Dom Sub Devotion

This episode is for the woman who’s tired of performing. Tired of feeling stuck in her head. Tired of trying to be the right kind of woman—when what she really wants is to be all of herself.   If you’ve ever felt the war inside between being soft and being powerful… Between being seen and staying safe… Between following your impulse and following the rules… This conversation will wake you up.   I sit down with the fiercely embodied Madelyn Moon—author, teacher, and artist of love—for a raw, electrifying, and liberating exploration of what it means to fully express. Not just with your voice, but with your whole body, your shadow, your heart, your pleasure, your rage. Madelyn shares how she guides women into deep energetic capacity—through sacred theater, shadow work, and radical self-expression. If you’ve ever struggled with perfectionism, people-pleasing, emotional repression, or disconnection from your body, this episode is your medicine. ⸻ 🔥 WHAT YOU’LL FEEL IN THIS EPISODE   • Why your impulse is the most trustworthy thing you have  • The difference between performance and embodiment   • How shadow work can set you free instead of shaming you  • What it looks like to reclaim rage, grief, humor, and desire  • Why you don’t need to fix yourself—you need to express yourself  • How grief can soften you open if you let it  • Why being witnessed in your truth changes your whole nervous system   This isn’t surface-level empowerment. This is the descent into your body, your knowing, your wild, holy truth.  And you’ll walk away feeling more permission than you’ve ever felt… to be all of you. ⸻ 🌹 WHO THIS IS FOR   • Women exhausted by trying to do it all right  • Women who want to stop hiding and start feeling   • Women ready to use their voice, their art, their body as an instrument of liberation  • Women curious about sacred rage, erotic power, and reclaiming grief  • Women who feel too much—and are starting to realize that’s their gift  ⸻   ✨ CONNECT WITH MADELYN MOON   • 📸 Instagram: @madelynmoon  • 🌐 Website: maddymoon.com  • 🎁 Free 3-Part Series: The Unfuckwithable Artist     ~~~ Madelyn Moon is a leading voice in the world of feminine-masculine relationships, devoted to serving women in liberating their expressive, artistic hearts with themselves, with partners, and with the world.   Her work and story has been featured in hundreds of podcasts as well as various publications such as BBC, The Huffington Post, Teen Vogue, Thought Catalog, Nylon Magazine, The Daily Mail, Vice, Greatist, Men's Health, PEOPLE and ABC News Nightline.   Madelyn is the host of the top 100 ranked podcast, The Madelyn Moon Show, and the author of the best-selling book on conscious intimacy, Artist of Love. She teaches live programs, workshops and courses year round. ~~~   Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man   Rules, Rituals, and Contracts for a loving D/s Dynamic. Check out Structuring Your DS Dynamic, our course that walks you through the process of setting up your D/s dynamic for success, using the same process that Andrew uses. No more basic templates, or trying to squeeze your real life into someone else’s contract. This course walks you, step by step, through deep conversations, then helps you to establish rules, rituals, tasks, and eventually a full contract, that is fully YOURS and built to evolve with you over time. Learn more at https://infinitedevotion.com/structuring-your-ds-dynamic   Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength, with your self respect fully intact. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations   Social Links:   Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion   YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion   Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion   Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store   Free Resources:    FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance   FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass   FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds   FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman   00:00 Introduction to Dom Sub Devotion 00:33 Revisiting the Conversation 01:10 Guest Introduction and Background 01:44 Exploring Women's Energetic Capacity 03:54 The Power of Choices 05:34 Decision Fatigue and True Desire 06:37 The Sacred Art of Instinct and Impulse 08:06 Embracing the Oracle Within 13:24 The Role of Sacred Theater and Improv 20:12 Breaking Through Perfectionism 24:19 Fully Experiencing Emotions 27:08 Understanding the Consequences of Tension 27:45 The Role of Shadow Work 28:02 Exploring the Depths of Shadow 28:49 Client Case Study: Push-Pull Dynamics 31:34 Creating Objective Relationships with Shadows 33:02 The Healing Power of Compassion 39:21 Grief as a Part of the Healing Process 47:12 Madeline's Work and Final Thoughts 49:12 Making Art Out of Pain

In this profound and powerfully honest episode, Andrew is joined by Traver Boehm—author, speaker, and founder of the Uncivilized Men’s Movement. This raw and revealing conversation dives deep into the emotional and spiritual reality of being a man in today’s world.   Traver shares the personal story behind his movement, how heartbreak and disillusionment cracked him open, and why he’s devoted his life to helping men reclaim both their primal power and emotional truth. Together, Andrew and Traver explore men’s sensitivity, the cultural disbelief in men’s inner lives, and the loneliness and pain so many carry silently.   Traver also opens up about his experiences with darkness retreats—radical, solitary immersions into absolute darkness—and how they’ve initiated him into deeper self-understanding, ego death, and trust in his own soul’s call. He offers a powerful challenge to men: Dare to feel. Dare to be fully human.   This episode is a must-listen for any man who’s ever felt alone in his pain… and for anyone who’s ready to meet the courage that lives inside vulnerability.   ⸻   What You’ll Learn in This Episode:   • How Traver turned heartbreak into a mission to support men  • Why emotional sensitivity is a masculine strength, not a weakness  • The hidden epidemic of male emotional isolation—and how to break it  • Why the phrase “I’ve never said this out loud before” changes everything  • How to balance emotional expression with purpose, structure, and spine  • The truth about numbness, avoidance, and the cost of living half-alive  • What it’s like to spend 28 (and soon 49) days in total darkness—and what that journey reveals  • Why Traver believes something must break for a man to be reborn  • How to cultivate a human experience that’s raw, real, and relational  • Two sentences every man needs to hear: “I believe you. I believe in you.”   ⸻   Links & Resources:   • https://www.instagram.com/traverboehm  • The Uncivilized Nation  • Preorder Traver’s New Book: 28 Days in Darkness   • Listen to Traver’s Podcast: The Uncivilized Podcast        ~~~   Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man   Rules, Rituals, and Contracts for a loving D/s Dynamic. Check out Structuring Your DS Dynamic, our course that walks you through the process of setting up your D/s dynamic for success, using the same process that Andrew uses. No more basic templates, or trying to squeeze your real life into someone else’s contract. This course walks you, step by step, through deep conversations, then helps you to establish rules, rituals, tasks, and eventually a full contract, that is fully YOURS and built to evolve with you over time. Learn more at https://infinitedevotion.com/structuring-your-ds-dynamic   Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength, with your self respect fully intact. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations   Social Links:   Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion   YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion   Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion   Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store   Free Resources:    FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance   FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass   FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds   FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman   00:00 Introduction to Dom Sub Devotion 00:33 Guest Introduction: Traver Boehm 01:21 Traver's Journey: From Divorce to Men's Movement 03:49 The Impact of Traver's Work 08:12 The Sensitivity and Strength of Men 13:59 Challenges Men Face in Society 19:26 Emotional Intelligence and Relationships 23:20 The Importance of Emotional Expression 32:51 Exploring Emotional Tools 33:58 Balancing Primal and Divine Energies 34:26 The Importance of Mission and Purpose 35:00 Using Emotions as Fuel 36:10 Integrating Both Sides of Masculinity 43:21 The Power of Darkness Retreats 52:10 Facing the Unknown in Extended Darkness 01:02:31 Final Thoughts and Advice for Men  

This is a conversation I had on A Date With The Divine with Isabelle Stephan—and I knew immediately I needed to share it with all of you here on Dom Sub Devotion as a bonus episode. It was one of the most potent, grounded, and heartfelt conversations I’ve had on love, polarity, Dominance, and the deeper spiritual truths that live underneath our dynamics. I didn’t want you to miss it. In this episode, Isabelle and I explore:  • What it actually means to live in polarity in a long-term relationship  • How my wife Dawn and I transformed our marriage through embodying Dominance and surrender  • The emotional truth underneath a woman’s “too much” and a man’s “not enough”  • Why most men fear a woman’s full emotional range—and how to become the kind of man who can hold all of her without collapse  • What everyday masculine leadership looks like—from structure to sexuality to sensitivity  • Why feminine surrender doesn’t happen through force, but through deep trust in his strength  • The truth about polarity: it’s not something you try to “do,” it’s what naturally arises when you let go of what’s in the way  • And how all of this is not just about relationship—but about meeting God, not through light and ease, but through destruction, healing, and the fire of full embodiment This isn’t a theoretical conversation. It’s real, raw, and personal. I speak directly from my lived experience as a man, a Dominant, and a husband walking the path of total devotion and truth. I’m honored to bring this episode to you. May it move something in you the way it moved something in us. — Andrew     🎙 Originally aired on: A Date With The Divine with Isabelle Follow Isabelle on Instagram @Isabelle_a_stephan 🎧 Shared with love and gratitude on Dom Sub Devotion  📲 Follow me on Instagram @_infinitedevotion  Find out more about my work at https://infinitedevotion.com

🔥 This episode will change how you see love, sex, and relationship forever. What if the real reason your relationship feels flat, passionless, or distant isn’t because of the circumstances… but because you’ve been performing instead of living? In this solo episode, Andrew peels back the layers of what Dominance and submission actually mean—far beyond the kink, the rituals, or the roles. He shares the deeper truth of what’s really happening underneath these dynamics and why, when lived fully, they become the most powerful structure for radical intimacy, erotic connection, and personal transformation. Whether you’re deep in a power exchange dynamic, brand new to the concept, or think you have no interest in it at all—this conversation will wake something up in you. You’ll learn:  • Why intimacy isn’t about sex—it’s about truth.  • How polarity actually works (and why most people don’t understand it).  • Why you can’t fake attraction—and how to reignite it.  • The difference between performing roles and living from authentic devotion.  • What masculine and feminine surrender actually looks like.  • How this work heals not only your relationship, but your entire life. This episode is for anyone who knows there’s more possible in love, in sex, and in life—and is ready to stop performing and start living. ⚡ Ready to go deeper?   https://infinitedevotion.com https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion       ~~~   Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man   Rules, Rituals, and Contracts for a loving D/s Dynamic. Check out Structuring Your DS Dynamic, our course that walks you through the process of setting up your D/s dynamic for success, using the same process that Andrew uses. No more basic templates, or trying to squeeze your real life into someone else’s contract. This course walks you, step by step, through deep conversations, then helps you to establish rules, rituals, tasks, and eventually a full contract, that is fully YOURS and built to evolve with you over time. Learn more at https://infinitedevotion.com/structuring-your-ds-dynamic   Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength, with your self respect fully intact. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations   Social Links:   Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion   YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion   Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion   Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store   Free Resources:    FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance   FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass   FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds   FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman   00:33 Beyond Dominance and Submission 01:41 The Essence of Intimacy 04:42 Exploring Polarity 10:50 Understanding Masculine and Feminine Energies 14:44 The Dance of Opposites 28:39 The Power of Surrender 37:23 The True Meaning of Dominance and Submission 39:10 The Pitfalls of Performance in Dominance and Submission 40:21 The Essence of True Dominance and Submission 42:30 The Courage in Submission and Dominance 44:34 The Spiritual Discipline of Intimacy 47:14 The Transformative Power of Polarity 48:38 The Journey of Healing and Growth 54:44 The Universal Lessons of Dominance and Submission 01:03:41 The Impact of Polarity on Life Beyond Relationships 01:10:58 Embracing Vulnerability and Authenticity 01:16:13 Final Thoughts and Call to Action

In this powerful episode of the Infinite Devotion Podcast, I down with the profoundly impactful Chris Bale, a man I respect like no other.  We explore the journey of men navigating their inner authority, the importance of a 'lone wolf' phase, and the nuanced understandings of dominance, sensitivity, and intimacy in relationships. From discussing men's need for inner development to the essence of true power and generosity, this episode dives deep.  Towards the end of this episode, I share some personal reflections on how Chris’ work has impacted me, making this a heartfelt and transformative conversation. Tune in and allow this dialogue to profoundly impact your perspective on masculinity and personal growth. About Chris:  Chris is an Internationally known Energy-Worker, Spiritual/Intimacy Mentor, Qi Gong teacher & Acupuncturist - who supports and activates deep transformations in the lives of others, and has been doing so for well over a decade(more info below). Over the years he has worked with thousands of individuals from all over the planet, and from many different walks of life. Chris has an extensive educational background in many different healing modalities; including Traditional Chinese Medicine, Acupuncture, QiGong & Medical QiGong, Energy Healing, & Sexual Alchemy. Through his mission, he shares his experiential knowledge to assist and guide others into deeper consciousness, love, health and embodiment - Offering potent mentoring, energy work and trainings for both men, women & couples. You can find more about Chris and his work at https://awakenedintent.com or on Instagram at https://instagram.com/chrisbaleawakened    00:00 Understanding Dominance and Generosity 00:46 Introduction to the Infinite Devotion Podcast 01:49 Impactful Words from Chris Bale 03:04 Challenges Men Face in Modern Society 05:47 The Journey of Self-Reliance 17:14 The Importance of Devotion and Commitment 30:59 Sensitivity and Power in Men 34:05 Understanding Relaxation and Sensitivity 35:20 The Role of the Body and Mind in Relaxation 36:57 Challenges in Achieving True Relaxation 39:11 The Importance of Qigong and Systematic Practices 40:16 Lifestyle Changes for Ultimate Freedom 44:01 The Role of Women in Men's Self-Discovery 46:20 The Lone Wolf Era and Men's Emotional Journey 51:39 The Importance of Discernment in Learning 01:00:51 Embracing Mistakes and Personal Growth 01:04:28 Final Thoughts and Reflections     ~~~   Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man       Social Links:   Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion   YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion   Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion   Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe   Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content.    Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store   Free Resources:    FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance   FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass   FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds   FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman  

In this episode of the Dom Sub Devotion podcast, I answer a series of listener-submitted questions about dominant-submissive (DS) relationships. Topics include:  02:22 Starting as a New Dom 05:44 Favorite Things About Dawn 08:46 Finding a Partner Like Andrew 12:48 Switching from Leadership to Submission 16:22 Dealing with Attachment Styles 21:19 Navigating the Kink Scene 25:39 Handling Backlash 28:24 Balancing Strictness and Love as a Dom 31:49 Reassurance in a DS Relationship 37:59 Desiring a Polyamorous Lifestyle 40:29 DS Relationship After Sexual Assault 45:53 Dominant vs. Master-Slave Dynamics 48:07 Showing Off Your Submissive 51:03 Leading Without Ego 54:05 Supporting a Dom with Mental Health Issues 58:12 Conclusion and Call to Action If you have questions that you’d like me to answer in a future episode, leave them as a comment, or send us a Direct Message through Instagram https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion Thanks for listening! ~~   Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man   Rules, Rituals, and Contracts for a loving D/s Dynamic. Check out Structuring Your DS Dynamic, our course that walks you through the process of setting up your D/s dynamic for success, using the same process that Andrew uses. No more basic templates, or trying to squeeze your real life into someone else’s contract. This course walks you, step by step, through deep conversations, then helps you to establish rules, rituals, tasks, and eventually a full contract, that is fully YOURS and built to evolve with you over time. Learn more at https://infinitedevotion.com/structuring-your-ds-dynamic   Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength, with your self respect fully intact. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations   Social Links:   Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion   YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion   Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion   Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe   Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content.    Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store   Free Resources:    FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance   FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass   FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds   FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman   Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen!

In this episode of the Dom Sub Devotion podcast, Andrew speaks with Jeremie Lotemo about the transformative journey of breaking away from conventional professional paths to find deeper meaning, purpose, and connection as a man.  The discussion explores how Jeremie and Andrew help men cultivate confidence and leadership in their lives and relationships, moving beyond the pursuit of material success to seek fulfillment.  Through personal anecdotes and reflections, they delve into the importance of surrender, the balance between masculine strength and vulnerability, and honoring differences in relationships. Essential tools like journaling, physical activity, and creating structured spaces are shared as ways to support men in their growth and emotional resilience. 00:33 Guest Introduction: Jeremie’s Journey 01:06 Finding Purpose and Fulfillment 03:11 Creating Men's Circles 03:58 Exploring Deeper Connections 08:02 Balancing Masculine Strength and Warmth 13:22 Self-Acceptance and Shadow Work 15:27 Understanding Resistance and Symptoms 27:27 Devotion and Responsibility 34:30 The Breaking Point: Masculine and Feminine Integrity 35:11 Complementary Opposites in Relationships 36:57 The Power of Emotional Surrender 41:03 The Three Tiers of Love and Commitment 52:46 Tools for Staying Grounded and Present 57:25 The Importance of Structure and Discipline 01:02:20 Honoring Differences: A Path to True Connection ~~~ Bio: Jeremie Lotemo is a poet & men’s coach. Jeremie is known for his body of work around healing the masculine shadow, and creating new paradigms of masculinity. Since 2020, Jeremie has made it his life’s work to help 10,000 men through workshops, courses, and masterclasses, reclaim their edge, confidence, and lead powerful relationships and lives. Links:  Private Men's Community My Podcast "Dear Men" My Youtube Channel ~~~   Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man   Rules, Rituals, and Contracts for a loving D/s Dynamic. Check out Structuring Your DS Dynamic, our course that walks you through the process of setting up your D/s dynamic for success, using the same process that Andrew uses. No more basic templates, or trying to squeeze your real life into someone else’s contract. This course walks you, step by step, through deep conversations, then helps you to establish rules, rituals, tasks, and eventually a full contract, that is fully YOURS and built to evolve with you over time. Learn more at https://infinitedevotion.com/structuring-your-ds-dynamic   Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength, with your self respect fully intact. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations   Social Links:   Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion   YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion   Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion   Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe   Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content.    Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store   Free Resources:    FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance   FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass   FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds   FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman    

Podcast Notes   Why I have tracked my submissive’s cycle for over 1700 straight days - Dom Sub Devotion Podcast For more details and background on this episode, along with some reflections questions, visit https://infinitedevotion.com/blog/episode-75 There are few things that I teach that are more impactful than what I share in this episode.  Tracking Dawn’s cycle, for over 1700 straight days now, has given me an understanding of her, and of women in general, in a way that I could have never imagined.  Not only has it helped me learn more about her and find a deeper acceptance for how she evolves throughout the month, the grace and patience that this understanding has helped me to have with and for her has also given her an entirely new depth of self acceptance.  And this self acceptance has contributed more to the depth of her trust and submission than probably any other thing.  Listen to this episode, men and women both. You will learn some powerful things about what makes a woman a woman, and just maybe, have a little more patience and compassion for her, or yourself, in the process.  ~~~ Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man Check out Structuring Your D/s Dynamic, our course that walks you through the process of setting up your D/s dynamic for success, using the same process that Andrew uses. No more basic templates, or trying to squeeze your real life into someone else’s contract. This course walks you, step by step, through deep conversations, then helps you to establish rules, rituals, tasks, and eventually a full contract, that is fully YOURS and built to evolve with you over time. Learn more at https://infinitedevotion.com/structuring-your-ds-dynamic Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength, with your self respect fully intact. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations   Social Links:   Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion   YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion   Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion   Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe   Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content.    Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store   Free Resources:    FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance   FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass   FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds   FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman   Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen!         00:00 Introduction to Dom Sub Devotion 00:35 The Most Impactful Thing for a Dominant Man 01:13 Understanding a Woman's Hormonal Cycle 07:58 The Four Phases of the Hormonal Cycle 21:21 Tracking and Working with Her Cycle 26:38 Practical Tips for Dominants 32:27 Deepening Trust and Acceptance 56:17 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

In this episode of Dom Sub Devotion, Andrew sits down with Nadia Munla, an embodiment and intimacy coach, to discuss the intricate dynamics of Dom/sub dynamics, especially as they relate to women in their feminine energy.. Nadia shares insights from her 11+ years of coaching, emphasizing the importance of deep intimacy, self-awareness, and the transformational power of embodiment practices.  The conversation explores how women can transition from people-pleasing behaviors to genuine submission, the interplay of masculine and feminine energies, and practical steps men can take to lead effectively in relationships.   Nadia also touches on the societal challenges both men and women face in embracing their true desires and roles within power exchange dynamics. ~~~ About Nadia Nadia is an Embodiment & Intimacy Coach who helps leaders become better lovers and guides people into a deeper level of embodied expression. Through her work with women and couples, she is on a mission to bring more erotic aliveness, intimacy and confidence into her clients' lives.  She is also the creator of Embody by Nadia™, an embodiment method that has helped thousands of women reconnect to their pleasure, power and play. Embody has been featured at the Health Coach Institute, Soul Camp (East & West), Goddess-on-the-Go, World Domination Summit, and many other events/retreats in Bali, Peru, Tulum and Hawaii. Embody has been taught at a UK Women’s Prison, at an Eating Disorder Clinic and will soon teach classes to teens and WOC fighting depression. Nadia’s core belief is that embracing our full range is the way we access our deepest potential and create space for an Embodied Union that heals the planet. You can find her at nadiamunla.com and on Instagram @nadiamunla Nadia is offering listeners of Dom Sub Devotion a 50% discount off of a single session with her. Email nadia@nadiamunla.com and mention this podcast!  ~~~   Social Links:   Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion   YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion   Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion   Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe   Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content.    Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store   Free Resources:    FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance   FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass   FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds   FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman   Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen!   Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man   Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations   00:00 Introduction to Dom Sub Devotion 01:32 Meet Nadia: Embodiment and Intimacy Coach 03:02 Challenges Women Face in Self-Intimacy 07:08 The Journey to Erotic Aliveness 12:02 Balancing Feminine Expression and Business 20:44 The Power of Submission and Embodiment 31:00 Union and Partnership in Dominance 32:04 Generosity in Dominance and Submission 33:38 Challenges of Receiving and Worthiness 36:34 Vulnerability in Dominance and Submission 38:57 The Complexity of Leadership 43:29 Feedback and Communication in Relationships 46:00 Balancing Strength and Sensitivity 49:56 The Role of Dominance and Leadership 57:57 Integrating Heart and Erotic Energy 01:00:35 Concluding Thoughts and Contact Information

 ~~~~  Have you received value from our content? Click this link to tip us, and say thank you for what we share! Thank you for giving back! https://www.paypal.com/ncp/payment/ME55GZC7FFFS8  ~~~~ Episode 73: Embracing Change: Dawn’s Evolution and Our Commitment to Authenticity   There’s nothing more important than living what we teach.    We don’t teach you a bunch of stuff that we learned from other people…we live this life as a 24/7 Dom/sub couple. We have for more than 6 years. And our relationship always has, and always will, come before our business.    We don’t just want you to listen to what we say…watch what we DO.    This episode is my reflection on how we decided to have Dawn step back from the podcast. What went into that decision? How does that square with the concept of integrity? And what other lessons can you learn from how we navigated this decision?    This episode dives into all of that and more.    Enjoy!  ~~~~~   Social Links:   Instagram: https://instagram.com/_infinitedevotion   YouTube: https://instagram.com/@infinitedevotion   Facebook: https://facebook.com/domsubdevotion   Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals and couples in building healthy, loving Dom/sub relationships. Here are some of the different free and paid options of how to work with and learn from us! Subscribe: Get updates when we publish new episodes of Dom Sub Devotion and other new content at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe   Website: Visit our website at https://infinitedevotion.com for all of our latest content.    Coaching: You can learn more about working with us in 1-1 coaching and our various workshops, courses, and programs at https://infinitedevotion.com/store   Free Resources:    FREE: The 12 Steps to Dominance: A free ebook showing men how to embody a healthy, loving Dominance. Download here: https://www.infinitedevotion.com/12-steps-to-dominance   FREE: Inspiring Her Submission Masterclass: A deep dive on how to inspire any woman to submit and surrender to you. Watch here: https://infinitedevotion.com/dominance-masterclass   FREE: Devotional Dominance & Submission: A free ebook showing you how D/s dynamics and loving long term relationships work hand in hand. https://infinitedevotion.com/devotional-ds   FREE: Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman   Listen to Andrew's other podcast, Conscious Dominance! Conscious Dominance is a weekly conversation between two Dominant men as we navigate the demands and growth that are required of us in living in and leading inside of 24/7 Dom/sub relationships. These are deep conversations that go straight to the true heart of a Dominant man. Find Conscious Dominance at https://conscious-dominance.captivate.fm/ or on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or anywhere else you like to listen!   Becoming a Dominant Man is Andrew's flagship course for Dominant Men. Becoming a Dominant Man leads men through a 12 step process, the 12 Steps to Dominance, to claim full ownership of their lives and their inner strength, so that they can carry a loving strength, true Dominance, into their lives and relationships. Becoming a Dominant Man is a pre-recorded course that men can work through on their own time, but also includes live weekly instruction and Q&A with Andrew at no extra cost. Learn more about Becoming a Dominant Man at https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man   Our newest course for submissive women is available NOW. Submissive Foundations teaches women how to embody submission from a healthy emotional inner strength. Click the link to learn more! https://infinitedevotion.com/submissive-foundations   00:30 The Evolution of Our Podcast 03:01 Dawn's Transformation and Decision 16:51 Understanding Integrity in Relationships 25:58 Living the Concepts We Teach 39:09 Lessons for Dominants and Submissives 45:36 Conclusion and Future Plans