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Oct 28, 2024 • 58min

Embracing Feminine Beauty: Self-Care, Perfectionism, and Abundance in DS Dynamics

Free gift: 7 Tips for a rock-solid D/s Dynamic - visit https://infinitedevotion.com/7-tips In this episode of the Dom Sub Devotion podcast, we explore the intricate relationship between feminine beauty, self-care, and the dominant-submissive dynamic within our 24/7 DS marriage. Inspired by an email Dawn received from a list that she’s on, we tackle modern beauty standards, the pressure of perfectionism exacerbated by social media, and the 'crunchy' community's approach to self-care. This conversation explores overcoming anxieties around beauty routines to achieving self-acceptance and celebrating personal beauty. We highlight the balance between health and beauty, the meditative and ritualistic aspects of self-care, and the significance of presence and authenticity. Practical advice for both men and women is shared, emphasizing self-acceptance, reducing social media influence, and creating space for joy in beauty practices. The episode provides a comprehensive look at how empathy, mutual respect, and intentional actions foster beauty and abundance within our D/s relationship.   ~~~~~ Social Links: Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store Free Resources:   FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance   FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass   FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds   FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman   Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen!   Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man   Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations   00:00 Introduction to Dom Sub Devotion 00:33 Exploring Feminine Beauty 01:12 Jessica Ash's Email on Beauty Practices 06:59 Personal Reflections on Beauty 08:23 The Battle Between Health and Beauty 17:11 Rediscovering Joy in Beauty Practices 22:59 The Importance of Self-Care and Abundance 31:11 The Importance of Self-Perception 31:33 Men's Attention to Detail 33:30 Empathy in Relationships 37:11 Beauty and Self-Care in Dominant-Submissive Dynamics 45:35 The Ritual of Self-Care 50:55 Enhancing Natural Beauty vs. Fakeness 56:20 Growing Old with Grace 57:52 Final Thoughts and Gratitude  
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Oct 21, 2024 • 1h 2min

Beyond Sacrifice: Dominance, self care, and giving from fullness

Free gift: 7 Tips for a rock-solid D/s Dynamic - visit https://infinitedevotion.com/7-tips In this episode of the Dom Sub Devotion podcast, the we delve into the critical importance of self-care for dominant men within 24/7 DS marriages and relationships.   An especially important topic in this discussion is the pitfall of self sacrifice for men, and an alternative approach to giving of ourselves while also taking care of ourselves. It’s no secret to anyone who explores a deep 24/7 dynamic that the sense of responsibility for the Dominant is significant.   So we discuss the essential role of routines like prioritizing sleep and personal grooming, and how self care and prioritizing yourself as a Dom is far from selfish.   We also  practical advice on establishing a healthy balance between self-care and supporting one’s partner, emphasizing physical health, exercise, nutrition, and hydration. Through shared personal experiences and insights from the 'Becoming a Dominant Man' course, the conversation aims to inspire men to reclaim their self-worth, set boundaries, and foster mutual respect, ultimately enhancing both individual growth and relationship strength.       ~~~~~   Social Links:   Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion   YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion   Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion   Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe   Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store   Free Resources:   FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance   FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass   FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds   FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman   Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen!   Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man   Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations   00:00 Introduction to Dom Sub Devotion 00:33 The Importance of Self-Care for Dominant Men 00:59 Taking Responsibility in a DS Relationship 02:06 Empowerment Through Responsibility 04:39 The Role of Self-Care in Supporting Your Partner 08:15 Challenges of Self-Sacrifice 12:05 Transforming Through Self-Improvement 22:48 Prioritizing Self-Care: Practical Steps 31:25 The Importance of Appearance 33:03 Dressing for Yourself, Not Others 37:18 Balancing Self-Care and Partner's Needs 41:25 Fitness and Nutrition for Self-Respect 46:02 Hydration and Overall Well-being 49:02 The Paradox of Self-Care in Relationships 55:02 Embracing Dominance and Self-Respect 59:39 Conclusion and Resources
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Oct 14, 2024 • 57min

Does the submissive have all the power in a D/s relationship?

Free gift: 7 Tips for a rock-solid D/s Dynamic - visit https://infinitedevotion.com/7-tips In this episode of the Dom Sub Devotion podcast, we explore the often repeated statement that “The submissive ACTUALLY holds all the power”. We dissect this concept, emphasizing the critical role of consent and safe words in power exchange dynamics, but also the nuances of how those things play out when we start delving into these deeply trusting dynamics. Speaking of nuance…the discussion explores the nuances of authority, leadership, and the emotional and trust-based exchanges required in such relationships. We also address how power dynamics differ in kink-focused relationships compared to loving, lifelong DS marriages. By sharing our experiences, we aim to illustrate the complexities of power exchange, highlighting the importance of empathy, vulnerability, and dealing with fear and emotional reactions in fostering a healthy and intimate D/s marriage. ~~~~~ Social Links: Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store Free Resources: FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen! Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations   00:00 Introduction to Dom Sub Devotion 00:33 Addressing Viewer Comments 00:48 The Power Dynamics Debate 03:34 Understanding Power in Relationships 06:29 The Role of Consent and Safe Words 10:30 Emotional Exchange in Power Dynamics 21:02 Balancing Love and Kink 24:39 Navigating Fear and Trust 29:35 Navigating Trust and Fear in Submission 30:33 Aligning Words and Actions 32:08 The Power of Vulnerability 35:31 Humbling Moments and Self-Realization 40:08 Overcoming Fear and Building Trust 41:09 The Importance of Individuality 43:25 The Power of Letting Go 51:42 Self-Awareness and Humility 55:13 Final Thoughts and Appreciation
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Oct 7, 2024 • 1h 8min

Ask A Dom Anything Part 2: Andrew answers MORE questions from submissive women

Free gift: 7 Tips for a rock-solid D/s Dynamic - visit https://infinitedevotion.com/7-tips Dom-Sub Dynamics and Healthy Communication: A Deep Dive In this Q&A episode, Andrew addresses a myriad of questions from submissives exploring the intricacies of dominance and submission (DS) dynamics. Important topics include the significance of real-time communication in a DS relationship, managing accountability as a dominant, and the boundaries of consent. The discussion touches on how to approach past traumas with prospective partners, transitioning from risky exploration to safer expressions of submission, and the role of non-sexual service tasks. Andrew emphasizes the importance of healthy boundaries, authentic desire over performance, and how to engage in constructive dialogue within the DS framework. The episode also explores the complexities of individual dynamics, finding compatible partners, and how both dominants and submissives can nurture a fulfilling relationship. ~~~~~ Social Links: Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store Free Resources: FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance   FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass   FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds   FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman   Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen!   Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man   Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations     01:15 Handling Difficult Topics in a DS Dynamic 05:31 Testing Dominance and Manipulative Behavior 08:59 Accountability in a DS Relationship 12:19 Non-Sexual Service Tasks in DS Dynamics 16:29 Unexpected Submission Desires 19:58 Communicating Past Trauma with a New Partner 24:00 Exploring Submission Safely 26:22 Maintaining Appearance for Your Partner 29:09 Finding Joy and Overcoming Suppression 34:05 Finding Joy and Authenticity in Relationships 34:46 Our Place in the Kink and BDSM Community 39:22 Balancing Boundaries and Standards in Relationships 41:49 Pushing Limits and Safe Words 45:37 Setting and Enforcing Boundaries 50:25 Communicating Needs and Desires 01:02:16 Trust and Control in Dynamics 01:04:48 Authentic Submission vs. Going Through the Motions 01:06:55 Final Reflections and Appreciation
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Sep 30, 2024 • 1h 2min

Ask A Dom Anything Part 1: Andrew answers questions from submissive women

 Free gift: 7 Tips for a rock-solid D/s Dynamic - visit https://infinitedevotion.com/7-tips In this episode of Dom Sub Devotion, Andrew answers questions submitted by our submissive followers. We get into so much in this episode that we had to make two parts! We discuss the responsibilities of being a dominant, managing resistance, and the intricacies of balancing DS dynamics with other aspects of life. Other questions I answer include advice on the importance of consent, whether it’s possible to maintain a successful business while being submissive, and reconciling societal expectations with personal desires. Stay tuned next week for Part 2 where Andrew continues answering more of your great questions! ~~~~~   Social Links:   Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion   YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion   Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion   Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe   Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store   Free Resources:   FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance   FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass   FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds   FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman   Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen!   Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man   Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations     00:00 Introduction to Dom Sub Devotion 00:33 Q&A Session Begins 01:06 Popular Questions Overview 02:31 Managing Dominant Responsibilities 04:55 Boosting Dominance 06:43 Consent and Control 09:07 Open-Hearted Dominance 11:03 Connecting with Course Graduates 12:45 Commanding vs. Asking 18:11 Changing Consent 20:40 Handling a Rude or Mean Dominant 23:26 Silent and Indifferent Dominant 25:34 Rebuilding Trust After Hurt 29:46 Polyamory Concerns 31:34 Embracing Change and Evolution 32:31 Exploring Submissive Desires 34:34 Balancing Independence and Submission 39:33 Navigating Feminine Energy in Business 42:24 Challenging Patriarchy and Collective Ideologies 49:35 Discovering Dominance and Submission 56:27 Supporting Dominant Insecurities 59:59 Conclusion and Future Discussions
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Sep 23, 2024 • 48min

Setting up your D/s Dynamic for Success: Creating rules, rituals, & contracts that work in your life

Free gift: 7 Tips for a rock-solid D/s Dynamic - visit https://infinitedevotion.com/7-tips This episode coincides with the release of our newest self-study course: Structuring Your D/s Dynamic. In Structuring your D/s Dynamic, we walk you through the same step-by-step process that we use to write our contract, rules, rituals, and create the structure that has allowed our Dom/sub relationship to become such a powerful and intimate connection. In this episode we delve into strategies for setting up an effective and enduring Dominant-submissive relationship. Specifically, how to structure things like rules, rituals, contracts, and more, to support loving power exchange that works in your real life, over the long term. This episode is dedicated to sharing valuable tips and strategies for both newcomers and those looking to reset their dynamics. We discuss the importance of having the dominant lead the structure, the necessity of starting at a realistic pace, why setting up rituals and rules should come last, and the critical role of vulnerability and deep conversation. We also share stories and thoughts about handling conflicts, setting up communication plans, and maintaining a fun, exciting atmosphere within the relationship. Tune in to gain insights on creating a dynamic that not only functions well but also stands the test of time. And if you want to go deep into creating this kind of structure for your relationship, visit https://infinitedevotion.com/structuring-your-ds-dynamic to learn more about our course that will teach you how! ~~~~~   Social Links:   Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion   YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion   Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion   Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe   Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store   Free Resources:   FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance   FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass   FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds   FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman   Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen!   Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man   Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations     00:33 Back to Basics: Starting Your DS Journey 01:14 The Dominant's Role in Structuring Dynamics 02:00 Understanding the Submissive's Desire 10:04 Integrating DS Dynamics into Daily Life 11:54 Avoiding Overwhelm: Start Slow and Steady 19:06 The Importance of Purpose and Vision 24:42 The Need for Structure in Relationships 26:17 The Role of the Dominant in Setting Structure 27:39 Benefits of Structure for the Submissive 31:51 Accountability for the Dominant 40:39 Handling Conflict and Communication 45:25 Final Tips for Setting Up Dynamics 47:41 Conclusion and Further Resources
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Sep 16, 2024 • 1h 10min

One Year Anniversary Livestream Podcast!

In this live stream special, we celebrate the one-year anniversary of Dom Sub Devotion. We reflect on the journey of Infinite Devotion and share stories about how we got to where we are today in our business, starting from our original name, freeandfit.life. We share about the evolution of our lives and how they’ve changed through this business and how we came to start our podcast one year ago, and how the podcast has changed not only our business, but how we have grown and changed through recording 52 straight weeks of episodes. We also share some of our plans for the future of Infinite Devotion, answer some live questions, and share about upcoming changes in our personal life!     00:00 Introduction and Anniversary Celebration 01:21 The Origin Story of Infinite Devotion 05:18 Rebranding to Infinite Devotion 06:55 Creating the Infinite Devotion Logo 09:08 Growth and Evolution of the Podcast 14:07 Transition to a Nomadic Lifestyle 16:46 Challenges and Reflections on Podcasting 30:21 Going Viral and Expanding Reach 32:36 Preparing for a New Chapter 37:40 Planning a Meetup in Virginia 38:58 The Story Behind 'Y'all' 39:50 Podcast and Retreat Ideas 41:34 Engaging with Followers 45:17 Discussing Dominance and Submission 49:38 Upcoming DS Dynamic Course 52:04 Q&A Session 01:01:58 Reflections on Personal Growth 01:09:09 Closing Remarks and Gratitude
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Sep 9, 2024 • 1h 4min

Topping From The Bottom: Understanding and Addressing the Control Mechanisms of submissives

In this episode of the Dom Sub Devotion podcast, we dive deep into the intricate dynamics of 'topping from the bottom' in a 24/7 DS marriage. We explore how this concept, where the submissive tries to control the Dominant using her submission as the means of control, aligns with the submissive’s use of voice and expression of feelings within a power exchange relationship. We discuss the challenges of balancing submission and the need to speak up, the importance of emotional safety, and the inner emotional journeys both the dominant and the submissive experience in pursuit of authentic submission, where she feels safe enough to let go and not feel the need to control. Join us as we unpack the transformative potential of overcoming control patterns and building deeper trust and love in a committed DS relationship. ~~~~~~~~ Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman   Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations   ~~~~~   Social Links:   Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion   YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion   Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion   Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe   Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/work-with-us   Free Resources: FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance   FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass   FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds   Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen!   Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man     00:33 Understanding Topping from the Bottom 01:13 Balancing Submission and Voice 04:06 The Role of Safety in Submission 05:55 Dominant's Perspective on Safety 07:23 Challenges in Shifting Dynamics 09:47 Navigating Fear and Control 18:05 Advice for Submissives 32:55 Exploring Internal Muscles and Belief 33:39 Dissolving Trauma in Relationships 34:25 Understanding Fear and Control 34:46 Topping from the Bottom: Myth or Reality? 37:36 Navigating Emotional Reactions 39:35 The Role of Dominance and Submission 41:43 Building Trust and Integrity 44:11 Handling Emotional Reactions 56:28 Journaling and Self-Reflection 01:01:39 Balancing Masculine and Feminine Energies 01:03:01 Embracing Chaos and Submission
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Sep 2, 2024 • 60min

A Collared Submissive: Why the collar is such a meaningful symbol in our D/s marriage

For Episode 50 of Dom Sub Devotion, we poured a cocktail, sat down on a Friday afternoon, and had a fun happy hour discussion about collars and their significance in our D/s dynamic. Enjoy this one, we had fun with it! We get asked so often about where I got Dawn's everyday collar, and we’re happy to be partners with Eternity Collars. You can shop Eternity at this link, and use our code DEVOTION for a discount of $20 off of $150 as well! https://www.eternitycollars.com?bg_ref=0iRJJDqHMs (This is an affiliate link, and we get a small commission on anything you order through it...thank you!)  ~~~~~~~~ Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman   Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations   ~~~~~   Social Links:   Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion   YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion   Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion   Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe   Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/work-with-us   Free Resources: FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance   FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass   FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds   Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen!   Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man   00:56 Discussing the Popular Collar Episode 01:49 Personal Reflections on Wearing a Collar 06:21 Daily Life with the Collar 11:57 Different Types of Collars 15:29 Public Perception and Reactions 25:26 Overcoming Shame and Embracing Sexuality 29:41 Exploring Sexuality and Self-Judgment 31:01 Pushing Boundaries and Embracing New Experiences 31:59 The Role of Consent and Leadership in Exploration 33:44 Shame and Acceptance in Sexuality 37:37 The Significance of the Collar in Submission 42:17 Trust and Devotion in the Dynamic 55:05 The Emotional Significance of the Collar 59:25 Closing Thoughts and Future Plans
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Aug 26, 2024 • 60min

Living Fully: Enjoying our lives and D/s while “Doing The Work” together

In this episode, we dive into how to balance enjoying life's moments while navigating through the deep challenges that come with doing the work to overcome our past programming and conditioning. This deep emotional work is important, but it can take over our lives if we let it. It can become another version of the same thing we’re trying to escape. We share personal experiences on maintaining fun, discussing how emotional chaos and personal growth have affected our relationship dynamics. Listen in, and you will learn about embracing reality without fear, the importance of physical connection, and the nuances of dominant and submissive roles in creating a harmonious life together. Join us as we discuss surrender, leadership, and the journey of mutual growth and understanding in a power exchange dynamic. ~~~~~ Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman   Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations   ~~~~~   Social Links:   Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion   YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion   Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion   Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe   Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/work-with-us   Free Resources: FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance   FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass   FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds   Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen!   Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man     00:33 Balancing Fun and Deep Emotional Challenges 03:39 The Importance of Live Experiences 06:08 Navigating Emotional Chaos Together 07:59 Understanding and Accepting Emotional Cycles 11:37 The Role of Dominance and Containment 24:10 Projection and Emotional Reactions 27:58 Masculine vs. Feminine Integrity 29:05 Long-Term Relationship Dynamics 30:49 Letting Go of Old Ways 31:21 Seeing Through Different Glasses 31:57 Understanding Each Other's Truth 33:08 Navigating Layers of Pain 35:02 The Role of Surrender 40:43 Balancing Fun and Deep Work 54:48 Physical Connection Rituals

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