan
I am a young manager (mid-20’s). My job requires training large amounts of staff on software and technology. Many of the staff are twice my age, and tend to ignore me when giving trainings. I’m, not sure if this is because of my age, or because I have only been with the organization for 5 years, and many of them have been here for 20+. Or perhaps it is because of the subject matter of the trainings? Do you have any suggestions on how to get through to them?
Is it content or credibility?
Seven Principles for Leading People Older Than You [episode #59]
Seek out people who are giving you objections and find out how to best serve them.
Dave mentioned How To Win Friends And Influence People*
Lynda.com* is a good solution for learning popular software online at your pace
Adobe Captivate is a good option for creating your own simulations
Screenflow for the Mac is great for screencasting
Camtasia is another option
2nd Question from Jordan
Do you have any suggestions on conferences one can go to, to expand skills on leadership and coaching?
Bonni says a conference is a place to build a network, generate new ideas, and learn about new products
Dale Carnegie Training provides a great resource for changing behavior, which is a great way to get better and leadership and coaching
Question from Kris
I am a manager in a large company and managing a global transformation programme. I am at a cross roads and my development plan includes getting more training on the following: (a) Leadership of global teams (physical and virtual) and (b) Strategic planning and organizational development (how does one define and develop a global organization, roles, numbers of people, strategy, governance, teams, processes, etc) to
implement a global transformation programme. Do you have recommendations on books, education or coaches for my further development?
Good to Great* by Jim Collins
Execution* by Larry Bossidy and Ram Charan
The Fifth Discipline* by Peter Senge
Coaches: Bill Bliss, Tom Henschel, Pam Fox Rollin but find someone who’s done what you’ve done and what they’re reading
Question from Suzie
Audio comment
If you are a nurse or know one, check out OneLoveforNurses.com
Jane Hart publishes the Top 100 Tools for Learning
Poll Everywhere is used by Bonni in her classroom
Question from Andres
In a world of free online courses and MOOCS (Massive Open Online Course); what type of course would you be willing to pay for? What type of content/delivery would definitely be worth spending your (not your employer’s) money on?
Bonni mentioned attending a class from Linda Krall on creativity
Dave spoke about Michael Hyatt’s class of 5 Days To Your Best Year Ever
Question from Elmer
How do you make training accessible to the newest employee while bringing something to the table for the most experienced manager? I usually try to leave the conversation open for the subject matter experts in the room to share their knowledge (within reason and on topic) so there is a feeling of collaboration and not speaking down to them in those situations. Creating a course that is comprehensive is difficult.
Dave suggests segmenting the training, if possible.
How can you get the subject matter experts engaged in a leadership capacity in the classroom?
Use a problem-based or case study approach. This engages the more knowledgable people in the room.
2nd Question from Elmer
One of our bosses/stake holders wants us to make our classes archiveable or semi-future proofed so we do not have to constantly go back and re-teach the classes one on one. What are some of the best ways to do that?
“If the recording of the class was the equivalent to being there, then why are you holding the class in the first place?” -Bonni

Mar 31, 2014 • 21min
134: The Secret To Happiness
Discover the secret to happiness through a transformative shift in mindset. Learn how rephrasing daily tasks from 'have to' into 'get to' can enhance your appreciation for life. With engaging stories and personal anecdotes, explore the significance of interpersonal relationships in leadership. Delve into the bittersweet balance of family commitments and the joys of spontaneity. Gain insights on professional growth from valuable training experiences that inspire new ideas and enrich your perspective.

Mar 24, 2014 • 47min
133: The Five Elements Of Your Personal Brand, with Heather Backstrom
We all know what corporate brands are, but do you have clarity on your own, personal brand? Today, we examine the five elements of an effective personal brand with executive coach Heather Backstrom.
Guest: Heather Backstrom
HeatherBackstrom.com
Executive Coach
What is a personal brand?
Personal brand is who a person is from the inside out.
It’s not about external looks - that is personal image (also important, but different).
1. Values
Knowing our values can provide clarity on the kind of work and work environment we choose.
To help get clarity on your values, you may wish to utilize Dave’s values exercise at this link.
Consider experiences in your life that really brought you joy - what values show up?
For more on values, check out Coaching for Leaders episode 20.
2. Vision
It’s about where you are now and where you wish to go.
Create a target for yourself by defining it visually or in writing.
“You can’t hit a target you don’t even have.” -Zig Ziglar
For a journaling app, check out Day One.
For more on vision, check out Coaching for Leaders episode 22.
3. Purpose
Vision is where your head is and purpose is how you get there.
Vision is the future and purpose is what’s happening in the present.
Dave spoke about being a “curator of wisdom about people.”
Without purpose, we tend to get caught up in other people’s lives and lose our own way.
4. Authenticity
Personal brand is about bringing out the best of who you are.
Borrow wisdom from others, but make it your own.
5. Perception
We define our world and other people by our perceptions.
The language we use can change how people perceive us.
Heather and Dave both mentioned that they struggled most with this element.
What action will you take enhance one of these five elements of your personal brand?
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Mar 17, 2014 • 38min
132: How to Improve the Quality of Your Connectedness, with Jennifer Deal
Being connected is great, right until it’s not. How to improve the quality of your connectedness with an expert from the Center for Creative Leadership.
Guest: Jennifer Deal, Ph.D
Center for Creative Leadership
Author, Always On, Never Done: Don't Blame The Smartphone
Center for Creative Leadership works to help improve leadership.
Many people said that staying so connected really started when they received their smartphone.
On average, people in the survey were connected to the workplace 72 hours a week, or 13.5 hours a day.
Personal tasks done during the workday were accounted for in the research (even people that don’t work these kind of hours still do personal tasks at work)
One of the biggest complaints was the number of meetings required in organizations.
A major issue is being invited to meetings and then people realizing that they weren’t really needed.
Setting clear agendas is key.
Be explicit why each person is needed.
Another major complaint was too many people making decisions.
Be explicit about who has decision-making authority and who needs to be checked with.
The intentional use of ambiguity as a management tool is also a challenge.
Sometimes people don’t make a decision so they don’t have responsibility for it, so they leave it in ambiguity.
Clear agendas and outcomes help prevent this.
This leads to crisis mode later on.
What Jennifer does differently because of this research
She still answers emails early in the morning and late at night.
Setting better boundaries about having done enough work today.
Being very specific on agendas for meetings.
She turns down a lot of meetings that aren’t as high value as the other things she needs to be doing.
Check out the Center for Creative Leadership for more resources
Also see episode #128, Four Practices For Leading An Effective Meeting
What have you seen a leader do to encourage quality connections to the workplace?
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Feb 24, 2014 • 49min
129: How To Create a Personal Knowledge Management System, with Bonni Stachowiak
Bonni Stachowiak, an expert in knowledge management and curation, discusses effective strategies for creating a personal knowledge management system. She explores different methods of capturing information, such as using social media and subscriptions, and highlights the importance of curating and organizing this information. The podcast also covers tools for reading and managing RSS feed subscriptions. The episode concludes with resources for staying connected with the community and accessing additional leadership resources.

Jan 20, 2014 • 42min
124: How To Get What You Really Want Out Of Conflict, with Bonni Stachowiak
So you’re in the midst of conflict and frustrated with the other party. What can you do get what you really want? On today’s show, Bonni Stachowiak joins me to discuss the path to get there.
Guest: Bonni Stachowiak
Bonni and I discussed three steps for getting what you most want out of conflict:
Recognize our tendency to focus on ourselves being right and the other party being wrong.
Getting clear on the feeling factor: becoming aware of our own feelings and learning to express them accurately to another party
Know your short and long-term goal. “Given what has already transpired that you can't change, what do you want to have come out of this situation?”
We recommended Difficult Conversations*
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Jan 13, 2014 • 1h 9min
123: The Practical Pursuit Of Work-Life Balance, with John Corcoran
John Corcoran: Smart Business Revolution
Key Points
Ursula Burns (CEO of Xerox) and her thoughts on work-life balance, as reported by the Wall Street Journal
The Storyline Productivity Schedule (used by John)
David Allen's Getting Things Done* (both John and Dave use the philosophy of this system)
ProductiveFlourishing.com (John uses)
OmniFocus (Dave's task management system)
Drafts (how Dave captures thoughts throughout the day)
5 Days To Your Best Year Ever (Dave attended this course over the holidays to set his 2014 goals)
iCloud calendars (Dave's family uses this to coordinate family scheduling)
Boomerang for Gmail (John uses this to delay sending emails)
Coaching for Leaders episode #70: How Three Words Can Drive Your Development This Year (Dave's podcast that aired in early 2013 that John and Dave referenced during the show)
Book recommendation: Give and Take by Adam Grant*
Book recommendation: How To Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie*
Book recommendation: The Secrets of Happy Families by Bruce Feiler* (mentioned by Dave post-interview)
Follow Dave's reading on GoodReads.com by visiting CoachingforLeaders.com/goodreads
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Jan 6, 2014 • 48min
122: How To Create Joy At Work, with Richard Sheridan
What if you loved starting your work most days? What if you were able to create a workplace where people felt joy? Our guest today leads a place that Inc. Magazine has called, “The most joyful company in America,” and is here to inspire us to do more for the people we lead.
Guest: Richard Sheridan
Author of the new book Joy, Inc.*
CEO, Menlo Innovations
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What’s one thing you could do today to bring joy into the workplace?