Dom Sub Devotion Live Q&A - Real Talk on D/s, Inner Work, and Our Actual Life
In this special live-recorded Q&A episode, Andrew answers your most pressing questions about living a 24/7 D/s lifestyle with honesty, depth, and clarity.
This one is packed. It’s not scripted. It’s not curated. Just Andrew, live on Instagram, answering real questions from real people about dominance, submission, inner work, kink, emotional safety, and what it actually looks like to live a power exchange lifestyle in the real world.
Whether you’re new to the dynamic or deep in it already, this episode will help you reflect on what matters most: trust, leadership, inner strength, and truth.
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💬 Questions Andrew answers in this episode include:
• “Why does it feel like a cop-out when men blame women for being unsafe to masculine expression?”
• “How do I know if a man’s relationship with his inner child is healthy?”
• “How long did you research D/s before bringing it to Dawn?”
• “How do you integrate your dynamic while living full-time on the road?”
• “Why did you add an O-ring to Dawn’s collar?”
• “How can I get my husband to Dom me harder? He’s too soft.”
• “Do you get tired of being around each other all the time in the RV?”
• “How do you deal with judgment or criticism online?”
• “Any recommendations for healing inner child wounds?”
• “How do you navigate a dynamic when the Dom has a dismissive avoidant attachment style?”
• “Can I be submissive if I earn more money or have more assets than my partner?”
• “What do you do when Dawn is sick?”
• “Do you take breaks from the dynamic to recharge?”
• “How do you make and maintain friendships while in a BDSM relationship?”
• “Does Dawn call you ‘Sir’ in front of others?”
• “What’s in your contract beyond rules and tasks?”
• “Why don’t you use punishment in your dynamic?”
• “What should a Dom do if he gets ‘too excited’ during a scene and crosses a line?”
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🧭 Topics also explored:
• The real difference between childishness and inner child wounding
• What to do when one partner initiates D/s but the other isn’t fully in it yet
• The line between submission and self-abandonment
• Embodied leadership vs. performative dominance
• Living the dynamic through life’s challenges—not just in the bedroom
• Why presence, containment, and self-control are non-negotiable traits for a Dominant
• How integrating D/s into everyday life (even when someone is sick or stressed) is what makes it sustainable and fulfilling
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📍 Mentions + Resources:
• Becoming a Dominant Man – Course for men ready to lead from inner strength
• The Self-Respecting Submissive Woman – Free guide
• EMDR therapy, Hypnotherapy, and the book How to Do the Work by Dr. Nicole LePera
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