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Dec 2, 2024 • 1h 1min

Finding Freedom and Presence in Submission: A Journey of Personal Growth

We created a pop up store with some really fun coffee mugs and kneeling pillows for the holidays. This will only be available until the end of December, but you can check it out at https://infinitedevotion.printful.me! Episode 63: Finding Freedom and Presence in Submission: A Journey of Personal Growth Welcome back, Devoted ones! In this episode, we focus a lot on how Andrew has helped lead Dawn towards more freedom in her life. One of the highest callings we have, when someone submits to us, is to use that power for good. Not to use that person for our own purposes, but to guide them to the best place we can in their own life. My goal for Dawn has always been to set her free from her own constraints and limitations. And this episode is a deep and vulnerable look into that whole process. And what I have had to become as a man, in order to lead her towards this freedom has been the biggest gift of my own life. Click here to see more about how I have worked to become the Dominant that I have. https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man-1 Enjoy! ~~~~~   Social Links:   Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion   YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion   Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion   Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe   Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store   Free Resources:   FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance   FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass   FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds   FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman   Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen!   Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man   Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations     04:11 The Concept of Presence 11:16 Overcoming Fear and Embracing Freedom 12:11 The Role of Dominance and Submission in Personal Growth 16:08 Dealing with Emotional Triggers and Fear 24:53 The Impact of Fear on Daily Life 30:28 Embracing Uncertainty 31:34 The Role of Control in Submission 33:17 The Importance of Presence 34:38 Navigating Real-Life Dynamics 37:16 The Art of Patience and Persistence 42:15 Understanding Fear and Triggers 44:49 The Dominant's Perspective on Fear 50:17 Trust and Communication 55:22 The Role of the Dominant 58:27 Concluding Thoughts      
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Nov 25, 2024 • 56min

Detaching With Love: Breaking free from codependency in Dom/sub dynamics

Free gift: 7 Tips for a Rock Solid Dom/sub dynamic. Click here: https://infinitedevotion.com/7-tips ~~~~~~~ Welcome back, Devoted Ones! In this episode, Dawn and I dive into codependency and how it can infect, and ultimately cause harm to our relationship. We share stories of how we’ve shown up in codependent patterns in the past and what it’s taken to overcome them, and why we have to detach in order to experience the fullness of love and intensity in our Dom/sub relationship. We also discuss the place that individuality and personal agency play in a deep, loving, spiritually connected union. In other words, how do we manage the fact that we’re separate people, but also desiring to experience the fullness of union, becoming one with each other. This episode will be invaluable to any couple wanting to explore D/s together without losing yourselves, and in a way that honors both your individuality and your oneness. Enjoy! ~~~~~ Social Links: Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion   Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe   Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store   Free Resources:   FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance   FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass   FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds   FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman   Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen!   Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man   Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations       00:00 Introduction to Dom Sub Devotion 00:33 Understanding Codependency 02:19 Personal Experiences with Codependency 03:23 Impact on Dominance and Submission 05:07 Navigating Codependency in Relationships 07:06 The Journey of Self-Discovery 08:49 Balancing Dependence and Independence 10:44 Challenges and Growth in Union 14:03 Maintaining Connection and Awareness 18:14 Overcoming Unconscious Patterns 28:01 Navigating Emotional Reactions 29:17 Facing Deep Wounds 32:11 The Importance of Authenticity 33:18 Understanding Individuality vs. Independence 36:07 Dominance and Submission Dynamics 38:53 Overcoming Codependency 41:08 Practical Examples and Reflections 48:37 Encouraging Authenticity in Relationships 53:55 Final Thoughts and Encouragement  
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Nov 18, 2024 • 1h 7min

Mindless Obedience: Surrendering Control and Consciousness for Deeper Connection

Free gift: 7 Tips for a Rock Solid Dom/sub dynamic. Click here: https://infinitedevotion.com/7-tips In this episode of the Dom Sub Devotion podcast, the we delve into the topic of 'mindless obedience' within the context of a loving 24/7 Dom/sub dynamic. Inside this episode, we explore the intricacies and challenges Dawn has faces in letting go of control and embracing submission, and how doing so has helped to enhance intimacy and connection. And she shares her personal experiences and challenges she has faced in surrendering ego and consciousness to achieve a deeper, more authentic D/s dynamic. The episode highlights the journey of overcoming fears, the importance of trust, and the profound impact of true submission on mutual growth and fulfillment in a power exchange dynamic. Social Links: Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion   Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe   Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store   Free Resources: FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman   Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen!   Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man   Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations   01:43 Exploring Mindless Obedience 01:57 The Kink of Dominance and Submission 02:37 Consciousness and Awareness in Obedience 03:06 Personal Journey into Obedience 03:51 The Role of Masculine and Feminine Energy 09:00 Challenges of Obedience Outside the Bedroom 09:31 Overcoming the Fear of Becoming a Doormat 10:46 Mindless Obedience vs. Ego 13:53 Practical Examples of Letting Go 19:16 Fitness and Control: A Personal Struggle 23:12 The Importance of Feeling Safe 27:30 Agency and Self-Ownership in Submission 33:34 Embracing Self-Love and Connection 33:53 Overcoming Self-Judgment and Hatred 34:23 The Journey to Inner Peace and Freedom 35:16 Living in the Present Moment 37:28 Trust and Surrender in Relationships 38:07 The Concept of Surrendering Consciousness 39:24 Facing Resistance and External Forces 41:06 Letting Go of Control and Embracing Freedom 43:37 Navigating Fear and Pain 55:21 The Role of Memory and Forgetfulness 01:04:01 The Joy of Mindless Obedience 01:05:42 Final Thoughts and Encouragement
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Nov 11, 2024 • 1h 2min

Embracing Change - Preparing to leave home and become full time nomads

Free gift: 7 Tips for a Rock Solid Dom/sub dynamic. Click here: https://infinitedevotion.com/7-tips Welcome to the Dom Sub Devotion podcast! In this episode, we share the intimate and transformative journey of moving from a permanent home to a full-time nomadic lifestyle. We explore the emotional challenges, particularly the deep-rooted feelings and familial ties, and the intense preparation leading up to this life-changing decision. You'll see our reflections on personal growth, dealing with codependency and grief, and learning what it truly means to love and support one another in a marriage founded on a 24/7 power exchange dynamic. Join us as we discuss the logistics, excitement, and the lessons we've learned through this process, all while looking forward to the infinite possibilities that lie ahead on the road. ~~~~~ Social Links: Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store Free Resources: FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen! Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations   00:00 Introduction to Dom Sub Devotion 00:33 Preparing for a Nomadic Lifestyle 01:13 Emotional Challenges of Moving 02:26 Personal Growth and Family Ties 04:40 Confronting Deep-Seated Emotions 06:28 Codependency and Parenting 09:27 Detachment and True Love 14:53 Excitement and Minimalism 26:10 Organizing and Downsizing 31:03 Decluttering and Emotional Freedom 33:25 The Importance of Pacing in Moving 35:40 Planning Around Life Cycles 39:01 Trust and Decision Making in Relationships 42:50 Embracing a Nomadic Lifestyle 53:46 The Journey to Financial Freedom 01:01:27 Conclusion and Gratitude  
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Nov 4, 2024 • 56min

Finding a Dominant, Helping your man be more Dominant, and dealing with abusive Doms

  To find the courses, workshops, and resources we reference in this episode, visit https://infinitedevotion.com/submissives A few weeks back, we did two “Ask A Dom Anything” episodes, and in those episodes, we promised to record a follow up episode answering the three “Big Questions” that were asked by lots and lots of submissives when we solicited those questions. This episode is here to deliver on that promise. What are those three questions? How do I encourage my boyfriend/husband/partner to be more Dominant? How do I find a Dominant? What do I do when my Dominant is being harsh, mean, abusive, or unkind? And we look deeply into these questions and the challenges faced by any submissive woman who finds herself in the place to be asking them, and hopefully provide some insights and resources to help. And thank you as always for listening and watching! ~~~~~ Social Links: Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion   Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store Free Resources: FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen!   Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man   Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations   00:00 Introduction to Dom Sub Devotion 00:33 Addressing Unanswered Questions 01:19 How to Encourage Dominance in Your Partner 04:13 Challenges in Dominance and Submission Dynamics 07:25 Expressing Desires and Letting Go of Control 19:12 Finding a Dominant Partner 28:36 The Importance of the Spark in Relationships 29:39 Identifying a True Dominant Partner 30:54 Traits to Look for in a Dominant Partner 35:46 The Role of Relationships for Men 38:45 Handling Mistreatment in Power Exchange Relationships 49:26 Setting Boundaries as a Submissive 55:03 Final Thoughts and Farewell    
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Oct 28, 2024 • 58min

Embracing Feminine Beauty: Self-Care, Perfectionism, and Abundance in DS Dynamics

Free gift: 7 Tips for a rock-solid D/s Dynamic - visit https://infinitedevotion.com/7-tips In this episode of the Dom Sub Devotion podcast, we explore the intricate relationship between feminine beauty, self-care, and the dominant-submissive dynamic within our 24/7 DS marriage. Inspired by an email Dawn received from a list that she’s on, we tackle modern beauty standards, the pressure of perfectionism exacerbated by social media, and the 'crunchy' community's approach to self-care. This conversation explores overcoming anxieties around beauty routines to achieving self-acceptance and celebrating personal beauty. We highlight the balance between health and beauty, the meditative and ritualistic aspects of self-care, and the significance of presence and authenticity. Practical advice for both men and women is shared, emphasizing self-acceptance, reducing social media influence, and creating space for joy in beauty practices. The episode provides a comprehensive look at how empathy, mutual respect, and intentional actions foster beauty and abundance within our D/s relationship.   ~~~~~ Social Links: Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store Free Resources:   FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance   FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass   FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds   FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman   Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen!   Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man   Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations   00:00 Introduction to Dom Sub Devotion 00:33 Exploring Feminine Beauty 01:12 Jessica Ash's Email on Beauty Practices 06:59 Personal Reflections on Beauty 08:23 The Battle Between Health and Beauty 17:11 Rediscovering Joy in Beauty Practices 22:59 The Importance of Self-Care and Abundance 31:11 The Importance of Self-Perception 31:33 Men's Attention to Detail 33:30 Empathy in Relationships 37:11 Beauty and Self-Care in Dominant-Submissive Dynamics 45:35 The Ritual of Self-Care 50:55 Enhancing Natural Beauty vs. Fakeness 56:20 Growing Old with Grace 57:52 Final Thoughts and Gratitude  
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Oct 21, 2024 • 1h 2min

Beyond Sacrifice: Dominance, self care, and giving from fullness

Free gift: 7 Tips for a rock-solid D/s Dynamic - visit https://infinitedevotion.com/7-tips In this episode of the Dom Sub Devotion podcast, the we delve into the critical importance of self-care for dominant men within 24/7 DS marriages and relationships.   An especially important topic in this discussion is the pitfall of self sacrifice for men, and an alternative approach to giving of ourselves while also taking care of ourselves. It’s no secret to anyone who explores a deep 24/7 dynamic that the sense of responsibility for the Dominant is significant.   So we discuss the essential role of routines like prioritizing sleep and personal grooming, and how self care and prioritizing yourself as a Dom is far from selfish.   We also  practical advice on establishing a healthy balance between self-care and supporting one’s partner, emphasizing physical health, exercise, nutrition, and hydration. Through shared personal experiences and insights from the 'Becoming a Dominant Man' course, the conversation aims to inspire men to reclaim their self-worth, set boundaries, and foster mutual respect, ultimately enhancing both individual growth and relationship strength.       ~~~~~   Social Links:   Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion   YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion   Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion   Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe   Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store   Free Resources:   FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance   FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass   FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds   FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman   Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen!   Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man   Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations   00:00 Introduction to Dom Sub Devotion 00:33 The Importance of Self-Care for Dominant Men 00:59 Taking Responsibility in a DS Relationship 02:06 Empowerment Through Responsibility 04:39 The Role of Self-Care in Supporting Your Partner 08:15 Challenges of Self-Sacrifice 12:05 Transforming Through Self-Improvement 22:48 Prioritizing Self-Care: Practical Steps 31:25 The Importance of Appearance 33:03 Dressing for Yourself, Not Others 37:18 Balancing Self-Care and Partner's Needs 41:25 Fitness and Nutrition for Self-Respect 46:02 Hydration and Overall Well-being 49:02 The Paradox of Self-Care in Relationships 55:02 Embracing Dominance and Self-Respect 59:39 Conclusion and Resources
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Oct 14, 2024 • 57min

Does the submissive have all the power in a D/s relationship?

Free gift: 7 Tips for a rock-solid D/s Dynamic - visit https://infinitedevotion.com/7-tips In this episode of the Dom Sub Devotion podcast, we explore the often repeated statement that “The submissive ACTUALLY holds all the power”. We dissect this concept, emphasizing the critical role of consent and safe words in power exchange dynamics, but also the nuances of how those things play out when we start delving into these deeply trusting dynamics. Speaking of nuance…the discussion explores the nuances of authority, leadership, and the emotional and trust-based exchanges required in such relationships. We also address how power dynamics differ in kink-focused relationships compared to loving, lifelong DS marriages. By sharing our experiences, we aim to illustrate the complexities of power exchange, highlighting the importance of empathy, vulnerability, and dealing with fear and emotional reactions in fostering a healthy and intimate D/s marriage. ~~~~~ Social Links: Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store Free Resources: FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen! Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations   00:00 Introduction to Dom Sub Devotion 00:33 Addressing Viewer Comments 00:48 The Power Dynamics Debate 03:34 Understanding Power in Relationships 06:29 The Role of Consent and Safe Words 10:30 Emotional Exchange in Power Dynamics 21:02 Balancing Love and Kink 24:39 Navigating Fear and Trust 29:35 Navigating Trust and Fear in Submission 30:33 Aligning Words and Actions 32:08 The Power of Vulnerability 35:31 Humbling Moments and Self-Realization 40:08 Overcoming Fear and Building Trust 41:09 The Importance of Individuality 43:25 The Power of Letting Go 51:42 Self-Awareness and Humility 55:13 Final Thoughts and Appreciation
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Oct 7, 2024 • 1h 8min

Ask A Dom Anything Part 2: Andrew answers MORE questions from submissive women

Free gift: 7 Tips for a rock-solid D/s Dynamic - visit https://infinitedevotion.com/7-tips Dom-Sub Dynamics and Healthy Communication: A Deep Dive In this Q&A episode, Andrew addresses a myriad of questions from submissives exploring the intricacies of dominance and submission (DS) dynamics. Important topics include the significance of real-time communication in a DS relationship, managing accountability as a dominant, and the boundaries of consent. The discussion touches on how to approach past traumas with prospective partners, transitioning from risky exploration to safer expressions of submission, and the role of non-sexual service tasks. Andrew emphasizes the importance of healthy boundaries, authentic desire over performance, and how to engage in constructive dialogue within the DS framework. The episode also explores the complexities of individual dynamics, finding compatible partners, and how both dominants and submissives can nurture a fulfilling relationship. ~~~~~ Social Links: Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store Free Resources: FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance   FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass   FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds   FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman   Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen!   Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man   Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations     01:15 Handling Difficult Topics in a DS Dynamic 05:31 Testing Dominance and Manipulative Behavior 08:59 Accountability in a DS Relationship 12:19 Non-Sexual Service Tasks in DS Dynamics 16:29 Unexpected Submission Desires 19:58 Communicating Past Trauma with a New Partner 24:00 Exploring Submission Safely 26:22 Maintaining Appearance for Your Partner 29:09 Finding Joy and Overcoming Suppression 34:05 Finding Joy and Authenticity in Relationships 34:46 Our Place in the Kink and BDSM Community 39:22 Balancing Boundaries and Standards in Relationships 41:49 Pushing Limits and Safe Words 45:37 Setting and Enforcing Boundaries 50:25 Communicating Needs and Desires 01:02:16 Trust and Control in Dynamics 01:04:48 Authentic Submission vs. Going Through the Motions 01:06:55 Final Reflections and Appreciation
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Sep 30, 2024 • 1h 2min

Ask A Dom Anything Part 1: Andrew answers questions from submissive women

 Free gift: 7 Tips for a rock-solid D/s Dynamic - visit https://infinitedevotion.com/7-tips In this episode of Dom Sub Devotion, Andrew answers questions submitted by our submissive followers. We get into so much in this episode that we had to make two parts! We discuss the responsibilities of being a dominant, managing resistance, and the intricacies of balancing DS dynamics with other aspects of life. Other questions I answer include advice on the importance of consent, whether it’s possible to maintain a successful business while being submissive, and reconciling societal expectations with personal desires. Stay tuned next week for Part 2 where Andrew continues answering more of your great questions! ~~~~~   Social Links:   Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion   YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion   Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion   Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe   Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store   Free Resources:   FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance   FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass   FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds   FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman   Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen!   Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man   Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations     00:00 Introduction to Dom Sub Devotion 00:33 Q&A Session Begins 01:06 Popular Questions Overview 02:31 Managing Dominant Responsibilities 04:55 Boosting Dominance 06:43 Consent and Control 09:07 Open-Hearted Dominance 11:03 Connecting with Course Graduates 12:45 Commanding vs. Asking 18:11 Changing Consent 20:40 Handling a Rude or Mean Dominant 23:26 Silent and Indifferent Dominant 25:34 Rebuilding Trust After Hurt 29:46 Polyamory Concerns 31:34 Embracing Change and Evolution 32:31 Exploring Submissive Desires 34:34 Balancing Independence and Submission 39:33 Navigating Feminine Energy in Business 42:24 Challenging Patriarchy and Collective Ideologies 49:35 Discovering Dominance and Submission 56:27 Supporting Dominant Insecurities 59:59 Conclusion and Future Discussions

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