
Dom Sub Devotion
Deep, authentic discussions and conversations about love, polarity, and Dom/sub dynamics inside of loving healthy relationships.
Hosted by Andrew & Dawn - A 24/7 D/s married couple, passionate about each other, and sharing our authentic experience with those hoping to find their own way in loving D/s dynamics.
Latest episodes

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Jan 27, 2025 • 1h 9min
Overcoming Insecurity: My path to finally feeling confident as a Dominant man
A personal journey of overcoming insecurity unfolds, revealing the struggle to shed a false persona shaped by the need for validation. The speaker emphasizes the importance of embracing sensitivity as a strength rather than a weakness. Heartbreaking experiences lead to transformative realizations about love and acceptance. Through a decade-long quest for authenticity, they inspire listeners to confront vulnerabilities and prioritize self-worth. Supportive relationships play a pivotal role in this journey, illustrating the power of reflection in personal growth.

Jan 20, 2025 • 55min
The Power of Consistency in a D/s Dynamic
Discover the vital role of consistency in a D/s dynamic and how it fosters emotional safety for the submissive partner. Explore the balance of structure and flexibility, allowing for personal growth in relationships. Dive into the evolution of navigating vulnerability and embracing emotional openness, which deepens trust and connection. Gain insights on the transformative power of self-awareness, as well as the importance of allowing genuine expression within a power exchange dynamic.

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Jan 13, 2025 • 1h 5min
Six Years in a 24/7 Dom/sub Marriage
Dive into a couple's journey through six years of a 24/7 dominant/submissive marriage. They highlight how intentional communication has transformed their connection, boosting intimacy and trust. Discover the challenges and triumphs of navigating emotional dynamics while redefining responsibilities. They reveal the profound impact of power exchange on their relationship, fostering deeper connections and personal growth. This candid conversation sheds light on evolving communication styles and the healing power of vulnerability in love.

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Jan 6, 2025 • 56min
D/s without punishments, overcoming “nice guy” syndrome, and more!
Explore the intriguing dynamics of D/s relationships without the use of punishment. The discussion dives into the importance of authentic communication and how to navigate changes in your dynamic. Listeners will gain insights on overcoming 'nice guy' syndrome and the impact of childhood memories on personal growth. The speakers also challenge common misconceptions about D/s in media, highlighting the complexities of fear and trust. Gain practical advice for fostering deep, loving connections in your intimate relationships.

Dec 30, 2024 • 1h 37min
Live Replay - Q&A, 2024 Highlights, and what's to come in 2025!
Enrollments are open for Rapture 2025! This five month program begins on January 16th this year, and will take you through a deep instruction and integration of everything you need to know to make D/s work in a long term relationship, whether you're a couple who is already working on this, or solo and wanting these dynamics in your next relationship.
Click https://infinitedevotion.com/rapture to learn more and save your seat before we fill up!
We are ending 2024 with a look back at an incredible year for our lives, our marriage, our D/s dynamic, and this podcast and our business, Infinite Devotion.
And for those of you who are curious, we share a peek ahead into 2025 and some of what we have planned for creating more community amongst our followers, and some other exciting surprises we have in store!
And as we always do on our livestreams, we answer a BUNCH of our viewer questions live, and on the spot!

Dec 23, 2024 • 1h 2min
Polarity and Masculine/Feminine Energy in Dom/sub relationships - Part 2
Explore the dynamics of masculine and feminine energies in relationships, with insights that apply universally. Delve into the emotional complexities of Dom/sub dynamics, focusing on vulnerability and healthy communication. Discover how beauty in nature influences our feelings and connections. Learn about the interplay of structure and freedom, and the importance of adapting to support growth. Finally, tackle the role of fear in relationships and the journey toward healing and authentic connection.

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Dec 16, 2024 • 53min
Polarity and Masculine/Feminine Energy in Dom/sub relationships - Part 1
Dive into the fascinating dynamics of dominant and submissive relationships as the hosts explore the concept of polarity. Discover how balancing masculine and feminine energies can deepen intimacy and emotional connection. The discussion touches on societal influences on gender roles and the necessity of self-discipline for personal growth. Learn to transform daily obligations into meaningful acts of love, promoting authentic self-expression. This insightful conversation sets the stage for a deeper understanding of emotional dynamics in relationships.

Dec 9, 2024 • 1h 10min
Embracing the Unknown: Leaning in to our Dom/sub dynamic when life gets challenging
Join the hosts as they candidly share their journey of becoming full-time nomads in an RV, exploring the emotional rollercoaster of leaving a lifelong home. They discuss the intertwining of their Dom/sub dynamic with personal growth, emphasizing the importance of vulnerability and self-discovery. Delve into themes of confronting fears, embracing individuality, and navigating life transitions while celebrating memorable moments. Their insights connect emotional authenticity to physical health, sparking inspiration for those on similar paths.

Dec 2, 2024 • 1h 1min
Finding Freedom and Presence in Submission: A Journey of Personal Growth
We created a pop up store with some really fun coffee mugs and kneeling pillows for the holidays. This will only be available until the end of December, but you can check it out at https://infinitedevotion.printful.me!
Episode 63: Finding Freedom and Presence in Submission: A Journey of Personal Growth
Welcome back, Devoted ones!
In this episode, we focus a lot on how Andrew has helped lead Dawn towards more freedom in her life.
One of the highest callings we have, when someone submits to us, is to use that power for good. Not to use that person for our own purposes, but to guide them to the best place we can in their own life.
My goal for Dawn has always been to set her free from her own constraints and limitations. And this episode is a deep and vulnerable look into that whole process.
And what I have had to become as a man, in order to lead her towards this freedom has been the biggest gift of my own life. Click here to see more about how I have worked to become the Dominant that I have. https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man-1
Enjoy!
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Social Links:
Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion
YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion
Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion
Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe
Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store
Free Resources:
FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance
FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass
FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds
FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman
Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen!
Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man
Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations
04:11 The Concept of Presence
11:16 Overcoming Fear and Embracing Freedom
12:11 The Role of Dominance and Submission in Personal Growth
16:08 Dealing with Emotional Triggers and Fear
24:53 The Impact of Fear on Daily Life
30:28 Embracing Uncertainty
31:34 The Role of Control in Submission
33:17 The Importance of Presence
34:38 Navigating Real-Life Dynamics
37:16 The Art of Patience and Persistence
42:15 Understanding Fear and Triggers
44:49 The Dominant's Perspective on Fear
50:17 Trust and Communication
55:22 The Role of the Dominant
58:27 Concluding Thoughts

Nov 25, 2024 • 56min
Detaching With Love: Breaking free from codependency in Dom/sub dynamics
Free gift: 7 Tips for a Rock Solid Dom/sub dynamic. Click here: https://infinitedevotion.com/7-tips
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Welcome back, Devoted Ones! In this episode, Dawn and I dive into codependency and how it can infect, and ultimately cause harm to our relationship. We share stories of how we’ve shown up in codependent patterns in the past and what it’s taken to overcome them, and why we have to detach in order to experience the fullness of love and intensity in our Dom/sub relationship.
We also discuss the place that individuality and personal agency play in a deep, loving, spiritually connected union. In other words, how do we manage the fact that we’re separate people, but also desiring to experience the fullness of union, becoming one with each other.
This episode will be invaluable to any couple wanting to explore D/s together without losing yourselves, and in a way that honors both your individuality and your oneness.
Enjoy!
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Social Links:
Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion
YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion
Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion
Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe
Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content. Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store
Free Resources:
FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance
FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass
FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds
FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman
Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen!
Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man
Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations
00:00 Introduction to Dom Sub Devotion
00:33 Understanding Codependency
02:19 Personal Experiences with Codependency
03:23 Impact on Dominance and Submission
05:07 Navigating Codependency in Relationships
07:06 The Journey of Self-Discovery
08:49 Balancing Dependence and Independence
10:44 Challenges and Growth in Union
14:03 Maintaining Connection and Awareness
18:14 Overcoming Unconscious Patterns
28:01 Navigating Emotional Reactions
29:17 Facing Deep Wounds
32:11 The Importance of Authenticity
33:18 Understanding Individuality vs. Independence
36:07 Dominance and Submission Dynamics
38:53 Overcoming Codependency
41:08 Practical Examples and Reflections
48:37 Encouraging Authenticity in Relationships
53:55 Final Thoughts and Encouragement