Dom Sub Devotion

  Resources:  Get all of Andrew's free guides, training, and resources at: infinitedevotion.com/free-resources  Ready to go deeper?  Explore our blog, courses, and coaching at https://InfiniteDevotion.com  Follow us on Instagram: https://instagram.com/_InfiniteDevotion  Subscribe to our OnlyFans for exclusive content: https://dawnofdesire.net SHOW NOTES: Dr. Robert Glover's "No More Mr. Nice Guy" is one of the most important books in men's development, but most men completely miss how Nice Guy patterns poison their ability to lead in a D/s dynamic. In this episode, I walk through the core lessons from the book and show exactly how each Nice Guy tendency works against authentic dominance: Covert contracts that turn your leadership transactional Approval-seeking that gives her all your power Self-abandonment that inverts the polarity Using control to manage her emotions instead of leading Hiding yourself behind the "Dominant" role Learning dominance from women instead of men Performing instead of being direct The path isn't killing the Nice Guy. It's integration: keeping the heart and sensitivity while dropping the manipulation and covert contracts. If you're ready to move from performing dominance to actually being a dominant man, join Becoming a Dominant Man. You'll get the complete 12-step framework, lifetime access to our weekly men's calls, and a brotherhood of men doing this work alongside you.

  Most couples try to build a 24/7 D/s dynamic by devoting a few hours per week to scenes and protocols. Then they wonder why the dynamic keeps falling apart when "real life" takes over.   The problem? You're running two different operating systems. One for D/s time, and one for everything else. And thats why it feels like life is working against your D/s. Because you’re trying to live two completely different lives.    In this episode, I break down:    Why compartmentalization suffocates your dynamic  What integration actually means (it's not about making chores kinky)  How dominants sabotage themselves through avoidance  How submissives sabotage themselves through covert control  A real example of integration with kids and family decisions   This isn't theory. It's about making you better as individuals, which makes everything else better.   Resources:  Get all of Andrew's free guides, training, and resources at: infinitedevotion.com/free-resources      Ready to go deeper?  Explore our blog, courses, and coaching at https://InfiniteDevotion.com  Follow us on Instagram: https://instagram.com/_InfiniteDevotion  Subscribe to our OnlyFans for exclusive content: https://dawnofdesire.net

Let me ask you directly: are you strong enough to be a dominant?   Not strong enough to tell her what to do. Strong enough to actually lead her. Because real strength isn't about being unmoved by emotion. It's about being able to handle emotion without shutting down, without running away, without needing it to stop.   And if you can't do that, you're not strong enough. Not yet.   In this episode, I challenge the lie that dominance requires emotional armor. I break down why that version of "strength" is actually fear, why she keeps testing you (and why you keep failing), and what it actually takes to be strong enough to create real surrender.   This is confrontational. It's supposed to be. Because too many men are hiding behind performances of strength instead of doing the work to become actually powerful.    Questions about our courses? Reach out via our website at infinitedevotion.com/contact. We're always happy to help you figure out what's right for you.     Ready to go deeper?  Explore our blog, courses, and coaching at https://InfiniteDevotion.com  Follow us on Instagram: https://instagram.com/_InfiniteDevotion  Subscribe to our OnlyFans for exclusive content: https://dawnofdesire.net

You're bringing D/s into your relationship, and you have no idea where to start. Or maybe you've been trying to make this work and something just isn't clicking.   This episode covers the ten most important things I've learned in seven years of living a 24/7 D/s dynamic and five years of coaching thousands of people through this transition.   These aren't theories. This is what actually works when you're building dominance and submission into a real relationship with real responsibilities and real challenges.   The 10 Tips:  One person always wants it more (and how to handle that imbalance) The submissive cannot lead the Dominant Go slow if you want to go far Build in time to be human Have deep conversations before you write a contract Consent is everything (and more complex than you think) Meet resistance with curiosity, not force Integrate the dynamic into your whole life Keep dating each other Just keep going Bonus: How good can this get? (The mantra that changed everything)   Courses Mentioned in This Episode Structuring Your D/s Dynamic - Build your own contract, rules, rituals, and code of conduct that actually work for your relationship and your life. Https://infinitedevotion.com/structuring-your-ds-dynamic   Rapture - The complete A to Z. 20 hours of everything we know about building 24/7 loving D/s relationships. Sexual, spiritual, Dominant and submissive perspectives, all in one place. infinitedevotion.com/rapture   Becoming a Dominant Man - Step into your power and build inner dominance, confidence, and strength as a man. Https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man   Submissive Foundations - Learn what authentic submission actually is and how to embody it in your relationship and your life. infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations   Want to work with us directly? Learn about our coaching and mentorship options at infinitedevotion.com/mentorshipapplication   Questions about our courses? Reach out via our website at infinitedevotion.com/contact. We're always happy to help you figure out what's right for you.

Dawn is back to kick off 2026! In this Q&A episode, we answer your questions about building trust in D/s dynamics, navigating vanilla decisions as a submissive, becoming more sexually open, and what to do when your dominant loses his edge.   Links mentioned in this episode:  Eternity Collars is where we get almost all of Dawn's submissive collars from. It's what she's worn every day as her day collar for over 7 years now, and they have always impressed us with quality and service! Use code DEVOTION for $20 off orders $150+: https://www.eternitycollars.com?bg_ref=0iRJJDqHMs (affiliate link)   Ready to go deeper?  Explore our blog, courses, and coaching at https://InfiniteDevotion.com  Follow us on Instagram: https://instagram.com/_InfiniteDevotion  Subscribe to our OnlyFans for exclusive content: https://dawnofdesire.net

Episode Summary   Episode 113: The Final Dom Sub Devotion (of 2025)   In this special year-end episode, Andrew and Dawn reflect on a transformative 2025.    After 113 consecutive weeks of podcasting, Andrew announces a December break to recharge before returning in January, stronger than ever.   This isn't a typical recap episode. It's an honest look at what building a business from lived experience actually requires, the curriculum life puts you through before you're ready to teach, and what happens when you stop performing and start living.   Since we’ll be taking a break for the next month, here are some of our favorite and most popular episodes from this year, for you to watch back in December!   Dawn joins Andrew: I let my erotic truth take over: https://youtu.be/q-vWW1yBZkQ Why submissives resist their Dominants: https://youtu.be/vE4xNe532CI Dom/sub is more than just kink, it’s deep intimacy: https://youtu.be/r6DIf9vZxXo The World is terrified of a free woman (and so are you) https://youtu.be/OF-35F3pgds   What We Cover:  The evolution of Infinite Devotion over the past year, doubling following and income while Andrew did less, not more. The reality behind the highlight reel, why they don't film ego deaths, and what it actually takes to decondition yourself from beliefs about who you think you have to be. A full year of nomadic living across Louisiana, Texas, Arizona, Utah, Colorado, and Nevada. The majesty of red rock canyons, 8,000-foot elevations, and why pictures will never capture what it feels like to stand inside those moments. Andrew's journey with his inner child, learning to actually love himself and bring compassion to the scared little boy still living inside. Dawn's evolution into deeper trust, more surrender, and stepping fully into her sexuality without shame or suppression. The paradox of polarity, when it's okay to "fuck up" the dynamic for the sake of being real, and how breaking down together actually made them both more solid.   Key Insights:  The things you're most afraid of are generally the things that are most right for you. The tension, the triggers, the resistance? That's your ego trying to protect you from what would have to die about yourself in order to move toward what you actually want. Validation seeking versus genuine feedback. Andrew shares how his internal work shifted his relationship with external approval, from needy emptiness to genuine appreciation for impact. Life puts you through the curriculum before you're ready to teach it. Every course launch, every new program, every podcast episode comes with its own set of lessons you have to learn first. You don't have to live in shame or suppression. Every time you step toward what feels wrong to your mind but alive in your body, your soul will continue to speak to you. The point of working through heavy stuff isn't to stay in the process forever. It's to get back to a point where you can live and enjoy your life.   What's Coming in 2026:  In-person events for couples and men (details TBD, let them know what you'd love to see)  A new project specifically for men launching next year  More OnlyFans content because it's the most fun thing they're doing  Getting back to human connection in a world increasingly mediated by screens and AI.       Resources & Next Steps    If you’re ready to go deeper, explore our courses and offerings:  • Rapture — a journey into devotional D/s and erotic embodiment. https://infinitedevotion.com/rapture  • Becoming a Dominant Man — Andrew’s path for men ready to lead with clarity and integrity. https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man  • Structuring Your D/s Dynamic — build a relationship structure that actually works for you. https://infinitedevotion.com/structuring-your-ds-dynamic  • OnlyFans. Take a look inside our bedroom. https://dawnofdesire.net ⸻   Stay Connected   • Subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and YouTube.  • Join our email list for updates and new episodes: https://infinitedevotion.com  • Follow us on Instagram: @_infinitedevotion.   ⸻

Episode Summary   In this raw, unscripted episode, Andrew tackles the toughest questions from Instagram followers—covering everything from spirituality and authenticity to jealousy, commitment, and what real dominance actually looks like.   Topics Covered:   What "divine" really means (and why spirituality doesn't have to be serious)  Why commitment to one person can make you a better man—and the difference between polyamory and avoidance  The truth about dominance: why jealousy and possessiveness are signs of weakness, not strength  How Andrew manages Dawn's OnlyFans without jealousy or insecurity  Deciding whether to stay in your relationship or start over—and why fear of "running out of time" is the real problem  How to give abundantly without draining yourself (hint: put yourself first)  Why resistance to submission happens—and the deeper beliefs that keep you stuck  How degradation kink and spiritual connection can coexist  What happens when life gets hard and you can't "be in control"   Key Insights:   Real dominance protects freedom, not limits it  Commitment forces growth that casual relationships let you avoid  Giving from overflow vs. giving from emptiness  Why you resist what you want most (the "sky is green" metaphor)  Being spiritual means experiencing the full human range, not just "love and light"       Resources & Next Steps    If you’re ready to go deeper, explore our courses and offerings:  • Rapture — a journey into devotional D/s and erotic embodiment. https://infinitedevotion.com/rapture  • Becoming a Dominant Man — Andrew’s path for men ready to lead with clarity and integrity. https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man  • Structuring Your D/s Dynamic — build a relationship structure that actually works for you. https://infinitedevotion.com/structuring-your-ds-dynamic  • OnlyFans. Take a look inside our bedroom. https://dawnofdesire.net ⸻   Stay Connected   • Subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and YouTube.  • Join our email list for updates and new episodes: https://infinitedevotion.com  • Follow us on Instagram: @_infinitedevotion.

Episode Summary In this powerful episode, Andrew tackles the aspects of polarized relationships that most people don't expect—and aren't prepared for. While many are drawn to dominant-submissive dynamics for the intensity and passion they create, few understand that these relationships are designed for transformation, not comfort. Andrew explores why truly polarized relationships feel threatening to the ego, how they amplify both light and shadow, and why the version of yourself you are now will resist everything these dynamics require. This isn't about making your partner conform to your desires—it's about your own evolution.   Key Topics Covered The Nature of Polarized Relationships   Why polarity creates intensity through maximized difference between partners  How these dynamics prioritize truth and aliveness over comfort and stability  Why pursuing passion means accepting discomfort What Really Happens When Polarity Deepens   The feminine becomes uncontained, wild, and emotionally expressive  The masculine becomes grounded, immovable, and uncompromising  Both partners will be terrified by these energies at times   The Uncomfortable Truths  Polarized relationships are not comfortable - Energy moves intensely and unpredictably Everything gets amplified - Wounds, fears, and control patterns surface alongside passion Surrender requires deep integrity - Her submission is sacred and demands his trustworthiness The feminine will test - Not as manipulation, but as calibration for safety Leadership breaks the ego - Being willing to be misunderstood, accused, and rejected Surrender feels like death - Old identity structures must fall away Comfort disappears - The relationship becomes a spiritual practice, not a soothing space You'll take turns growing - Partners alternate calling each other forward The mirror gets sharper - Self-deception becomes impossible Passion requires difference - Sameness and fairness flatten desire On Real Love   Real love means being seen completely, which requires stopping the hiding  The soul wants real connection; the ego wants comfortable safety  Polarity-based relationships will "ruin you beautifully" by burning away everything false   Quotes to Remember "You don't get to have power without surrender, leadership without responsibility, or devotion without being exposed." "To the ego, a highly polarized relationship is going to feel like a toxic relationship." "Her surrender is sacred. It is not a weakness. It's a full body devotion." "You don't get to be right and be free." "If it doesn't risk anything, it's not going anywhere."       Resources & Next Steps    If you’re ready to go deeper, explore our courses and offerings:  • Rapture — a journey into devotional D/s and erotic embodiment. https://infinitedevotion.com/rapture  • Becoming a Dominant Man — Andrew’s path for men ready to lead with clarity and integrity. https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man  • Structuring Your D/s Dynamic — build a relationship structure that actually works for you. https://infinitedevotion.com/structuring-your-ds-dynamic  • OnlyFans. Take a look inside our bedroom. https://dawnofde   ⸻   Stay Connected   • Subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and YouTube.  • Join our email list for updates and new episodes: https://infinitedevotion.com  • Follow us on Instagram: @_infinitedevotion.

  In this deeply personal episode, Andrew pulls back the curtain on the daily practices and intentional habits that create the foundation for his dominance. This isn't about what he does TO Dawn—it's about what he does WITH himself that makes their dynamic work. Key Topics Covered:   The Power of "No" - How protecting time and energy became the foundation for everything else (10 years of building freedom from a single day of quitting)  The Sacred Morning Routine - Waking at 5 AM not to grind, but to set the pace of life on your own terms  Meditation as Focus Training - How breath-focused practice builds the ability to direct attention and not be dragged around by the mind  Fitness as Self-Love - Transforming physical training from self-punishment to genuine self-care  The Art of Listening - Why deep listening is "weightlifting for your nervous system" and builds unshakeable presence  Building Competence - How learning to fix things, try new skills, and be willing to fail creates quiet confidence  Systems Create Freedom - Using calendars, lists, and time management to free mental space rather than restrict it  The Daily Review Practice - Staying aligned with vision and values through twice-daily check-ins  Habit Building - Using simple tools to keep promises to yourself and build discipline without force   Key Quote: "Dominance is about how you feel about yourself. When you feel confident, when you feel good about yourself, when you feel solid in yourself, other people feel that and they want to follow you."    If this episode resonated with you, please leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify, and subscribe/like on YouTube. Your support helps this message reach others looking for a different path.       Resources & Next Steps    If you’re ready to go deeper, explore our courses and offerings:  • Rapture — a journey into devotional D/s and erotic embodiment. https://infinitedevotion.com/rapture  • Becoming a Dominant Man — Andrew’s path for men ready to lead with clarity and integrity. https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man  • Structuring Your D/s Dynamic — build a relationship structure that actually works for you. https://infinitedevotion.com/structuring-your-ds-dynamic  • OnlyFans. Take a look inside our bedroom. https://onlyfans.com/dawnofdesire   ⸻   Stay Connected   • Subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and YouTube.  • Join our email list for updates and new episodes: https://infinitedevotion.com  • Follow us on Instagram: @_infinitedevotion.

In this episode, Andrew speaks directly to one of the deepest sources of pain in the BDSM and power-exchange community: the instinct to hide. He explores how secrecy masquerades as safety, how it keeps shame alive, and how the simple act of being seen becomes an act of leadership.   Drawing from five and a half years of living and teaching dominance and submission in real life and online, Andrew unpacks:  • The childhood roots of hiding. How we learn early that approval is safer than authenticity—and how that same nervous-system conditioning later fuels shame around desire.  • The illusion of safety. Why hiding behind faceless profiles and “privacy” stories reinforces the belief that what you love is wrong.  • The feedback loop of shame. How secrecy feeds the very fear you’re trying to escape, and why authenticity—not control—is the only real safety.  • The difference between privacy and secrecy. Privacy is a boundary. Secrecy is a cage built by shame.  • Visibility as cultural leadership. When ethical, loving couples live their truth openly, they don’t just free themselves—they re-educate the world and remove cover for predators who exploit the shadows.  • Integrity and wholeness. You can’t live at peace when your inner world and outer life don’t match. Hiding fractures your self-trust.  • Courage before safety. Waiting to feel safe before living authentically keeps you small. Courage creates the safety you’re seeking.  • Embodied freedom. The power that comes when there’s nothing left to hide—when you own your story so fully that no one can weaponize it against you.   Andrew closes with a reminder that this work goes far beyond kink. Hiding any true part of yourself—your desire, your faith, your power, your voice—is a quiet form of self-betrayal. Shame dies in the light, and every time one of us stops hiding, the world becomes a little freer.     Resources & Next Steps    If you’re ready to go deeper, explore our courses and offerings:  • Rapture — a journey into devotional D/s and erotic embodiment. https://infinitedevotion.com/rapture  • Becoming a Dominant Man — Andrew’s path for men ready to lead with clarity and integrity. https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man  • Structuring Your D/s Dynamic — build a relationship structure that actually works for you. https://infinitedevotion.com/structuring-your-ds-dynamic  • OnlyFans. Take a look inside our bedroom. https://dawnofdesire.net   ⸻   Stay Connected   • Subscribe on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and YouTube.  • Join our email list for updates and new episodes: https://infinitedevotion.com  • Follow us on Instagram: @_infinitedevotion.